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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else see profiles saying normal guy,girl or couple and think that's exactly what a serial killer would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else see profiles saying normal guy,girl or couple and think that's exactly what a serial killer would say

That's just normal is it not

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

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Sociopaths, the lot of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More people on here should aspire to be normal

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"More people on here should aspire to be normal "

I'm rather glad I'm not normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people on here should aspire to be normal

I'm rather glad I'm not normal

Serious question...why? What's wrong with fitting in and being ordinary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else see profiles saying normal guy,girl or couple and think that's exactly what a serial killer would say

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The panel van, with the blacked out windows is a dead give away

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"More people on here should aspire to be normal

I'm rather glad I'm not normal

Serious question...why? What's wrong with fitting in and being ordinary?"

Why aspire to be the same, let's celebrate our differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I the mr have never fitted in with normal and for standing out I was bullied horribly. Now I really don't care that am different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people on here should aspire to be normal "

Normal doesn't exist. It's nothing more than a setting on the washing machine.

If the world and his wife stopped trying to create the perception of 'normal' that some people just can't, (and shouldn't ever try to be) then maybe so many people wouldn't be quite so fucked up.

People should instead be authentic and feel able to be themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people on here should aspire to be normal

I'm rather glad I'm not normal

Serious question...why? What's wrong with fitting in and being ordinary?"

Cause it’s bloody boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people on here should aspire to be normal

Normal doesn't exist. It's nothing more than a setting on the washing machine.

If the world and his wife stopped trying to create the perception of 'normal' that some people just can't, (and shouldn't ever try to be) then maybe so many people wouldn't be quite so fucked up.

People should instead be authentic and feel able to be themselves. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else see profiles saying normal guy,girl or couple and think that's exactly what a serial killer would say

It's a bit like the "professional couple" statement....Most things on here are open to interpretation. For some, "normal" could mean lights out, missionary sex once a fortnight. For others it could be 3somes every weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just clone us all to be the same, never ending conveyor belt

( boring)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just clone us all to be the same, never ending conveyor belt

( boring)"

There’s an episode from The Fairly Odd Parents (kids show that I watched when I was wee) where Timmy wishes everyone was the same and ‘normal’. And it’s bloody miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just clone us all to be the same, never ending conveyor belt

( boring)

There’s an episode from The Fairly Odd Parents (kids show that I watched when I was wee) where Timmy wishes everyone was the same and ‘normal’. And it’s bloody miserable "

Oooh I could imagine, I've never seen it though....

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

To me I’m normal, to others I may be odd, or even boring lol

It all depends on the individual’s perspective of what ‘normal’ is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life "
it is the standard people might have you believe they live their life.

What is normal for the bird would be ridiculous for the fish..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life it is the standard people might have you believe they live their life.

What is normal for the bird would be ridiculous for the fish.. "

I'm talking about people...most of them aren't clever enough tricksters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life "

Nah, boring. Are you normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life "

It's a completely subjective term. You could seem entirely "normal" to the folk you encounter in your daily life. But they'd raise more than an eyebrow if they knew you were on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life

Nah, boring. Are you normal?"

Absolutely I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty normal in my own wee world.

( I think )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life

Nah, boring. Are you normal?

Absolutely I am.

So we should all live like you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life

Nah, boring. Are you normal?

Absolutely I am.

So we should all live like you?"

Maybe if more folk did they'd be content

Although I can't claim credit for setting the standard

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm not exactly sure what you are classing as normal? Is it the marriage and 2.4 kids thing? If so which part of the child is the 0.4 we get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are unique, just like all other snowflakes

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"We are unique, just like all other snowflakes

Love this

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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

Is fab normal similar to a fab straight male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are unique, just like all other snowflakes

Love this

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is fab normal similar to a fab straight male?

Fab normal is where most start going wrong

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Is fab normal similar to a fab straight male?

Fab normal is where most start going wrong "

So what is the standard of normal we should be trying to attain? And who decides what the standard is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I (Mr) listen to to many true crime podcast when the neighbours always say they where such a nice person after they find the bodies

Can we see we are proud to be a bit different in our own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is fab normal similar to a fab straight male?

Fab normal is where most start going wrong

So what is the standard of normal we should be trying to attain? And who decides what the standard is? "

I refuse to believe at the number of folk who claim not to be aware of what's considered a normal way to live life by the majority of the rest of society

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Is fab normal similar to a fab straight male?

Fab normal is where most start going wrong

So what is the standard of normal we should be trying to attain? And who decides what the standard is?

I refuse to believe at the number of folk who claim not to be aware of what's considered a normal way to live life by the majority of the rest of society "

Maybe it's because everyones definition of what 'normal' should be is different for everyone. The very fact there are protests and riots happening yet again over racial inequality just confirms that.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I’m definitely normally uniquely abnormal I think .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people on here should aspire to be normal

Normal doesn't exist. It's nothing more than a setting on the washing machine.

If the world and his wife stopped trying to create the perception of 'normal' that some people just can't, (and shouldn't ever try to be) then maybe so many people wouldn't be quite so fucked up.

People should instead be authentic and feel able to be themselves. "

Definitely

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life it is the standard people might have you believe they live their life.

What is normal for the bird would be ridiculous for the fish..

I'm talking about people...most of them aren't clever enough tricksters "

People work in the exact same analogy.

For example I have adhd so your "normal" is a fucking horrific nightmare for me so it gets called a disability in today's world & you get bullied for it, even as an adult.

No, I just don't see the world like you & don't expect me to conform to you because of it.

Any great thinker/ scientist/ innovators was not "normal", adhd/autism/aspergers.

you can say thank you now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people on here should aspire to be normal "

Serious question,

So you said you class yourself in the normal person category.

Why should more people aspire to be the same as you. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life it is the standard people might have you believe they live their life.

What is normal for the bird would be ridiculous for the fish..

I'm talking about people...most of them aren't clever enough tricksters

People work in the exact same analogy.

For example I have adhd so your "normal" is a fucking horrific nightmare for me so it gets called a disability in today's world & you get bullied for it, even as an adult.

No, I just don't see the world like you & don't expect me to conform to you because of it.

Any great thinker/ scientist/ innovators was not "normal", adhd/autism/aspergers.

you can say thank you now.

It still frustrates me that society still doesn't see the damage this expectation of conformity does. Somehow people are expected to change to fit their environment. However if you had a plant that wasn't growing in the shade, you'd move it to the sun.

People are no diffrent.

Sadly though so many are lacking in any ability to see past their own bubble. Or they don't appreciate the beauty of difference.

The idea of contentment is lovely but that doesn't mean people should stop growing or aspiring for more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life

Nah, boring. Are you normal?

Absolutely I am.

So we should all live like you?

Maybe if more folk did they'd be content

Although I can't claim credit for setting the standard "

What if I think I’m above your standard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life

Nah, boring. Are you normal?

Absolutely I am.

So we should all live like you?

Maybe if more folk did they'd be content

Although I can't claim credit for setting the standard

What if I think I’m above your standard?"

Are you content with where you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life it is the standard people might have you believe they live their life.

What is normal for the bird would be ridiculous for the fish..

I'm talking about people...most of them aren't clever enough tricksters

People work in the exact same analogy.

For example I have adhd so your "normal" is a fucking horrific nightmare for me so it gets called a disability in today's world & you get bullied for it, even as an adult.

No, I just don't see the world like you & don't expect me to conform to you because of it.

Any great thinker/ scientist/ innovators was not "normal", adhd/autism/aspergers.

you can say thank you now.

People are no diffrent.

Sadly though so many are lacking in any ability to see past their own bubble. Or they don't appreciate the beauty of difference.

The idea of contentment is lovely but that doesn't mean people should stop growing or aspiring for more. "

Agreed, diversity is what makes so interesting

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I read "normal" & usually just think "dull".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clear up..I'm using normal in the sense of it being a standard by which the majority of people live their life

Nah, boring. Are you normal?

Absolutely I am.

So we should all live like you?

Maybe if more folk did they'd be content

Although I can't claim credit for setting the standard

What if I think I’m above your standard?

Are you content with where you are?"

Very, and I’m not normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say im pretty normal other than the fact I'm on a sex site with my husband yip

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I aspire to be many things in life but "normal" isn't one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aspire to be many things in life but "normal" isn't one of them. "

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be normal when you can be unique

In society normal is just another word for repression

There would be no ambition, art wouldn’t exist, music wouldn’t exist, technology wouldn’t exist

It’s the free thinkers, dreamers and creative people who fall out of the ‘normal’ spectrum that are innovators and bring about change in the world.

Happy to be completely abnormal and not stuck in a restrictive societal box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aspire to be many things in life but "normal" isn't one of them.

Why not?"
because she says she don’t want to be “ normal “ . There isn’t a normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aspire to be many things in life but "normal" isn't one of them.

Why not?"

Maybe not everyone wants to be like you?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"I aspire to be many things in life but "normal" isn't one of them.

Why not?"

Because I have no desire to conform. Because life is too short and I'd far rather be exceptional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aspire to be many things in life but "normal" isn't one of them.

Why not?"

Can you give us a reason why people should aspire to be just normal. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aspire to be many things in life but "normal" isn't one of them.

Why not?

Can you give us a reason why people should aspire to be just normal. ?"

I did much further up

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

No such thing as ‘normal’. There are varying degrees of what people find acceptable.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

The bodies in the basement say I’m normal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This was meant to be a bit of a laugh thread not a guide on how you should live your life

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Once upon a time I was borderline ‘normal’ as society would have it. I became miserable and in danger of boring myself.

Intentionally broke out of that role and wouldn’t consider myself normal now. But I am so much happier for it.

Lot of good points in this thread. x

Off to wash the car.

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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

I don't know about anyone else, but sometimes I look at other people's normal and think to myself "I don't want to be like them".

But then my normal could be another's insanity

Keep it light folks

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Once upon a time I was borderline ‘normal’ as society would have it. I became miserable and in danger of boring myself.

Intentionally broke out of that role and wouldn’t consider myself normal now. But I am so much happier for it.

Lot of good points in this thread. x

Off to wash the car. "

Totally agree. Living a normal life is dull. It is good be be wild and adventurous somtimes.x

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

In society normal is just another word for repression "

This is exactly the issue! it's why so many people with disabilities struggle to find & keep work and why so many black people are currently protesting against "normal" treatments.

Folk are sick fed up of being hemmed into a one size fits all box, it just doesn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t imagine anything Worse than being Normal or Ordinary - I’d like to be considered Extraordinary & Amazing, but that’s not for me to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When did being considered normal or ordinary become an insult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When did being considered normal or ordinary become an insult? "

I just called you normal on another thread and you took it as an insult - it wasn’t an insult.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"When did being considered normal or ordinary become an insult? "

I think it was your first comment where you stated that more people should aspire to be normal!

Why should they? What do you define as normal? Why can't they just be themselves and be happy whatever that is to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When did being considered normal or ordinary become an insult?

I think it was your first comment where you stated that more people should aspire to be normal!

Why should they? What do you define as normal? Why can't they just be themselves and be happy whatever that is to them?

People can be what they like. I'm not contesting that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When did being considered normal or ordinary become an insult?

I just called you normal on another thread and you took it as an insult - it wasn’t an insult.

Never apologise, never explain

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

If you asked 1000 NORMAL people if any one of them thought singles and couples on a swinging site looking for others to have sex with was normal at a guess I would say 997 would say. "No that's not normal" the other 3 would be swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When did being considered normal or ordinary become an insult?

I just called you normal on another thread and you took it as an insult - it wasn’t an insult.

Never apologise, never explain "

I didn’t apologise

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"When did being considered normal or ordinary become an insult?

I just called you normal on another thread and you took it as an insult - it wasn’t an insult.

Never apologise, never explain "

The Cummings playbook

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