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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fb and I can't stand each others opinions and views, we can't talk for any length of time without finding a way to rub each other the wrong way, our political views are at opposite ends of the spectrum and I often think she is an irrational, conspiracy-theorist nutjob. But holy shit, she's gorgeous and the things we do to each other... What's that advert that talks about "hate-liking"?

Attraction is a fickle thing.

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

So long as we use passion the right way,I guess.

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally."

Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about??

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.

if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.

Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about?? "

Not weird, but I hope it wasn't that obvious.

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.

if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think "

Yeah, I'm not sure if I'd allow the time to get to know her enough to understand what chemistry there may be.

I know my personality isn't everyone's cup of tea.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.

if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think

Yeah, I'm not sure if I'd allow the time to get to know her enough to understand what chemistry there may be.

I know my personality isn't everyone's cup of tea.

"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.

Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about?? "
Hope its not me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.

if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think "

This is very true. It's also disappointing when the "personality" that comes across on the forum or chat is not a true reflection of life. Sometimes the reality is no match for the legend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is mysterious and should never be fully explainable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction is mysterious and should never be fully explainable "

You've gone seriously metaphysical on us this week..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally."

I think it is good she has an opinion on things. I am guessing they do not match yours but surely this makes things more interesting. Afterall, opposites attract.

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.

I think it is good she has an opinion on things. I am guessing they do not match yours but surely this makes things more interesting. Afterall, opposites attract."

Yes, I've no problem with opinions. I do enjoy a good discussion at times. If no-one had opinions then I think it would be quite dull.

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.

Is it weird if I think I know who you're talking about?? Hope its not me lol "

I wouldn't normally confirm or deny publicly, but for you...

It is definitely not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction is mysterious and should never be fully explainable

You've gone seriously metaphysical on us this week.."

*fixes Outlandish with a knowing and metaphysical gaze (or maybe it’s wind )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally I'm as much attracted by a personality and a lady's mind just as much physically.

However there is a lady on here who, personality wise, just does not do it for me (my superficial opinion is that she a bit of a selfish, over-opinionated pain) and I'm the opposite of attracted to her, but she is stunning and for some reason these two added together makes me want her more, in a very passionate, animalistic way.

I have had very little interaction with her (mainly reading her posts on forums), so my opinions are very close to being baseless and I mean no offence to the lady in question.

Just thought it was weird how this happens occasionally.

I think it is good she has an opinion on things. I am guessing they do not match yours but surely this makes things more interesting. Afterall, opposites attract."

Sometimes what folk think they dislike is projection of what lies within, so sometimes they are more alike than they think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.

if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think "

Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?

Just curious ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?

Just curious ??????

"

"No Strings" does not mean "No Standards".

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?

Just curious ??????

"No Strings" does not mean "No Standards"."

Agree with that. I always need to have some kind of chemistry otherwise it's just crap sex and I've got toys that could give me the same enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?

Just curious ??????

"No Strings" does not mean "No Standards"."

True

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Its a shame when you are physically attracted but the personality lets it down.

if there is no real chemistry best not to take things further I think

Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?

Just curious ??????

"
It might not matter to many people but for me an initial attraction and chemistry that leaves me thinking yes I want you and feeling the same from the person you are with makes me feel good .

just because there is chemistry there doesn't mean you can't have Nsa with that person too !

Chemistry does matter to me as I think it does with most people on here when meeting in a 121 situation

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


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It might not matter to many people but for me an initial attraction and chemistry that leaves me thinking yes I want you and feeling the same from the person you are with makes me feel good .

just because there is chemistry there doesn't mean you can't have Nsa with that person too !

Chemistry does matter to me as I think it does with most people on here when meeting in a 121 situation "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of folk on the forum/site I find attractive but have totally opposite views with but also love some views/post from folk i wouldnt ride into battle with lol

Luckily I mostly go with instant attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s weird.

Different ppl find different attributes and traits attractive.

Each to their own as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s weird at all, physical attraction has always outweighed emotional and intellectual attraction for forever, we are first drawn with our eyes to a person, interacting online and with people you haven’t physically been in the presence of is pretty much a new concept amongst the world, I often find men attractive till they open their mouths and even then I still get the odd fanny flutter but for me my brain ends up over thinking things and I usually end up with the guys who’s personalities do it for me. Very rarely do I ever come across men who seem too good to be true physical attraction and personality

Those guys are the ones I seem to keep going back to 13 years later and I’ve still got two guy in particular who are still in my life as a friend when I’m in a relationships but when I’m single and just need a right good seeing to they’re always ready and willing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always found intelligence and respect very attractive... random thought of the day

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire


"Attraction is mysterious and should never be fully explainable "

Agree with this completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've evolved beyond 'hate fucks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently its "No Strings Attached" why would chemistry matter ?

Just curious ??????

"No Strings" does not mean "No Standards"."

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By *rassyknollMan
over a year ago

Limekilnburm

One of the more interesting threads on here, following the chat with interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction is mysterious and should never be fully explainable

Agree with this completely "

Yup

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By *eady Eddie40Man
over a year ago

irvine

Your post comes across as a wee bit creepy and you have an obsession about someone you have never met. Passionate and animalistic? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a guy lots of times over the past year. , I think he handsome and a brilliant kisser aswell as great in bed but that just rubs us both up the wrong way. We’re different in lots of ways , have very different views on everything , but my god the sex is good. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a guy lots of times over the past year. , I think he handsome and a brilliant kisser aswell as great in bed but that just rubs us both up the wrong way. We’re different in lots of ways , have very different views on everything , but my god the sex is good. X"

I’ve found this too, sex wise was great but just had different interests and didn’t really click too well personally, but physically Maybe was an age thing

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