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By *ifeandhubby400 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Was having a chat the other day to my sister in laws and after a few wines we got talking about wife swapping and swinging in its various forms ,now both are married and no nothing about hubby and i on here ,so i just sat and listened mostly there main conclusion was a hubby cant love his wife if he lets other men fuck her ,now i WILL hold my hand up and say once upon a time i would have said this too ,but i so wanted to say its probably because he loves her that he does it in our case ,its my body not his or anyone elses and he knows im happy to share myself with him and another (hubby is bi so he shares guy too another story )I love sex so does he but with there being an age difference it can tell so every bit of help is a bonus but he gets a lot of pleasure seeing me happy ,its a mutual sex act nothing romantic he isnt in my heart or head and when we are done hubby and i are still the good team we were before we started ,I wanted to enlighten them but just let them ramble while i sat with a smirk on my face ...IF only they knew ..

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

This is a great example how how things work in relationships being open about things the only way people stay together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those couples that enjoy this together are the strongest. Its just a bit of fun at the end of the day it's what your partner does day to day that shows you how much they love you. If anything its brought us closer together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has worked for us for the 28 years we have been married. We both enjoy meeting other people alone and together and we are fully open to each other, no secrets and no deceit.

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By *ifeandhubby400 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"Yes it has worked for us for the 28 years we have been married. We both enjoy meeting other people alone and together and we are fully open to each other, no secrets and no deceit."
glad we are not alone but we find we are better meeting. together just works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No two couples or relationships are the same so I personally think it's impossible to compare a couple who swings to one who doesn't and suggest the first may have a stronger bond because of it.

We discussed involving another man at length when we first joined and both agreed that it's not for us. As hot as the idea is, in the cold light of day Mr doesn't want to see another guy ball deep in his Mrs and I feel the same. I'm not being controlled or dominated (as it has been said to me many times) I'm just a one dick kinda gal.

I couldn't and wouldn't suggest that that Mr loves me more than the full swap swinging couple love one another. There are hundreds of different factors in a relationship which determine whether it's a loving one or not.

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By *ifeandhubby400 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"No two couples or relationships are the same so I personally think it's impossible to compare a couple who swings to one who doesn't and suggest the first may have a stronger bond because of it.

We discussed involving another man at length when we first joined and both agreed that it's not for us. As hot as the idea is, in the cold light of day Mr doesn't want to see another guy ball deep in his Mrs and I feel the same. I'm not being controlled or dominated (as it has been said to me many times) I'm just a one dick kinda gal.

I couldn't and wouldn't suggest that that Mr loves me more than the full swap swinging couple love one another. There are hundreds of different factors in a relationship which determine whether it's a loving one or not."
Not doubting others are loved less than i im just saying mine does love me and i him and we get pleasure and enjoyment from it ,but agree its not for all

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

It certainly works for us. I can't imagine it would work well if one or both of the couple was the jealous type. Enjoying your partner's pleasure is all part of it.

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By *ndieCPL2016Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I think those couples that enjoy this together are the strongest. Its just a bit of fun at the end of the day it's what your partner does day to day that shows you how much they love you. If anything its brought us closer together."

This

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