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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys I've been on and off for a year messaged a few women nothing bad or being rude just a hello type message but never get a reply or a simple no thanks am I doing something wrong

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hi guys I've been on and off for a year messaged a few women nothing bad or being rude just a hello type message but never get a reply or a simple no thanks am I doing something wrong"
1.no pics.

2.jump through hoops with passwords when messaging.

3.Face pics can be in private and sent to those who are interested (This isn't blind date)

There is nothing on your profile relating to your likes or dislikes so that could also be a reason.

Your profile is your shop window so should have something on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you read the FAQ’s, site advice and new to the site forums and also search the forum you will see that your question is not new and get loads of advice. Likely advice is...

Men vastly outweigh women so you have to stand out and your profile has no pics and no “blurb” to entice anyone to message or reply. You’re very young and a lot of women don’t like meeting guys near their kids age. A non response should be taken as a polite no thanks as per the site rules because saying no in a message often leads to a ping pong reply of “why not” etc.

However patience manners and joining in the fun can lead to a wonderful experience and you’ve found the forums so join in the chat (oh and the chat rooms too). Enjoy getting to know folk and I’m sure you’ll find it all very positive.

Oh welcome to Fab lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ill take your advice on board

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you very much I will join in these more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only agree with what both of the ladies above said.

Also if you looked like Brad Pitt, had an epic profile, I'd probably still skip past you because you have a ranty status

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you and point taken just gets annoying when the same 3 people you have never spoken to way out my age limit keep trying to send invites

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thank you and point taken just gets annoying when the same 3 people you have never spoken to way out my age limit keep trying to send invites "
So your getting random interests but not from messages ?

Not so bad with the profile you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just see the no pics and can't accom so I'd scroll past.

Few pics does wonders plus gets round filters that block profiles with no pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately not from women which I wouldn't mind id accept ones from women and I don't have any age.limit on a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you it seems to be a big thing pictures I'm glad I asked now never even gave that a thought

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Unfortunately not from women which I wouldn't mind id accept ones from women and I don't have any age.limit on a woman"
You do have age filters in place tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know just a a pity you can't do it separate for men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can block men, in an ideal world you shouldn’t have to and means if a guy was going to respond to a forum post for example he couldn’t but it’s an option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree with you

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By *ireandBlood88Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

May aswell delete your profile and start afresh since you’ve been on over a year and no Veris....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You think so "

No..dont.

I've done well on here over many years.

My profile doesn't give much away.

I've never really put real thought into pics I use on my profile but found in my experience, less is more.

However, I've engaged in chat rooms forums and attended some socials.

I've found over years that communication and respectfullness patience have rewarded me with luck in meeting some of Fabs finest Ladies, not all sexual.

I didnt join Fab for sex, but I think I've done reasonably well.

If ya like some throw away banter, stick around, maybe grab a seat and get some of youre fun personality out there.

It may not guarantee you mutual sex, but neither will a perfect profile.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice mate ill stick around and join in these chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your advice mate ill stick around and join in these chats "

Good lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for men but I wouldn't chat to a faceless profile with no public pics. Put 1 up at least.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

You get out of FAB what you put in...!!!

Put the effort in and you are more likely to recieve opportunities to socialise with others, perhap even meet them when times are better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it just means they are not interested as the initial attraction is not there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can really empathise with your post, I do have have pics and sent loads of messages through the years, 8/10 don’t reply.

I love getting a wink or even the smallest bit of interest as it’s so rare or maybe I’m just an ugly twat.

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