FabSwingers.com forum: Discretion

By *xybum OP Woman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Discretion = confidentiality in my books

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By *ungRee4Man
over a year ago

central belt

Find a lot of people operate in different ways and don’t consider others. Some are very open about their lifestyle, and don’t really care about others and their circumstances. Others are just pure dicks. If I get a sniff of the fact they can’t be discrete or be respectful or even just pleasant or reasonable, I drop them like a stone. Don’t care what they look like or how good their veris are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is a trust, as part of an honesty

No matter what circumstances we find ourselves in or how open some people are about their lifestyle it doesn't mean all people should be.

Respect, honesty, trust and whatever else falls into these categories to make you feel safe

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Discretion is a trust, as part of an honesty

No matter what circumstances we find ourselves in or how open some people are about their lifestyle it doesn't mean all people should be.

Respect, honesty, trust and whatever else falls into these categories to make you feel safe

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Most of the people I know from here and have met in real life know what discretion is.

Some of the faceless profiles however are another matter.

Had one person on here, their profile said "Discretion is a must" and steamed right in and sent me a message using my drab name, but wouldn't admit who they were.

Kinda hard to respect anyone that starts a conversation like that.

Mandy

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

There's Fab life, and real life, the two don't mix

Unfortunately some people will say anything to get in another's pants

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

To me it's , keeping it quiet and private between the 2 persons , in all aspects

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!"
Someone on here took it upon themselves to show another member my friends only pics,When I found out as you can imagine I was livid now all my face pics are in private.

I totally agree with you on being careful with who you trust

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Some are open about mixing their personal life with fab, and vice versa- and these will be the ones with loads of face pics on public view.

Others are less open, but will brag about who they met and what they did etc.

Then there are those who are elusive

where their fab life is mutually exclusive to personal life.

Discretion to me is a mutual trust: what you do stays between you two and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!Someone on here took it upon themselves to show another member my friends only pics,When I found out as you can imagine I was livid now all my face pics are in private.

I totally agree with you on being careful with who you trust

It is beyond me why someone would do that? How fucked up would you need to be?!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I see endless profiles saying discretion assured blah de blah... do people just say it and don’t mean it? Just found out certain people quite happy to talk about other fabbers and share pics with people! No matter how careful you are there’s always some that will take the piss! Beware who you talk to and trust!Someone on here took it upon themselves to show another member my friends only pics,When I found out as you can imagine I was livid now all my face pics are in private.

I totally agree with you on being careful with who you trust

It is beyond me why someone would do that? How fucked up would you need to be?!"
I know but sadly not everyone thinks like us

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Some people are less than discrete and it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve had to let them know I wasn’t pleased at their actions. I often socialise with Fab friends but we know how to behave in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab and real life stay firmly apart.

Those that are happy for the 2 to mix I tend to stay clear of.

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By *owboy BebopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *owboy BebopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Discretion is a trust, as part of an honesty

No matter what circumstances we find ourselves in or how open some people are about their lifestyle it doesn't mean all people should be.

Respect, honesty, trust and whatever else falls into these categories to make you feel safe

( re-posted - got wrong emoji- large finger small phone ! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is built up, I wouldn't simply believe something because some person has wrote it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lips are sealed. Discretion prevents me from posting fully but....just wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its amazing the length some ppl take dig about others

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
over a year ago

IRVINE

That's the world of fab,always need to keep one step ahead off others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had several women tell me about the mutual guys we’ve met even over the years though this was long before my current profile and haven’t gave them verifications or vice versa, so it’s clear plenty folk will talk, if someone is displaying a veri from me or vice versa and someone asks me what they are like I’ll tell them at the time of the profile I wrote honestly, if it was sexual then that’s not really anyone else’s business but mine and said guy, yes it’s nice to know if someone is genuine but there’s no need to share too much information, but with fab I’ve found there’s not a lot of discretion tbh

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