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First Social Nerves !!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ive had a lot of intrest for fridays social with a lot of social newbies attending .

Ive tried to put many of the nervous ones at ease and thought id add a wee post here for the regulars attending socials to maybe give a few words of encouragement to them .

Il go first and say i know the nerves will be there but once you attened your first social im sure you will be dying to know when the next one is just relax and enjoy meeting lots of lovely like minded people

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By *rgiesformeMan
over a year ago

North Glasgow

Jacs

am really really really nervous, can I snuggle into yir big brests if am scared ?????????

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Jacs

am really really really nervous, can I snuggle into yir big brests if am scared ????????? "

Throw in a chardonny and yeah you can jamie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my 3rd social......great fun and loads of laughs.I'm a pretty shy guy.....no need to be nervous......you'll be well looked after!!!!!!......honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I remember my first social as if it was yesterday! I was a nervous wreck but I met some lovely ppl who were in the same boat and some even more nervous that me (u know who u r!). Just bite the bullet and go for it, u won't look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

new people are a great thing as it means its not the same people talking to the same old people....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come say hi it is my first social looking forward to it

Jacs has been a great help

Hope a few more pop by to say hi

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Come say hi it is my first social looking forward to it

Jacs has been a great help

Hope a few more pop by to say hi "

youl be fine hun me and the motley crew will look after you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats why i dont go socials so nervous and scared would b sitting alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

It is my first and looking forward to it now was very nervous

U would be fine

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"thats why i dont go socials so nervous and scared would b sitting alone"

kelly ive told you a million times that will never happen ask anyone whos ever been to any of my socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I remember my first social as if it was yesterday! I was a nervous wreck but I met some lovely ppl who were in the same boat and some even more nervous that me (u know who u r!). Just bite the bullet and go for it, u won't look back. "

We wer really nervous at our first social but wer made to very welcome by jacs and all the others who wer there ended up having a great nite and making a few good friends,only advice we can give is be urself and try and mix and chat to as many pps as u can so lets party whoohoo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

Looking forward although a few nerves

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By *sk_morrisseyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Jacs' socials are legendary! Very welcoming atmosphere...nothing to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were abit nervous at our 1st social not really knowing anyone but for the people thats going to jac's social she is very sweet and puts you at ease and honestly we are loving social's now cant wait for them you have a right good laugh and giggle just sorry we wont make friday night's but to everyone going enjoy the night and hopefully next one we can make it

xxxx

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I went to my first one a few months ago, a single guy, didn't know anyone but people were very friendly. I found the other newbs chatted away to me. Jacs introduces newbs to everyone to make you comfy.

No-one need be left lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually happier be nice to see new people and get to know them

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By *l coupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've been to a few of Jacs' socials now and love them!. Always a laugh and a giggle. Have no worries about being left on your own, Jacs won't let that happen to ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get stuck in nothing to worry about lol xx

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

i have been to jacs socials a few time there great i meet her at the virgin one about over a year ago i was shy but just get into the swing off things thanks again jacs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"new people are a great thing as it means its not the same people talking to the same old people....

"
. Oi....less of the old...!!!!!!

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

yes iam geting old now now a virgin lol

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"thats why i dont go socials so nervous and scared would b sitting alone

kelly ive told you a million times that will never happen ask anyone whos ever been to any of my socials "

What! you run socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be nothing to worry about,miss d carries about a defibrillator at the socials,although that is mainly used to get regular social attendees to buy a round at the bar.The old short sharp shock treatment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this will be my first official social so yes I'm nervous but having met jacs and few of the others I'm sure it'll be fine that's once I overcome the nerves to unlock the bathroom door lol ...

Looking forward to seeing some new faces and catching up with the ones that I do know ... Xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

the socials are a great piece of fun ............yup theres a but the fems are always grabbing your ass n being downright filthy a bit of decorum ladys.............unless its me wayyyyyyy hayyyyyy pmsl

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

hey kola ive never grabbed yer bum and nae cheeky remarks about bein tipsy u want yer bum grabbed im sure some of us would willingly oblige

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

to all those who it is their first social dont worry everyone will make u most welcome and talk to u jacs is a great wee organiser

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


" ive never grabbed yer bum "
that so unlike you _eather lol. Guess yer hands were otherwise engaged (silver ducks behind jacs to avoid the right hook pmsl)

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By *pl 4 funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We were really nervous before our first social but it really didnt take long to settle in at all. 2nd social there was no nerves at all as we knew a few people from the first one. Just go enjoy urself and try and mix in with others is best advice we can give. Get to meet some fun people at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really looking forward to it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

keeping it real....

it depends a lot on the host/s and the regulars attending and I would say 'most are fantastic and put themselves out there and welcome newbies'

it is also down to the newbies being receptive to friendly approaches, not everyone will want to get into your pants and most will just be saying 'hello'.

Have a great time, you will most certainly get back what you put in, it is a fantastic way to meet people.

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