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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv always wondered if it gets them more interest.(good question)

It's not something I'd think of doing tho.

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Our first thought is always to wonder if everyone in pics has consented for them to be on profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our first thought is always to wonder if everyone in pics has consented for them to be on profiles. "
that's mine too. Makes me feel a bit uneasy.

I don't give it a second thought on a couples profile though which might be a bit of a double standard.

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Our first thought is always to wonder if everyone in pics has consented for them to be on profiles. that's mine too. Makes me feel a bit uneasy.

I don't give it a second thought on a couples profile though which might be a bit of a double standard. "

Suppose there is an initial assumption that the two folk in the couple are those in the pics. More than two folk in the pics though ...

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By *cotfree4Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There was me thinking that a man shows discretion.

Suppose every day's a schoolday...

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

It puts me off tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts us off, first question is about permission and then it's about taste (but we're not a fan of super graphic pics anyway)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the female profiles with guys hanging out of them tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me off as does a million cock pics but each to their own. Women also post similar pictures. Does that put men off? Doubt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men quite like the look of a woman with a penis in her mouth

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What about the female profiles with guys hanging out of them tho? "

Still a question of consent. As long as the guy is happy for the women to post his pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about the female profiles with guys hanging out of them tho? "

Yup I wondered if these women add those pictures and it makes them more successful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men quite like the look of a woman with a penis in her mouth "

I think that's where men and women differ.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Some men quite like the look of a woman with a penis in her mouth

I think that's where men and women differ. "

We differ greatly. That’s where the fun comes from is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest? "

Does it really matter? We all have our own profiles and choose what we display, just because it doesn't maybe suit your taste doesn't mean snide comments like 'make them feel like a stud' are necessary.

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By *arabellaTV/TS
over a year ago

witham

well put! xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest? "
Ive never given it much thought as to why people post certain pics on their profile because its their profile not mine .

Some like that kind of pic & some don't

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Every picture needs to stand and fall on its own merit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not a huge fan of nudes in general, don't mind some sexy photos but it kind of ruins it for us. To each their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our first thought is always to wonder if everyone in pics has consented for them to be on profiles. "

My first thoughts also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest? "

Does your pics or vids make you feel more like a sex goddess when you post them, ? And what kind of term of endearment were you aiming for when you say guys are hanging out of women. ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest?

Does your pics or vids make you feel more like a sex goddess when you post them, ? And what kind of term of endearment were you aiming for when you say guys are hanging out of women. ?? "

Absolutely lol.

I look way better with the filters and angles in my photos than I do in reality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest?

Does it really matter? We all have our own profiles and choose what we display, just because it doesn't maybe suit your taste doesn't mean snide comments like 'make them feel like a stud' are necessary. "

It's just my first thought, hence the question. In general most single guys fail to see that lots of single women find those photos that feature more of the other woman than the guy a bit off putting.

It is of course up to everyone what they post and all power to them.

I am just genuinely interested in why those are chosen over pics of the person themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest?

Does your pics or vids make you feel more like a sex goddess when you post them, ? And what kind of term of endearment were you aiming for when you say guys are hanging out of women. ??

Absolutely lol.

I look way better with the filters and angles in my photos than I do in reality "

So you've answered your original question.

I'm sure with your pics they will generate lots of interest too so that's your second part answered also lol.

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By *reywolf_18Man
over a year ago

ayr


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest?

Does it really matter? We all have our own profiles and choose what we display, just because it doesn't maybe suit your taste doesn't mean snide comments like 'make them feel like a stud' are necessary.

It's just my first thought, hence the question. In general most single guys fail to see that lots of single women find those photos that feature more of the other woman than the guy a bit off putting.

It is of course up to everyone what they post and all power to them.

I am just genuinely interested in why those are chosen over pics of the person themselves "

I agree, I'm on here on my Own,not as part of a couple. If you were to look at my pics, what you see is what you get. So seeing me with someone else would be off-putting as that's not what you would be getting if you decided to meet with me. Also I would not want to post pictures that brag like that - not that I have *anything* to brag about in that regard, but I can see how it would look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest?

Does it really matter? We all have our own profiles and choose what we display, just because it doesn't maybe suit your taste doesn't mean snide comments like 'make them feel like a stud' are necessary.

It's just my first thought, hence the question. In general most single guys fail to see that lots of single women find those photos that feature more of the other woman than the guy a bit off putting.

It is of course up to everyone what they post and all power to them.

I am just genuinely interested in why those are chosen over pics of the person themselves "

And its maybe those single women that the guy isn't looking to meet. Some single guys are more interested in meeting couples or groups than single woman. Hotwife couples are just one example that have commented on that style of pic I have on my profile as it portraits a scenario they can relate to, so to answer your question from my experience yes it has been a positive on my profile.

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Hate seeing this kind of pics tbh, makes me feel seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s an instant turn-off for me and I think it’s pretty tacky.

But then again each to their own and at least I know to give them a wide berth

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Definitely no from me. And don't believe the other person on display will have consented.

Some pics seem to not have the actual profile holder on it at all. Not sure how they get away with it.

Or the bareback ones on a single's profile "yeah that was my ex". Yeah sure it was. And is she aware you put her up for display for the whole world to see?

I stay well away from profiles like this x

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I'm not keen on action shots personally, but if nothing else they show who likes to bareback, which helps me know to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as the pics are within the rules,I don't really care what anyone thinks and that'll never change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more concerned about the amount of women who use a "make up app" for those false looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest? "

I would find a bit weird and uncomfortable doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find those kind of pictures amusing because they just scream “Look at me. I’ve had sex with a woman. Like, penetration and everything.”

It is a good filter on profiles to avoid, so there’s that.

I often do wonder about the consent factor, especially when there’s distinctive features such as tattoos, decor, faces etc on display.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I'm more concerned about the amount of women who use a "make up app" for those false looks.

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And also people sending a 20 year old mug shot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this day and age bareback is just wrong imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make guys feel like a bit of a stud when they post pics of themselves hanging out of other women?

Do guys do it thinking it will help them get replies/meets?

Does it make women feel they are somehow proving they are more "real" than others when they do it on their profile? Does it get you more interest? "

My profile is currently hidden, but.. I would say I have one or two tasteful pictures for friends only, although have made public when the mood takes me. Normally a cheeky nawty mood. I’m real picture or not. I also always ask permission, although most ‘action’ pictures are with good friend/s I play with regularly... tasteful, depending on taste and doesn’t look like last nights kebab the pictures not my friends

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

And they say the camera never lies

Photos are about your personality, they're there to show yourself off, so to speak, so I'm not interested in showing off someone else

Bragging that I've had sex with another living, breathing, human being may not be a turn on in other people's eyes.

But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it, I'm interested in the man n don't want to see numerous pics of him with different women. Discretion and respect matter to me and those kinda pics say to me that he has neither. Just my interpretation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

The only time I took a photo was at their request, and on their mobile for their profile.

I have no problem with them posting it (in fact it's a horny reminder of the encounter).

Probably wouldn't post one on my own profile, but to each their own.

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