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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello fellow fabbers, just wondering what kind of things are everyone else’s ‘dealbreakers’ when you meet for the first time ? Chat is going really well, you’re attracted to the other person but what kind of things would make the next stage a definite no no in your books ? For me it would be finding out they aren’t as single as a Pringle like their profile makes out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding out they aren't single, yes. But also if they start asking straight away if I "have a female friend that could join us"... Winds me right up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they just talk about sex or x partners or folk they have met from fab.

Or turn up in work clothes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Finding out they aren't single, yes. But also if they start asking straight away if I "have a female friend that could join us"... Winds me right up "

Absolutely haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they just talk about sex or x partners or folk they have met from fab.

Or turn up in work clothes "

I know right ?? ........ it maybe a sex site but conversation has to consist of more than sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a guy who had the worst body odour.... I physically gagged. I had to ask him to leave!

So anyone who is smelly or has bad breath.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once met a guy who had the worst body odour.... I physically gagged. I had to ask him to leave!

So anyone who is smelly or has bad breath. "

Ewwwww, there is no need for bad hygiene is there

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"If they just talk about sex or x partners or folk they have met from fab.

Or turn up in work clothes "

Work clothes may be a suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their really isn’t.... plus he seemed oblivious to how bad it was...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they just talk about sex or x partners or folk they have met from fab.

Or turn up in work clothes

Work clothes may be a suit "
it wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a guy who had the worst body odour.... I physically gagged. I had to ask him to leave!

So anyone who is smelly or has bad breath.

Yep, good personal hygiene is a must. Once met someone who had washed their face! But not their nether regions. I made my excuses and left. I don't do oral with a clothes peg!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their really is no need!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their really is no need!

I could never get intimate with anyone if I didn't feel fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal hygiene is the obvious deal breaker but an absolute turn off for me is someone who acts in an overtly ostentatious manner or is pretentious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing away behind their partners back, stinking people, no humour about them or cant hold a conversation. Or how many people they met off fab and their opinion on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal hygiene is the obvious deal breaker but an absolute turn off for me is someone who acts in an overtly ostentatious manner or is pretentious."

There’s a couple of things but this pretty much

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Fwb are a big no no for us.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I'll let you do anything to me."

Now, I've had that said to me in jest, or with a wink. But I've also had it said in all seriousness. Apparantly not interested in discussing hard limits, safe words, protection. That's for later on in a relationship (of whatever sort), not a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No physical attraction in the flesh or no spark of lust during that first kissing session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fellow fabbers, just wondering what kind of things are everyone else’s ‘dealbreakers’ when you meet for the first time ? Chat is going really well, you’re attracted to the other person but what kind of things would make the next stage a definite no no in your books ? For me it would be finding out they aren’t as single as a Pringle like their profile makes out "

If your in a pub and the guy is knocking drinks back like no tomorrow.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

It sounds horrible but I'm not a fan of nervous people, I find confidence and dominance attractive so if I have to sit and bring someone out of their shell the spark is gone. Some nerves are fine but if they are really shy it just won't work

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