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By *ixie and adam OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey everyone, I’ve been on here since before Adam I met and then we’ve had a couple’s profile and lurked ever since. It’s been 7 and a half years of monogamy and now we’re thinking it’s time to see what’s out there, maybe together, maybe individually. Does anyone want to share their fab cherry popping stories as a couple or with a couple?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It can take time to meet the right couple. Discuss beforehand your boundaries and what you want and don’t want. Have a safe word. Have a social first or at least make sure if you’re meeting at theirs or yours that both couples have the right to decide whether to play or not. Don’t ‘take one for the team’ due to lack of communication.

It can be great fun when you find the right couple and there’s lots of new things to discover.

Now isn’t the right time to be meeting others though.

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By *ixie and adam OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks for your reply. We’re looking to make connections with people we may be able to meet in the future. We won’t be seeing anyone right now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your reply. We’re looking to make connections with people we may be able to meet in the future. We won’t be seeing anyone right now xx "

From my experience it won't be easy to make connections if you don't know what people look like though.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

We found going to clubs the easiest because we were able to walk around together, chat about the cuties and who we were interested and were able to communicate fluidly about what we were and weren't ok with. First nice out I (f) ended up getting some action but was uncomfy so I was able to get him to jump in and help out. Fully recommend clubs if they are ever allowed to open again

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We found going to clubs the easiest because we were able to walk around together, chat about the cuties and who we were interested and were able to communicate fluidly about what we were and weren't ok with. First nice out I (f) ended up getting some action but was uncomfy so I was able to get him to jump in and help out. Fully recommend clubs if they are ever allowed to open again"

Seconding this, I'd also recommend chatting with folks here like AMM ahead of events so there's a couple of familiar faces to welcome you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy with my female fuck buddy, first meeting was in car and she gave him a BJ, met a couple of weeks after at his flat and she ended up spit roasted, very good fun and all 3 enjoyed it.

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By *iscodavieno1Man
over a year ago

dunbar

To be honest I’m not bi . But I’ve never had the opportunity to go with a couple yet always wondered what it would be like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found going to clubs the easiest because we were able to walk around together, chat about the cuties and who we were interested and were able to communicate fluidly about what we were and weren't ok with. First nice out I (f) ended up getting some action but was uncomfy so I was able to get him to jump in and help out. Fully recommend clubs if they are ever allowed to open again"

Definitely where we are with it. Clubs are probably the safest, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both and find being a single easiest. Much more complicated to find four folk compatible than just two but not impossible as met some wonderful couples. I've spoken to other couples about this and both male and female have said that men can sometimes struggle with the attention the woman can get so I'd say what you are doing is right in taking it slowly. Good communication is essential. Good luck and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totaly agree with flirt.

I meet both with my husband as a cpl and also a one.

Alone is much easier to arrange with 2 rather than four.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Don’t be in a hurry to play.. set out your own desires n needs. Now is not really a good time for meeting but it does give you the opportunity to chat with and or cam with other couples. When it’s time to meet always go for a social drink first. If you click then all good. You need to know the other couples boundaries as well as your own.. take your time . You will get there eventually. Regards hot xx.

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