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Thoughts on socials?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously no one can meet just now anyway because of COVID. But when you do - how do you feel about a social first?

99% of the guys I talk to don’t want one.

I can understand it, but I’m looking for a fwb, not a one and done.

How does everyone else feel about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I e been on 2 social distance walks been lovely getting out in this weather with good company shooting shit about fab

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It doesn't matter if they want them or not. Your set your own rules ......

Innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any type of meets yet but happy to have socials too

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not had any type of meets yet but happy to have socials too"

You are meet verified!

Innocent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I e been on 2 social distance walks been lovely getting out in this weather with good company shooting shit about fab "

Oh really? That’s not a bad plan! Might be fun to be able to talk to some people about it haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter if they want them or not. Your set your own rules ......

Innocent "

Yeah I’ve been thinking that. Maybe I’m just not patient enough to wait for the right guy :/

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not had any type of meets yet but happy to have socials too"

You have 7 Meet veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had any type of meets yet but happy to have socials too

You are meet verified!

Innocent "

I meant since lockdown lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I e been on 2 social distance walks been lovely getting out in this weather with good company shooting shit about fab

Oh really? That’s not a bad plan! Might be fun to be able to talk to some people about it haha"

It's great actually had one this morning very nice guy super sexy wanted to jump on him haha but we remained apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a social for me first! Though obviously am not bothering just now with eveything going on. If a guy doesn't want to do a social then bye!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Social first or a no go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I landed lucky but when I was meeting people no one ever had any objections to a social meeting.

Rarely they ever went further than that which tells me it definitely was the best way

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Always a social first, sometimes more than one. If a guy isn't prepared to meet me for a social first, to establish whether there is a connection/attraction, then he won't be meeting me at all!

The only exception to this is in a club environment, but even in those circumstances I'd still expect some social interaction/conversation first.

Not currently meeting at all though, not even for a social, & don't plan to be for quite a while.

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I love a social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always insist on a social but just now I dont see the point as I'm not meeting until this is over

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"always insist on a social but just now I dont see the point as I'm not meeting until this is over"

You could have a long wait unfortunately. There was some professor on the TV saying that Covid will be with us forever like the common cold and flu.

I like a social as I like a good old chat.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

We’ve made a lot of good friends at socials and they’re a great way of keeping in touch with them.

Before lockdown, we’d just started doing more further afield so that we’d meet new folk as we’re (somewhat) well known at cjs! (We’re there so often)

Think less pressure at social as you get chance to chat to people and if you do want something to maybe happen later down the line, then you can arrange it on your own/their terms.

Millie x

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By *arpdiemCouple
over a year ago

dunfermline

Agree with the comment above, we like a social, we are swingers so the social side of the scene is as important to us as the play plus it gives you a chance to actually chat face to face and see if you actually get along, we'd prefer to make friends we can play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with the comment above, we like a social, we are swingers so the social side of the scene is as important to us as the play plus it gives you a chance to actually chat face to face and see if you actually get along, we'd prefer to make friends we can play with. "

Do you think people who aren't swingers don't like to chat and socialise with people before they have sex with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always insist on a social but just now I dont see the point as I'm not meeting until this is over

You could have a long wait unfortunately. There was some professor on the TV saying that Covid will be with us forever like the common cold and flu.

I like a social as I like a good old chat."
I'm in no hurry

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I enjoy a social meet first, better to know there’s a connection then than realise there isn’t when you go straight to the bedroom

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By *arpdiemCouple
over a year ago

dunfermline


"Agree with the comment above, we like a social, we are swingers so the social side of the scene is as important to us as the play plus it gives you a chance to actually chat face to face and see if you actually get along, we'd prefer to make friends we can play with.

Do you think people who aren't swingers don't like to chat and socialise with people before they have sex with them?"

Think the majority on here that aren't don't no unless it's idle chit chat before the main event but that's not a social lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with the comment above, we like a social, we are swingers so the social side of the scene is as important to us as the play plus it gives you a chance to actually chat face to face and see if you actually get along, we'd prefer to make friends we can play with.

Do you think people who aren't swingers don't like to chat and socialise with people before they have sex with them?

Think the majority on here that aren't don't no unless it's idle chit chat before the main event but that's not a social lol. "

I think you might be wrong

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

We've been offered a few socials but defo not my thing, we aren't really looking for lasting relationships though lol

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

If they make a fuss about you not wanting to drop your knickers straight away it's their problem, not yours. You do whatever you're comfortable with x

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Always have a social first, the lady not happy, tough. The only time I didn't, and didn't get a phone number either, resulted in a no show!

Having said that, most of my socials have turned into something else, I've obviously met a lot of naughty ladies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think socials are essential make sure you both click and on same level, last time was on site has a social first and was brilliant first fun meet just made each other laugh so much and laughter means fun

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

Definitely a social 1st that how I work anyway!

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there


"Agree with the comment above, we like a social, we are swingers so the social side of the scene is as important to us as the play plus it gives you a chance to actually chat face to face and see if you actually get along, we'd prefer to make friends we can play with.

Do you think people who aren't swingers don't like to chat and socialise with people before they have sex with them?"

We’ve had that happen; the men tend to talk to Ian about me (when I’m not around) and he says if it’s her you want to play with, talk to HER. But then they just hover round me and don’t say anything; if you can’t even just say ‘hi’ I’m not likely to want to go play. I know some ppl just want a straight ‘meet & fuck’ and that’s fine but it’s not how I am.

Millie

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to have a meet of any kind on here but if it was me I would go with a social meet with distance of course. That way both parties can determine if there is a connection build the trust. I think baby steps need to be taken with what's going on right now, but it's really upto yourself. I hope this helped a little

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By *arpdiemCouple
over a year ago

dunfermline


"Agree with the comment above, we like a social, we are swingers so the social side of the scene is as important to us as the play plus it gives you a chance to actually chat face to face and see if you actually get along, we'd prefer to make friends we can play with.

Do you think people who aren't swingers don't like to chat and socialise with people before they have sex with them?

We’ve had that happen; the men tend to talk to Ian about me (when I’m not around) and he says if it’s her you want to play with, talk to HER. But then they just hover round me and don’t say anything; if you can’t even just say ‘hi’ I’m not likely to want to go play. I know some ppl just want a straight ‘meet & fuck’ and that’s fine but it’s not how I am.

Millie "

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