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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone been stood up by someone to find out they met someone else on the same nite? lol im so angry and does nothing for your confidence hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their loss hunni.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone been stood up by someone to find out they met someone else on the same nite? lol im so angry and does nothing for your confidence hehe "

I know someone that happed to aswell,she was livid and let him know!

Babe he obviously wasn't worth wasting your time on and has shown what a rat he is. Forget and move on to better!!! XX

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

That is just so bad - and then some. No one deserves that. Keep smiling - there are genuine fab guys. Big hugs xxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Has anyone been stood up by someone to find out they met someone else on the same nite? lol im so angry and does nothing for your confidence hehe "

Did they stand you up or blow you out over the other person ?

I had a guy who a couple of years ago arrange to meet me when i text him the day before to make final arrangements i got no answer and i then found out he'd met someone else the day he was ment to be arranging to meet me ... yes its a little annoying but hey they will never get another chance to meet me thats for sure . NEXT LOL

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By *tudmuffin5640Man
over a year ago

central scotland

just say when and where jacs xxxx lol

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"just say when and where jacs xxxx lol "
i'll second that.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

yes and theres guys who drop off the radar for a while then message u expecting a meet that day .When u say u cant u get all kinds of shit and abuse sent to you .Hey grow up guys we all have a life out side fab.Yes and before u giys reply i know there are women like that as well

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By *reacherUKMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Heather,

You're always there for everyone because you're lovely.

I'm just happy to have friends on here, social or otherwise. It doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she prob let him know he was getting a definate fcuk :0 it happens folk keeping their options open and going with the easier lays....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or I suppose other way to look at it...maybe it was the other one he/she/they had arranged to meet first, but keeping their options open incase they were dumped...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she prob let him know he was getting a definate fcuk :0 it happens folk keeping their options open and going with the easier lays.... "
heres me thinking this was a sex site?

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

deary me is it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

shit happens i suppose,just dont think its nice,especially when they dont even have the manners or the balls to reply,i just know i wouldnt do that to anyone,no matter what

You live and learn,thanks for your inputs xx

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

yes u do tooth just go onwards and upwards[ooooooooooooops didny mean that literally]

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"yes u do tooth just go onwards and upwards[ooooooooooooops didny mean that literally] "
_eather - i had you as a going down kinda gal. But if ya want to in up and down i don't mind.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"she prob let him know he was getting a definate fcuk :0 it happens folk keeping their options open and going with the easier lays.... heres me thinking this was a sex site? "

funny I thought that too! ... Always two sides to every story, personally if someone did that too me I would just block and move on no point dwelling on what did/didnt happen x

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By *ama bamaMan
over a year ago

dalkeith

oh wow you look so sensational and very passionate ...who would dump you mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't say it wasn't a sex site. But not everyone fcuks on a first meet or even those who do are discreet and dont go on a meet with assumptions. But I'm not saying that was they're reason anyway. Just adding to the discussion if thats allowed. Who knows why but the person themselves. No psychic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree the key word ,,,discreet. xx

not alot of it about these days on here unfortunatly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, and he told me a pack of lies too, but the other person was in chat speaking about their meet 2 hours after he was supposed to be arriving at ours. no second chance for that one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she prob let him know he was getting a definate fcuk :0 it happens folk keeping their options open and going with the easier lays.... heres me thinking this was a sex site?

funny I thought that too! ... Always two sides to every story, personally if someone did that too me I would just block and move on no point dwelling on what did/didnt happen x"

On yursel Trace lol

AGREED

Buboo x

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By *ex n MusicCouple
over a year ago

Perth


"Has anyone been stood up by someone to find out they met someone else on the same nite? lol im so angry and does nothing for your confidence hehe "

Babe ignorant to the max....We would rather be up front and invite everyone to the same meet

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Has happened to me a few times. Not sure why people ask to meet then don't turn up or let you know that they can't make it.

It's only good manners as I've ended up spending my rest days waiting for someone to meet up and a no show

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Has anyone been stood up by someone to find out they met someone else on the same nite? lol im so angry and does nothing for your confidence hehe "

the guy being a knob end,shouldn't be effecting your confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand u up with a bum like that ... They must be mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they must be mental to stand you up

some posters on here are like that ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toothfairy-it's their loss xx

Just smile and move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite some banter I might use on here from to time, I am very loyal to all the woman who come to mines for parties. If I find out any guys mess female friends around, I don't allow them back, and I tell them why.

No point being nice to me, only to mess other women around behind my back.

Guys might do the same thing to you with other women, but in the long run, with me, they are missing out.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Are they mad? Most definately their loss. Block, smile and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is nasty and hurtful. We have yet to suffer it but we did catch a guy out a while ago who was basically arranging with us as backup. Funny thing was, the girl he was also arranging to meet was sitting in our livingroom!! Happened last Halloween. Idiot xx

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

On one of our very few free weekends we arranged to meet a couple and were chatting on the phone an hour before we set off and on the way got a call to say something had come up and they would have to cancell which left it too late to arrange anything else. They got a verification from a single woman that they met on the night we were to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats not on ;( poor folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never stand anyone up...need to get a meet first anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is nasty and hurtful. We have yet to suffer it but we did catch a guy out a while ago who was basically arranging with us as backup. Funny thing was, the girl he was also arranging to meet was sitting in our livingroom!! Happened last Halloween. Idiot xx"

LMAO!! little head ruling big head again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hheres my angle...being asked for a meet:

she/they say, maybe at the weekend..I wait for a definite.

that definite is who says YES to the 'date'(not that kinda date lol)of play.

I'm not sitting around waiting to find out if i'm 'possible' to get my meet..as a few times I've ended up sitting waiting on word of my meet getting back to me.

Is my personal time any less precious than anyone elses?..is it fuck.Some people forget this.

It isnt rude not to reply to messages...what IS rude, is to leave people hanging(when talk of the meet has started),or contacting to cancel,change ones mind(s),or rearrange.

This weekend the above has happened to me, I dont dwell on it as I have plenty other things to look forward to..but the lack of courtesy in keeping general contact regarding a meet appears to be getting higher.

Everybody is a back up to me...until they give me a definite for a meet as I'm not here to chase or center my attention to anyone in particular.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Only once, last year. Next time he contacted me to apologise, I told him he would have to make it up to me in order for me to consider arranging another meet...

As he was from Perth, he had to stand outside McDiarmid Park at 3pm on a Saturday afternoon, NAKIE, and holding a rose and send photographic proof.

Daft sod done it and I still haven't met him yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone been stood up by someone to find out they met someone else on the same nite? lol im so angry and does nothing for your confidence hehe "

Not so much stood up but I was told recently they couldn't meet at a particular time as they were busy only to find out they suddenly weren't that busy after all when someone else clicked their fingers.

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By *sk_morrisseyMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Only once, last year. Next time he contacted me to apologise, I told him he would have to make it up to me in order for me to consider arranging another meet...

As he was from Perth, he had to stand outside McDiarmid Park at 3pm on a Saturday afternoon, NAKIE, and holding a rose and send photographic proof.

Daft sod done it and I still haven't met him yet "

Did any condors land on his frozen nipples Wendy? lol x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Only once, last year. Next time he contacted me to apologise, I told him he would have to make it up to me in order for me to consider arranging another meet...

As he was from Perth, he had to stand outside McDiarmid Park at 3pm on a Saturday afternoon, NAKIE, and holding a rose and send photographic proof.

Daft sod done it and I still haven't met him yet

Did any condors land on his frozen nipples Wendy? lol x"

No Scott, but I did have frozen fish fingers to slap him with if he turned up .... I'm nice like that, I feed my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only once, last year. Next time he contacted me to apologise, I told him he would have to make it up to me in order for me to consider arranging another meet...

As he was from Perth, he had to stand outside McDiarmid Park at 3pm on a Saturday afternoon, NAKIE, and holding a rose and send photographic proof.

Daft sod done it and I still haven't met him yet "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

way i look at it their choice to go off and meet someone else ,however MY choice not to give them then any further chance to meet me . simples !

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By *sk_morrisseyMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Only once, last year. Next time he contacted me to apologise, I told him he would have to make it up to me in order for me to consider arranging another meet...

As he was from Perth, he had to stand outside McDiarmid Park at 3pm on a Saturday afternoon, NAKIE, and holding a rose and send photographic proof.

Daft sod done it and I still haven't met him yet

Did any condors land on his frozen nipples Wendy? lol x

No Scott, but I did have frozen fish fingers to slap him with if he turned up .... I'm nice like that, I feed my meets "

So loving Wendy! lol x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"way i look at it their choice to go off and meet someone else ,however MY choice not to give them then any further chance to meet me . simples ! "

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