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"“When the nightclubs are allowed to open” was what Caroline posted. " Thanks, I forgot what she put up last week. Big Nicola should see the re opening of CJ’s as a priority!!!!  | |||
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"Imagine this on track and trace " .Aye, Nicola on the daily podium having to announce that they are desperately trying to trace a "Pussylicker" from Glasgow and Mr "Well Hung Stud" from Ayrshire.  | |||
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"Imagine this on track and trace
.Aye, Nicola on the daily podium having to announce that they are desperately trying to trace a "Pussylicker" from Glasgow and Mr "Well Hung Stud" from Ayrshire. " | |||
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"I work in nightclubs so my estimate from what I’ve been told is mid Sept/early Oct x" That’s good info, thanks | |||
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"Never been but I here it's best place to social for single guys , can get more of a feel of who and what I'm looking to out of this . True ?" Yeah, I would say so. Being a single guy on here is incredibly tough. Not complaining, it’s just that there are so many of us and a lot of inarticulate guys out there! By going to CJ’s you can say hi, be yourself, have a beer and chat to everyone and see if anything happens from there. Also Caroline puts a cap on the amount of single gents that can attend so couples and singles ladies don’t feel overwhelmed. | |||
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"Imagine this on track and trace
.Aye, Nicola on the daily podium having to announce that they are desperately trying to trace a "Pussylicker" from Glasgow and Mr "Well Hung Stud" from Ayrshire. "Spat my tea out | |||
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"Bookmarked,!! Just need a willing partner now  "Flutters eye lids......I’m willing.... just need you to be able.... | |||
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"The tide wouldn't take Nicola sturgeon out" She’s fond of the french fancies if rumours are to be believed | |||
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"The tide wouldn't take Nicola sturgeon out She’s fond of the french fancies if rumours are to be believed" Never heard that rumour..... tell me more | |||
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"Does anyone know if CJs are planning on opening for a social? I have heard they have had social only nights before and by all accounts they have been successful. Caroline could even take the money upfront to ensure there are no no shows " No idea, you could always message her profile and ask K | |||
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"It's good for single guys to go and for the limit. Couples like us that's looking for that then it makes it easier. " Precisely this. Makes life so much easier! See someone you like, say hi. “I fancy you, I fancy you too. Shall we go check out the lovely buffet? Hmm, yum. Yes, let’s do that. Caroline has put on a lovely spread hasn’t she? Do you come here often? This is a lovely wooden staircase isn’t it? Beautiful, such craftsmanship. Shall we peek into the dungeon? Oh, such scenes!!! Would you do me the honour of accompanying me into one of these fine rooms? (Whilst being told off for walking down the corridor with your drink as standard.......) | |||
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"We are booked into glasgow for a night begin october hopefully it's open by then and we can come along. We were due to go before lockdown to check it out but for obvious we had to postpone "We are looking forward to when cj's is able to reopen xx | |||
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"We are booked into glasgow for a night begin october hopefully it's open by then and we can come along. We were due to go before lockdown to check it out but for obvious we had to postpone
We are looking forward to when cj's is able to reopen xx"Me too. x | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Ya beauty  | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" FANTASTIC NEWS!!
Can’t wait to see you, Michelle and the gang as well as our friends; really have missed cjs.
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Good news. Can’t wait I’ve even bought a dress specially for the first night. Just need a volunteer to take it off.... | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Looking forward to a night amongst like minded sexy ppl xx | |||
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"Imagine this on track and trace
.Aye, Nicola on the daily podium having to announce that they are desperately trying to trace a "Pussylicker" from Glasgow and Mr "Well Hung Stud" from Ayrshire.
Spat my tea out "To be fair Cjs protocol for every night is already track and trace as everyone at some point has had to provide proper name and ID to prove it and contact details so it’s one less thing to worry about | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Can’t wait to see you all again xx hopefully semi normality will resume in time for the gorgeous Caroline’s birthday | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" We are all missing you and the team Caroline hopefully won't be long to you're allowed to open again even if it's just for socials to start with xxx | |||
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"Ahh that's great news. We love the social side of things and can't wait to get back to cjs. We have really missed our kid free nights out a once a month and cjs especially . Will be good to chat with other adults again. " I was starting to wonder what child free nights were 
There is only so much to can do with a 2 year old before they drive you mental.
Loved our monthly child free weekends and monthly visits to see Caroline and the team.
Have meet some fantastic people that we now call friends. Would be good to see everyone again can't wait to just mix with adults and people who are on the same wave length as us.
Good company good laughs and maybe a few drinks as well.
Hopefully not long now. Until then stay safe everyone | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" . Thanks very much for giving us all an update, we will look forward to visiting you again in whatever capacity you can reopen | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Hope your all keeping well. Can't wait to get back even just for a social. Missing the company and the laughs. Fingers crossed for you to get the green light soon xx | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx Can’t wait to see you all again xx hopefully semi normality will resume in time for the gorgeous Caroline’s birthday "Will be one hell of a party so hopefully gets opened again for it and c an all help Caroline have something to look forward to x | |||
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"Imagine this on track and trace
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Can't wait 'til normality resumes and we're back to normal, well as normal as can be seeing Caroline, Michelle, staff and friends again even if it's just for chatting xx | |||
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"Have still never been. Will be making a point of getting there when it does reopen. Plus one? Gimme a shout lol" | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Could actually cry with relief at this lol. Missing so many people. Be good to see everyone again xxx | |||
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"We are planning to open from 10th Oct for social only events. Please check profile and website for details. Cj xx" Fantastic and i am off. Excited already.x | |||
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"We are planning to open from 10th Oct for social only events. Please check profile and website for details. Cj xx" Great news!!!! | |||
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"We are planning to open from 10th Oct for social only events. Please check profile and website for details. Cj xx" Omg this has just made my night have been missing you all and can't wait to come see everyone xx | |||
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 finding fantastic deals just now
Now what dates to book 1st lol
Definitely be there on the 31st as always looking forward to it x | |||
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"We are planning to open from 10th Oct for social only events. Please check profile and website for details. Cj xx" SO EXCITED! Heard the news on the Scotland chat. Will defo be booking in x Millie and Ian | |||
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"We are planning to open from 10th Oct for social only events. Please check profile and website for details. Cj xx" Aw hey that’s brilliant news! | |||
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"We are planning to open from 10th Oct for social only events. Please check profile and website for details. Cj xx" Great news! So excited as we have missed the staff and our FAB friends. Just need to swap a couple of shifts at work but we will definitely be there at least one of those dates lol x | |||
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"As semi regular visitors to CJ’s this is exciting, but I’m interested in how it’s actually going to work within the current rules? We’re only allowed to meet with one other household and in hospitality venues you have to stay at your table and can only really get up to go to the toilet or leave while wearing a face mask. I’m confused as to how that would work at a social swinging event. D " I was also wondering this, along with hospitality closing times/curfews and music rules. | |||
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"As semi regular visitors to CJ’s this is exciting, but I’m interested in how it’s actually going to work within the current rules? We’re only allowed to meet with one other household and in hospitality venues you have to stay at your table and can only really get up to go to the toilet or leave while wearing a face mask. I’m confused as to how that would work at a social swinging event. D " I’ll be happy to keep my mask on all night and keep a reasonable distance from Everyone but be so good to catch up with everyone again even if it’s only a few hours ie opening early and closing early I don’t mind I’m game for it, I’ve met up with a few fab friends outdoors and kept our distance, but it’s just been so good to actually have people to talk to besides the kids and through phones | |||
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"As semi regular visitors to CJ’s this is exciting, but I’m interested in how it’s actually going to work within the current rules? We’re only allowed to meet with one other household and in hospitality venues you have to stay at your table and can only really get up to go to the toilet or leave while wearing a face mask. I’m confused as to how that would work at a social swinging event. D I’ll be happy to keep my mask on all night and keep a reasonable distance from Everyone but be so good to catch up with everyone again even if it’s only a few hours ie opening early and closing early I don’t mind I’m game for it, I’ve met up with a few fab friends outdoors and kept our distance, but it’s just been so good to actually have people to talk to besides the kids and through phones " Totally agree, it would be amazing to be able to see and speak to friends on the scene again at a lifestyle friendly venue. I just can’t see how it’s possible within the current rules, especially the two households part? D | |||
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"We have enough tables and chairs to accommodate social distancing as any pubs have and numbers as I said will be limited. Cj x" Fantastic news x | |||
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"We have enough tables and chairs to accommodate social distancing as any pubs have and numbers as I said will be limited. Cj x" That’s good to hear. I suppose it’s the household rule I’m still a bit confused about, in a pub you would have to stay at your table with the one other household you arrived with and can’t socialise with the other people in the pub. Think we’ll be leaving it until things are eased again, but fair play for giving it a go and I hope it goes well. D | |||
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"We have enough tables and chairs to accommodate social distancing as any pubs have and numbers as I said will be limited. Cj x" Good luck Caroline, personally I think your taking a huge chance though. I know you will follow rules etc and be above board if inspected but the media won't care about the truth or what social distancing you do, they will have a field day. Obviously this is purely just my opinion but it is a gamble in my opinion. Good luck anyway, such a shame to lose our other Scottish club. | |||
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"We have enough tables and chairs to accommodate social distancing as any pubs have and numbers as I said will be limited. Cj x" Great news. Good luck, hope all goes well. | |||
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"Maybe the installation of Glory Holes would help solve the problem of social distancing. Just a thought "Not sure if serious | |||
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"I queried this and got an email with prices...the usual single men being ripped off as usual I think it was £40 just to be sociable...we can do that anywhere for free...." You think or it was? | |||
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"I queried this and got an email with prices...the usual single men being ripped off as usual I think it was £40 just to be sociable...we can do that anywhere for free...." You don’t have to go | |||
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"I queried this and got an email with prices...the usual single men being ripped off as usual I think it was £40 just to be sociable...we can do that anywhere for free.... You think or it was? "it was | |||
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"I queried this and got an email with prices...the usual single men being ripped off as usual I think it was £40 just to be sociable...we can do that anywhere for free.... You don’t have to go " i wouldn’t go anyway | |||
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"We are planning to open from 10th Oct for social only events. Please check profile and website for details. Cj xx" That’s great considering the rotten news about After 8 closing down | |||
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"We have enough tables and chairs to accommodate social distancing as any pubs have and numbers as I said will be limited. Cj x That’s good to hear. I suppose it’s the household rule I’m still a bit confused about, in a pub you would have to stay at your table with the one other household you arrived with and can’t socialise with the other people in the pub. Think we’ll be leaving it until things are eased again, but fair play for giving it a go and I hope it goes well. D " I’ve been to a few restaurants for food family things and even a funeral and everyone sat at their own tables and were still able to chat and have a laugh though was rather noisier than normal, it works just means that you can’t quietly whisper gossip as you have to pretty much raise your voice so it’s defo more a free for all in terms of conversation | |||
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"Between me and my bf were a household of 9  "Who gets left out when you want to get together? | |||
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Who gets left out when you want to get together?"When we go out we have to sit at separate tables me and my kids at one table him and his at another so far we’ve managed to get tables next to each other, at the last family meal though his cousins were at the other end of the restaurant and it was so weird as we couldn’t go and sit next to them as there wasn’t any way of moving tables or spare tables near by felt weird going could go and stand near the table one at a time say hi with masks etc on and leave cake on the bonnet of their car when we were leaving | |||
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"I queried this and got an email with prices...the usual single men being ripped off as usual I think it was £40 just to be sociable...we can do that anywhere for free.... You don’t have to go i wouldn’t go anyway " Strange that you wouldn't go anyway but you emailed to find out all information to go!!! And also your information is wrong. You obviously got the standard email of when its opened normally. I know prices aren't that for the social! | |||
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"The buffet is worth it tbh xx xx " No buffet this time boooo need to bring my own dairy Lea | |||
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"We are booked in for Saturday. Won't be what we are used to but we do love a night at Cjs and couldn't imagine the Scottish scene if it ends up being another business which has to close due to covid. Much like eat out to help out everyone was out for a meal on a night they probably normally wouldn't be to help our economy so since this lifestyle is a big part of our lives we are happy to go and socially distance if it helps keep the doors open on what we class as Scotlands main swingers club. I see people saying it's taking a bit of a risk but pretty sure we've all been in closer contact to others whilst out for a meal, shopping, at the pub or even work for that matter. DK " Here here! Other establishments have put the correct measures in place so why not CJs? It is after all a place to go to have a drink and to meet people. Just like other pubs and clubs. Yes. There is the option to play, just as there is the option to dance in the pubs that have dance floors. Doesn't mean everyone does tho So I for one will be there to socialise and see some familiar faces just like I would if I wanted to meet friends at another establishment. Look forward to seeing you all xxx | |||
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"I queried this and got an email with prices...the usual single men being ripped off as usual I think it was £40 just to be sociable...we can do that anywhere for free...." In fairness, single guys complain all the time about how tough it is and going along to a place to socialise and get themselves known may very well lead to future meets, invite to parties etc. It may be the best £40 they ever spent
I was so impressed that Cj posted such a lovely comment on the After8 thread shows how a business owner should conduct themselves during these tough economic times. It's tough and supporting is a persons choice and if they know the price, they make their choice.
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"I'm confused. Fab's stance is: COVID-19, NO PHYSICAL MEETS: Hookup online, meet after Covid. We're standing in solidarity with everyone staying home. This helps the most vulnerable and our NHS. Looking for PHYSICAL MEETS is NOT OK, will be treated as a breach of site rules. So...still a physical meet. Not online...but still allowed. Hmmm " Eh mate? Cjs is an establishment that is monitered. It isn't a wee hoose party you know. And establishments like this are allowed to open as long as they have the correct measures in place. Fab cannot stop people meeting in a public place for socials as long as they are abiding by the rules and regulations. They state no physical meets. As in no wee willie and vagina meeting each other. So how the hell is CJs breaching Fab terms and conditions? | |||
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"I'm confused. Fab's stance is: COVID-19, NO PHYSICAL MEETS: Hookup online, meet after Covid. We're standing in solidarity with everyone staying home. This helps the most vulnerable and our NHS. Looking for PHYSICAL MEETS is NOT OK, will be treated as a breach of site rules. So...still a physical meet. Not online...but still allowed. Hmmm Eh mate? Cjs is an establishment that is monitered. It isn't a wee hoose party you know. And establishments like this are allowed to open as long as they have the correct measures in place. Fab cannot stop people meeting in a public place for socials as long as they are abiding by the rules and regulations. They state no physical meets. As in no wee willie and vagina meeting each other. So how the hell is CJs breaching Fab terms and conditions? " Well said | |||
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"I'm confused. Fab's stance is: COVID-19, NO PHYSICAL MEETS: Hookup online, meet after Covid. We're standing in solidarity with everyone staying home. This helps the most vulnerable and our NHS. Looking for PHYSICAL MEETS is NOT OK, will be treated as a breach of site rules. So...still a physical meet. Not online...but still allowed. Hmmm " Your only confused because you don't understand the difference between a social meet and a physical meet. | |||
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"We are booked in for Saturday. Won't be what we are used to but we do love a night at Cjs and couldn't imagine the Scottish scene if it ends up being another business which has to close due to covid. Much like eat out to help out everyone was out for a meal on a night they probably normally wouldn't be to help our economy so since this lifestyle is a big part of our lives we are happy to go and socially distance if it helps keep the doors open on what we class as Scotlands main swingers club. I see people saying it's taking a bit of a risk but pretty sure we've all been in closer contact to others whilst out for a meal, shopping, at the pub or even work for that matter. DK " Well said! I don't think we can make it this weekend but hopefully manage to get back soon. We've missed the social side of cj's too. Innocent | |||
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" Also how will track and trace work is everyone giving a name and phone number etc some on here can't even give a name " Everyone has to show ID going into CJ’s anyway. They know your name and address. | |||
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"We have mails cj with regards to attending on the 17th.we are Purley going to support the club as we did our local restaurant. " We have booked in for the 17th an 31st. Don't care about the play side Cjs was our time away from reality and a chance to be with like minded people. We are going purely to support Caroline and her team and hopefully after time things will get back to normal again. Have booked a hotel for the 31st so will make the most of our time in Glasgow and child free time. Hope to see many of the couples/ singles that we have had the pleasure of meeting over the years in cjs x | |||
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" Also how will track and trace work is everyone giving a name and phone number etc some on here can't even give a name Everyone has to show ID going into CJ’s anyway. They know your name and address. " The first time you attend yes but this is for people who have been before | |||
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"Is it just me that's confused I get supporting the club however when you go to a bar or restaurant you book your table and you do not leave that table unless for the loo and even that is mask on.... How can you do a social when your sitting at one table all night? Or are you allowed to move around but have to sanatiser your hands, tables etc etc before and after?? Also how will track and trace work is everyone giving a name and phone number etc some on here can't even give a real name! Its also scary to me that people that work in jobs that's they could potentially but high risk people in danger it nurses and carers have commented that they intend to go. " As mentioned earlier you can go to any eating establishment or pub and still communicate with tables around you. There is no music and talking is louder. The only issue I see is if you are wanting to chat to others at tables further away. Then a wee meet in the toilet with a mask on or possibly outside.... All socially distanced would work. Yes, it makes things more difficult but not impossible. And people are now at the stage that they are prepared to overcome the difficulties to have some sort of normality. And here is my own opinion. We all need to get exposed to this. It isn't going away. Herd immunity is the only way. Hiding from it is not going to work. But that is a whole other topic xxx | |||
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" Also how will track and trace work is everyone giving a name and phone number etc some on here can't even give a name Everyone has to show ID going into CJ’s anyway. They know your name and address. The first time you attend yes but this is for people who have been before " If you have been before then your details are already on the system so they know who you are and your real name Need proof of id ie drivers licence or passport for the 1st time you attend. When you book you would have done so by either email or phone again another way to trace. Honestly if you are so worried about the measurements Caroline has put in place then no one is forcing you to go | |||
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"Is it just me that's confused I get supporting the club however when you go to a bar or restaurant you book your table and you do not leave that table unless for the loo and even that is mask on.... How can you do a social when your sitting at one table all night? Or are you allowed to move around but have to sanatiser your hands, tables etc etc before and after?? Also how will track and trace work is everyone giving a name and phone number etc some on here can't even give a real name! Its also scary to me that people that work in jobs that's they could potentially but high risk people in danger it nurses and carers have commented that they intend to go. " Cjs has always requested people book beforehand and ID is checked for everyone on their first visit and this is recorded on a members database | |||
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"So happy that Caroline has put provisions in place and will be opening up for socials, just need to get rid of this 10pm curfew and I will be able to go again. However it will be interesting to see what has been done with the smoking area. On some nights the buffet and smoking area were the beat places to start conversations lol" Personally I’ve always been pro curfews having lived in Greenock we’ve always had a curfew of sorts, all pubs and clubs would close their doors at 11pm and you were stuck in there till closing and it worked so people were d*unk wandering between pubs and clubs this was mainly due to fighting in the town the curfew still exists although it was gradually increased to 12, I’ve always felt there should be a curfew during lockdown restricting your movements to one pub or club and making sure you are in by a certain time. As has already proven though even shutting up shop at 10pm everyone still spills onto the streets as d*unk as they would have been at 3am because they’ve basically drank quicker and stronger. It’s actually a really sad and pathetic example of our society  | |||
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"More chance of a lockdown. Than the 10 o'clock being lifted. Two week lockdown on its way " Yes I believe that is a strong possibility | |||
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"Its also scary to me that people that work in jobs that's they could potentially but high risk people in danger it nurses and carers have commented that they intend to go. " I don’t think anyone would put anyone at risk intentionally if they have a job working with those at high risk. No disrespect intended... CJs will be simply the same as going to the pub with the exception all going will know others. Restrictions will be in place as there is in any venue... | |||
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"CJ’s WILL be reopening but no date set yet. We are doing a bit of decorating at the moment and prep for when we can reopen. We are thinking the first few parties will be social only nights for guests who have previously attended. Take care and hope to see you all again soon. Cj xx" Let's all hope its soon,its been far too long since my last visit and I miss it !! Good luck to all of you at cj's ,we are all hoping to visit real soon ?? | |||
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Been buying a ton of clothes over lockdown, so can finally get to wear them out!
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"I’m sure the newspapers and authorities will be interested in this , i hope the council , the police or a local newspaper photographer don’t take an interest , and take pics of fabbers going in as it can have an effect on there life , " No difference than going into a pub. Think the police have far better things to do with their time. | |||
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"When you all end up in the front page of the sun , don’t cry .. there is a world pandemic people are dying , jobs are lost so think how much the papers will love a swingers expose , it’s not worth it .. stay at home . Support the nhs .. they would love nothing more then catching a nhs worker there ,,,,, stay safe guys , don’t be a fanny ...... stay in for your granny " Well if they do end up on the front page i think we will know who gave them heads up after your ranting. | |||
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"When you all end up in the front page of the sun , don’t cry .. there is a world pandemic people are dying , jobs are lost so think how much the papers will love a swingers expose , it’s not worth it .. stay at home . Support the nhs .. they would love nothing more then catching a nhs worker there ,,,,, stay safe guys , don’t be a fanny ...... stay in for your granny Well if they do end up on the front page i think we will know who gave them heads up after your ranting." | |||
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"When you all end up in the front page of the sun , don’t cry .. there is a world pandemic people are dying , jobs are lost so think how much the papers will love a swingers expose , it’s not worth it .. stay at home . Support the nhs .. they would love nothing more then catching a nhs worker there ,,,,, stay safe guys , don’t be a fanny ...... stay in for your granny " They aren't going to operate as a swingers club. Not sure how hard that is for you to understand. Doesn't matter now anyway, new restrictions will most likely mean reopening will have to be postponed. Understandable, but I am gutted for Caroline and the team. | |||
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"Thanks to everyone for there support and bookings over the last week but obviously we cannot open now for 3 weeks due to recent restrictions. Now planning on opening for the Halloween event over 2 nights 30th & 31st Oct again with limited numbers and social distancing in place. Hope to see you all there. Cj xx" i will be working | |||
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"When you all end up in the front page of the sun , don’t cry .. there is a world pandemic people are dying , jobs are lost so think how much the papers will love a swingers expose , it’s not worth it .. stay at home . Support the nhs .. they would love nothing more then catching a nhs worker there ,,,,, stay safe guys , don’t be a fanny ...... stay in for your granny Well if they do end up on the front page i think we will know who gave them heads up after your ranting." unlike you guys I’m not a grass , but we all know that the police and newspapers scan theses sites , your a fool if you think they don’t , I’m clearly trying to avoid people getting exposed as swingers as it usually doesn’t end up good , but thanks for your consern and don’t judge people . Anyway it looks like it’s not happening , thank god ,,,... stay safe , I have already lost a loved one due to this pandemic , people acting irresponsible just adds to my pain .... stay safe | |||
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"When you all end up in the front page of the sun , don’t cry .. there is a world pandemic people are dying , jobs are lost so think how much the papers will love a swingers expose , it’s not worth it .. stay at home . Support the nhs .. they would love nothing more then catching a nhs worker there ,,,,, stay safe guys , don’t be a fanny ...... stay in for your granny Well if they do end up on the front page i think we will know who gave them heads up after your ranting. unlike you guys I’m not a grass , but we all know that the police and newspapers scan theses sites , your a fool if you think they don’t , I’m clearly trying to avoid people getting exposed as swingers as it usually doesn’t end up good , but thanks for your consern and don’t judge people . Anyway it looks like it’s not happening , thank god ,,,... stay safe , I have already lost a loved one due to this pandemic , people acting irresponsible just adds to my pain .... stay safe " Unlike who lol your the one doing the ranting | |||
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"When you all end up in the front page of the sun , don’t cry .. there is a world pandemic people are dying , jobs are lost so think how much the papers will love a swingers expose , it’s not worth it .. stay at home . Support the nhs .. they would love nothing more then catching a nhs worker there ,,,,, stay safe guys , don’t be a fanny ...... stay in for your granny Well if they do end up on the front page i think we will know who gave them heads up after your ranting. unlike you guys I’m not a grass , but we all know that the police and newspapers scan theses sites , your a fool if you think they don’t , I’m clearly trying to avoid people getting exposed as swingers as it usually doesn’t end up good , but thanks for your consern and don’t judge people . Anyway it looks like it’s not happening , thank god ,,,... stay safe , I have already lost a loved one due to this pandemic , people acting irresponsible just adds to my pain .... stay safe " I have lost a loved one too due to covid. They had cancer and due to covid their treatment was put on hold | |||
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"When you all end up in the front page of the sun , don’t cry .. there is a world pandemic people are dying , jobs are lost so think how much the papers will love a swingers expose , it’s not worth it .. stay at home . Support the nhs .. they would love nothing more then catching a nhs worker there ,,,,, stay safe guys , don’t be a fanny ...... stay in for your granny Well if they do end up on the front page i think we will know who gave them heads up after your ranting. unlike you guys I’m not a grass , but we all know that the police and newspapers scan theses sites , your a fool if you think they don’t , I’m clearly trying to avoid people getting exposed as swingers as it usually doesn’t end up good , but thanks for your consern and don’t judge people . Anyway it looks like it’s not happening , thank god ,,,... stay safe , I have already lost a loved one due to this pandemic , people acting irresponsible just adds to my pain .... stay safe I have lost a loved one too due to covid. They had cancer and due to covid their treatment was put on hold "Same happened to my 32 Yr old cousin, she was on a trail cancer treatment which was working but the trail had to stop and she died 4 weeks later, deteriorated very quickly and left behind 2 small children and big family. | |||
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There is more to this world than COVID altho that is what is being shoved down our throats by the media. Live and let live ffs.
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"And here we go again with people divided because of all this shit. Seriously doing my head in. This virus is not going anywhere. We are going to have to learn to live with this. Herd immunity is going to have to happen. Blaming and condemning each other. Neighbours turning on neighbours. Family turning on family. Just because someone does it different does not make them an arsehole ffs. Sick to the back teeth of people acting like total tools because others do not see things the way they do. Oh and before the political brigade give it big licks about being selfish etc I have seen the devastation of someone close to me losing their father through this. I have also seen the devastation of others losing their lives or living on a knife edge because they cannot get treatment should be getting. The latter being worse There is more to this world than COVID altho that is what is being shoved down our throats by the media. Live and let live ffs.
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"No. I am not dismissing anyone's point of _iew. Far from it. What I take offence at is people slating others because they choose to do what they feel is right for them. There are other issues going on in this world apart from COVID. People are losing their lives left, right and centre to other illnesses and diseases because they are not getting the treatment they require. My cousin has been getting treated for skin cancer. That stopped. She shared with me that there are kids on her ward that have had their treatment delayed because of COVID. Is that fair? So I apologise if I come across as being abrasive in relation to this but when the bigger picture is looked at from a perspective that just isn't all about protecting our own little bubbles then maybe people will see that others are being affected in far worse ways. Some are losing their life through not getting proper care now and it is getting put down as COVID. There is an unfairness in all of this and yes it irates me to see people turn on each other just because they have their own concerns about their own wee bubble xxx"
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"I honestly can't see why folk would want yo put themselves at risk to go to a swingers place to "socialise" Iv been to pubs no one keeps to the rules hence why I stopped going.not a chance in hell there was gonna be social distencing in cjs but...again its folks choice to go but its not folk that ends up next to you in a shop or workplace wheres there choice? all because you wanted to see your swinger mates? "The re-opening was purely social night and strictly no playing. Felt there were enough measures to reassure me. If you think about the pole room; most of the couches are socially distanced anyways (as an example) Plus, the risk is there all the time; pubs/public transport/shops. I always wear a mask & have hand sanitiser on me whenever out and cjs will be no different. They’re not just “swinger friends”; they’re friends full stop; some outside fab as well.
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"I honestly can't see why folk would want yo put themselves at risk to go to a swingers place to "socialise" Iv been to pubs no one keeps to the rules hence why I stopped going.not a chance in hell there was gonna be social distencing in cjs but...again its folks choice to go but its not folk that ends up next to you in a shop or workplace wheres there choice? all because you wanted to see your swinger mates?
The re-opening was purely social night and strictly no playing. Felt there were enough measures to reassure me. If you think about the pole room; most of the couches are socially distanced anyways (as an example)
Plus, the risk is there all the time; pubs/public transport/shops. I always wear a mask & have hand sanitiser on me whenever out and cjs will be no different.
They’re not just “swinger friends”; they’re friends full stop; some outside fab as well.
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"I honestly can't see why folk would want yo put themselves at risk to go to a swingers place to "socialise" Iv been to pubs no one keeps to the rules hence why I stopped going.not a chance in hell there was gonna be social distencing in cjs but...again its folks choice to go but its not folk that ends up next to you in a shop or workplace wheres there choice? all because you wanted to see your swinger mates?
The re-opening was purely social night and strictly no playing. Felt there were enough measures to reassure me. If you think about the pole room; most of the couches are socially distanced anyways (as an example)
Plus, the risk is there all the time; pubs/public transport/shops. I always wear a mask & have hand sanitiser on me whenever out and cjs will be no different.
They’re not just “swinger friends”; they’re friends full stop; some outside fab as well.
Just my _iew.
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"My point was that people still have opportunities to meet their friends if a swinging club isn't open " But it perhaps won't be the same as they wont be supporting keeping a swinger club open and giving some much needed revenue to them. I'm sure coffee shops won't miss a Friday and Saturday nights worth of trading from a hand full of swingers. Whereas its perhaps critical for a swinger club. | |||
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"I honestly can't see why folk would want yo put themselves at risk to go to a swingers place to "socialise" Iv been to pubs no one keeps to the rules hence why I stopped going.not a chance in hell there was gonna be social distencing in cjs but...again its folks choice to go but its not folk that ends up next to you in a shop or workplace wheres there choice? all because you wanted to see your swinger mates? "Well swingers (most of them) seem to know a lot more about safe working practices better than your average joe when it comes to health hygiene and wearing PPE | |||
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"PS I’m looking forward to seeing everyone on Halloween but sadly this year I won’t be making any attempts to dress up, I’ll just be in full gimp suit with air filtration mask "Glad to hear that not everyone has lost their sense of humor. | |||
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"PS I’m looking forward to seeing everyone on Halloween but sadly this year I won’t be making any attempts to dress up, I’ll just be in full gimp suit with air filtration mask
Glad to hear that not everyone has lost their sense of humor. "Think you definitely need a sense of humour to keep you going these days! whilst I’ve no gimp suit, already on the lookout for a mask that’ll look nice rather than the industrial ones Ian brings home from work.
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"My point was that people still have opportunities to meet their friends if a swinging club isn't open " True, but the majority are ones that I only see at cjs/clubs so it makes sense to see them there. Plus as I’m working from home, don’t have the opportunity to go for daytime socialising (think Boss would have something to say if I bunked off for coffee :D As a regular at cjs prior to COVID, I wanted to support Caroline, Michelle and the gang in staying open. We’ve already lost one Scottish club; it’d be sad to see another one go. I’ve not seen my 96 yr/o Grandmother since February; she was in hosp (non-COVID related), now in nursing home from her own flat and I worry she’ll die there and I’ll have not seen her. so I am mindful. Ian would tell you I’m still cautious when going out; only been on public transport 3 times since lockdown was initially eased and constantly using hand sanitizer etc. My mental health (like many others) took a massive hit since March and the thought of seeing friends and a wee bit of ‘normality’ at cjs was what I was looking forward to.
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"Please do not be that naive to think that everyone would keep masks on or not mingle. "As a person with severe hearing problems, people wearing masks is a major issue with communication. However as it’s mandatory, I would do my best to have conversations or rely on Ian to help and still wear them. If someone took theirs off then I’d move. X | |||
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"My point was that people still have opportunities to meet their friends if a swinging club isn't open But it perhaps won't be the same as they wont be supporting keeping a swinger club open and giving some much needed revenue to them. I'm sure coffee shops won't miss a Friday and Saturday nights worth of trading from a hand full of swingers. Whereas its perhaps critical for a swinger club. " | |||
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"My point was that people still have opportunities to meet their friends if a swinging club isn't open But it perhaps won't be the same as they wont be supporting keeping a swinger club open and giving some much needed revenue to them. I'm sure coffee shops won't miss a Friday and Saturday nights worth of trading from a hand full of swingers. Whereas its perhaps critical for a swinger club. " My original reply was in response to someone saying it was an opportunity to meet with friends. That can still happen | |||
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"My point was that people still have opportunities to meet their friends if a swinging club isn't open But it perhaps won't be the same as they wont be supporting keeping a swinger club open and giving some much needed revenue to them. I'm sure coffee shops won't miss a Friday and Saturday nights worth of trading from a hand full of swingers. Whereas its perhaps critical for a swinger club. My original reply was in response to someone saying it was an opportunity to meet with friends. That can still happen " Friend Or acquaintances from a venue...... | |||
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
So everyone please stay safe, take care of yourselves and your loved ones and we hope to see you all again soon when it is safe to do so. xxx"Spot on well said | |||
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
So everyone please stay safe, take care of yourselves and your loved ones and we hope to see you all again soon when it is safe to do so. xxx"Hundred percent agree with this actually | |||
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We are going to show our support and if that means that we have to sit at a designated table we are more than happy to do that.
Would hate to see Caroline, Michelle and here amazing staff have to close the doors.
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
So everyone please stay safe, take care of yourselves and your loved ones and we hope to see you all again soon when it is safe to do so. xxx"Well said - thank you | |||
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
So everyone please stay safe, take care of yourselves and your loved ones and we hope to see you all again soon when it is safe to do so. xxx"Very well put. Well said. xxx | |||
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
So everyone please stay safe, take care of yourselves and your loved ones and we hope to see you all again soon when it is safe to do so. xxx". Well said indeed looking forward to seeing you both again | |||
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"This debate can go on forever and divide us all as to whether it is a good idea, responsible and safe to go to CJs or not. I'm sure Caroline, Michelle and the staff have worked extremely hard and spent a lot of time and money to ensure the venue was safe and suitable to re-open for a social only event prior to yesterday's announcement. Yes - there might be some people that would have chanced their luck and not followed the rules (which I'm sure would have resulted in them being asked to leave the venue), but we are all adults and have the choice not to go if we don't want to; and a responsibility and duty of care for ourselves and others if we do. Many of us, including ourselves love the social side of FAB. As regulars, we have met some amazing people and have some great FAB friends we were looking forward to seeing again. These last few months have been extremely difficult and no doubt has had a nagative impact on everyone's mental health, but the venue was also a safe haven for those who did not have the opportunity to meet outside CJs. The one's who were going would have been regulars who respected the rules and would have obided by them to show their support and thank Caroline, Michelle and the staff for all the effort, hard work and patience they have endured over the last few months... Whilst some may think it is selfish or irresponsible to re-open, think of how difficult this must be for Caroline, Michelle and the staff... I hope they see how much love and support they have and how much everyone misses them and socialising at CJs. I sincerely hope we don't lose CJs and it has to close as a result of this pandemic. We should be standing strong together and keeping our sense of humour during these unprecidented times, afterall that's what makes us Scottish so well respected and admired.
So everyone please stay safe, take care of yourselves and your loved ones and we hope to see you all again soon when it is safe to do so. xxx"Our thoughts entirely ^^^ | |||
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"My opinion is that Caroline never intended to re-open!! The re-opening could have happened months ago as she has a strong returning customers who would have been happy to pay full price ( or even increased prices to have a social only evening ) however she announced re-opening when After 8 sadly announced they were closing and also when the was highly likely that that the First Minister would impose further restrictions. Caroline has other business interests and the re-opening of CJs is far down her list of priorities. THE SHEEP WILL FOLLOW so don’t be a sheep and make your own decisions and make alternative choice to cope during this pandemic " I do love when people start go on about everyone being sheep or just going with the herd. Can I ask what makes you so different from everyone else living their life right now? What makes you the radical that's not going with the herd? I think Caroline and the team were getting ready to open and I hope when the restrictions are lifted that she can and does. Personally I don't think the club is right for socials at the moment with the distancing and lack of interactions measures being imposed, but that's my call and everyone else makes that call for themselves. I still wish everyone at cj's the best in getting through all this and I know you'll be back at full swing at some point. | |||
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"My opinion is that Caroline never intended to re-open!! The re-opening could have happened months ago as she has a strong returning customers who would have been happy to pay full price ( or even increased prices to have a social only evening ) however she announced re-opening when After 8 sadly announced they were closing and also when the was highly likely that that the First Minister would impose further restrictions. Caroline has other business interests and the re-opening of CJs is far down her list of priorities. THE SHEEP WILL FOLLOW so don’t be a sheep and make your own decisions and make alternative choice to cope during this pandemic " Well assuming you know more about Caroline and her personal life bud than many other people here , I've no doubt you just made quite a few block lists for your total lack of discretion with this post. Sour grapes is one thing , being a total arse is quite another. | |||
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"My opinion is that Caroline never intended to re-open!! The re-opening could have happened months ago as she has a strong returning customers who would have been happy to pay full price ( or even increased prices to have a social only evening ) however she announced re-opening when After 8 sadly announced they were closing and also when the was highly likely that that the First Minister would impose further restrictions. Caroline has other business interests and the re-opening of CJs is far down her list of priorities. THE SHEEP WILL FOLLOW so don’t be a sheep and make your own decisions and make alternative choice to cope during this pandemic Well assuming you know more about Caroline and her personal life bud than many other people here , I've no doubt you just made quite a few block lists for your total lack of discretion with this post. Sour grapes is one thing , being a total arse is quite another. "Boom!
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"It does seem a little off that even when Fab is still discouraging face to face meets and still promoting virtual swinging there’s people organising meets and events. It kind brings the site into a little bit of disrepute. Just saying likes." Ok. Me being able to keep my mouth shut didn't last long
Please see Fab guidelines below this was updated 19 weeks ago. Things have evolved and changed since then and will continue to do so.
If you are arranging/seeking outdoor social meets that fall within the social distancing guidelines of keeping 2m apart these are now likely to be OK. Check the government guidelines for detailed advice on this.
www.gov.uk/coronavirus UK government advice (if you're not in UK please check your local advice)
Not sure how what CJ is doing is bringing the site into disrepute when Fab clearly states as long as you are following government guidelines then go for it? Fab does not decide what people do and how they do it. Christ, even the government are having issues with doing that. They are discouraging sexual meets. Socialising is not a sexual meet. When are some people going to see the difference here? It is OK to meet in other establishments to have social meets but not CJs? Obviously things are a bit different atm but when it is OK for other establishments then why not here? I do not understand what the issue is? Other pubs/clubs have adapted to be able to operate as social events in a different manner. Why can't CJs? | |||
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