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"Im not a fan of the fuckbuddy thing and wont meet any... As got getn into relationships on here and carry on playing i dont see the point Either? New relationships Should just be about 2 people getting to know each others likes/dislikes. I dont Wanna be halfway thru shagging a guy and the girlfriend is growling with jealousy Auds xx " Yeah totaly agree Auds if its a proper relationship then time is needed to build on that without the interfearance of others on here. As for the fuckbuddy thing how many times have u seen ohhh ive met the person of my dreams ...the next week they wanna kill each other ..and the next they have a new partner lol Done the fuckbuddy thing and never to be repeated lol | |||
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"I don't think it matters where you meet someone... At the end of the day if you like someone you like them and if both of you wont more than just sex then who is anyone to say that they shouldn't have a relationship.. I met DD a few times as a friend before even sleeping with him... And as for others being involved i find it hot as hell watching DD being pleasured and pleasuring another woman x" Im not sying someone shouldnt and good luck to those who make a go of it ...but im sure for the majority they do take the time to get to know each other fully before getting in too heavy seems on here its like an overnite thing lol | |||
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"But then you could argue the same about lots of relationships, i have know people who have met and been married within a year (And still been together 20+ years later) and they are not on the swinging scene and i have known couples who have been together for 15 odd years before getting married. Relationships don't have a template that people have to follow you can't pick and choose who you fall for and want to have a relationship. I think its unique for every relationship and they only reason you think you see it more here is because you have such a condensed amount of people in one place " yeah i guess your right lol | |||
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"Im not a fan of the fuckbuddy thing and wont meet any... As got getn into relationships on here and carry on playing i dont see the point Either? New relationships Should just be about 2 people getting to know each others likes/dislikes. I dont Wanna be halfway thru shagging a guy and the girlfriend is growling with jealousy Auds xx " | |||
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"it is nice when you see it work and people finding happiness together... not so, when it doesn't... Monday: wow, found the man/woman of my dreams Tuesday: missing you hunni, are you missing me Wednesday: he/she is the one, my very special man/woman Thursday: No longer meeting as a single, please see couple profile Friday: Looking for meet tonight, ONLY COUPLES no single men, read NO FUCKING SINGLE MEN Saturday: all quiet ............ Sunday..... go fuck yourself, you bastard.. " Thats exactly the point im making its lovely when u see two people come together and it works not so nice when the mud slinging starts xxx | |||
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"As a single guy, its seems to me, the couples on fab, are very very close, because often folks jealousy can get in the way of swinging, however from what i have seen the couples on fab, don't seem to have any of that, so good luck to them, and if anyone falls in love with someone they have previously slept with, then I don't think there's anything wrong in that either, have too say the couples on fab are brilliant folks, and god bless the guys, for having sexy wives, I for one am glad I joined the fab family, we like famillies, might not always get along, but at the end of the day, we have a whole lot of fun, nobody gets hurt, and thats what swinging is all about, " Nobody gets hurt Tomma who are you kidding ..ask a few on here i think ul find that isnt the case . | |||
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"lol! I hate it when I get ignored in chat cos there is a naked chick on cam " Who would dare to ignore you... | |||
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"Just have to look on the chatroom sometime and god forbid a certain guy talks to you and then some chick feels left out so she starts playing up and the fab roundabout starts lolthank god im married lol Auds xx " ....some of the married chicks are just as bad as the single ones, they are like dogs snarling over bones if one dares to chat to their latest shag, or the shag starts talking to someone else. | |||
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"Just have to look on the chatroom sometime and god forbid a certain guy talks to you and then some chick feels left out so she starts playing up and the fab roundabout starts lolthank god im married lol Auds xx ....some of the married chicks are just as bad as the single ones, they are like dogs snarling over bones if one dares to chat to their latest shag, or the shag tstarts talking to someone else. " and Thats why i rarely go into chat anymore.its like a meatmarket | |||
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"Nobody joins FAB for a relationship! " think some might | |||
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"Nobody joins FAB for a relationship! " .... you'd be surprised how many actually do! | |||
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"Nobody joins FAB for a relationship! .... you'd be surprised how many actually do! " Agreed | |||
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"Nobody joins FAB for a relationship! .... you'd be surprised how many actually do! Agreed " double agree | |||
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"Nobody joins FAB for a relationship! .... you'd be surprised how many actually do! Agreed double agree " said it before.....getn more like Facebook everyday lol.x | |||
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"OHHHH yeah some do thats for sure and dont mind admitting it ...then you have some who join here saying it suits them better cause they been there done that and wore the t shirt in relationships and never want another but within five mins bang they in another relationship the same thing they joined her to get away from lol But as i said if it works great not many do . " to be fair Jac, I think there is genuine intent not to fall for someone and then it happens and it is real and lovely to see. I have also seen people in relationships become hyper clingy to certain regular playmates... and they are as worrying at times. | |||
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"OHHHH yeah some do thats for sure and dont mind admitting it ...then you have some who join here saying it suits them better cause they been there done that and wore the t shirt in relationships and never want another but within five mins bang they in another relationship the same thing they joined her to get away from lol But as i said if it works great not many do . to be fair Jac, I think there is genuine intent not to fall for someone and then it happens and it is real and lovely to see. I have also seen people in relationships become hyper clingy to certain regular playmates... and they are as worrying at times." yeah defo agree with that too | |||
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"OHHHH yeah some do thats for sure and dont mind admitting it ...then you have some who join here saying it suits them better cause they been there done that and wore the t shirt in relationships and never want another but within five mins bang they in another relationship the same thing they joined her to get away from lol But as i said if it works great not many do . to be fair Jac, I think there is genuine intent not to fall for someone and then it happens and it is real and lovely to see. I have also seen people in relationships become hyper clingy to certain regular playmates... and they are as worrying at times. yeah defo agree with that too " and you have done it and been hurt by it. because play with others emotions more than they play at times with their vaginas and penises | |||
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"OHHHH yeah some do thats for sure and dont mind admitting it ...then you have some who join here saying it suits them better cause they been there done that and wore the t shirt in relationships and never want another but within five mins bang they in another relationship the same thing they joined her to get away from lol But as i said if it works great not many do . to be fair Jac, I think there is genuine intent not to fall for someone and then it happens and it is real and lovely to see. I have also seen people in relationships become hyper clingy to certain regular playmates... and they are as worrying at times. yeah defo agree with that too and you have done it and been hurt by it. because play with others emotions more than they play at times with their vaginas and penises " Hahahaha god thats soo true too your such a man of wisodom at time _iew lol | |||
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" I have had woman say to me "see if you shag her, am never shaggin you again" how bad is that.)" .... and see if you shag me am never shagging her again! | |||
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"As most know, I met someone on here and got into a relationship...... didn't work out for reasons I will not discuss publicly. It's not the getting together. It's the splitting up and maintaining dignity. " enuff said wendy...... | |||
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"This is a great topic and can see pros and cons for 'fuck buddies'. I have to say I am for it as long as you both agree its only sex and not a relationship!!! If you find the right physical chemistry with someone it can be mind blowing.... but just because you can have great sex together doesnt mean a relationship would work!!! The best sex I've ever had has been with 'FBs' as there is less inhibitions and more sexual freedom to dare n try things you might not as a couple for fear of looking pervy lol.. The reason a FB is generally better than a one off is that you have time to find out what really turns the other person on...... So defo FBs all the way lol" You see that's often the problem, what you see as a regular f/b and both initially agree no strings just fun and fucks, can very quickly turn in one or the others mind to something more than that and they then get clingy. | |||
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"Is it just me that hates the term,"fuck-buddy" ? " I also HATE the term, playbuddy's i call it. | |||
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"I would never consider joining as a playbuddy couple and i don't even like the idea of having a paybuddy now. " Spot on there, my _iew is alot not all do the fuck buddy/ couple profile becasue they cant manage to pull on there own. I manage just fine doing things without the need to partner. | |||
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"I see people on here that are looking for fun but also people that are looking for relationships. I believe a fair few people on Fab also have profiles on sites like plenty more fish.I agree with Views earlier comment about the days of the week. Hey sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt..." Alot of the time, getting meets on POF is easier than getting meets on here | |||
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"I see fuckbuddies and playmates slighlty diffrent ...fuckbuddies i see as buddies you have a lot in common with apart from just sex and often socialise with too ..playmates are just that mates you just play with lol " fuckbuddies/playmates, everyone has there own terms for things, I prefer playmate! Mates that I have sex with and also socialize with... Each to there own I guess! | |||
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"I see fuckbuddies and playmates slighlty diffrent ...fuckbuddies i see as buddies you have a lot in common with apart from just sex and often socialise with too ..playmates are just that mates you just play with lol fuckbuddies/playmates, everyone has there own terms for things, I prefer playmate! Mates that I have sex with and also socialize with... Each to there own I guess! " yeah we all have our own terms for things | |||
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"I see fuckbuddies and playmates slighlty diffrent ...fuckbuddies i see as buddies you have a lot in common with apart from just sex and often socialise with too ..playmates are just that mates you just play with lol " Ahhh i never even thought of that, good point Miss.D! | |||
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"From a male point of _iew relationships survive & fail in all walks of life but there is a fine line between fuck buddies & making it to serious & some people get to involved whether its to fill a gap in a relationship that the explosion,s & fireworks have gone or for whatever other reason & from a personal point of _iew i met my partner on here & it does,nt pose any problems for us " your missing the point of what the post is about .... its about people coupling up declaring their undying love for one and other then the next min they are no longer a couple wanting to kill each other lol ..as i said some relationships do work some dont ..... many join here to swing yet when they become a couple they dont | |||
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"Yeah that is the problem I have had with a couple of my FBs and they starting to get clingy and whiny when you don't call or text regularly. They dont understand that ideally only want to contact them when I'm horny. Why are women so needy?" Agreed but men can be just as needy and do this too | |||
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"Yeah that is the problem I have had with a couple of my FBs and they starting to get clingy and whiny when you don't call or text regularly. They dont understand that ideally only want to contact them when I'm horny. Why are women so needy?Agreed but men can be just as needy and do this too " i agree missD happened to me....nightmare | |||
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"This is a great topic and can see pros and cons for 'fuck buddies'. I have to say I am for it as long as you both agree its only sex and not a relationship!!! If you find the right physical chemistry with someone it can be mind blowing.... but just because you can have great sex together doesnt mean a relationship would work!!! The best sex I've ever had has been with 'FBs' as there is less inhibitions and more sexual freedom to dare n try things you might not as a couple for fear of looking pervy lol.. The reason a FB is generally better than a one off is that you have time to find out what really turns the other person on...... So defo FBs all the way lol You see that's often the problem, what you see as a regular f/b and both initially agree no strings just fun and fucks, can very quickly turn in one or the others mind to something more than that and they then get clingy." As I said 'pros and cons' However find the right one (works best if both in same situation) and it can be really good fun if boundaries are agreed at beginning.. It's one of these topics that has no correct answer.. each to their own.. | |||
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"All we can say is it works for us....."so far"....lol....if it works it's all good and are you not meant to lust and love your partner....i do n both ccounts.... Jamie n Brenda.... " "so far"....lol....??? ...you trying to tell me something..lol... FUL Sir3 | |||
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"All we can say is it works for us....."so far"....lol....if it works it's all good and are you not meant to lust and love your partner....i do n both ccounts.... Jamie n Brenda.... "so far"....lol....??? ...you trying to tell me something..lol... FUL Sir3" it is very apparent | |||
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"There's a difference between love n lust.... That's all I will say...." Lust is hormones, with sometimes a hint of alcohol, and all glammed up. Love is the heart, stone cold sober, and even when we look crap! | |||
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"There's a difference between love n lust.... That's all I will say.... Lust is hormones, with sometimes a hint of alcohol, and all glammed up. Love is the heart, stone cold sober, and even when we look crap!" lol.. that's cute x | |||
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" Swinging is certainly not about poking noses into people's business and passing comment on everyone else as they do. There is another term for that kind of behaviour. Let people be is my advice. None of it is real anyway." You make a very good point, however the reality is more often than not the relationship is announced to the swinging world in similar fashion to an OK spread... Once mini celebrity status has been achieved within chat or the forums we owe it to our followers to let them know every detail..the good and the bad by updates that spare no dignity. When it sadly goes tits up, the friends are expected to take sides, the warring between both sides start and all self respect is lost as every detail is exploited to gain victory over the other. They then go on to meet others and the cycle continues. Not unknown for some to find true love on here 2,3,4,5,6,7 times and each time the backlash is the same. When we play out our lives for all, don't be surprised when they watch the good times and savour the painful ones.... | |||
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" more often than not the relationship is announced to the swinging world in similar fashion to an OK spread... Once mini celebrity status has been achieved within chat or the forums we owe it to our followers to let them know every detail..the good and the bad by updates that spare no dignity. When it sadly goes tits up, the friends are expected to take sides, the warring between both sides start and all self respect is lost as every detail is exploited to gain victory over the other. They then go on to meet others and the cycle continues. Not unknown for some to find true love on here 2,3,4,5,6,7 times and each time the backlash is the same. When we play out our lives for all, don't be surprised when they watch the good times and savour the painful ones...." Wise words _iew and summed up well | |||
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"what i can never get my head round is the full plunge into swinging by alot of these new couples. Now most couples i know that swing (and i say most, not everyone) have been together for a number of years and know each other inside and out and each others happiness and well being is always at the fore front of their relationships, and this is how their relationships survive. Why do these new couples not spend time getting to that stage before inviting every tom, dick and harrietta into bed? " We often think the same. Each to their own and all that but I would of thought it better to share some time (naughty time) with each other... learning about each other, exploring etc before letting other people join the party. Live and let live though. Steve | |||
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" You make a very good point, however the reality is more often than not the relationship is announced to the swinging world in similar fashion to an OK spread... Once mini celebrity status has been achieved within chat or the forums we owe it to our followers to let them know every detail..the good and the bad by updates that spare no dignity. When it sadly goes tits up, the friends are expected to take sides, the warring between both sides start and all self respect is lost as every detail is exploited to gain victory over the other. They then go on to meet others and the cycle continues. Not unknown for some to find true love on here 2,3,4,5,6,7 times and each time the backlash is the same. When we play out our lives for all, don't be surprised when they watch the good times and savour the painful ones...." But none of it is real as you accepted. So the reality you are devoting brain power to is a false reality. It is indeed a cyber reality. How people behave on here is not how they are in real life in my experience. I have seen people who are bonkers in a play or fab environment yet totally reserved in real life. And vice versa come to mention it. That aside, the point remains. What business is it of anyone else's what people do or how they behave? That is the bit I just do not get to be blunt. It is just as irrational - or worse - as the behaviour you are pointing to. Especially when - as you state - it involves enjoying watching people in pain or behaving irrationally. I wouldn't dream of telling anyone how to live their lives. Or passing comment on how they live their lives. Or enjoying them going through pain or trouble. That is their life and they are free to act as they will. I wish them well unless they are total scum and that always shows itself. Any other stance would challenge any claim to be truly swinging on my side. Enjoying people in pain is hardly a loving stance. The scene is meant to be about 'let and let be'. That is how I read it. If I am wrong then I am wrong. However I think we both know I am right. So what is the true swinging behaviour is what I would then address. Is it falling in love with people and making an arse of yourself repeatedly? Or is it sitting there making snide comments about other people and how they live their lives and indulging in your own control issues? At the end of the day all kinds are here. For all you know it is some lass or lad with issues seeking some loving. I would rather take the stance of do not mock the afflicted than sit there and be poisonous about other people. If you don't like the drama in chat rooms all you need do is block them at the end of the day. | |||
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"You make a very good point, however the reality is more often than not the relationship is announced to the swinging world in similar fashion to an OK spread.." When myself and Al first started chatting a relationship was far from my thoughts, over a long period of time chatting daily for months, we eventually met for a coffee and realised that things were"different" to normal swinger meets and started a relationship.Not once did we go public and state that we were a couple etc, "We often think the same. Each to their own and all that but I would of thought it better to share some time (naughty time) with each other... learning about each other, exploring etc before letting other people join the party. Live and let live though. Steve" Could not agree more, been with my partner 9 months and still enjoying exploring each other at the moment without involving others, that's not to say we wont in the future though | |||
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"You make a very good point, however the reality is more often than not the relationship is announced to the swinging world in similar fashion to an OK spread.. When myself and Al first started chatting a relationship was far from my thoughts, over a long period of time chatting daily for months, we eventually met for a coffee and realised that things were"different" to normal swinger meets and started a relationship.Not once did we go public and state that we were a couple etc, We often think the same. Each to their own and all that but I would of thought it better to share some time (naughty time) with each other... learning about each other, exploring etc before letting other people join the party. Live and let live though. Steve Could not agree more, been with my partner 9 months and still enjoying exploring each other at the moment without involving others, that's not to say we wont in the future though " The minute you made a couple profile you make it public I guess. I also remember you putting on your single profile you had met a guy etc. I felt happy for you and glad to see it is working out. In terms of the 'OK' angle. I am puzzled as to what this describes. Is it a reference to people getting together and talking about being together? Why should two or more people talk about being a couple in any way to whomever they choose? You did that on your own single profile for example and when you made a couple profile. So it can't be that. People do it all the time here. Or are we talking about someone's perceptions of a hierarchy of swingers and a possible Freudian slip? I see no celebs do you? I met Jen on here but we were chatting to each other for quite some time before we got it together. Just like you we never expected it. It was just two horny people off on a meet after chatting for the best part of a year. We liked each other but that doesn't always lead to where we are at. Just how life is I guess. I just find it all a little silly when you break it down. I don't see why anyone could in any way start to differentiate between what is a good way to meet someone and a bad way to meet someone. Or a good way to behave and a bad way to behave. Or a good way to tell friends and a bad way to tell friends. Not when it involves sex and relations on a swinger site. Not when it is their business and theirs alone. Seems to me as if people are taking this all a little bit too seriously and indulging in their own failings more than anything else. Sure this is a community and we all reflect the wider community. However that brings the same scorn held in the wider community for gossips and other such types. I'd never knowingly meet people who operated like that. Would you? | |||
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"You make a very good point, however the reality is more often than not the relationship is announced to the swinging world in similar fashion to an OK spread.. When myself and Al first started chatting a relationship was far from my thoughts, over a long period of time chatting daily for months, we eventually met for a coffee and realised that things were"different" to normal swinger meets and started a relationship.Not once did we go public and state that we were a couple etc, We often think the same. Each to their own and all that but I would of thought it better to share some time (naughty time) with each other... learning about each other, exploring etc before letting other people join the party. Live and let live though. Steve Could not agree more, been with my partner 9 months and still enjoying exploring each other at the moment without involving others, that's not to say we wont in the future though The minute you made a couple profile you make it public I guess. I also remember you putting on your single profile you had met a guy etc. I felt happy for you and glad to see it is working out. In terms of the 'OK' angle. I am puzzled as to what this describes. Is it a reference to people getting together and talking about being together? Why should two or more people talk about being a couple in any way to whomever they choose? You did that on your own single profile for example and when you made a couple profile. So it can't be that. People do it all the time here. Or are we talking about someone's perceptions of a hierarchy of swingers and a possible Freudian slip? I see no celebs do you? I met Jen on here but we were chatting to each other for quite some time before we got it together. Just like you we never expected it. It was just two horny people off on a meet after chatting for the best part of a year. We liked each other but that doesn't always lead to where we are at. Just how life is I guess. I just find it all a little silly when you break it down. I don't see why anyone could in any way start to differentiate between what is a good way to meet someone and a bad way to meet someone. Or a good way to behave and a bad way to behave. Or a good way to tell friends and a bad way to tell friends. Not when it involves sex and relations on a swinger site. Not when it is their business and theirs alone. Seems to me as if people are taking this all a little bit too seriously and indulging in their own failings more than anything else. Sure this is a community and we all reflect the wider community. However that brings the same scorn held in the wider community for gossips and other such types. I'd never knowingly meet people who operated like that. Would you?" Awww thank you for being happy for me at the time I put that on my "single" profile as an explanation to why i wasn't meeting anyone more than anything else. I wanted to see how thing's progressed first. The couple profile was created as neither of us were single any longer. Also i am happy about you and Jen, you are a very lucky man,she is a gorgeous lady and i wish you both all the happiness in the world. | |||
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"Live n let live is sometimes the best way to be..... Life's top short.... Go for what makes u happy n smile.... Don't confuse lust for love thou.... " yep, we never set out to have a relationship, we spoke daily for months and developed feelings etc, then when we met for dates "old style" and decided to become a couple.So no confusion between love and lust | |||
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"Who cares? What business is it of anyone's as to why people join, what they do, when they do it and with whom? Why would anyone care anyway? Anyone who does see it as their business is the one needing to ask why they see it that way. They also need to reflect upon what that attitude says about their own selves. Swinging is meant to be about letting others be. If that involves people hooking up then falling out so be it. What harm does it do to anyone's lives? Does zero to mine. Swinging is certainly not about poking noses into people's business and passing comment on everyone else as they do. There is another term for that kind of behaviour. Let people be is my advice. None of it is real anyway." Couldn't have put it better ourself's.... | |||
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