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"Lots on here that enjoy kink and BDSM  " | |||
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"We never do anything kinky ..... Wouldn't know where to start ... We are innocent and pure Amen K&A xxx xxx " As am I. Pure and innocent. Never even seen a belt, let alone used one on someone screaming out for more 'til her ass was black and blue. Never even seen a cat-o-nine-tails, let alone flogged someone's ass while her girlfriend watched in delight. Never even seen a nipple, let alone attached chains to someone's nipple piercing and suspended from the ceiling before binding their hands and flogging them all over... I'm going to shut up now. I've made myself horny. | |||
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"After the publishing of 50 shades of PISH, is there more of a BDSM community on here?" In a word, no! What you will see though is a load of people wanting to dabble then running a mile very quickly when they find out that 50 shades of nonsense is just mills and boon soft porn which doesn't even scratch the surface of BDSM. Now I must dash, got the wife suspended and she's due a prod with the wand | |||
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"After the publishing of 50 shades of PISH, is there more of a BDSM community on here? In a word, no! What you will see though is a load of people wanting to dabble then running a mile very quickly when they find out that 50 shades of nonsense is just mills and boon soft porn which doesn't even scratch the surface of BDSM. Now I must dash, got the wife suspended and she's due a prod with the wand " | |||
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"Several years ago I joined this site, and back then I was kinky. Over a year ago I admitted to myself that I loved BDSM. But apparently this site wasn't "for" people who liked BDSM (I talked to the wrong people I think, but I got burned). After the publishing of 50 shades of PISH, is there more of a BDSM community on here? Is it appropriate to post and talk about BDSM? Just wondering, lonely old me does love the whips and chains in the bedroom. Jo x" Are you sub or master ??? Totally love the world of bdsm , I go to a few clubs outwith the bedroom I could point you in the right direction , I'll mail you x | |||
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"Several years ago I joined this site, and back then I was kinky. Over a year ago I admitted to myself that I loved BDSM. But apparently this site wasn't "for" people who liked BDSM (I talked to the wrong people I think, but I got burned). After the publishing of 50 shades of PISH, is there more of a BDSM community on here? Is it appropriate to post and talk about BDSM? Just wondering, lonely old me does love the whips and chains in the bedroom. Jo x Are you sub or master ??? Totally love the world of bdsm , I go to a few clubs outwith the bedroom I could point you in the right direction , I'll mail you x" You love the world of BDSM so much that you ask a female if shes a Master?? lol  | |||
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"i know nothing about it but im sure its mistress" She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress | |||
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"She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress "Or Roxy   | |||
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"She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress
Or Roxy "Cheeky.....very well behaved in ma old age | |||
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"She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress
Or Roxy
Cheeky.....very well behaved in ma old age "age is only a number and I'm sure that my master would allow you to assist him in dominating me mistress | |||
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"She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress
Or Roxy
Cheeky.....very well behaved in ma old age "My virgin ass is safe then | |||
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"She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress
Or Roxy
Cheeky.....very well behaved in ma old age
age is only a number and I'm sure that my master would allow you to assist him in dominating me mistress "Oh its been discussed | |||
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"She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress
Or Roxy
Cheeky.....very well behaved in ma old age
My virgin ass is safe then "Wouldn't go that far hahahahaha | |||
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"She would be a Domme, and usually addressed as Miss or Mistress
Or Roxy
Cheeky.....very well behaved in ma old age
age is only a number and I'm sure that my master would allow you to assist him in dominating me mistress
Oh its been discussed "oh I can't wait! a master and a mistress to make my dreams come true!!!! | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao "You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol | |||
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"Well I've only dabbled a little bit so I couldn't possibly comment "Hmmmmmmm, don't quite believe that | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol "Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol. I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs  xxx | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol
Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol.
I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs xxx"I'm working my way through the book...but it really is crap lol. Poor you, you'll get to the next one xxx | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol
Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol.
I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs xxx
I'm working my way through the book...but it really is crap lol. Poor you, you'll get to the next one xxx"The facebook page 50 shades of glasgow is a much better read, and hilarious too lol. Fingers crossed i will, i do love my club nights-and there's the femdom munch coming up too  xxx | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol
Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol.
I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs xxx
I'm working my way through the book...but it really is crap lol. Poor you, you'll get to the next one xxx
The facebook page 50 shades of glasgow is a much better read, and hilarious too lol.
Fingers crossed i will, i do love my club nights-and there's the femdom munch coming up too xxx"sounds like fun xxxx | |||
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"we are definately into kink, sometimes we involve it in our swinging meets, if the other cpls/fem/guy are into it too those books should be named fifty shades of kink for vanillas, anyone who thinks thats kink are in for a shock if they venture into a kink club lol" | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol
Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol.
I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs xxx
I'm working my way through the book...but it really is crap lol. Poor you, you'll get to the next one xxx
The facebook page 50 shades of glasgow is a much better read, and hilarious too lol.
Fingers crossed i will, i do love my club nights-and there's the femdom munch coming up too xxx
sounds like fun xxxx"You should come down for them and i'll introduce you everyone lol xxx | |||
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"Well I've only dabbled a little bit so I couldn't possibly comment
Hmmmmmmm, don't quite believe that
Hmm and what are you implying "Pssst.....I've seen your veri's lol | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol
Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol.
I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs xxx
I'm working my way through the book...but it really is crap lol. Poor you, you'll get to the next one xxx
The facebook page 50 shades of glasgow is a much better read, and hilarious too lol.
Fingers crossed i will, i do love my club nights-and there's the femdom munch coming up too xxx
sounds like fun xxxx
You should come down for them and i'll introduce you everyone lol xxx"That would actually be really cool | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol
Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol.
I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs xxx
I'm working my way through the book...but it really is crap lol. Poor you, you'll get to the next one xxx
The facebook page 50 shades of glasgow is a much better read, and hilarious too lol.
Fingers crossed i will, i do love my club nights-and there's the femdom munch coming up too xxx
sounds like fun xxxx
You should come down for them and i'll introduce you everyone lol xxx
That would actually be really cool "The femdom munch is fri 3rd august, rebound sat 11th-the munch i should definately be at and rebound i'll have to wait and see. xxx | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
You're not really...you've just read 50 shades of shit!! lol
Hahaha i wouldn't waste my time, even without reading it i've actually started to despise it lol.
I wish i could say that i was recovering from a night of kink-but unfortunately i couldn't go to last nights fet club...sobs xxx
I'm working my way through the book...but it really is crap lol. Poor you, you'll get to the next one xxx
The facebook page 50 shades of glasgow is a much better read, and hilarious too lol.
Fingers crossed i will, i do love my club nights-and there's the femdom munch coming up too xxx
sounds like fun xxxx
You should come down for them and i'll introduce you everyone lol xxx
That would actually be really cool
The femdom munch is fri 3rd august, rebound sat 11th-the munch i should definately be at and rebound i'll have to wait and see. xxx"Cool, I'll pm you xxx | |||
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Hmmmmmmm, don't quite believe that
Hmm and what are you implying
Pssst.....I've seen your veri's lol "Pssst ...don't tell anyone | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao "Bless my dear and you always look so smart and presentable at these establishments ...., Who would have thought ..... One remains so innocent in ones perception of people ..... Kirsty xxx xxx | |||
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"Well I've only dabbled a little bit so I couldn't possibly comment
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Pssst.....I've seen your veri's lol
Pssst ...don't tell anyone "My lips are sealed | |||
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"You just need to read my profile, look at my username and pics to see to see that i'm a kinky bugger that's into the BDSM scene lmao
Bless my dear and you always look so smart and presentable at these establishments ....,
Who would have thought .....
One remains so innocent in ones perception of people .....
Kirsty
xxx xxx "Well as you know kirsty from meeting me a couple times at rebound i dont dress at the clubs-i always say to folk not to let how angelic i look fool them hahaha
Whether dressed up or just in a suit i scrub up not too shabbily i'll say full of modesty pmsl. | |||
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Thanks for posting.
I just couldn't believe being told on here that BDSM wasn't acceptable before, yet somehow swinging is ok? Doesn't it all get thrown in the same pot?
But anyway, I am on another site that is about my fetish life...hint hint, not breaking forum rules lol. Also on a knowledgable consent site too haha.
I just wondered wether it is appropriate to discuss BDSM on here.
To be honest I don't care.
Offski to burn some more mummy porn.
Ta x | |||
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"fet is a very popular site" Agreed-FL is the best kink site around i say! | |||
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"thats one of the main ones i use as well as collar " CM is pants nowadays, almost every single so called 'Domme' is just into 'financial domination' looking for pay piggies with a wallet to rape etc...like i'm going to send my money to some online person that'll never meet-half of them prob aren't even women lmao! | |||
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"thats one of the main ones i use as well as collar CM is pants nowadays, almost every single so called 'Domme' is just into 'financial domination' looking for pay piggies with a wallet to rape etc...like i'm going to send my money to some online person that'll never meet-half of them prob aren't even women lmao!" Now now isn't that slightly disrespectful given you mix with a few pro-Dommes and Rebound wouldn't even exist if not for Red's own profession? And as for that last comment ..... ??? Kirsty xxx xxx | |||
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"fet is a very popular site Agreed-FL is the best kink site around i say!" I'd have to agree with that .... Even though I have seldom used the site the past year. Will get back on it soon though and Annie will get a profile too now she's moved in with me .... Kirsty xxx xxx | |||
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As for all this 50 shades of shite!!! Suddenly every vanilla housewife in the country thinks they are into bondage because they like the idea of their husband binding them to the bed with cable ties!! And gently spanking them.... Bet they would change their mind after I left their ass red and mottled with my paddle!
Even saw a couple of young guys buy the book in tesco last night, I can only assume it was intended to give them the advice needed to pleasure women in the bedroom... I fear a new wave of young 'Dom' wannabes who think its nothing more than demanding what they want when they want it will emerge... Anyways... I digress...
Seems there are plenty folk on here that are into the scene... So happy flogging all | |||
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"thats one of the main ones i use as well as collar CM is pants nowadays, almost every single so called 'Domme' is just into 'financial domination' looking for pay piggies with a wallet to rape etc...like i'm going to send my money to some online person that'll never meet-half of them prob aren't even women lmao! Now now isn't that slightly disrespectful given you mix with a few pro-Dommes and Rebound wouldn't even exist if not for Red's own profession? And as for that last comment ..... ??? Kirsty xxx xxx " And if you read my profile on CM i state that i don't include pro Dommes in that as i have many as good personal friends...it's all the other ones who aren't pro Dommes but openly state that they just want your money, you need to send a money or amazon voucher etc before they will even reply to any message, they want to shop on your dime but will never meet or ever cam so who's to say half of them are even women and not just guys trying the scam. Subs who were daft enough to send these people money are constantly creating profiles warning others as they sent to such and such and just got ripped off. A pro Domme you book a session, you turn up and pay in person. | |||
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"Oh my.... Kink and BDSM?? Wouldn't catch me with a profile on this 'FL' site you talk of
As for all this 50 shades of shite!!! Suddenly every vanilla housewife in the country thinks they are into bondage because they like the idea of their husband binding them to the bed with cable ties!! And gently spanking them.... Bet they would change their mind after I left their ass red and mottled with my paddle!
Even saw a couple of young guys buy the book in tesco last night, I can only assume it was intended to give them the advice needed to pleasure women in the bedroom... I fear a new wave of young 'Dom' wannabes who think its nothing more than demanding what they want when they want it will emerge... Anyways... I digress...
Seems there are plenty folk on here that are into the scene... So happy flogging all "I'm pretty sure any wannabe sub would soon change their mind after a night with you DD.... They would realise that a spanking is not just a gentle arse tap but full on leaving the arse mottled and brusied (Just how i like it) with a permanant hand print! xx | |||
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I'd rip somebody's arms off and beat them with the bloody stumps if they tried that with me .... I can't abide pain. | |||
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"Oh my.... Kink and BDSM?? Wouldn't catch me with a profile on this 'FL' site you talk of
As for all this 50 shades of shite!!! Suddenly every vanilla housewife in the country thinks they are into bondage because they like the idea of their husband binding them to the bed with cable ties!! And gently spanking them.... Bet they would change their mind after I left their ass red and mottled with my paddle!
Even saw a couple of young guys buy the book in tesco last night, I can only assume it was intended to give them the advice needed to pleasure women in the bedroom... I fear a new wave of young 'Dom' wannabes who think its nothing more than demanding what they want when they want it will emerge... Anyways... I digress...
Seems there are plenty folk on here that are into the scene... So happy flogging all
I'm pretty sure any wannabe sub would soon change their mind after a night with you DD.... They would realise that a spanking is not just a gentle arse tap but full on leaving the arse mottled and brusied (Just how i like it) with a permanant hand print! xx"Can't believe I am but I'm totally agreeing with you , any wannabe sub can take orders to please and get a spanking or the odd slap , it's not just about sex it mentally enticing as well to completely submit to someone is a great feeling if it's not vanilla and playing sub if you get what I mean , I've been flogged , crucified , choked to the point ive passed out , I've even been to the point of crying and begging , it takes a really special person be your Dom , it's just not role play , when Mr Sticky and I first openly chatted and dived in and experimented in his Dom side I felt complete and much closer to him , was on alt for years so got to no fellow kink and bdsm goers and started venturing into clubs outwith the bedroom , amazing truly amazing , I got funny looks at socials on another site for my fetish so that's why I joined here to look for like minded fellow kinksters !!!!!! | |||
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Hmmmmmmm, don't quite believe that "Probably because a certain bad man has verified her  xx | |||
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"Im coming in with my wooden spoon - no, not to spank anyone with. I find it quite interesting reading through this thread that just like swinging, there are various shades (if you excuse the phrase) of BDSM involvement, and just like swinging theres an element of snobbery - spanking doesnt have to involve bruising, in fact there are ways to avoid bruising. Ive had welt marks and Ive had beautiful sensual whipping from a domme (must do that again - you know who you are) and they were both equally as pleasurable. Its not all about pain - and its not all about how hard you can take it as it were - there will always be someone that can take more than you. This is no way meant to offend anyone who has commented on this thread and is just my personal opinion. Oh and I finished 50 smears of shite in one day its that dire. Holy crap! Ive actually read better Mills & Boon in my youth." everyone has their own kinks and fetishes,like you have said, its not always about pain, not even sex,it goes much deeper.some people mix role play with BDSM . | |||
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"i cant comment from a submissive view but i think it is part and parcel of a persons make up and depends wether they develop it or not" Thank you Katy. I think that as females we learn to trust and lean on fathers, teachers, male role models etc. and so unwittingly are 'conditioned' and that a master or BDSM does draw it out and hone it. But I may be wrong as I don't have sub tendencies and does a domme develop then? Fekk I've confused myself! | |||
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"Don't shoot me down in flames for asking this, it is a genuine question. Do you think females are genetically predisposed to be submissive, or is it acquired/learned? " It's a very valid question. I know more sub women than Domme but I wouldn't really say that women are predisposed to be sub as I probably know more sub guys than real Doms too. There are so many guys out there that THINK they are Dom but, in all honesty, they haven't got the faintest idea what they're doing (spanking an arse doesn't make you a Dom. lol). Being the fairer sex I would say woman (mostly) have a more caring nature and that males are generally more protective but predisposed to be sub I'd have to say no, I don't think they are. xx | |||
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"Don't shoot me down in flames for asking this, it is a genuine question. Do you think females are genetically predisposed to be submissive, or is it acquired/learned? It's a very valid question. I know more sub women than Domme but I wouldn't really say that women are predisposed to be sub as I probably know more sub guys than real Doms too. There are so many guys out there that THINK they are Dom but, in all honesty, they haven't got the faintest idea what they're doing (spanking an arse doesn't make you a Dom. lol). Being the fairer sex I would say woman (mostly) have a more caring nature and that males are generally more protective but predisposed to be sub I'd have to say no, I don't think they are. xx" Thank you. I often wonder how it happens, that one day you decide to be sub or dom/domme or if it creeps up on you, or it is all part of exploring and pushing sexual boundaries? | |||
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"But I may be wrong as I don't have sub tendencies and does a domme develop then? Fekk I've confused myself! "A Domme/Dom absolutely develops. We learn all the time. I (mr) firmly believe that a dominant should have first hand experience of what they give, hence I've never done to a sub anything I've not tried myself. If a sub does want something I know nothing about I'll go out my way to experience it first so I know what I'm doing. | |||
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" or it is all part of exploring and pushing sexual boundaries?" In a nutshell | |||
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"i cant comment from a submissive view but i think it is part and parcel of a persons make up and depends wether they develop it or not Thank you Katy. I think that as females we learn to trust and lean on fathers, teachers, male role models etc. and so unwittingly are 'conditioned' and that a master or BDSM does draw it out and hone it. But I may be wrong as I don't have sub tendencies and does a domme develop then? Fekk I've confused myself! "i noted the comment u made with regards the male role in growing up, my father died when i was young so i grew up in an all female house, so that could be why i am domme as opposed to sub, no idea, but it could be part of it | |||
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"But I may be wrong as I don't have sub tendencies and does a domme develop then? Fekk I've confused myself!
A Domme/Dom absolutely develops. We learn all the time.
I (mr) firmly believe that a dominant should have first hand experience of what they give, hence I've never done to a sub anything I've not tried myself. If a sub does want something I know nothing about I'll go out my way to experience it first so I know what I'm doing." that makes perfect sense to me, thanks. xx | |||
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"i cant comment from a submissive view but i think it is part and parcel of a persons make up and depends wether they develop it or not Thank you Katy. I think that as females we learn to trust and lean on fathers, teachers, male role models etc. and so unwittingly are 'conditioned' and that a master or BDSM does draw it out and hone it. But I may be wrong as I don't have sub tendencies and does a domme develop then? Fekk I've confused myself!
i noted the comment u made with regards the male role in growing up, my father died when i was young so i grew up in an all female house, so that could be why i am domme as opposed to sub, no idea, but it could be part of it"Thanks again. It does fascinate me, I see a couple of slaves who post regularly in the forums and I learn so much about their slave/Master lives from them. | |||
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"Tis True its not all about spanking and pain.. I submit to DD in all aspects of our relationship and it works for us, i love knowing that he is my master and in control of me and i love to pleasure him in all ways (not just sexually) I am a pleaser and seeing him happy with me for something i have done well gives me pleasure even if it is something as simple as cooking a nice meal for when he gets home from a hard days work! I know that if i am a good girl and please him that i will be rewarded "I've never been able to completely relinquish control so sometimes find it hard to understand such relationships. Sometimes I think it would be lovely for someone to take over all responsibility and care for me........ but then I think, nahhhh I'd have to give something back, so I suppose I'm selfish! | |||
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"I would add that Dom/Domme and Master/Mistress are 2 very different things. I am a Dom but would never class myself as Master." ....see that's what fascinates me, the differences. I've learned that an owned/collared slave is regarded as bonding as marriage vows to them. Love the forums, so many topics discussed openly. xx | |||
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"I would add that Dom/Domme and Master/Mistress are 2 very different things. I am a Dom but would never class myself as Master. ....see that's what fascinates me, the differences. I've learned that an owned/collared slave is regarded as bonding as marriage vows to them. Love the forums, so many topics discussed openly. xx" j is collared and registered to me ,he wears a collar and is proud to | |||
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(Basically getting a pretty girl and messing them up a bit, I won't divulge the details here )
I'm so happy that people can openly discuss things on here, woohoo!
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