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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I the only one still getting requests from males and couples looking to meet? Canny believe the number of people but hey up to them, just i aint meeting.

Interested to know if its affecting others too with the requests

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We get asked too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s still happening!!!! Plus putting it on updates it’s absolutely ridiculous must be desperate!!!

Not for us anyway !!! Happy to chat for the time being folks health matter the most to us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The updates do make me laugh cos you can just smell the desperation. Yet they still keep coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not chancing a meeting but had offers.

Rather amuse myself knowing where I’ve been and that I’m clean.

Celibate from March 2020 till who knows?

Stay Safe.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

It’s getting right on my chebs I’ve just started blocking them now because I can’t even be bothered arguing with them

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

So what if they are meeting its not your concern.

They want attention through meeting these post to me just say give me virtual attention it's not my concern what others do when it don't affect me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i was asked twice last week for a meet,but politely said no ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup been approached by couples and singles looking to meet all reported to admin but doubt much will be done.

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By *lassybutseeknaughtinessCouple
over a year ago

Coatbridge

In truth a think we have all been asked to meet or seen folks updates, it's frustrating for all but best not to meet in our opinion. Each to there own.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Yes requests every day, all of them getting reported and blocked. It's dire, the people in rejecting seem to be very agressive about it as well

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Strangely no, usually inundated with messages and requests to meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still seeing meet requests in statuses just makes it easier on deciding who to avoid

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By *ohn and KerryCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

we're getting more requests to meet now than before the lockdown lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still getting asked to meet and I just say no. They think it's funny too. Each to their own but just block then you won't get bothered with them again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope purely because I got fed up if it and now have all message filters blocked for now. No messages other than friends. Its actually great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to consenting adults what they do and the risk they wish to take, but personally noone has ever asked to meet prior to lockdown or after pmsl

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes still people on here actively pursuing meets and it's all different types with Cpls, Fems & Guys all asking to meet with others....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope purely because I got fed up if it and now have all message filters blocked for now. No messages other than friends. Its actually great. "

Much the same and I agree, very refreshing

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Yes people are still seeking meets & are meeting .

Its totally their choice !

There are quiet a few singletons looking to set up bubbles which again is totally upto the individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people are still seeking meets & are meeting .

Its totally their choice !

There are quiet a few singletons looking to set up bubbles which again is totally upto the individuals. "

Couldn't agree more

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By *orro.Man
over a year ago

Hamilton


"Am I the only one still getting requests from males and couples looking to meet? Canny believe the number of people but hey up to them, just i aint meeting.

Interested to know if its affecting others too with the requests"
Eh it’s a sex hookup site of course your gonna get asked to meet ffs! if you don’t want to be asked probably best to do one until you feel safe again instead of complaining! Take it as a compliment.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It's drastically increased my block list that's for sure.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

It's continually happened since the first Lockdown in March even with my disclaimer on my profiel stating I'm not meeting.

The abuse you get sometimes can range from amusing to enraging. But it's a good indicator for who I will never meet

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By *leepingvenusWoman
over a year ago

Stirling

Yes.. heaps despite info in my profile saying I'm not up for it atm due to circumstances.

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By *leepingvenusWoman
over a year ago

Stirling


"Am I the only one still getting requests from males and couples looking to meet? Canny believe the number of people but hey up to them, just i aint meeting.

Interested to know if its affecting others too with the requests Eh it’s a sex hookup site of course your gonna get asked to meet ffs! if you don’t want to be asked probably best to do one until you feel safe again instead of complaining! Take it as a compliment. "

There's a lot going ok on this site other than providing a means to organise meets. Perhaps people should read profiles before messaging and that would solve the issue? A wild suggestion, i know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no grey area here for me at all and to suggest there is is both disrespectful and dangerous. In the current situation people should NOT be meeting. It's not up to their own individual whims and fancies. Until the full seriousness of this pandemic is grasped universally we're going nowhere fast.

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By *orge71Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Someone got very annoyed with me because I wouldn't go to hers for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone got very annoyed with me because I wouldn't go to hers for a meet. "

Least you got asked lol

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Not meeting myself but would happily chat with a view to meeting up when and if we are allowed to again

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Not meeting myself but would happily chat with a view to meeting up when and if we are allowed to again "
This^^ its a good time to make new friends with a view to meeting when this is all over provided the profiles don't just disappear as there has be a huge rise in new members who probably a lot of them have no intention of meeting but here to kill some time during lockdown

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"There's no grey area here for me at all and to suggest there is is both disrespectful and dangerous. In the current situation people should NOT be meeting. It's not up to their own individual whims and fancies. Until the full seriousness of this pandemic is grasped universally we're going nowhere fast."
if you have followed the guidelines implicitly from start till now then your able to say this though I highly doubt there is one person that has 100% followed the guidelines.

There's nobody tells me what to do how when or why it just so happens that for the majority of the time my self imposed restrictions are the same as the guidelines I care not what others do that's their problem and risk assesment

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Nope. Definately not alone. I have had plenty, then recieve abuse when i point out the obvious.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Do not know why people are so surprised people still ask to meet and want to meet both male and female.

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By *rwomble 56Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Only chatting at present individuals can make their own decisions

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By *ick1979xxMan
over a year ago

hornyville

Socially distanced wanking is working fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have followed the guidelines implicitly from start till now then your able to say this though I highly doubt there is one person that has 100% followed the guidelines.

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I know we are all fallible, even me , but I've taken it very seriously to follow the guidelines fully and even exceed them on occasions. There's a big difference between forgetting to put your mask on to put the bins out and meeting a fellow member of a swinging site for sex surely?

We can all say we won't be told what to do (my 3 year old grandson regularly uses this tack with his mother and finds lockdown is her answer), and conduct risk assessments for ourselves but as citizens we have to recognise the wider risks of our actions to the population at large. That's how I see it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although it's wreck less, I think people might be getting pissed off with the lockdown now. It's human nature for people wanting to see other people, albeit on here they want to fuck lol.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"if you have followed the guidelines implicitly from start till now then your able to say this though I highly doubt there is one person that has 100% followed the guidelines.

I know we are all fallible, even me , but I've taken it very seriously to follow the guidelines fully and even exceed them on occasions. There's a big difference between forgetting to put your mask on to put the bins out and meeting a fellow member of a swinging site for sex surely?

We can all say we won't be told what to do (my 3 year old grandson regularly uses this tack with his mother and finds lockdown is her answer), and conduct risk assessments for ourselves but as citizens we have to recognise the wider risks of our actions to the population at large. That's how I see it anyway. "
my point is you are responsible for you not anyone else.

You can't hold folk to a standard you don't hold yourself.

your minor indiscretions are just as dangerous as what you deem to be major indiscretions.

As for I won't be told what when why to do

If the govt told you to bath in acid I'm pretty sure you would maybe want to have all the info and judge for yourself.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have a lady friend that I haven't seen for a while. I think that she will have moved on by the time we are allowed to meet. Tempting to go and see her? Yes but I know that she mixes with other families so not too safe.

One of the joys of having a son who is a scientist at the top of the tree with viruses I tend to take notice of what he says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If the govt told you to bath in acid I'm pretty sure you would maybe want to have all the info and judge for yourself.

"

I've already done it my dear Mr Cubes. How do you think I maintain this youthful exterior at my great old age? I shed my skin like a reptile. x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


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If the govt told you to bath in acid I'm pretty sure you would maybe want to have all the info and judge for yourself.

I've already done it my dear Mr Cubes. How do you think I maintain this youthful exterior at my great old age? I shed my skin like a reptile. x "
pmsl without govt permission I'm shocked

That new skin tingly feeling must be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip mail box is going though the roof and getting all sorts off nasty messages when I say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If the govt told you to bath in acid I'm pretty sure you would maybe want to have all the info and judge for yourself.

I've already done it my dear Mr Cubes. How do you think I maintain this youthful exterior at my great old age? I shed my skin like a reptile. x pmsl without govt permission I'm shocked

That new skin tingly feeling must be good "

Not half...and beautiful lampshades and skin left over for matching cushion covers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep people still ask, madness in my opinion but then some folk are

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By *orge71Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Someone got very annoyed with me because I wouldn't go to hers for a meet.

Least you got asked lol"

True

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