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By *lassybutseeknaughtiness OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coatbridge

Is anyone else on hear put off commenting on the forums because there seems to be so much bitchyness and arguing? A really think some people need to get a grip and chill out, surely the forums should feel fun and welcoming? We personally don't post much or reply for that reason. Right now it seems to be getting worse probably because of lockdown, but perhaps if you have nothing nice to say,say nothing!! Just our opinion on how the forums come across. Not here to argue as tbh we would rather make friends and arrange meets ECT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is anyone else on hear put off commenting on the forums because there seems to be so much bitchyness and arguing? A really think some people need to get a grip and chill out, surely the forums should feel fun and welcoming? We personally don't post much or reply for that reason. Right now it seems to be getting worse probably because of lockdown, but perhaps if you have nothing nice to say,say nothing!! Just our opinion on how the forums come across. Not here to argue as tbh we would rather make friends and arrange meets ECT."
its easy to spot ones who are looking for a reaction they are best ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anyone else on hear put off commenting on the forums because there seems to be so much bitchyness and arguing? A really think some people need to get a grip and chill out, surely the forums should feel fun and welcoming? We personally don't post much or reply for that reason. Right now it seems to be getting worse probably because of lockdown, but perhaps if you have nothing nice to say,say nothing!! Just our opinion on how the forums come across. Not here to argue as tbh we would rather make friends and arrange meets ECT.its easy to spot ones who are looking for a reaction they are best ignored "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some threads do go that way, a wee debate can be healthy but the long drawn out ones can be tedious..

I enjoy the light humoured ones I must admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why folk look for fights. Or folk bitching, at the end of the day we all should be glad we have each other in here

Plus it's times like this when we all realise what we all have is our life and happiness xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you're right.

It's just like real life though, some folk could start a fight in an empty room and.

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anyone else on hear put off commenting on the forums because there seems to be so much bitchyness and arguing? A really think some people need to get a grip and chill out, surely the forums should feel fun and welcoming? We personally don't post much or reply for that reason. Right now it seems to be getting worse probably because of lockdown, but perhaps if you have nothing nice to say,say nothing!! Just our opinion on how the forums come across. Not here to argue as tbh we would rather make friends and arrange meets ECT."

There are plenty different types of threads, some fun ones like the Fab bar, some serious threads , some sad RIP threads ,some controversial and some ranting threads, some threads break out into all out war but for them all just follow the Fab forum guidelines, if you don't like the contents of the thread , simply ignore it and move on to another that suits you.

Hope you get more involved stay safe and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk like a bit of substance to forum topics...even on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, you're right.

It's just like real life though, some folk could start a fight in an empty room and."
this

Ignore what you dont like post what your interested in.

Works for me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anyone else on hear put off commenting on the forums because there seems to be so much bitchyness and arguing? A really think some people need to get a grip and chill out, surely the forums should feel fun and welcoming? We personally don't post much or reply for that reason. Right now it seems to be getting worse probably because of lockdown, but perhaps if you have nothing nice to say,say nothing!! Just our opinion on how the forums come across. Not here to argue as tbh we would rather make friends and arrange meets ECT."

Yip, I couldn't agree more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other."

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful."

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By *lassybutseeknaughtiness OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coatbridge


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful."

Just our opinion that it holds some back, no doubt some do enjoy the arguing aspect. I'm all for a wee debate but imo it seems to get a bit personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful."

The Lounge from what I've seen is not much different from the Scottish forums, simply a higher populated platform. All the exact same type of characters grace both Scotland and the lounge forums. Because Scotland is smaller in numbers individuals and their traits stand out way more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel the same as OP now just took to lurking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful."
This

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

With mention of The Lounge - what’s the difference between that and Swingers Chat? Look to me to be similar content and people posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other."

I agree with this. Would be boring if we all thought the same. X

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I think some folks sense of humour is sometimes mis read which therefore can cause a riot.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I think some folks sense of humour is sometimes mis read which therefore can cause a riot. "

Naw it disnae .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some folks sense of humour is sometimes mis read which therefore can cause a riot. "
Agree, but also whether it be, sms, WhatsApp or any other form of text, sometimes, text, can sometimes mislead, obviously you cant actually hear the persons voice, so its harder to judge what they really are saying, one reason i like emojis, they can express a feeling to the written text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always bitchiness everywhere.

Some like to cause conflict, some try to avoid it.

It's life.

It shows up more online because its easy for some to take a wee power trip or try to bring down others, all while hiding behind a keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some folks sense of humour is sometimes mis read which therefore can cause a riot. "

agree with this

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful.

Just our opinion that it holds some back, no doubt some do enjoy the arguing aspect. I'm all for a wee debate but imo it seems to get a bit personal.

"

A wee debate is good and hearing different opinions can be enlightening but sometimes it’s the same person wittering on and arguing with everyone that comments.

I have written a response a few times then just deleted it as I can’t be bothered listening to the same person nit-picking at my comment!

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By *lassybutseeknaughtiness OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coatbridge


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful.

Just our opinion that it holds some back, no doubt some do enjoy the arguing aspect. I'm all for a wee debate but imo it seems to get a bit personal.

A wee debate is good and hearing different opinions can be enlightening but sometimes it’s the same person wittering on and arguing with everyone that comments.

I have written a response a few times then just deleted it as I can’t be bothered listening to the same person nit-picking at my comment! "

Lol yeah I get what you mean as you know your point falls on deaf ears.

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

This was the reason we came off the chats for a while. Everyone’s here for fun not drama!

Lxx

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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I have written a response a few times then just deleted it as I can’t be bothered listening to the same person nit-picking at my comment! "

Yip stayed off the forums recently after it seemed to be dominated by certain members quite frankly being pricks.

I read but definitely don’t post much now.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"

I have written a response a few times then just deleted it as I can’t be bothered listening to the same person nit-picking at my comment!

Yip stayed off the forums recently after it seemed to be dominated by certain members quite frankly being pricks.

I read but definitely don’t post much now. "

We will put it down to lockdown frustrations and hope it goes back to being fun with the odd debate

Good for using the old block button though

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By *lassybutseeknaughtiness OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coatbridge


"

I have written a response a few times then just deleted it as I can’t be bothered listening to the same person nit-picking at my comment!

Yip stayed off the forums recently after it seemed to be dominated by certain members quite frankly being pricks.

I read but definitely don’t post much now.

We will put it down to lockdown frustrations and hope it goes back to being fun with the odd debate

Good for using the old block button though "

Used the block loads during this pandemic as we've been invited on so many meets. Instant block.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Life brings enough drama along without poking the bear.

I prefer to have a laugh personally , if something comes up that I want voice my opinion, I will but try not to be argumentative

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful."
by the same token kiss fuck avoid and virtual bars stop many from postings to the lounge it's strange that it's not policed in the same manner I've seen lots of contentious posts that wouldn't last 5 mins in scotland forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful.by the same token kiss fuck avoid and virtual bars stop many from postings to the lounge it's strange that it's not policed in the same manner I've seen lots of contentious posts that wouldn't last 5 mins in scotland forums "

You're still full of the joys I see lovely!,

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I quite like a bit of drama on the forums. It would be dull if we all agreed with each other.

The soap opera aspect of it can be mildly entertaining I suppose...but it's disappointing to realise it holds back others from posting. Look at the likes of the lounge where a wide variety of characters post all sorts of nonsense. Makes the place a bit more colourful.by the same token kiss fuck avoid and virtual bars stop many from postings to the lounge it's strange that it's not policed in the same manner I've seen lots of contentious posts that wouldn't last 5 mins in scotland forums

You're still full of the joys I see lovely!, "
real Joy's not that fake cackle

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

There are some people on the forum that just get on my tits. You can’t WIN

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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I have written a response a few times then just deleted it as I can’t be bothered listening to the same person nit-picking at my comment!

Yip stayed off the forums recently after it seemed to be dominated by certain members quite frankly being pricks.

I read but definitely don’t post much now.

We will put it down to lockdown frustrations and hope it goes back to being fun with the odd debate

Good for using the old block button though "

Oh yeah it most certainly is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What à refreshing change à post where everyone is in agreement thank goodness like you say it becomes ridiculous, whole point of this aboit this site is escaping the tedious of everyday life and enjoy some witty, sexy banter not bang on about the woes of the world, if I wanted that I would watch the news so its Friday smile the weekend has begun, we can stop pretending we have to do stuff and odd jobs and just chill x

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By *lassybutseeknaughtiness OP   Couple
over a year ago

Coatbridge


"What à refreshing change à post where everyone is in agreement thank goodness like you say it becomes ridiculous, whole point of this aboit this site is escaping the tedious of everyday life and enjoy some witty, sexy banter not bang on about the woes of the world, if I wanted that I would watch the news so its Friday smile the weekend has begun, we can stop pretending we have to do stuff and odd jobs and just chill x "

I'm glad our post was received well, hopefully if it helps some including us then great x

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