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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s like finding a needle in a haystack !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! "
I would happily come visit you every weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! I would happily come visit you every weekend "

Wouldn't entertain smokers sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! I would happily come visit you every weekend

Wouldn't entertain smokers sorry "
I plan on quitting this week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! I would happily come visit you every weekend

Wouldn't entertain smokers sorry I plan on quitting this week "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain. I’m all for equality especially given its 2020. You want to try being a guy on here, repressed with so many glass ceilings to break through & that’s if you’re lucky & get a message back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain. I’m all for equality especially given its 2020. You want to try being a guy on here, repressed with so many glass ceilings to break through & that’s if you’re lucky & get a message back lol "
you're right bud , Suck's knowing your such a nice guy who can give people fun nights like there after but some how never get messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whingers aren't the best of buddies to have around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain. I’m all for equality especially given its 2020. You want to try being a guy on here, repressed with so many glass ceilings to break through & that’s if you’re lucky & get a message back lol "

Glass ceilings? Gie ma heid peace.

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By *inky KatzCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"Whingers aren't the best of buddies to have around "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult these days

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"I feel your pain. I’m all for equality especially given its 2020. You want to try being a guy on here, repressed with so many glass ceilings to break through & that’s if you’re lucky & get a message back lol

Glass ceilings? Gie ma heid peace."

You guys have become one of my favourite profiles

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ll settle for a fake one.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine "
this is me and its fun

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Hopefully, someone comes up ...sorry couldnt resist.

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By *reywolf_18Man
over a year ago

ayr


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine "

That would be my idea of FWB and is exactly what I'm looking for too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain. I’m all for equality especially given its 2020. You want to try being a guy on here, repressed with so many glass ceilings to break through & that’s if you’re lucky & get a message back lol

Glass ceilings? Gie ma heid peace."

Glass ceilings are great, you can see right up skirts. That's a joke, I would never look up anyone's skirt without having permission first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be weird... is that really difficult

However good luck OP, you look amazing and I’m sure your inbox will be full (no pun intended... well mebbe a lil bit ) x

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! "

Phew so it’s not just me. Totally agree it’s impossible

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By *ae1985Woman
over a year ago

kittenshire


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! "

Sifting the hay is infuriating!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack !

Sifting the hay is infuriating!!!"

Tits and Tats 21 is bi curious, you are bisexual. You don't smoke, she doesn't meet smokers. You are both looking for FWB/Fuck buddies, love honey does loads of fake penii.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack !

Sifting the hay is infuriating!!!

Tits and Tats 21 is bi curious, you are bisexual. You don't smoke, she doesn't meet smokers. You are both looking for FWB/Fuck buddies, love honey does loads of fake penii..... "

I’m happy to play with other women however ..... there needs to be dick involved too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding the needle, then getting pricked by it is way worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine "

Well said, I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack ! "
having the same problem

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine "

This would just be perfect. And still haven't given up yet, even though it's probably been 5 years since i started my search

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock

Waves quietly in the corner....

I also note the comments shirking single guys who are ‘whinging’ apparently.

As one myself, I write what I think are pretty decent messages, legible, and only after having read a profile to make sure it’s wanted, I also attach a face picture. Then 9 times out of 10... blanked.

Generally women don’t reply, or message first, in my experience. Times are hard on here... Just gotta put the work in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack !

Sifting the hay is infuriating!!!

Tits and Tats 21 is bi curious, you are bisexual. You don't smoke, she doesn't meet smokers. You are both looking for FWB/Fuck buddies, love honey does loads of fake penii.....

I’m happy to play with other women however ..... there needs to be dick involved too "
get another girl ill fuck you's both and ive quit smoking now hee hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 9 years I've had a few fb's decent people are easy enough to find it's just wading through the bullshit first and of course there's someone who I'd absolutely love to meet but it hasn't happened and knowing my luck probably never will

Good luck in your search op I'm sure you will find one

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine "

Mine too, don't need someone about everyday, like my peace & freedom too much.

Maybe it's issue with the guys cos they don't get the inbetween? Seems to be a few ladies saying the same thing.

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We were lucky enough to find a regular guy few years ago but he’s moved away now and it’s a nightmare to find a genuine guy who’s up for meeting few times a month. Plenty will lie through their teeth though but hopefully someone out there somewhere

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Cant find one either .who wants a fwb that stays miles away .or is married ..spoils the fun . Also had loads saying :we like the same thing ;but if u dont fancy them then thats that ..also half the people don't turn out to be who they are ment to be ...scunnered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m remaining positive. What’s for you won’t pass you as my good old mum says

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

I dont get it. Id have thought there would be atleast a few suitable candidates. As per my profile im looking for a fwb, alas im pretty sure my marital status thwarts most of my chances. Good luck in your continued search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A local FWB would be awesome!

I'm not looking for any relationship, I like my space far too much and prefer being alone.

Someone who could visit, hang out a while, fuck and leave would be ideal. Comfortable enough to get on and have good sex but doesn't mind not hanging around too much either.

A man can dream...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re just too hot, some find it intimidating x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ae1985Woman
over a year ago

kittenshire


"It’s like finding a needle in a haystack !

Sifting the hay is infuriating!!!

Tits and Tats 21 is bi curious, you are bisexual. You don't smoke, she doesn't meet smokers. You are both looking for FWB/Fuck buddies, love honey does loads of fake penii.....

I’m happy to play with other women however ..... there needs to be dick involved too "

If you are interested in chatting more come say hello, however I won't be offended if you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whingers aren't the best of buddies to have around "

Thats a bit harsh calling the OP a whinger !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good guy FWB is probably the equivalent of the female unicorn. Being unicorns yourself proves unicorns are out there you just gotta be patient in your own search.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard for everyone to find a FWB, if a single lady sends a message to a guy they will prob respond and say yes but maybe not continue after the first meet, for single guys sending messages they have to stand out somehow, for those of us that don’t have the gift of the gab it can be hard.

I have given up on messaging lady’s and couples as I don’t have the chat to stand out or the body that some people are looking for, I know they can’t respond to everyone but it would be nice to know why it’s a no, even a simple sorry your not my/our type

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By *reywolf_18Man
over a year ago

ayr


"It’s hard for everyone to find a FWB, if a single lady sends a message to a guy they will prob respond and say yes but maybe not continue after the first meet, for single guys sending messages they have to stand out somehow, for those of us that don’t have the gift of the gab it can be hard.

I have given up on messaging lady’s and couples as I don’t have the chat to stand out or the body that some people are looking for, I know they can’t respond to everyone but it would be nice to know why it’s a no, even a simple sorry your not my/our type"

I get that and I'm in the same boat, not being instantly "outstanding" so many will pass me by. Often messages get deleted while still unread.

However I also get that women must be completely inundated with messages, often getting hundreds per day. To reply to each one must take ages so I can fully understand why they dont have time, even though I'd love to know why I will never *expect* a response because I know hundreds of others are in the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending any messages to females, it's like you are doing your homework but no one to check it, we either get shot down or its a block if they don't like the face, so most of us can't win

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine "
This is so right! Surely this is what swinging is all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending any messages to females, it's like you are doing your homework but no one to check it, we either get shot down or its a block if they don't like the face, so most of us can't win "

Bit lost by this comment, are women supposed to respond to messages they don’t find engaging or faces we don’t find attractive (attractive is in the eye of the beholder btw)? Also what is “homework” ?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

So many people on this thread saying they're struggling to find, yet there's so many of us here.

Let's match

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine "

It’s mine too....minus the holidays bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a common complaint on the lounge forum too

I either meet guys that want a quick shag or they want to settle down and start planning for the future - where’s the ones in the middle that want to live separately but have fun, go out, go holidays and of course have great sex Ill take you on holiday where ye wanna go

I know that’s not everyone’s perception of fwb but that’s mine

It’s mine too....minus the holidays bit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a wee message or even as much as a wink would be nice lol, never mind a fwb/fb...

but if their's any going spare... ??????

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"So many people on this thread saying they're struggling to find, yet there's so many of us here.

Let's match "

Nail head hit on the

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many people on this thread saying they're struggling to find, yet there's so many of us here.

Let's match

Nail head hit on the "

If only it were this easy. Some factors getting in the way of a perfect match for me..... location, attraction, availability to name but a few.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"So many people on this thread saying they're struggling to find, yet there's so many of us here.

Let's match

Nail head hit on the

If only it were this easy. Some factors getting in the way of a perfect match for me..... location, attraction, availability to name but a few. "

Sometimes a little compromising helps, it needn't be a perfect match though it may end up that way

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