FabSwingers.com forum: Compliment

By *methyst4U OP Woman
over a year ago

Falkirk

Do you take a compliment well ? Or do you just say thanks and say aw it was only a tenner in the sale or blush easily and walk away? Man in supermarket walked past and said Wow you look hot the other night and I didn’t have a response ... then watched me from his car as I got into mine and waved... is that creepy or a compliment ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times have us guys resisted complimenting someone in case it is taken as creepy?

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"How many times have us guys resisted complimenting someone in case it is taken as creepy?"

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I'm not the best at taking a compliment, usually deflect it or sometimes respond in a totally contradictory way, but I'm trying to learn to accept them graciously.

Not sure how I'd feel about the random stranger thing though, think it'd depend on the circumstances. There can quite a fine line between friendly/flirty and downright creepy sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you take a compliment well ? Or do you just say thanks and say aw it was only a tenner in the sale or blush easily and walk away? Man in supermarket walked past and said Wow you look hot the other night and I didn’t have a response ... then watched me from his car as I got into mine and waved... is that creepy or a compliment ? "

In a supermarket, on my own...if a random stranger told me I look "hot" it would be creepy in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many times have us guys resisted complimenting someone in case it is taken as creepy?"

I've been told my hair is "cool", I look "great", make up is nice...various compliments all well received and appreciated.

The "hot" comment would just be too much and out of place in Asda I think.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

That would come under creepy.

Was he hot though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to find most folk who usually tell a random stranger they look hot are usually d*unk and have loads of Dutch courage in them or they’re proper cheeky Chappies. However to then sit and watch you from his car now that’s just a bit creepy, is there a chance he maybe knows you from somewhere and has been trying to pluck the courage up and maybe over compensated a little and went full on ? I do try to always think the best in folks

As for taking compliments, sometimes I can take them well especially when I have made an effort. I’m not one for wearing make up or making much effort to dress up but when I do I know I look good but when I’m a mess and haven’t even brushed my hair and got bags under my eyes I look a complete riot and I just brush compliments off as folk trying to be nice

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik

Often I get a whiff of nice perfume breeze past me and think should I say your perfume is lovely. Ask what it is, but refrain incase it’s creepy.

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

I. Very wary of saying anything and so would avoid this in pretty much any situation.

It reminds me of the day a couple of years ago when I was walking along road into town near my house and a girl was in front of me.

She qaa early twenties, walking a baby in her pram and it was a lovely day. She was wearing little short denim shorts and her arse was just amazing.. I literally couldn't take my eyes of it..!

As we reached the end of the road there was a pedestrian crossing and I was building myself up to compliment her, kept thinking that I had to just say

"what a bum you have"

"can I just say your bum is amazing"....

Unfortunately I couldn't bring myself to do it! So back home for a fantasy wank over it! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I. Very wary of saying anything and so would avoid this in pretty much any situation.

It reminds me of the day a couple of years ago when I was walking along road into town near my house and a girl was in front of me.

She qaa early twenties, walking a baby in her pram and it was a lovely day. She was wearing little short denim shorts and her arse was just amazing.. I literally couldn't take my eyes of it..!

As we reached the end of the road there was a pedestrian crossing and I was building myself up to compliment her, kept thinking that I had to just say

"what a bum you have"

"can I just say your bum is amazing"....

Unfortunately I couldn't bring myself to do it! So back home for a fantasy wank over it! Lol "

That was the best decision in those circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip that’s creepy to me.

The fact he was watching you and decided to tell you the next day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me get this straight. You were going about your daily business when u were approached by a guy who commented that u looked good the night before! Then sat and watched u from his car.

I dont think there is any question here.

That man is either on a register or shall be very soon.

CREEP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I. Very wary of saying anything and so would avoid this in pretty much any situation.

It reminds me of the day a couple of years ago when I was walking along road into town near my house and a girl was in front of me.

She qaa early twenties, walking a baby in her pram and it was a lovely day. She was wearing little short denim shorts and her arse was just amazing.. I literally couldn't take my eyes of it..!

As we reached the end of the road there was a pedestrian crossing and I was building myself up to compliment her, kept thinking that I had to just say

"what a bum you have"

"can I just say your bum is amazing"....

Unfortunately I couldn't bring myself to do it! So back home for a fantasy wank over it! Lol "

A man said something similar to me when I had my two young children with me in the buggy a few years back.

There's a time and a place.

When you're out with your babies is not the time or the place.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I must be reading something different to the rest of you as I dont see anything that says he only told her the next day .

Way I see it is he saw a woman who he was attracted to & decided to tell her she was hot !

Once in the carpark they both spotted each other again and exchanged a smile.

Absoloutely nothing wrong in that at all & I think far too much being read into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be reading something different to the rest of you as I dont see anything that says he only told her the next day .

Way I see it is he saw a woman who he was attracted to & decided to tell her she was hot !

Once in the carpark they both spotted each other again and exchanged a smile.

Absoloutely nothing wrong in that at all & I think far too much being read into it

I didn't get the "next day" part either.

Suppose I just think telling someone they're "hot" is coming on a bit strong in a supermarket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the blue and watching you get into your car and waving. Wrong wrong wrong in my opinion.

Sinister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be reading something different to the rest of you as I dont see anything that says he only told her the next day .

Way I see it is he saw a woman who he was attracted to & decided to tell her she was hot !

Once in the carpark they both spotted each other again and exchanged a smile.

Absoloutely nothing wrong in that at all & I think far too much being read into it

I didn't get the "next day" part either.

Suppose I just think telling someone they're "hot" is coming on a bit strong in a supermarket. "

Think it was just poor grammar tbh told her she looked hot the other night

did he say “you looked hot the other night” or was it the other night he said to her “you look hot” I also wondered if she was referring to the other night it happened or he actually was telling her she looked hot the other night

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I must be reading something different to the rest of you as I dont see anything that says he only told her the next day .

Way I see it is he saw a woman who he was attracted to & decided to tell her she was hot !

Once in the carpark they both spotted each other again and exchanged a smile.

Absoloutely nothing wrong in that at all & I think far too much being read into it

I didn't get the "next day" part either.

Suppose I just think telling someone they're "hot" is coming on a bit strong in a supermarket. "
Yes perhaps his choice of words weren't quite right but as I see it it was nothing more than a compliment & when they saw each other in the carpark they simply exchanged a smile

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I must be reading something different to the rest of you as I dont see anything that says he only told her the next day .

Way I see it is he saw a woman who he was attracted to & decided to tell her she was hot !

Once in the carpark they both spotted each other again and exchanged a smile.

Absoloutely nothing wrong in that at all & I think far too much being read into it

I didn't get the "next day" part either.

Suppose I just think telling someone they're "hot" is coming on a bit strong in a supermarket.

Think it was just poor grammar tbh told her she looked hot the other night

"
hahaha now your confusing me more which isn't hard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me..hey sweetheart..nice pound of mince you have there.

Her..oh thank you, nice steak.. I do love a good spit roast.

Me..Why don't I bend you over the fish counter and give you're king prawn a good licking.

Her..yes please..ahll take my baps out too..now wheres that cucumber.

TESCO..spread you're legs this Xmas for the ones you love.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Me..hey sweetheart..nice pound of mince you have there.

Her..oh thank you, nice steak.. I do love a good spit roast.

Me..Why don't I bend you over the fish counter and give you're king prawn a good licking.

Her..yes please..ahll take my baps out too..now wheres that cucumber.

TESCO..spread you're legs this Xmas for the ones you love.

"
Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in these days of the easily offended, most guys wouldn't think to pay a random compliment to a woman.

A simple comment can be taken out of content as well. It's safer to just say nothing, in the knowledge you don't want to offend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you stand at the delicatessen stall in Asda..

Excuse me, can I have some tongue.

No you bloody well can't.

Ah, sorry..

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

I take compliments well, smile, say thank you and if there hot.... I’m lucky in a way, I get compliments from both men and women - and both are not flirty or come across as creepy. I do however take I fair deal of time and thought over appearance.

Remember tho, a lot of guys are either lacking confidence or go over all shy when looking at something of beauty.

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