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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think i'm an average looking guy who has a great personality, and a GSOH, but i wonder, is it looks over personality more that counts these days to a woman? It's really hard to know if women find you attractive or not these days i think.... They don't tend to make the 1st move ever! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to be personality, especially over an internet site like this. there a some people with the looks but certainly Not the personality to match it.

anyway, to take looks over the actual person is pretty shallow

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

deof personality which i think on this site is a predominantly woman thing

men r from venus women r from mars completly diffrent speciecs lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what i think too.

I just try to have a laugh with folk, but it seems people have lost the ability to laugh without worrying about what other might think..i always like personality over looks, i'm the type of person who likes to meet folk and find out how the operate in life 1st, even if they're not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo personality for me thought the perfect smile makes me go weak at the knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo personality and thank feck or I would get no action..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It has to be a bit of both I think.

You have to be attracted to the person in order to have sex with them , but, for us we also need to get on with the person so that you have something to chat about inbetween playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with the above it has to be both...personality is defo the first thing ppl on a site like this are interested in but if they dont float your boat lookwise dont think its gonna happen xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree!! both.......

u might get a hot gorgeous looking guy but just find him unattractive personality wise and it just doesnt do it for me !! and visa versa!!

got to be a bit of both.... i tend to find as well for my self the more i get to know someone sometimes the more attractive i find then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to be a bit of both personality is great but think there has to be some attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be personality for me, the bloke can look gorgeous but have the attention span of a peanut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit of both for me,

no point if theres no attraction??

but no point if tryn to get a convo outa someone is like blood out of a stone nothing worse ggrrrr

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit o both, if she looks hot but as deep as a saucer its no endearing,lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bit of both for me,

no point if theres no attraction??

but no point if tryn to get a convo outa someone is like blood out of a stone nothing worse ggrrrr

auds xx"

grr tell me bout it auds - nothing like the chemistry being there, but conversation is lackin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I defo have to say that personality is most important but there needs to be an attraction, that's something that can't be faked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have a split personality...... do you get 2 shags ?

if so, I got loads of personalities... orgy anyone ?????......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always have to have an initial attraction to look at but if i cant get a laugh with a girl it tends to put me right off

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By *rosandstormCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

On a site like this then I think personality first. If i get a one liner from a guy it doesn't matter how good he looks, I won't be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality and wicked sense of humour win every time, I think if someone is fun to be with and makes you at ease and relax then the attraction is there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on what different people find funny?? I like to laugh at silly wee things i find amusing, but some people might think i'm stupid! lol :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it has to be a bit of both - in balance.

Attraction comes first - we need to be attracted to the person/couple in order to have sex with them. So looks are important, however once past this stage the personality takes over as we have to all "click" - ability to hold good conversation and a GSOH are essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me the attaction needs 2 be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for ....

people in prada, gucci, hermes, louis vuitton... and the ability to make me laugh....

a complete no no, is shallow people..

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank


"I go for ....

people in prada, gucci, hermes, louis vuitton... and the ability to make me laugh....

hahahaha is that me in wie a good chance coz ya say i make ya laugh lol xxxxxxxxxx

a complete no no, is shallow people.. "

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Definitely has to be both

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

personality all the way with me . if i cant talk with a guy and more importantly have a damn good laugh with them makes no difference how good looking he is .if its pure looks its would be easier going to local dancing and pulling first guy you see.

far more interesting and sexy to connect on a mental level then physical side developes naturally

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By *iz 1969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

both for me and lots of lovely smiles liz loves smiley ppl xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to be personality thats got to be better than looks

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

If it's true that you don't get a second chance to make a first impression AND it's also true that people decide about others in the first 30 seconds (I reckon that's true too); how does someone with a huge personality and average looks get past the first hurdle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality definitely the thing - nad respect in there too.

However, anyone who states that they've got a 'great personality' we'd personally avoid, as it's surely up to others to judge (possibly Goerring thought he'd a great personality from his point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh can u describe in 3 words a 'huge' personality???

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

Hope its none of the two or I am snookered and would just have to rely on mrs to carry us as a couple.

Oh I forgot I already do so.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"ooh can u describe in 3 words a 'huge' personality??? "

Would you settle for two words?

Gregarious extrovert.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"ooh can u describe in 3 words a 'huge' personality??? "

Would you settle for two words?

Gregarious extrovert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 3 words, huge personality is sgl guy speak for "ten inch cock"

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