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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself"
Don't let people grind you down .

put your profile back up and just block the idiots !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself"

The diddies are in deed coming out of the woodwork. I've had some fun tearing new arseholes recently though. There's absolutely never an excuse to message someone simply to be nasty. Sorry that's happened Mrs x.

Don't let the bastards get you down

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself"

Some people are just mean, and they’re not worth losing sleep over. When they say mean things about you, it says way more about them than it does about you.

You should make your ever growing block list your badge of honour

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Yeah I've hidden my profile more times in the past few months than I have the whole year. Some people seem to think it's ok to say anything they want just because it's behind a screen

Sending hugs

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself

The diddies are in deed coming out of the woodwork. I've had some fun tearing new arseholes recently though. There's absolutely never an excuse to message someone simply to be nasty. Sorry that's happened Mrs x.

Don't let the bastards get you down "

I love it when you tear new arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself

The diddies are in deed coming out of the woodwork. I've had some fun tearing new arseholes recently though. There's absolutely never an excuse to message someone simply to be nasty. Sorry that's happened Mrs x.

Don't let the bastards get you down

I love it when you tear new arseholes "

You're just wanting pegged...."INCOMING!!!!"

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sad to said few nasty people on fab swingers just 2% of it 98 rest nice and kind people

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By *avenlouCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Maybe there is a correlation with some folk getting less sex and getting grumpy on the messaging system.

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself

The diddies are in deed coming out of the woodwork. I've had some fun tearing new arseholes recently though. There's absolutely never an excuse to message someone simply to be nasty. Sorry that's happened Mrs x.

Don't let the bastards get you down

I love it when you tear new arseholes

You're just wanting pegged...."INCOMING!!!!" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself"

Oh shit , tin hat on time.

Firstly , yes it is totally out of order for anyone to send abusive messages to yourself miss or anyone for that matter ,

Here come the but

To expect respect from others you really should be respecting yourself first and foremost. Personally I don't think you do from the very first line of your profile. Your binging yourself down by thinking you need to be brutally honest with other people regarding your own appearance. You dont !! You are who you are but you dont need to ram it home to others either. You don't show much respect in your profile towards guys so why expect them to respect you back. If you make issues for yourself and have a negative attitude towards others then your setting a tone how others will interact back with you.

I'm not having a go at you by any means, I'm just saying what I see when I look at your profile. Before I get the usual dogs abuse for speaking my mind, no matter what your profile says or how you choose to be on Fab, abusie messages and making people feel like shit is still definitely NOT acceptable though.

Hope things get better for you. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself

The diddies are in deed coming out of the woodwork. I've had some fun tearing new arseholes recently though. There's absolutely never an excuse to message someone simply to be nasty. Sorry that's happened Mrs x.

Don't let the bastards get you down "

The 'queen of rude' is giving advice on dealing with rude messages , ahahahahaha. Fab truly is a wondrous thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't bought myself down at all I was getting sick of being called a bbw (hate that term) plus I tell it like it is that way no one gets a shock if they choose to meet me I don't see where I have been disrespectful to men on my profile at all and I certainly have not asked to be sent abuse out if the blue from people who I have never spoken to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't bought myself down at all I was getting sick of being called a bbw (hate that term) plus I tell it like it is that way no one gets a shock if they choose to meet me I don't see where I have been disrespectful to men on my profile at all and I certainly have not asked to be sent abuse out if the blue from people who I have never spoken to"

You could word the first line differently that shows more respect to yourself.

Firstly guys I really don't like the term BBW, I won't reply to anyone using this term in a message.

Job done

You've already stated your size under your name and age ect, no need to tell people again. Just shows more respect to yourself and your still being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever way a profile is written doesn't give anybody the right to send that person abusive messages. Dont reply to them report them to Admin and hopefully they are able to block them permanently.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I haven't bought myself down at all I was getting sick of being called a bbw (hate that term) plus I tell it like it is that way no one gets a shock if they choose to meet me I don't see where I have been disrespectful to men on my profile at all and I certainly have not asked to be sent abuse out if the blue from people who I have never spoken to"

I’m like you I prefer to be honest about my size from the outset as my flabby belly won’t be to Everyone’s taste however I like to consider myself too short rather than fat - I am sure if I was 7 foot I would be slim

Easier said than done but just block the idiots and move on don’t let them spoil your fun

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I haven't bought myself down at all I was getting sick of being called a bbw (hate that term) plus I tell it like it is that way no one gets a shock if they choose to meet me I don't see where I have been disrespectful to men on my profile at all and I certainly have not asked to be sent abuse out if the blue from people who I have never spoken to

You could word the first line differently that shows more respect to yourself.

Firstly guys I really don't like the term BBW, I won't reply to anyone using this term in a message.

Job done

You've already stated your size under your name and age ect, no need to tell people again. Just shows more respect to yourself and your still being honest. "

Why should people rewrite their profile because of some idiots that think it’s alright to be abusive? Personally I’d block them and report, as for changing or hiding profile, I wouldn’t. They are bullies and bullies don’t win, karma will get the twats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't bought myself down at all I was getting sick of being called a bbw (hate that term) plus I tell it like it is that way no one gets a shock if they choose to meet me I don't see where I have been disrespectful to men on my profile at all and I certainly have not asked to be sent abuse out if the blue from people who I have never spoken to

You could word the first line differently that shows more respect to yourself.

Firstly guys I really don't like the term BBW, I won't reply to anyone using this term in a message.

Job done

You've already stated your size under your name and age ect, no need to tell people again. Just shows more respect to yourself and your still being honest.

Why should people rewrite their profile because of some idiots that think it’s alright to be abusive? Personally I’d block them and report, as for changing or hiding profile, I wouldn’t. They are bullies and bullies don’t win, karma will get the twats! "

I never said rewrite her profile because of some idiots, I said reword her first for herself.

If I tell people I'm as thick as mince then other people will find it acceptable behaviour to SAY I'm as thick as mince.

While it's still not acceptable your making yourself vulnerable to people that can't see it as being unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude, arrogance and ignorance is all part and parcel of Fab.

I hear what everyone is saying and there really isn’t any need for it but you really need to grow a thicker skin, especially to put up with some of the numpties on here.

Report, Block and move on.

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By *uesttosoulMan
over a year ago

Hackney

Internet trolls and they get a kick from it. Majority of these are probably fake profiles here to cause trouble.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself"

Anonymity is the coward's armour of choice. Don't let them bring you down... and that includes anyone on the thread who would victim blame you too.

These people don't know you, so their judgement means fuck all. It's like if Paul Hollywood judged cakes he'd never tasted... doesn't hold water. Evaluate their character from their meaningless words, block and give them the consideration which they've earned... which is none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself"

It's a negative human trait to demean others and says more about them than you. Doggy is correct, don't let them bring you down and anything you do make sure it is YOUR choice. Enjoy the people that make you smile and don't engage with those that try to criticise or be cruel. Keyboard warriors are bullies, nothing more, block delete and move on my dear xxx

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By *mazon750Couple
over a year ago

Perth


"The amount of nasty rude messages I've been receiving lately is bad uncalled for and down right cruel my confidence is shit as it is hence me losing weight just no need for it at all sorry for ranting feeling sorry for myself"
You are honestly just gorjussss. Please dont let the the bad ones get you down, they are probably sad lonely people with nothing better to do.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone it was a bit of a woe is me post but hey ho today is another day and I'm smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. I can’t understand it either.

There is no place for it. Kindness and good manners go a long way.

Just ignore and block them xx J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone it was a bit of a woe is me post but hey ho today is another day and I'm smiling "

that's good to hear but remember to report as well as block, absolutely no excuse for being abusive to strangers!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No point reporting nothing gets done or they just came back

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

So sorry to hear this. People are idiots.

And there are a lot of sad angry people on here that, at the first sign of somebody not being interested, lash out In an effort to get control back.

Be yourself and try and ignore the haters, hard as that can be sometimes x

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By *ac995Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Why can’t people just be nice to one another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats horrid people sending abusive messages! likely a problem they have like they can't handle rejection or feeling negative about themselves so they have to bring down others. unfortunately it seems to be the online way a lot of the times and it creeps into every site or forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These people are obviously arseholes and we all know what comes out of arseholes.

Ignore them and block them. Do let the losers drag you down. They want to make you feel bad so they feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just arseholes and recent events have highlighted that more so.

It can be hard not letting things get to you on here and it can have you questioning and second guessing yourself, but only you can do you so don't let anyone change that.

I know that I'm an acquired taste, but I have a hubby who loves me no matter what, so I don't care what people think (although even I have my moments). I just wind them up by replying to them without biting to their insults, or telling them they've had a lucky escape then.

Usually does the trick and they block me

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t people just be nice to one another? "

See I don't even think it's a question of being nice...people don't have to be nice to others. There are people on here who I dislike so I wouldn't make an effort to be nice to them. But you certainly don't have to go out of your way to be nasty to people who you have chosen to interact with via a pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t people just be nice to one another?

See I don't even think it's a question of being nice...people don't have to be nice to others. There are people on here who I dislike so I wouldn't make an effort to be nice to them. But you certainly don't have to go out of your way to be nasty to people who you have chosen to interact with via a pm."

So sinking your teeth into someones leg is not being nasty, yeah whatever Mrs Doggy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not hiding pics anymore if folk think my ass is like a lumpy sack of potatoes then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not hiding pics anymore if folk think my ass is like a lumpy sack of potatoes then so be it "

Yassssss! Mon the lumpy arses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not hiding pics anymore if folk think my ass is like a lumpy sack of potatoes then so be it "
Good to see you have your pictures back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not hiding pics anymore if folk think my ass is like a lumpy sack of potatoes then so be it

Yassssss! Mon the lumpy arses! "

Lmao funnily enough most of my fabbed pics are my bum ones so it can't be that bad

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The immortal line that goes,"don't be a dick!".

But it is inevitable, because humans generally are inbred A-holes killing themselves, each other and the planet.....

Thankfully, I, personally, am an alien. So I am fine... I will be leaving this dump of a planet in mah spaceship... Zooooom

Latexkink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi it's there problem, just you get own with your own life and have fun to hell with everyone,glad to see you got your photos back up also,

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *otPrinceHarryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

While it's difficult to judge these users without seeing the messages themselves... well, there's the rub actually. I don't get those kind of messages. I'd bet most male-identifying users on the site don't get those kind of messages (unless they've already sent something unkind, or ignored a user's requests).

They're abusive, misogynist shitehawks. It's easy for me to say "just ignore them," because I'm a guy and I don't get this kind of abuse.

But do remember that you are better than them.

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