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Why do people block you when you send a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had someone block me completely when I sent a face pic.If it had been the other way around I would have politely said ‘you’re not my type’.

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By *ranitecityguy195Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

They probably know who you are. Blocked you because you might find out who they are and they want privacy?

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

It's a bit back and forward with fab, some people just don't feel comfortable enough to tell someone they are unattractive to them. Women and couples get quite a lot of abuse for turning guys down, they might just want to save themselves the potential earache. The few rude people ruin it for the many nice ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They probably know who you are. Blocked you because you might find out who they are and they want privacy? "

Yes that what I thought, but I don’t know anyone in that area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a bit back and forward with fab, some people just don't feel comfortable enough to tell someone they are unattractive to them. Women and couples get quite a lot of abuse for turning guys down, they might just want to save themselves the potential earache. The few rude people ruin it for the many nice ones "

Thanks for your response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want it both barrels or the snowflake opinion .

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Do you want it both barrels or the snowflake opinion . "

It's not like you to ever offer the gentle opinion.... Are you feeling ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you want it both barrels or the snowflake opinion .

It's not like you to ever offer the gentle opinion.... Are you feeling ok "

Haha , I thought it only fair to offer. I'm fine by the way ty for asking .

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Just had someone block me completely when I sent a face pic.If it had been the other way around I would have politely said ‘you’re not my type’. "

And that is the way it should be done. Blocking is childish and bad mannered in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you upset about someone blocking you?

It's maybe best too try handle rejection on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had someone block me completely when I sent a face pic.If it had been the other way around I would have politely said ‘you’re not my type’.

And that is the way it should be done. Blocking is childish and bad mannered in my eyes."

No I’m use to either people not replying at all or just deleting the message. Rare that people just block you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had someone block me completely when I sent a face pic.If it had been the other way around I would have politely said ‘you’re not my type’.

And that is the way it should be done. Blocking is childish and bad mannered in my eyes."

I agree - a bit of civility doesn’t go a miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob don't fancy you so block to save their time.that way you can't contact them again in the future.works both ways actually.that way you don't forget and message again.

Don't stress and move on.

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Maybe not there type,

Maybe too embarrassed to say so

Or just downright rude

If not for us we say thank you not for us but happy fabbing journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on context, had you been chatting a bit, getting on and then sent a photo or was it attached to a first message?

As for blocking being rude, why is it rude? People, myself included use it to prevent further contact on both sides if there's no interest, anyone feeling this is an insult is taking it too personally.... Its not rude it's just using a method which suits an individuals needs.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Just had someone block me completely when I sent a face pic.If it had been the other way around I would have politely said ‘you’re not my type’. "
Only they will know why they blocked you !.

Everyone uses the site in their own way & people just need to accept that!!

If you dont get a reply or get blocked you should just take it as a not interested & move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send face pic with 1st message, knowing if I'm not their type they will be honest and tell you or just delete the message, letting me know its a no.

Sure we have all done it or similar.

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