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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for the ladies, most of whom are inundated with messages from all of us... (let’s say charming!)... gentleman.

Do you have any tips on how to catch your attention to open our messages?

There have been some times where I’ve messaged someone who, from their profile, seems like a potential good match, but it seems my message is never opened, which I totally understand because of how many messages women get on here.

So, is it possible to grab your attention from the subject heading so much so that you can’t help but open our messages!

Lol thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often women look at a profile before they even read a message.

So perhaps that's where you need to make some changes.

Your age probably goes against you a bit too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and given you can't travel or accommodate then many will just pass you by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck should do it

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Fancy a fuck should do it "

Needs to include a dick pic, preferably stood over a toilet bowl with skivvys at ankles

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

wick


"Fancy a fuck should do it

Needs to include a dick pic, preferably stood over a toilet bowl with skivvys at ankles "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lmao. Was just about to try that on you but the age filter cockblocked me!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"A question for the ladies, most of whom are inundated with messages from all of us... (let’s say charming!)... gentleman.

Do you have any tips on how to catch your attention to open our messages?

There have been some times where I’ve messaged someone who, from their profile, seems like a potential good match, but it seems my message is never opened, which I totally understand because of how many messages women get on here.

So, is it possible to grab your attention from the subject heading so much so that you can’t help but open our messages!

Lol thanks"

Are you 21 or 24?. What does a straight man get up to with the tvs he is hoping to meet?. Your profile is confusing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was looking more so for advice on getting a message read rather than profile advice as the people I had messaged didn’t open my message or view my profile at all, but thanks anyway!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"A question for the ladies, most of whom are inundated with messages from all of us... (let’s say charming!)... gentleman.

Do you have any tips on how to catch your attention to open our messages?

There have been some times where I’ve messaged someone who, from their profile, seems like a potential good match, but it seems my message is never opened, which I totally understand because of how many messages women get on here.

So, is it possible to grab your attention from the subject heading so much so that you can’t help but open our messages!

Lol thanks"
Your profile is very confusing !

24 yet joined 2 months ago profile states 21 .

you can't accomodate or travel but you expect your meet to accomodate why when you cant travel?

or they need to be able to drive why when you cant accomodate ?

you need to sort these issues out on your profile but it seems to me you want meets running around after you but not willing to put in the effort yourself!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I was looking more so for advice on getting a message read rather than profile advice as the people I had messaged didn’t open my message or view my profile at all, but thanks anyway! "

But as stated they prob read profile first then decide not to read message due to it being confusing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m specifically asking about people who haven’t read my messages or viewed my profile

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I’m specifically asking about people who haven’t read my messages or viewed my profile "

Lots of people hide themselves from your viewed list so you wont know if they have looked at your profile. I've looked but I wont show. Agree tho your profile is confusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I see. That may definitely account for some folk. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao. Was just about to try that on you but the age filter cockblocked me! "
my son is close to your age range so wouldn't meet anyone that young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile isn't perfect but if you messaged me I wouldn't respond because your profile doesn't actually say anything about you us one part says you will travel but the bottom part says you won't. Bit confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m specifically asking about people who haven’t read my messages or viewed my profile "
if I get a message I always look at the profile so if your profile is confusing I wouldn't reply x

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I find that if I stoop down on a crowded street in the rain with my umbrella raised it’s the best chance I get .

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