FabSwingers.com forum: Dating

By *illers71 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have been single for 3 years now. I am on the usual date sites but can’t seem to find what I am looking for although I know what I am looking for.

I have no mental issues, drama or baggage. I would consider myself easy going and fun.

I want a girl who would like the adventurous side to continue.

Am I going wrong anywhere?

W....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for 3 years now. I am on the usual date sites but can’t seem to find what I am looking for although I know what I am looking for.

I have no mental issues, drama or baggage. I would consider myself easy going and fun.

I want a girl who would like the adventurous side to continue.

Am I going wrong anywhere?

W...."

Nope, you're far from ugly so either your patter is shite or you need to change deodorant

I was listening to a podcast earlier today about modern dating...it was quite depressing to be perfectly honest. The thought of trying to look for a new partner at 46 depresses the life out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for 3 years now. I am on the usual date sites but can’t seem to find what I am looking for although I know what I am looking for.

I have no mental issues, drama or baggage. I would consider myself easy going and fun.

I want a girl who would like the adventurous side to continue.

Am I going wrong anywhere?

W....

Nope, you're far from ugly so either your patter is shite or you need to change deodorant

I was listening to a podcast earlier today about modern dating...it was quite depressing to be perfectly honest. The thought of trying to look for a new partner at 46 depresses the life out of me."

Is that your way of telling Mr Doggy he's stuck with you. !!! My sympathy Mr D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot think of anything worse than ever going back to dating

But good luck

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By *illers71 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would say I have a really easy going personality. Maybe I am simply too fussy.

I always smell amazing so it definitely not that.

Maybe I want too much but all you couples have it ??

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I have been single for 3 years now. I am on the usual date sites but can’t seem to find what I am looking for although I know what I am looking for.

I have no mental issues, drama or baggage. I would consider myself easy going and fun.

I want a girl who would like the adventurous side to continue.

Am I going wrong anywhere?

W....

Nope, you're far from ugly so either your patter is shite or you need to change deodorant

I was listening to a podcast earlier today about modern dating...it was quite depressing to be perfectly honest. The thought of trying to look for a new partner at 46 depresses the life out of me."

It’s been about 3 years for me on the dating sites but I either meet someone who wants to get married or wants ONS but I’m looking for something in between

It does get a bit tiring though so keep deleting my profile

Thing with online dating is you don’t capture a persons personality and being quite sarcastic myself it’s maybe taken the wrong way when sent in a message

Thankfully I enjoy my life so if I don’t meet someone I’m not too bothered and there is always fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come to the conclusion that I clearly want more than the men on dating sites think I'm worth so I gave up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for 3 years now. I am on the usual date sites but can’t seem to find what I am looking for although I know what I am looking for.

I have no mental issues, drama or baggage. I would consider myself easy going and fun.

I want a girl who would like the adventurous side to continue.

Am I going wrong anywhere?

W....

Nope, you're far from ugly so either your patter is shite or you need to change deodorant

I was listening to a podcast earlier today about modern dating...it was quite depressing to be perfectly honest. The thought of trying to look for a new partner at 46 depresses the life out of me.

Is that your way of telling Mr Doggy he's stuck with you. !!! My sympathy Mr D.

He knows he's punchin'!

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By *illers71 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a while to go yet, 7 years I have been on those sites without joy. I actively dated the first couple of years but it was hard, scary and weird all at the same time. I have up

Good luck x

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By *ack-FMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Didn’t realise “Fab” was a dating site.... I thought it was a swingers site...... suggest you try E Harmony....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn’t realise “Fab” was a dating site.... I thought it was a swingers site...... suggest you try E Harmony.... "

The OP never actually said he was using Fab as a dating site just that he had used dating sites. That being said , Fab can be used in any way a person wants to use it. If you see Fab as solely a swinging site why are you in the forum section, surely you should be sticking to just swinging. See the folly in your comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for 3 years now. I am on the usual date sites but can’t seem to find what I am looking for although I know what I am looking for.

I have no mental issues, drama or baggage. I would consider myself easy going and fun.

I want a girl who would like the adventurous side to continue.

Am I going wrong anywhere?

W....

Nope, you're far from ugly so either your patter is shite or you need to change deodorant

I was listening to a podcast earlier today about modern dating...it was quite depressing to be perfectly honest. The thought of trying to look for a new partner at 46 depresses the life out of me.

Is that your way of telling Mr Doggy he's stuck with you. !!! My sympathy Mr D.

He knows he's punchin'!

Yeah punchin the floor in tears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn’t realise “Fab” was a dating site.... I thought it was a swingers site...... suggest you try E Harmony.... "

Didn't realise the forum had become an open ground for unnecessary snide comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say I have a really easy going personality. Maybe I am simply too fussy.

I always smell amazing so it definitely not that.

Maybe I want too much but all you couples have it ??"

Nothing wrong with being too fussy. I came off POF due to no one being suitable - most of the profiles were a facade for sex and not at all the long term relationship they were allegedly seeking. One chap I met for lunch and a drink got progressively d*unk as the date went on and when it was time for me to get the bus, he wrongly assumed he was coming home with me...he was still living in the marital home with his estranged wife and could only text or call on a Friday pmsl.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I can sympathise with this, I have essentially been single all my adult life bar a two year relationship.

I've come to terms with the fact that I'm just going to be a crazy spinster lady with loads of dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn’t realise “Fab” was a dating site.... I thought it was a swingers site...... suggest you try E Harmony....

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships take hard work, not so sure folk want to do that these days. Theres a lot of fors and against’s in being in a relationship or being a swingle (so to speak). The dating game these days sounds horrendous though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relationships take hard work, not so sure folk want to do that these days. Theres a lot of fors and against’s in being in a relationship or being a swingle (so to speak). The dating game these days sounds horrendous though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't used those sites in years but they still sound as bad as they were back then, easier to meet people out usually, just maybe not during times like these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for 3 years now. I am on the usual date sites but can’t seem to find what I am looking for although I know what I am looking for.

I have no mental issues, drama or baggage. I would consider myself easy going and fun.

I want a girl who would like the adventurous side to continue.

Am I going wrong anywhere?

W....

Nope, you're far from ugly so either your patter is shite or you need to change deodorant

I was listening to a podcast earlier today about modern dating...it was quite depressing to be perfectly honest. The thought of trying to look for a new partner at 46 depresses the life out of me."

It is 100% depressing... I've never been so successful work wise haha

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I've been single a long time same issue

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