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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Careful mate, some people will interprate this type of post as needy or possibly intitled.

It's the current pandemic also that will restrict you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X"

Well aside from anything else your current status likely puts many people off.

Not everyone wants to "show someone the ropes"

There's a global pandemic meaning people aren't meeting new people.

I can't pass comment on your profile as I didn't view past your status, however if it doesn't stand out then your messages to people will get lost.

Lastly people are on here for their own wants and needs. Not to be a performing seal in someone else's act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covid is clearly the last thing on your mind dude, don't see you getting much help on this one. Not even gonna wish you luck either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Message received loud and clear folks ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm where to start...

How hard is it?

It's not really, it takes time and effort but quite honestly as a couple that enjoys meeting single men I can tell you (for us) it's all about how you chose to communicate.

Pointers

- numerous cock shots are usually an automatic no, leave profile and move on. We like to meet a person and not just their appendage.

- not everyone is comfortable doing drugs, your status update would have us steering well clear

- sense of entitlement and lack of understanding about the swinging lifestyle as shown by this post would also be a nope

Good luck with your hunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X"

Your profile pics are really off putting (apart from the face one) close up dick pics are pretty grim.

The fact you need to be “shown the ropes“ is a turn off too. People want to have fun, not teach someone what to do/how to behave.

Also the whole pandemic thing......

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X"

Also, why do you have a picture of John Sutton on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X

Also, why do you have a picture of John Sutton on your profile?"

Dammit me and the OH thought the picture looked familiar

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X

Also, why do you have a picture of John Sutton on your profile?"

Perhaps he is John Sutton, and you've just outed him publicly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X

Also, why do you have a picture of John Sutton on your profile?

Perhaps he is John Sutton, and you've just outed him publicly. "

Doubt it. John Sutton is in his 30s...... just another guy using someone else’s pics unfortunately!

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By *espectconsentandfilthMan
over a year ago

Coatbridge

Mr Sutton is going to love having his private info drip fed to the fab public like this.

Careful folks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

A few things that help people be successful:

- A well written profile stating what you are looking for and what you have to offer

- decent pics (not cock shots) that aren't blurry, taken from far away or include a toilet bowl (the number of times I've seen that is staggering)

- a well worded message that shows people's profiles have been read and preferences respected

- statuses that are positive rather than negative. Moaning, pity parties, slagging others off, 'naming and shaming', references to drugs are all personal turn offs. Many people seem to forget that they are also judged on their statuses.

- not meeting during a global health crisis (kind of a big one). Happy to chat, yes. Do I want to fuck now? No, and also never with someone with so little regard for others.

Once the pandemic has passed, getting out to socials, clubs, parties etc is also useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot believe how hard it is to find a couple who will accommodate myself and show me the ropes. Also how hard is it to find a female who would like to join me whilst being with another couple. I’m genuine, very discreet and extremely willing. AppreciTe some help X"

Maybe because they are here for THEIR pleasure and not to satisfy your fantasies and desires. The site is awash with single males and as stated above why should anyone choose you? Good luck in your search OP

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Cant view the ops profile has he gone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant view the ops profile has he gone ? "

Ohhh neither you can... Ucht he’ll be back lol

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Cant view the ops profile has he gone ?

Ohhh neither you can... Ucht he’ll be back lol "

I thought it was just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Careful mate, some people will interprate this type of post as needy or possibly intitled.

It's the current pandemic also that will restrict you."

How other way is there to interpret this post?

Scream of entitlement.

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Cant view the ops profile has he gone ?

Ohhh neither you can... Ucht he’ll be back lol "

Maybe with a pic of Ronaldo next time!

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Careful mate, some people will interprate this type of post as needy or possibly intitled.

It's the current pandemic also that will restrict you.

How other way is there to interpret this post?

Scream of entitlement. "

Send again in clear.

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