FabSwingers.com forum: does play come before your kids

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i got told last night a real man would tell his son and girl friend visiting to leave so he could play i said no does tat make me half a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i got told last night a real man would tell his son and girl friend visiting to leave so he could play i said no does tat make me half a man"

being a parent comes before everything and everyone....no allowances.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i got told last night a real man would tell his son and girl friend visiting to leave so he could play i said no does tat make me half a man

being a parent comes before everything and everyone....no allowances....."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i glad others agree i said no to meeting my son is my life and his girl friend someday she will give me grand kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i glad others agree i said no to meeting my son is my life and his girl friend someday she will give me grand kids "

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

your family should always come first!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have no respect for any parent who put a fuck before their own child.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"I'd have no respect for any parent who put a fuck before their own child. "

also ZERO respect for the person who suggests it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also ZERO respect for the person who suggests it..."

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well i know i was right to say no iam pleased so many agree with me kids come first he dont come to see me often dont know what to say others than thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have no respect for any parent who put a fuck before their own child.

also ZERO respect for the person who suggests it..."

Just what I was going to say , my boy comes before everything , I'm a mum first , naughty deviant second that's the way the cookie crumbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i got told last night a real man would tell his son and girl friend visiting to leave so he could play i said no does tat make me half a man"

I think if I was you, I'd be giving it GTF, kids first and foremost: kids*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i got told last night a real man would tell his son and girl friend visiting to leave so he could play i said no does tat make me half a man

being a parent comes before everything and everyone....no allowances....."
agree 100%.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kids always come first

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By *__KMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Considering I got no kids (to my knowledge) I'd say yes. Play comes before kids. Without play, I won't have kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a got my boy this weekend, otherwise would be meeting masie down in ayr, he comes b4 anything or body, but dam a part of me wants to be in ayr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play never comes before kids. Fun is worked around kids and vanilla life, not the other way about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a got my boy this weekend, otherwise would be meeting masie down in ayr, he comes b4 anything or body, but dam a part of me wants to be in ayr lol

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and goin to miss stickvickys party tonite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a got my boy this weekend, otherwise would be meeting masie down in ayr, he comes b4 anything or body, but dam a part of me wants to be in ayr lol

and goin to miss stickvickys party tonite

Awww don't worry lol another time

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

My kids are my life and nothing would come before them, anyone who wants you to put swinging before your kids should be put before a firing squad.

Rant over

Missin out on stickys gb too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My kids are my life and nothing would come before them, anyone who wants you to put swinging before your kids should be put before a firing squad.

Rant over

Missin out on stickys gb too

Agrees

Awww next time

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By *hickencurryCouple
over a year ago

brisbane

Put our name down for the firing squad. Or there's always stoning.

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By *ayne n JockCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

never put play before kids , should be flogged , but that's another story

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My kids are my life, they'll come first before everything and anyone, always. Fab is a wee bonus part and I make time for it if and when I can

L xxx

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

...... shocked to hear anyone would put this over their children!!! My kids and my life outwith fab comes first ALWAYS no ifs or buts about it .... this is ment to be fun, something you can take or leave not something that takes over your life!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our kids come before anything in life, nothing at all is more important to us, fab and sex doesn't even come into it.

Whoever said that to you is an idiot x

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By *pl 4 funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cant believe anyone would put playing before family. Yes we all love our fun but only when we have free time etc

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

"Put our name down for the firing squad. Or there's always stoning. "

Any form of capital punishment would be suitable for the idiot who would put sex before their kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my kids first this week, and the guy told me I was a wind up merchant, then blocked me,

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

to some yes, to many no.

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

"to some yes, to many no."

Summed up in 6 words

Well said

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By *har1505Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Kids and family come first and foremost

And then play if can no other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

off course a feckin parent comes first.....doesnt make you half a man....makes him no man in my books x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway....isnt the having kids usually our great excuse not to play sometimes;)

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

ppl are shocked why i have put on my profile i dont do daytime meets thats my family time but even more so at night if my kids needed me im there for them and if was to let anyone down then they aint worth knowing in my books .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter comes 1st..regardless if i have to cancel a meet at last minute or even leave mid meet.... i respect my kid more than anything else...

still can`t forgive myself for something that happened to her when i was on a meet and was delayed...

some folks have had a go at me in the past saying " get a sitter etc" cos they thnk they are all that and worth a meet.. i`m sorry,if they cant respect my choices they aint really true swingers... they jus want the attention..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For anyone to to even contemplate putting something before their family is beyond us. If it happens forget "name and shame" and replace it with "line them up and shoot them".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how does it make me no man when i put my kid first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who makes these posts up - of course no one thinks something like that! can we have some good bantered and humourous topics please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who makes these posts up - of course no one thinks something like that! can we have some good bantered and humourous topics please."

got to take the good with the bad mate.... fab aint all smiles n laughter.. theres some darknes to it too..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I was actully on my way to a meet once when i got a call from my daughters school to say she had taken ill ...the dogs abuse i got from the guy was unbelieavable and he even went on to tell another friend of his that i was a timewaster for not attending the meet

so yes some do think swinging should come before anything else ...but sorry my family and kids will always come first too xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porty was speaking in the third person term. Said would make "him" no man. As in he who would consider putting play before parenting. Not saying you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thats ok pink that me miss reading again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parenting comes first

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