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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another rant,

How come single guys moan they can't get a meet, but when u do offer it, they run a mile.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You never offered me Mind you, I'm faaaar away haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Another rant,

How come single guys moan they can't get a meet, but when u do offer it, they run a mile."

maybe they are selective and wernt attracted to you ?

Meeting is about connection not about who offers what

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is mid week, they may be working tomorrow, truly not available...

sometimes people expect single guys to react like performing seals and when asked to jump '''.. say ' 'thank you so very much for asking me, how high..'

sorry you may have been let down and hope it improves in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I declined a meet as I was working the next day and was conscious of what I had to do etc the no thanks didn't go down well resulting in her having a dig at me then defriending. Some have unrealistic expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip im with my mate _iew on this,

too many cpls/fems think they can click their fingers and single guys should all come running

god forbid they get a knockback!!!

remember,,,single guys have feelings too you know lol

right,,,who fancies a shag?????

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Auds I'm working tomorrow lol but hey why not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think id better pass as youd be in no fit state to walk never mind work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me lol will take last min day off then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good points, also works the other way round, then don't make arrangements to meet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"All good points, also works the other way round, then don't make arrangements to meet

"

Very true.

You mention that you reserve the right to cancel last minute on your profile.

They maybe exercising the same.

All the best for the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have kids at home, that's why we have that,

But some single guys can't moan that they never get talked to,

Btw thanks for reading profile all the way to the end.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I have kids at home, that's why we have that,

But some single guys can't moan that they never get talked to,

Btw thanks for reading profile all the way to the end."

Cool

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

have kids at home, that's why we have that,.....some of the guys may have kids to and have to cancle at the last min?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like the idea of a meet yet struggle with the getting to the door to chap it, but only courteous to cancel as opposed to a no show. But hey I can't speak on their behalf just giving some suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another rant,

How come single guys moan they can't get a meet, but when u do offer it, they run a mile."

I agree with you 100%

Fab can be fun, when it works. You will always get guys who moan about no meets etc, Just part of the course and one of the minefields that one needs to walk through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id actually say cpls are worse for messing folk about than single guys? But thats just our take on it.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two points to make here...

1. Too many single guys talk the talk but cannot walk the walk. When it comes to a meet they run for the hills.

2. Some women just think single guys are just on here for their sole pleasure and they can click their fingers and the guys come running. This is not nice - we single guys are no different to you and deserve a little respect too.

Rant over.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"

There are two points to make here...

1. Too many single guys talk the talk but cannot walk the walk. When it comes to a meet they run for the hills.

2. Some women just think single guys are just on here for their sole pleasure and they can click their fingers and the guys come running. This is not nice - we single guys are no different to you and deserve a little respect too.

Rant over."

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By *__KMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm a single male, ,I don't bitch and moan about not getting meets, I don't run a mile when one is offered. I'm never a timewaster either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mention single guys on a thread unless it's to praise as the forum police will be quick to twist your post and bash you xx

Single guys get it rough but that's only because there are quite a few who are just numpties and ruin it for the good ones. We do the looking for guys when we want to play and find the ones we email all tend to be pretty chilled out and fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread made me smile as it's good to see that so many folk realise that the army of single guys on here includes good, bad & ugly, same as any other random sample of society.

I've had a lot of good chats and encounters here but the performing seal treatment (as View so aptly put it) is unfortunately commonplace.

And people are quick to assume that if you don't have kids you should be instantly available. Personally, I'm a part-time carer. Another revelation that can frequently result in immediate ignorance.

I guess it comes back to the same issue; all of us sometimes forgetting that behind every single profile lies real life. The site's not just a catalogue where you look at the pictures and go "I want that one!! Now!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and not a single bashing in sight ehe.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another rant,

How come single guys moan they can't get a meet, but when u do offer it, they run a mile."

As a single who has arranged all sorts of stuff, and not just gangbangs, I feel I can speak with a little authority. I have more experience of dealing with other single guys than any other single guy. I would say around 80% of guys run (or put it another way, are stay at home wankers). To have 20% of guys serious about meeting, I still think is a good number, compared to other web sites.

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By *ocksmithMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've never ever moaned about not being able to get a meet then again I've never had much of a problem getting meets aside from the countless weirdos and timewasters on here lol there are some amazing people to be found

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By *ocksmithMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Lol now that's what I call dropping it like it's hot lol

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By *ocksmithMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Very well putI fully agree

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By *reeningtomMan
over a year ago

Angus

I am sure that there are single guys out there who are timewasters, and those ones tend to make it harder for those of us who are genuine. yes there may be times when meets have to be called off at the last minute, but it is never too difficult to re-arrange for another date. I can understand why someone may be pissed off at a late cancellation, but if it is genuine, it is just one of those things.

But I do agree with you in relation to the time wasters who are always moaning and then run a mile or idsappear off the site as soon as someone takes an interest

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there are timewasters in all sections of Fabswingers.

You only have to watch the social/BBQ/party threads and the no shows at them. They swarm on the thread when it is posted, can we/I come please please please...

then don't pay, show up and even bother to text to advice cancellation.

and that is to socials, lunches & party/BBQ's at other member's homes.

Real life does get in the way but FREE texts cost NOTHING.

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

hahahaahah to View and Rabbit ive my fingers clicking now start bloody running your both in demand xxxxxxxxxxxxxx you both have three days to get here pmsl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

love ya both sooooooooooooo much but you know that love brennie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are timewasters in all sections of Fabswingers.

You only have to watch the social/BBQ/party threads and the no shows at them. They swarm on the thread when it is posted, can we/I come please please please...

then don't pay, show up and even bother to text to advice cancellation.

and that is to socials, lunches & party/BBQ's at other member's homes.

Real life does get in the way but FREE texts cost NOTHING."
going to start calling you ,,,yoda,,,oh wise 1 lol xx

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Another rant,

How come single guys moan they can't get a meet, but when u do offer it, they run a mile."

Perhaps the single men in question just didnt fancy you .... just because you offer to meet them does not mean they have to, just as if they had asked you it would be acceptable to say no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said yes we do have feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't run a mile

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