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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alot on here complaining about some copy and paste messages and lack of effort. Looking to hook n catch with 1 message.

When the effort and though is put in to my messages, and reflective of the persons profile I have read

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Why do I still not get a reply with pictures attached as I'm not a blank face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot on here complaining about some copy and paste messages and lack of effort. Looking to hook n catch with 1 message.

When the effort and though is put in to my messages, and reflective of the persons profile I have read

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Why do I still not get a reply with pictures attached as I'm not a blank face. "

Because there are a large number of ignorant people on here. And fakes. I would assume your answer can be found in either of those explanations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they just don't fancy you?

Harsh but simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a bit more effort into your profile, gets some kind of picture as a profile picture.

And just keep at it. Be honest and genuine, and don't use phrases like hook and catch!

Although we are all here for the same thing, it's not a guarantee. You have to click with someone, so you have to try and get your personality across.

Which can be quite difficult in text.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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I don't reply if they haven't read my profile and asked boring questions only, like "how are you? / Meet today?"

I tend to also look at someone's profile if they message me and if it's boring/doesn't show any personality then I'll likely not reply or just a "no thanks" Having a blank avatar doesn't help either...you don't have to have a face pic but actually having a pic will help more than the blank space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a bit more effort into your profile, gets some kind of picture as a profile picture.

And just keep at it. Be honest and genuine, and don't use phrases like hook and catch!

Although we are all here for the same thing, it's not a guarantee. You have to click with someone, so you have to try and get your personality across.

Which can be quite difficult in text."

This and what goody said but...

Firstly I’d to read your post twice to make sense of it so are you sure your messages are as on point as you think they are?

Secondly, if I’m honest your profile says nothing about you and is one of many that would indicate a “dial-a-shag” type (for explanation of that read a few more forum posts on the same subject). In saying that the site can be used as a hook up site but most “swingers” seek NSA but with some kind of connection.

Thirdly, you’re not entitled to a reply, the site states a non response is a polite no thanks.

Lastly you’re verified, been here before and been on over a year... I’d have thought you should have learned the answer to some of that by experience. However good luck and I hope you find what you seek

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Could be because no one knows what you look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women and couples here are getting 100+ messages every day. Don't expect them to read them all. No profile picture is probably the main reason of your message landing in the bin. You can be as creative as Leonardo da Vinci and as interesting as one of characters played by Johnny Depp but without any pictures you'll be just another guy and believe me there's thousands of us here. Most people looking for someone who they are attracted to and You don't even give them a chance. No point to attach face pic as most people checking profile first to avoid watching another dick picture attached to message. I guess that's how it is. Good luck though

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Not everyone has ability to conversate here, see it as a blessing . I expect their quality of sex to correlate with conversational ability

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