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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do winks actually work?

What’s your thoughts on receiving a wink or given a wink?

When I get one I always say thank you and if I like the look and sound of their profile I give one back too.

Has a wink ever led to a meet?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

[Removed by poster at 04/09/20 09:37:42]

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Do winks actually work?

What’s your thoughts on receiving a wink or given a wink?

When I get one I always say thank you and if I like the look and sound of their profile I give one back too.

Has a wink ever led to a meet? "
If I get a wink il check out the profile if I like what I see il wink back if I don't I won't

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I never wink but have messaged people who have winke at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has a wink ever led to a meet? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i rarely notice them, but im a big winker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been winked and a social is promising but not at the time being with things on the rise again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also another time but it didn't go anywhere

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think a Wink is anice wee icebreaker and way of saying "nice profile" and I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone winks us and we like their profile we will wink back and wait on their message if they choose to send one. We have had a few winks that has lead to a meet

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

We appreciate a wink and we then check out there profile and if we like we will gladly send a wink and a wee message to them.

A wink has lead to a meeting with us on a few occasions x

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By *erryandjuneCouple
over a year ago

Livingston

We think its a nice wee Icebreaker. If the other party want to respond then that is fine. Usually if they wink back that is a sign that a conversation can be started. Doesnt always work like that.

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

I'm with Octoboy, a wink to me is more of an acknowledgement, a "nice one". If I wanted to say hello, I would message.

Probably because of my attitude, a wink has never led to anything for me, and I never intended it to.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I will admit that I don't really look at the winks other than to click on the box so it doesn't show the number.

Possibly laziness on my point and don't mean it to be rude as I do try to reply to all messages at least

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I have met from an initial wink. X

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

I’d love a wink but never get any

Gave a few out but never really had a response so I guess the feeling isn’t mutual

I do agree with it being a good ice breaker though

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock

I respond to them, think they’re quite a decent thing if someone is a little shy. Mind you I get one every 7 months or something so it’s easier for me to reply haha.

Good little ice breaker if you ask me.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I’d love a wink but never get any

Gave a few out but never really had a response so I guess the feeling isn’t mutual

I do agree with it being a good ice breaker though"

Awww there you go then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve sent a few winks and it’s lead to a social

, we’ve also received winks and sent wink back and nothing back !!!!

Think it just depends on the reason to wink !!!! I always feel if someone winks and we wink back then the other profile should send the first message but that’s just how we think it should be!!! Maybe it’s wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of someone I'll send a wink to test the waters.

If I receive a wink I'll have a look and if its someone that interests me, I'll send a wee message x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I rarely send wink. Didn't think anyone pays attention... But this thread makes me reconsider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at them.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

winking you all.

Ss

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i rarely notice them, but im a big winker "

Do you wink all night long??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never look at them. "

I noticed!

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh


"I’d love a wink but never get any

Gave a few out but never really had a response so I guess the feeling isn’t mutual

I do agree with it being a good ice breaker though

Awww there you go then "

Why thank you kind lady

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh


"I never look at them. "

Maybe you should

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Sometimes you can't beat a good wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send them... occasionally have a nosey. Am more likely to reply to a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind a wink and have met following one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually forget about the winks alot. Though occasionally when I do look I have messaged someone off the back of a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i rarely notice them, but im a big winker

Do you wink all night long?? "
its been known

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't your eye muscles get tired though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate sending first messages (as I’m so awkward) and have only ever done it a very few times, usually I send a wink to catch somebody’s attention hoping they’d make the first move by sending a message lol x

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I hate sending first messages (as I’m so awkward) and have only ever done it a very few times, usually I send a wink to catch somebody’s attention hoping they’d make the first move by sending a message lol x"

Pretty sure you probably get plenty of first messages Jess ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mind receiving a wee wink

But when you then wink back or message and get nothing back it seems a waste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate sending first messages (as I’m so awkward) and have only ever done it a very few times, usually I send a wink to catch somebody’s attention hoping they’d make the first move by sending a message lol x

Pretty sure you probably get plenty of first messages Jess ?? "

Yes loads, but it’s hard to keep up with them (hense why the profile is hidden) so now if i think I’d be intrested il send a wink and see if it comes to anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send winks all the time don't see it as lazy at all but very rarely does anyone show interest though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about mutual attraction.

I wink if I like what I see/read. They will hopefully wink back if it’s reciprocated.

And similarly if I get a wink then I’ll wink back if I find them interesting enough to start chatting.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Very rarely look at winks and never send them. If I'm interested in a profile I will message.

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By *uggy55TV/TS
over a year ago

Fife

Same as the majority above. Dont mind receiving a wink and will check out the persons profile. If I like what I see, I will send a wink back.

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh


"i rarely notice them, but im a big winker

Do you wink all night long?? its been known "

Tried to send a wink but I couldn’t, so here we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes look at them but would never message anyone who has sent one.

I do tend to reply to decent messages though.

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