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how often should a couple be having it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

right we have a dilemma here the mrs has a massive sex drive where is mines is about average where is the middle ground here lol 4 times a weeks is where we are at xxxx

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Don't think an exact science to that one babes, its as many times as the couple/perosn won;t to have it.

Some are once a week and some are 3 times a day

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship? "

Couldnt disagree more. I love my wife and wouldnt leave her if she didnt want to have sex every day. If you think thats what a relationship is about I doubt you will ever find one that lasts more than the "lust" period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship?

Couldnt disagree more. I love my wife and wouldnt leave her if she didnt want to have sex every day. If you think thats what a relationship is about I doubt you will ever find one that lasts more than the "lust" period."

and thats why, i have and always will be single. I've been single for 4 years now, and wouldnt change it for the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When do i fit the 2 or more Times a day in with work...3 kids ...a dog....dinner..washing....ironing...baths.....kids homework....Kids baths....bedtime stories..phew!!!!

Hes lucky to get any at all lol

Auds xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i would like it three times a day lol

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

hell once a day! you just can't fit it in with work and life! I prefer quality over quantity

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk


"When do i fit the 2 or more Times a day in with work...3 kids ...a dog....dinner..washing....ironing...baths.....kids homework....Kids baths....bedtime stories..phew!!!!

Hes lucky to get any at all lol

Auds xx "

I'd lose the dog lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree there is no right answer to this one other than enough to make you both happy

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship? "

a relationship is not all about sex! real life gets in the way ie work, kids, etc so that is totally unrealistic to expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship?

a relationship is not all about sex! real life gets in the way ie work, kids, etc so that is totally unrealistic to expect."

Totally true Trac

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By *edo CplCouple
over a year ago

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Queens Jubilees happen more often than i have sex

A very sad Mr H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats cause you keep Knocking me back mr hedo

Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship? "

Relationships aint all about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i was part of a couple, as in real life total commitment type of couple. i'd be looking for sex at least once a day, otherwise, whats the point in being in a relationship?

Relationships aint all about sex "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship "

Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship.

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By *edo CplCouple
over a year ago

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"Thats cause you keep Knocking me back mr hedo

Lol "

I never have i am just shy

xxx

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By *rgiesformeMan
over a year ago

North Glasgow

Shy Hedo aye right, if your shy am a feckin virgin ffs

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By *edo CplCouple
over a year ago

,


"Shy Hedo aye right, if your shy am a feckin virgin ffs "

I am honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do i fit the 2 or more Times a day in with work...3 kids ...a dog....dinner..washing....ironing...baths.....kids homework....Kids baths....bedtime stories..phew!!!!

Hes lucky to get any at all lol

Auds xx "

Amen to that!

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"When do i fit the 2 or more Times a day in with work...3 kids ...a dog....dinner..washing....ironing...baths.....kids homework....Kids baths....bedtime stories..phew!!!!

Hes lucky to get any at all lol

Auds xx "
you slave driver. Your poor hubby must be cream puffed if if doing all that. Lol

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"When do i fit the 2 or more Times a day in with work...3 kids ...a dog....dinner..washing....ironing...baths.....kids homework....Kids baths....bedtime stories..phew!!!!

Hes lucky to get any at all lol

Auds xx "
you slave driver. Your poor hubby must be cream puffed if if doing all that. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship

Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship. "

That might be correct for some people. But there are others, like myself, where sex is more important to them than anything else. so to me, if i was in a relationship and wasnt getting enough sex, the relationship would not last. That might sound cold and hard to some, but at least i'm honest about it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship

Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship.

That might be correct for some people. But there are others, like myself, where sex is more important to them than anything else. so to me, if i was in a relationship and wasnt getting enough sex, the relationship would not last. That might sound cold and hard to some, but at least i'm honest about it."

So if your were in a very loving relatioship and say your partner had an illness that stopped him from having sex you would end the relationship because you wernt getting it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is always much more fun if its spontanious rather than being planned if i dont have sex for a few days or weeks it not the end of my relationship

Well said. Life just gets in the way at times. Sex is fabulous but not the be all and end all in a relationship.

That might be correct for some people. But there are others, like myself, where sex is more important to them than anything else. so to me, if i was in a relationship and wasnt getting enough sex, the relationship would not last. That might sound cold and hard to some, but at least i'm honest about it.

So if your were in a very loving relatioship and say your partner had an illness that stopped him from having sex you would end the relationship because you wernt getting it ?"

Very simply, if it was a monogamous relationship and i couldnt get it elsewhere, yes.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

God I find that pretty sad ...but each to their own

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

what if you were the person who couldn't have sex and your partner left you how would you feel??!

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