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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Hey there guys and girls.looking for advice on how to get more ppl to actually talk on here.is it my profile putting them off?

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

Try a profile name that is less direct.

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"Try a profile name that is less direct. "

Any examples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics

More content

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"More pics

More content "
I dont really like my body that's why I dont put up much pics but yours look great btw.as for content I'm not sure what to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More pics

More content I dont really like my body that's why I dont put up much pics but yours look great btw.as for content I'm not sure what to say"

Body pics don't necessarily mean naked. Lots of guys have clothed pics, could be in a suit, your work gear, pic of you out on your bike if you cycle...anything really...gives a wee bit more insight into your personality if you put a bit of thought into it.

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"More pics

More content I dont really like my body that's why I dont put up much pics but yours look great btw.as for content I'm not sure what to say

Body pics don't necessarily mean naked. Lots of guys have clothed pics, could be in a suit, your work gear, pic of you out on your bike if you cycle...anything really...gives a wee bit more insight into your personality if you put a bit of thought into it."

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"More pics

More content I dont really like my body that's why I dont put up much pics but yours look great btw.as for content I'm not sure what to say

Body pics don't necessarily mean naked. Lots of guys have clothed pics, could be in a suit, your work gear, pic of you out on your bike if you cycle...anything really...gives a wee bit more insight into your personality if you put a bit of thought into it."
I didnt think of it like that.just b nice to know women or couples would be interested on chatting and possibly more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at other guys profiles and take some of their ideas.

Agree with the name.its offputting

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"Look at other guys profiles and take some of their ideas.

Agree with the name.its offputting"
obv wasnt thinking to much to the name i just thought since it was a sex site that it would fit right in

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would definitely agree your name would put ladies off especially the it part, also would you really have sex with an 18 or 99 year old?

K

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"I would definitely agree your name would put ladies off especially the it part, also would you really have sex with an 18 or 99 year old?

K"
suppose I.wouldnt no and not sure what name.to.choose

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would definitely agree your name would put ladies off especially the it part, also would you really have sex with an 18 or 99 year old?

K suppose I.wouldnt no and not sure what name.to.choose"

Have a look at other profiles to give you an idea,if I was looking to meet a guy I wouldn't even read your message seeing your name would be enough for me to decide no

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate..I've been here a very long time..Trust me..change you're profile name to...

Rampant12incherhammeraction.

Honestly, you'll be knocking gram back in no time..

Use you're imagination bud..

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Mate..I've been here a very long time..Trust me..change you're profile name to...

Rampant12incherhammeraction.

Honestly, you'll be knocking gram back in no time..

Use you're imagination bud..

"

Don't trust him - he lies!!

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"Mate..I've been here a very long time..Trust me..change you're profile name to...

Rampant12incherhammeraction.

Honestly, you'll be knocking gram back in no time..

Use you're imagination bud..

Not letting me change my name

Don't trust him - he lies!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything in the name that could be considered demeaning will put some people off; it's something we raise an eyebrow at ourselves often enough.

A well articulated bio goes a long way and suggests you've made at least some effort to give a more personal insight into who you are and what you're about. We pretty much ignore profiles with very little to no information in them, especially the faceless ones, which we often block.

A good selection of photos without your entire laundry basket exposed in the background, or beer cans and general household mess laying around is definitely a plus.

Oh, and the annoying 'Hi, how are you?' messages put most people off. Always make the effort to formulate a good opening message! A lot can be decided on how you initiate a conversation; complimentary humour generally works well with us.

And lastly, read the profiles of those you contact. We're not all looking for the same things, and it shows you've considered their desires and interests, too.

Hope this helps.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will probably be your messages that put people off but your profile is terrible if I'm honest

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Lie

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Thanks for the honesty .may need to delete this profile and start again as it's not letting me change my name

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thanks for the honesty .may need to delete this profile and start again as it's not letting me change my name"
just get membership then you won't lose you verifications

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"Thanks for the honesty .may need to delete this profile and start again as it's not letting me change my namejust get membership then you won't lose you verifications "
might just do that when I get paid and hopefully I can make my profile.more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about just continue being who you are, if people don’t reply it’s there loss

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

It's a pretty uninspiring profile to be honest, & as a single male on here you'll be competing with thousands of others, so it really needs some work.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no need to change your name.

Just clarify that rideithard refers to your enjoyment of riding things such as a bus, bicycle, dodgem, elephant, subway train, snow mobile, escalators and skateboard.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Truth is that whilst some folk will be put off by your name and want to know if you ride a bike or what you look like in a suit there are others who hate suits, couldn't care less if you ride a bike and just want to know if you can ride them hard. Problem is it's an absolute lottery out there finding the folk who will be interested in you. My advice is just be yourself rather than trying to be what you think folk want. The biggest asset you can have on here isn't the size of your cock or fancy pictures, it's patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the honesty .may need to delete this profile and start again as it's not letting me change my namejust get membership then you won't lose you verifications might just do that when I get paid and hopefully I can make my profile.more interesting "

Murder when you’re skint just before pay day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be the juicest peach in the world but there will still be someone who hates peaches...

Think of your profile as a shop window. You've actually said very little about yourself or given any one any reason to want to find out more about you.

When you look at your profile, ask yourself : would you reply to you?

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By *ideyouhard OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Thanks for the comments hope they help

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By *ighlander80884Man
over a year ago

Inverness


"Look at other guys profiles and take some of their ideas.

Agree with the name.its offputting obv wasnt thinking to much to the name i just thought since it was a sex site that it would fit right in"

Its not a sex site, it's a swingers site, maybe this is part of the issue with not getting meets.

Look also at the way you type messages, sometimes it looks like text speak, this can also be off-putting to people.

There is no one guaranteed solution.

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