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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So had been speaking to a girl here and was organising a social meet. That was all fine then when the time came for the social I was blanked and now been blocked. Obviously was a waste of my time pursuing and chatting with her then. Just frustrating really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strange folk on here, need to put your big boy pants on and move on it probably wont be the last time it happens either...

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe she just changed her mind and couldn't face saying

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know but I'm not the type to hold it against people. Yeah I know the irony of this post but I wouldn't have went off at her ah who knows why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It won't be the last true but just annoying really. I'm a male on fab im used to rejection haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

She was probably a he lol

or she simply changed her mind and thought it was easier just to block than getting into the whole debate on why she didn't want to meet .

NEXT !!

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So had been speaking to a girl here and was organising a social meet. That was all fine then when the time came for the social I was blanked and now been blocked. Obviously was a waste of my time pursuing and chatting with her then. Just frustrating really "

That is annoying! Could be any number of reasons why, maybe she just wanted the flirt etc without the action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I suspect, a fair proportion of attention seeking faux-unicorns and validation-hungry 'grammers with zero intention of ever meeting, just like any "dating" outlet.

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Same with chatting on here, can be chatting for weeks and then they just don’t reply........oddly frustrating lol

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"She was probably a he lol

or she simply changed her mind and thought it was easier just to block than getting into the whole debate on why she didn't want to meet .

NEXT !! "

This.

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"So had been speaking to a girl here and was organising a social meet. That was all fine then when the time came for the social I was blanked and now been blocked. Obviously was a waste of my time pursuing and chatting with her then. Just frustrating really "

She’s another in a long line of time wasting women on here. I’ve had it countless times with women on here and a couple of couples over the years.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The block button is provided by the site to be used in anyway a user wishes, it is best to not over think it and just go and search for someone else.

Good luck in getting your next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is frustrating but not much you can do some people’s behaviour just can’t be explained I’ve been blocked for:

Declining a last minute meet by the husband as he couldn’t be bothered with “time wasters” even though they messaged me at 11pm.

Refused to entertain someone wanting bareback.

And most recently for “not bet someone’s type” even though I’d never spoken to them.

Folk are weird accept it and move on.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Probably just a guy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had been chatting to a guy for months finally agreed to meet for a coffee then nothing on the day of said coffee so went to message him then I was blocked

Hey ho shit happens.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

You'll find loads of those on here. They chicken out without having the decency to let you know, or pretend to be someone they're not, or lead you around the garden path just for their entertainment. Counter block and move on. There are genuine people on here, but they're awfully hard to find x

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso


"You'll find loads of those on here. They chicken out without having the decency to let you know, or pretend to be someone they're not, or lead you around the garden path just for their entertainment. Counter block and move on. There are genuine people on here, but they're awfully hard to find x"

I trust you wouldn't block me ??

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"You'll find loads of those on here. They chicken out without having the decency to let you know, or pretend to be someone they're not, or lead you around the garden path just for their entertainment. Counter block and move on. There are genuine people on here, but they're awfully hard to find x

I trust you wouldn't block me ??"

Never!!!!

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso


"You'll find loads of those on here. They chicken out without having the decency to let you know, or pretend to be someone they're not, or lead you around the garden path just for their entertainment. Counter block and move on. There are genuine people on here, but they're awfully hard to find x

I trust you wouldn't block me ??

Never!!!! "

I should hope not too ??

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

The reason I dislike these posts are the fact we only ever hear one side of a story. Perhaps you bombarded her with messages, perhaps you said something she didn’t like, perhaps you were moving too fast for her, perhaps you were not moving fast enough .... who knows the truth only the two of you and nobody else really cares if I’m being honest. Move on and don’t give it a second thought.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"The reason I dislike these posts are the fact we only ever hear one side of a story. Perhaps you bombarded her with messages, perhaps you said something she didn’t like, perhaps you were moving too fast for her, perhaps you were not moving fast enough .... who knows the truth only the two of you and nobody else really cares if I’m being honest. Move on and don’t give it a second thought. "

Fact is, the majority of people on here are just time wasters with no intention to meet. It's frustrating and people are allowed to voice their feelings and opinions on an open forum, if I'm not mistaken. He's not pointing fingers or bad mouthing anyone. If it's the first time this happens, it might not make sense. Put it on a forum and he might find it's quite common.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"The reason I dislike these posts are the fact we only ever hear one side of a story. Perhaps you bombarded her with messages, perhaps you said something she didn’t like, perhaps you were moving too fast for her, perhaps you were not moving fast enough .... who knows the truth only the two of you and nobody else really cares if I’m being honest. Move on and don’t give it a second thought.

Fact is, the majority of people on here are just time wasters with no intention to meet. It's frustrating and people are allowed to voice their feelings and opinions on an open forum, if I'm not mistaken. He's not pointing fingers or bad mouthing anyone. If it's the first time this happens, it might not make sense. Put it on a forum and he might find it's quite common. "

Yip people are allowed to voice an opinion which is what I did! At no point did I say he was bad mouthing anyone or pointing fingers did I? Also I disagree the vast majority are time wasters, I’ve been here 13 years and never had one !

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"The reason I dislike these posts are the fact we only ever hear one side of a story. Perhaps you bombarded her with messages, perhaps you said something she didn’t like, perhaps you were moving too fast for her, perhaps you were not moving fast enough .... who knows the truth only the two of you and nobody else really cares if I’m being honest. Move on and don’t give it a second thought.

Fact is, the majority of people on here are just time wasters with no intention to meet. It's frustrating and people are allowed to voice their feelings and opinions on an open forum, if I'm not mistaken. He's not pointing fingers or bad mouthing anyone. If it's the first time this happens, it might not make sense. Put it on a forum and he might find it's quite common.

Yip people are allowed to voice an opinion which is what I did! At no point did I say he was bad mouthing anyone or pointing fingers did I? Also I disagree the vast majority are time wasters, I’ve been here 13 years and never had one ! "

Didn't say that's what you said. But they're the posts where it concerns one side of the story. Not this one !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id ask the guy why he asked to meet then ghosted me...but he blocked me

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It happens, unfortunately.

You think that’s bad, try being blocked by someone you’ve met loads of times, never had a crossed word with, they left the site, returned, sent you a friend request and then blocked you after you messaged

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso


"It happens, unfortunately.

You think that’s bad, try being blocked by someone you’ve met loads of times, never had a crossed word with, they left the site, returned, sent you a friend request and then blocked you after you messaged

"

That just sounds crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So had been speaking to a girl here and was organising a social meet. That was all fine then when the time came for the social I was blanked and now been blocked. Obviously was a waste of my time pursuing and chatting with her then. Just frustrating really "

Can I ask how long you were pursuing her, how long had you been messaging, had you spoke on the phone to each other. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens, unfortunately.

You think that’s bad, try being blocked by someone you’ve met loads of times, never had a crossed word with, they left the site, returned, sent you a friend request and then blocked you after you messaged

"

Probably the duct tape you took on the last meet spooked her.

You know the saying , keep your friends close and your enemies closer, that's why you got the friend request.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"She was probably a he lol

or she simply changed her mind and thought it was easier just to block than getting into the whole debate on why she didn't want to meet .

NEXT !!

This."

I also second this

Although, i have noticed some just being attention whores. They have no intention of meeting but luv the chase and flattery.

Happens in real life too. Frustrating yes, but you don't need people like that.

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"It happens, unfortunately.

You think that’s bad, try being blocked by someone you’ve met loads of times, never had a crossed word with, they left the site, returned, sent you a friend request and then blocked you after you messaged

That just sounds crazy! "

I’m sure she had her reasons but it was utterly confusing to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been messaging for a good month or 2 and had swapped face pics but no dick pics or that. Hadn't spoken on the phone but she was verified by physical and cam meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been messaging for a good month or 2 and had swapped face pics but no dick pics or that. Hadn't spoken on the phone but she was verified by physical and cam meets "

My advice is don't invest so much time into a meet. Just now is slightly different through covid but generally I will message for no more than a week or so then there has to be phone calls now and again, still mostly messages after the week but must be at least 1 telelphone call now and then to build a spark.

You will find most time wasters never give out their number plus you can guage by talking if a future meet will be good or bad I've . If there's no vibe after chatting then no need to invest any more time into messaging . So you won't need threads like this.

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By *immm4uMan
over a year ago

falkirk

There are a lot of fantasists on here

i look to see woman or couples who have been signed up for over a year but have no Verifications .

That gives you a clue as i think more genuine members would have verifications even if not open to read .

I got blocked when i was given an hour to meet up . I explained i was still at work but it was just an excuse on her part .

You get used to it on here

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