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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a relatively young guy, I tend to find and have done for a number of years that I find some older women incredibly attractive and more arousing than those around my own age. Some of my best meets have been with those 15-20years my senior! Who else gets this? Ladies feel free to comment.

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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago

blackness

I agree, I’ve always preferred even just hanging about with older people rather than people my own age, and always found older women very attractive and the best nights I have had has been with older women,

but a lot of women on here think that a younger guy is too much trouble or maybe just doing it for a notch on the bedpost kind of thing and don’t believe there could be a real attraction

At the last Edinburgh social I actually got told by an older couple that I shouldn’t be on things like fab until I’m older, which I thought was weird but it kind of proves my point

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I agree, I’ve always preferred even just hanging about with older people rather than people my own age, and always found older women very attractive and the best nights I have had has been with older women,

but a lot of women on here think that a younger guy is too much trouble or maybe just doing it for a notch on the bedpost kind of thing and don’t believe there could be a real attraction

At the last Edinburgh social I actually got told by an older couple that I shouldn’t be on things like fab until I’m older, which I thought was weird but it kind of proves my point"

A couple told you that you shouldn't be on fab

Hope you told them to fuck off.

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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago

blackness

Well there was parentheses to it, they said that “a handsome young man should be out just experiencing the world and not on fab, not yet, not for another 10 or 20 years”

I think it was an attempt to be nice and kind of imply I could get sex without being on fab, which although true, to have great sex is not the only reason I’m on fab lol.

Either way I did try to take it as a compliment but definitely noted the undertones of implying that fab isn’t for young people kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to work out when I will fit into the “older women” category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to work out when I will fit into the “older women” category "

You need a few more miles on the clock yet

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We had a young guy write a few years ago asking for a meet saying he absolutely loved meeting old women!!

I was only 39 at the time. I was so affronted I blocked him andimmediately. Lol

Sensitivity is necessary to make an approach on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to work out when I will fit into the “older women” category

You need a few more miles on the clock yet "

Im looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trying to work out when I will fit into the “older women” category

You need a few more miles on the clock yet

Im looking forward to it "

You can be an exception and be let in early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I seem to click more sexually with younger men I dont know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to work out when I will fit into the “older women” category

You need a few more miles on the cock yet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..

The younger men seem too young

The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.

The men my own age want older women.

It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a

Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..

The younger men seem too young

The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.

The men my own age want older women.

It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a

Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there "

....aye....and then you look back from your 40s and wonder why you gave a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..

The younger men seem too young

The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.

The men my own age want older women.

It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a

Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there "

This

Or maybe we’re just fussy buggars. But yeah either too young for the young guys after cougars or too young for Chaps hitting a midlife crisis and after a 21 year old

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By *amestaylorMan
over a year ago

Rutherglen

Older the fiddle the better the tune

That goes both ways

Females & Males

Its a life lesson.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the problem is when men message with things like... I'm into older women, wanna meet?

Or the ones who say.... You look great, for your age Lol

I'd guess I'd someone messaged me they didn't mind my age but when they make an issue of it, it turns me off cause feels like it's a box they want to tick. Maybe I'm too sensitive I dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet from 28-50 but cant really remember the last time i had anyone the same age. Its always been younger.

Have not been disappointed yet

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By *ornynhappy23Man
over a year ago

renfrewshireish

I'd say 40 upward makes it older

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I meet from 28-50 but cant really remember the last time i had anyone the same age. Its always been younger.

Have not been disappointed yet "

There is always exceptions. I’m not ageist. Am youthfulness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i were to meet 20 years my senior, well ___-----

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread.....it always amazes me how attraction takes all forms....for me age doesn't come into it too much....attraction comes from a number of factors. Many of those on this thread have much of it in abundance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea what you mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just going to sit here quietly and see if any of the ladies who are having a problem finding someone to appreciate them notices me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to sit here quietly and see if any of the ladies who are having a problem finding someone to appreciate them notices me. "

Did someone say something...

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By *ugbyVsYogaCouple (MM)
over a year ago

west end

I have been on fab since the beginning, 2006 I think. I was 24 then. I have met girls my age and older in that time.

Perhaps I was just better looking when I was younger, but I had more success with ladies in the 45 plus category when I was in my 20’s.

I think often people come to fab to find something they believe (rightly or wrongly) they can’t find in the real world.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am quite happy that my age would not put anyone off.

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By *ugbyVsYogaCouple (MM)
over a year ago

west end


"I am quite happy that my age would not put anyone off."

Rugby and Yoga are in agreement that you have mass appeal x stunning. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always liked the older woman. Know what they want and what they like. As long as they like the older guy as well...as that's where i am now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am quite happy that my age would not put anyone off."

Certainly not you look absolutely stunning having a glance at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be more attracted to younger men these days but age doesnt come into the equation too much its more about how they interact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to sit here quietly and see if any of the ladies who are having a problem finding someone to appreciate them notices me.

Did someone say something... "

Cough,cough

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By *exyredheadtattooCouple
over a year ago

Beaumont


"As a relatively young guy, I tend to find and have done for a number of years that I find some older women incredibly attractive and more arousing than those around my own age. Some of my best meets have been with those 15-20years my senior! Who else gets this? Ladies feel free to comment."

I am an older women you may find hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think the problem is when men message with things like... I'm into older women, wanna meet?

Or the ones who say.... You look great, for your age Lol

I'd guess I'd someone messaged me they didn't mind my age but when they make an issue of it, it turns me off cause feels like it's a box they want to tick. Maybe I'm too sensitive I dunno "

This is how I feel too.

Lots of extremely attractive younger guys with cracking bodies on here, but the chat is often terrible or the conversation feels too much like hard work.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

If it's just the age range that appeals I wouldn't be interested. Like someone said earlier, don't want to be a tick box and personally prefer to hang out with people who i have a connection and mutual attraction with.

So any messages that come in about wanting older women are a definite no from me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..

The younger men seem too young

The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.

The men my own age want older women.

It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a

Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there "

This is very true, also I look young. The amount of guys who chat me up then find out my age is same as them and then blank me.

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By *yannbWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As a relatively young guy, I tend to find and have done for a number of years that I find some older women incredibly attractive and more arousing than those around my own age. Some of my best meets have been with those 15-20years my senior! Who else gets this? Ladies feel free to comment."

Older? Hope am generalising!! Off putting from the start, mature or experienced at least doesn't have you thinking immature & inexperienced. For the boyfriends that are just on a quest for a mind blowing blowjob that think we should think we are lucky they have spared us some of their precious time, we would be thinking they would be luckier if we spared them some time lol

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By *cott23Man
over a year ago

north ayrshire

There's an older female postie near me that's very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as soon as someone says I'm into the older woman or words to that effect.

Instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, I’ve always preferred even just hanging about with older people rather than people my own age, and always found older women very attractive and the best nights I have had has been with older women,

but a lot of women on here think that a younger guy is too much trouble or maybe just doing it for a notch on the bedpost kind of thing and don’t believe there could be a real attraction

At the last Edinburgh social I actually got told by an older couple that I shouldn’t be on things like fab until I’m older, which I thought was weird but it kind of proves my point"

I’ve lost count of how many people have told me I’m too young for fab

I didn’t realise there was an age limit lol xx

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Older women. I’ve always had a taste for women in their 40’s. But now that can be 6 years younger than me! 50’s is my new 40’s. I always find it funny that I ended up with a younger woman.

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By *ablo30Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As a 41 year old man, I don’t find I have much if anything in common with a lady in her 20’s, and very much doubt they would disagree with this!

I tend to find women with experience, intelligence, and a confidence in themselves that a younger lady may not have, much more of a turn on. That’s not to say I don’t find younger women attractive, but there has to be some mental stimulation as well, which I more commonly find with ladies around my age bracket.

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath


"I find I seem to click more sexually with younger men I dont know why "

i'm exactly the same xx

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

In my 20s I spent every day wishing an older woman got her hands on me and taught me the world !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find I seem to click more sexually with younger men I dont know why

i'm exactly the same xx"

Oh honey

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I find I seem to click more sexually with younger men I dont know why

i'm exactly the same xx"

I can also relate to this.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find I seem to click more sexually with younger men I dont know why

i'm exactly the same xx

I can also relate to this.x"

You’d best lower your age range then so we can get chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman mature much better than men, ladies late 30’s upwards know exactly what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman mature much better than men, ladies late 30’s upwards know exactly what they want "

Yep...my kitchen finished and an extension is top of my "I want it fucking now!" list....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He he class answer

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Woman mature much better than men, ladies late 30’s upwards know exactly what they want "

Oi. Speak for yourself.

And I’ve met plenty ladies over 30 that haven’t a clue what they want. Until I tell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like people I click with, no matter the age.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’m ALL for the younger guys 23-35 ideally, but I prefer the younger end of that.

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have went up and down the age scale. Been with men 18/19 years older and guys about 15 years younger.

I find the older guys are more gentle and like to please. Were younger guys its all about the stamina how well they can fuck you.

Don't get me wrong nothing wrong with either as long as am fully satisfied I dont mind.

Personally its more about attraction than age with me. If a guy catches my eye or I catch them eying me up then who cares about age

Oh and don't mind hubby watching or joining in then its all good.

I do draw a line at certain ages 24- 50 gives a wide age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have went up and down the age scale. Been with men 18/19 years older and guys about 15 years younger.

I find the older guys are more gentle and like to please. Were younger guys its all about the stamina how well they can fuck you.

Don't get me wrong nothing wrong with either as long as am fully satisfied I dont mind.

Personally its more about attraction than age with me. If a guy catches my eye or I catch them eying me up then who cares about age

Oh and don't mind hubby watching or joining in then its all good.

I do draw a line at certain ages 24- 50 gives a wide age range "

The younger end of the scale aren’t experienced enough to know how to correctly pleasure a women and the signs to look for. A man approaching 30 and around is at the peak of both fitness and experience

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I have went up and down the age scale. Been with men 18/19 years older and guys about 15 years younger.

I find the older guys are more gentle and like to please. Were younger guys its all about the stamina how well they can fuck you.

Don't get me wrong nothing wrong with either as long as am fully satisfied I dont mind.

Personally its more about attraction than age with me. If a guy catches my eye or I catch them eying me up then who cares about age

Oh and don't mind hubby watching or joining in then its all good.

I do draw a line at certain ages 24- 50 gives a wide age range

The younger end of the scale aren’t experienced enough to know how to correctly pleasure a women and the signs to look for. A man approaching 30 and around is at the peak of both fitness and experience "

I wouldn't say that it all depends on experience.

Yeah i would say a few don't have the experience and lack in knowledge of a womans body. But then its fun shown them the ropes

Hubby was only 22 when I met him almost 8 years younger than me very young and had a lot to learn but still knew how to press the buttons to get me going and has definitely got better with age.

But before I met him I met a guy lets just say he was a non starter. Jim lasted longer in American pie Lol

Guess it all comes down to confidence and personal experiences

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Being a woman in your 30s is like no man's land..

The younger men seem too young

The older men are often a little too old or they want someone in their 20s.

The men my own age want older women.

It's why so many of us are on the shelf. a

Some of us can't even find a FWB arrangement to keep us entertained while we sit there

This

Or maybe we’re just fussy buggars. But yeah either too young for the young guys after cougars or too young for Chaps hitting a midlife crisis and after a 21 year old "

I'm pretty sure you won't struggle for attention

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

age doesn't bother me in the slightest

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

I hate being asked “what age are you?” and being classed as a mature woman- I feel like I’m only just getting started...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a younger guy showed interest in me I’d be flattered esp if I thought he was HOT lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been more attracted to older women.. Plus the sex is miles better too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet from 28-50 but cant really remember the last time i had anyone the same age. Its always been younger.

Have not been disappointed yet

There is always exceptions. I’m not ageist. Am youthfulness. "

Aww jim soz your just too old . As young as you are in your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my personal opinion I don't really care about how old a woman is on fab. If you're hot you're hot, won't stop me from tryna say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older ladies but at 50 I'm no spring chicken have had some great nights with ladies 65 and above.

As a guy I wouldn't want to meet someone say 20 yrs younger even at 30 yrs old I feel I have little connection with them conversation wise

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Age is irrelevant if you have a matching sense of (flirty)humour and interests..I'll get on with any woman who enjoys a cunning linguist

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm seeing a lady who is 70 and I can't keep pace with her. I keep hinting about a 3 some but she isn't agreeing to that so far.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I'm seeing a lady who is 70 and I can't keep pace with her. I keep hinting about a 3 some but she isn't agreeing to that so far."

A threesome with another male or female?

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Older women do it for me.......definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ask me its subjective your attracted to what turns you on.

I've never bothered about age it's more about connection and how you interact with each other for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m older ..........but yes I do get on with much younger men and some of the best sex I have ever had is with younger ...........relentless definitely falls into that category

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By *evensnipeMan
over a year ago

Dinbych

I had a long term relationship with a wonderful lady 20 years my senior when in my early 30's. We met on a management course. It lasted a couple of years until I moved because of the course finishing and work. She was petit, thin, but with all the hallmarks of having had two children which was wonderfully erotic. She gave me the best blow jobs I have ever had. She was lithe, supple and could bend in all sorts of ways I never knew possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a long term relationship with a wonderful lady 20 years my senior when in my early 30's. We met on a management course. It lasted a couple of years until I moved because of the course finishing and work. She was petit, thin, but with all the hallmarks of having had two children which was wonderfully erotic. She gave me the best blow jobs I have ever had. She was lithe, supple and could bend in all sorts of ways I never knew possible. "

That’s exactly what you want , lucky man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find I seem to click more sexually with younger men I dont know why "

I’ve also found that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife loves younger but she is very fussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wife loves younger but she is very fussy "

Is her criteria flexible ?

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