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By *haz and Cat OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Can anyone tell us why people can have a good chat with you sending messages back and forth then block you after you’ve sent them a picture..?

We’re new to the site but really lol

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It’s just bad manners mostly... unless they perhaps recognised you and thought for both parties sakes communication shouldn’t continue?

It’s a shame when it happens, especially If or when you built a bit of a rapport...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually

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By *haz and Cat OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

She is verified by cam meets but has no pictures on her own profile which did set alarm bells off with us but still.

We learn from our mistakes I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you learn and get wise, no pics on a profile is a no no for me, would never send pics to someone asking if they can't even have public pics on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont fancy you but don't want to be direct and say that so dinghying is the easy option.

Or

They know you.

Try not to let it get to you. I've spoke with people at length before, then they've sent one arsey message and I've just thought "do one mate" and blocked them. I'd probably be called ignorant for that but really don't have the time or energy to waste on people who don't get me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we always ask for pics in the first message or 2. Saves all the messages back and forth if there’s no attraction.

I would assume you weren’t their type and they just blocked you. We always tell people if they aren’t our type but sometimes they take the huff and send a cheeky message back so maybe she’s had a few cheeky messages and thought this was the best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no clue the mount of folk that chat want a face pic then block you

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually "

Named and shamed because they don’t fancy you enough to f**k you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell us why people can have a good chat with you sending messages back and forth then block you after you’ve sent them a picture..?

We’re new to the site but really lol"
everyone gets rejected by someone at some point , just be glad their not being abusive to you

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually

Named and shamed because they don’t fancy you enough to f**k you!!! "

The language lol

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually

Named and shamed because they don’t fancy you enough to f**k you!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that happen to me yesterday sent a lovely message with a picture attached then blocked within seconds it kinda feels extreme but could be a valid reason why they act like that and it's not you per say and as someone said at least you never got abuse.

I always send a face picture with first message it saves wasting both our times if I'm not somebody's type.

I do always find the funny side when I read a profile and it says no pic no reply I think to myself I've sent a pic and no reply either

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By *haz and Cat OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Thanks for the replies everyone x

As we said it’s frustrating and annoying especially when it was them that started the messaging and the fact we are new to the site and still waiting to be verified for meets etc.

It won’t put us off as we did expect some teething problems being new to the site and new to the scene but we will learn the hard way x thanks again x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually "
Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break "

Not a rule break but not a nice thing to do. Why can people not just be adult enough to say they are not what they are looking for?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually

Named and shamed because they don’t fancy you enough to f**k you!!! "

No profiles that chat and chat then just block, no matter what it's rude and no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break

Not a rule break but not a nice thing to do. Why can people not just be adult enough to say they are not what they are looking for?."

Exactly this, takes 2 seconds to say no thanks. Especially if you have been messaging back and forth anyway.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break

Not a rule break but not a nice thing to do. Why can people not just be adult enough to say they are not what they are looking for?."
Bluebelle yes its polite to say sorry but not for me but as the site owners say no reply is a no.

Sometimes it's easier rather than then getting the next message which is why what's wrong with us usually

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

It may be rude, but no reply or blocked means not interested.

It happens, best to just move on, no reason to name and shame as others have suggested.

For some people the block is better than a polite no thanks ad that leads to abusive messages or people arguing why your wrong for saying no.

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By *raggle rocks itMan
over a year ago

helensburgh


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break

Not a rule break but not a nice thing to do. Why can people not just be adult enough to say they are not what they are looking for?.Bluebelle yes its polite to say sorry but not for me but as the site owners say no reply is a no.

Sometimes it's easier rather than then getting the next message which is why what's wrong with us usually "

This isn't about sending a one off message and no reply being a no,

This was an ongoing conversation the op was having and then they blocked them which is very poor indeed, a no not our type after the pic message is all it takes.

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yeah I’ve had the “sorry not for me” messages and, although it’s not the best (what’s wrong with them? I’m awesome!) it’s better than delete nothing or delete block.

Now I guess the problem is that some people don’t take it on the chin and so lash out... hence this sometimes being the easier option...

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By *rian000Man
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break

Not a rule break but not a nice thing to do. Why can people not just be adult enough to say they are not what they are looking for?."

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By *rian000Man
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s nice to be nice but this is fab.

Some ppl will reply some won’t.

Take it on the chin and move on.

Learn from your experience.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break

Not a rule break but not a nice thing to do. Why can people not just be adult enough to say they are not what they are looking for?.Bluebelle yes its polite to say sorry but not for me but as the site owners say no reply is a no.

Sometimes it's easier rather than then getting the next message which is why what's wrong with us usually

This isn't about sending a one off message and no reply being a no,

This was an ongoing conversation the op was having and then they blocked them which is very poor indeed, a no not our type after the pic message is all it takes. "
thats why its always better to get face pics out the way early on in the conversation rather than getting caught up in a lot of chat only to be disappointed when face pics are swapped lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate folk like that. They clearly didn't fancy you but why not just say instead of being rude. Profiles like that should be names and shamed actually Named & shamed for what?

They clearly weren't interested in meeting so blocked! its not a rule break

Not a rule break but not a nice thing to do. Why can people not just be adult enough to say they are not what they are looking for?.Bluebelle yes its polite to say sorry but not for me but as the site owners say no reply is a no.

Sometimes it's easier rather than then getting the next message which is why what's wrong with us usually

This isn't about sending a one off message and no reply being a no,

This was an ongoing conversation the op was having and then they blocked them which is very poor indeed, a no not our type after the pic message is all it takes. thats why its always better to get face pics out the way early on in the conversation rather than getting caught up in a lot of chat only to be disappointed when face pics are swapped lol"

Yes I do agree with that, we have all been there

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By *haz and Cat OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"It may be rude, but no reply or blocked means not interested.

It happens, best to just move on, no reason to name and shame as others have suggested.

For some people the block is better than a polite no thanks ad that leads to abusive messages or people arguing why your wrong for saying no.

"

The fact it was them that started the chat is what makes it more annoying for us x

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By *haz and Cat OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yeah I’ve had the “sorry not for me” messages and, although it’s not the best (what’s wrong with them? I’m awesome!) it’s better than delete nothing or delete block.

Now I guess the problem is that some people don’t take it on the chin and so lash out... hence this sometimes being the easier option..."

We have taken it on the chin all we have done is realised there is a forum that is there for a discussion and it can also be used for helpful advice which we are receiving.

One thing that we haven’t done and won’t do also is name and shame..but we do appreciate the discussion so thanks everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably know you or are pic collectors

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By *haz and Cat OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"They probably know you or are pic collectors"

They stayed 60 miles from our location so they probably didn’t know us for sure

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Can anyone tell us why people can have a good chat with you sending messages back and forth then block you after you’ve sent them a picture..?

We’re new to the site but really lol"

People can do so for many different reasons. Without all the information it's impossible for an outsider to give you insight as to why these people did so on this occasion. Send me the pic and I'll give my tuppence worth.

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No public pics & no avatar would mean we would avoid too. Were the verifications displayed? We look for meet verifications & also displayed verifications.

Innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No public pics & no avatar would mean we would avoid too. Were the verifications displayed? We look for meet verifications & also displayed verifications.

Innocent "

Exactly what they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would rather get a message back like not for them. But it's a sad world when folk steep so low to with block or abuse

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Stranger things have happened and will happen on here

Just take it as a time saver for yourselves, since they're probably people you wouldn't want to meet anyway.

They didn't really do anything wrong mind, but personally do think a polite no thanks would have been the decent thing to do if you were chatting for quite a while x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell us why people can have a good chat with you sending messages back and forth then block you after you’ve sent them a picture..?

We’re new to the site but really lol"

Because they can..its that simple. Many reasons fall into that criteria...Just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody gave me a wink and before i could send anything back i was blocked , puzzled

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By *ornynhappy23Man
over a year ago

renfrewshireish

I find it annoying too or if your chatting to them but can't meet them straight away they block you after you send a pic. Or the other one they want a pic and they don't have any on their profile and not just couples. At least say not thanks not for me/us

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