FabSwingers.com forum: Fuckbuddies

By *eviousvixen69 OP Woman
over a year ago

land of riches

What makes a good fuckbuddy? Anyone got a good scenario?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good fuckbuddy? Anyone got a good scenario?

A good fuck buddy to me is someone I get on with and have a laugh with outside of fucking.

At the same time they need to be good with being a fuck buddy. Sometimes it can transition into being together but both need to be okay with that potentially not being an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good fuckbuddy? Anyone got a good scenario?

A good fuck buddy to me is someone I get on with and have a laugh with outside of fucking.

At the same time they need to be good with being a fuck buddy. Sometimes it can transition into being together but both need to be okay with that potentially not being an option."

This. And someone you trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good fuckbuddy? Anyone got a good scenario?

A good fuck buddy to me is someone I get on with and have a laugh with outside of fucking.

At the same time they need to be good with being a fuck buddy. Sometimes it can transition into being together but both need to be okay with that potentially not being an option.

This. And someone you trust. "

So true. Trust is very important, if that goes... everything else goes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual respect.

Trust

Laughter

The ability to openly communicate

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

You need the chemistry too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mutual respect.

Trust

Laughter

The ability to openly communicate "

Agreed, that’s the chemistry sofa destroyers mentions

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Someone who is good company and a laugh, who you can have great sex with, but without any romantic attachment. Basically a buddy that you fuck.

I've had a couple of them in recent years but unfortunately they both ended up catching feelings and wanting it to develop into a proper relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mutual respect.

Trust

Laughter

The ability to openly communicate "

I totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who is good company and a laugh, who you can have great sex with, but without any romantic attachment. Basically a buddy that you fuck.

I've had a couple of them in recent years but unfortunately they both ended up catching feelings and wanting it to develop into a proper relationship. "

There's always that risk of feelings getting in the way.

I'm fortunate I know relationships isn't for me.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Answer is in the question. A good fuck and a good buddy makes for a good fuckbuddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now wondering what the difference is between a fuckbuddy and a friend-with-benefits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now wondering what the difference is between a fuckbuddy and a friend-with-benefits?

I see fuck buddies as a person you've gotten to know with the express intention of fucking NSA. Fuck first, buddy second.

A friend with benefits is someone who was friends before hand and sex happens but you don't want to be a couple. Friend first, benefits second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This proves to me exactly why most guys can't be a fuck buddy,

There should be no feelings at all and will never end in being a couple.

It's sex and only sex

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"This proves to me exactly why most guys can't be a fuck buddy,

There should be no feelings at all and will never end in being a couple.

It's sex and only sex

That's what I thought as well. I prefer friends with benefits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to pull away from a situation recently with a lady it was suppose to be sex only, but it's turned into come round for dinner or if I didn't respond I got a sorry for bothering you message and then I seen what looked liked aimed memes and I had the old I had a dream about us and as I write this I've got a Facebook message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had to pull away from a situation recently with a lady it was suppose to be sex only, but it's turned into come round for dinner or if I didn't respond I got a sorry for bothering you message and then I seen what looked liked aimed memes and I had the old I had a dream about us and as I write this I've got a Facebook message lol"

Get shot of her, too many folk on here want relationships but can't be honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get shot of her, too many folk on here want relationships but can't be honest about it "

Yeah my reply backs are getting less and less thankfully wasn't anyone on here but deffo something as you say to look out for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any kind of sex only relationship without a hint of friendship is doomed to a very short shelf life

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Get shot of her, too many folk on here want relationships but can't be honest about it

Yeah my reply backs are getting less and less thankfully wasn't anyone on here but deffo something as you say to look out for!"

Don't ignore her, that's cowardly and rude. Just tell her straight up.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Get shot of her, too many folk on here want relationships but can't be honest about it

Yeah my reply backs are getting less and less thankfully wasn't anyone on here but deffo something as you say to look out for!

Don't ignore her, that's cowardly and rude. Just tell her straight up. "

If possible not by text message, but that might be too much for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's partly catch 22 - great sex comes with trust...you can only really trust someone you get on with...but if you fall into the trap of developing feelings then you get away from the essence of swinging...sex between adults who can have fun and enjoy each others company then head home content until the next time...no dramas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get shot of her, too many folk on here want relationships but can't be honest about it

Yeah my reply backs are getting less and less thankfully wasn't anyone on here but deffo something as you say to look out for!

Don't ignore her, that's cowardly and rude. Just tell her straight up.

If possible not by text message, but that might be too much for you. "

Yeah i did say to her, thats what I meant by I had to pull away.

I haven't ignored her completely its just my replies to the how are you constant messages have been less or messages she sends like sorry I bothered you if I didn't reply back quick enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This proves to me exactly why most guys can't be a fuck buddy,

There should be no feelings at all and will never end in being a couple.

It's sex and only sex

I’m with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who has an array of confectionary at home or brings with them. Shag and a Kit Kat. My dear friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still searching for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fuckbuddy is a buddy/mate/friend/pal who you meet up with to fuck.

Simple

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By *ink-KameraMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Openness and Honesty and the ability to communicate what you and don't like without causing or taking offence And Trust are all important in any relationship but especially ones involving intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who I can have a good laugh with talk about everyday things and quirks, someone who is open and honest about what they like and want to try, they need to enjoy spending some time when you meet enjoying the fun but when you leave your both smiling and knowing its back to life as normal until next time and understand that you have a life outside your times together and doesn't get upset when you happen not to answer there messages right away understanding you can be busy with everyday life.

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By *eviousvixen69 OP Woman
over a year ago

land of riches

Thanks for all the different view

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

It’s literally taken me years on here to get the balance right

Good connection - you need to be on the same wavelength

Great sex - kinks are so varied and to find someone who shares yours is amazing

Mutual respect of each other’s lives outwith fab and swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know the boundaries before you start.

Had a women fuck buddy with a work colleague we were best pals but both married with kids but when we started to get deeper feelings we stopped.

It was very difficult but we weren't going to break up two families we are still friends and do confide in each other but no sexual relationship.

We both loved our partners but sex at home was sparse and we excited each other more than anyone I have ever been with.

We always half joked that we should have met 10 years earlier and I have no doubt we would have been a married couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the boundaries before you start.

Had a women fuck buddy with a work colleague we were best pals but both married with kids but when we started to get deeper feelings we stopped.

It was very difficult but we weren't going to break up two families we are still friends and do confide in each other but no sexual relationship.

We both loved our partners but sex at home was sparse and we excited each other more than anyone I have ever been with.

We always half joked that we should have met 10 years earlier and I have no doubt we would have been a married couple."

This.....biggest regret of my life not telling her my feelings when we studied together. My best friend and most amazing lover....we speak regularly but no longer work together...miss her

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