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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me that thinks this or are there too many rude/ignorant people on here that just delete messages. Doesn't take that much time to even reply not interested sorry, manners don't cost anything. Just my opinion

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you logged on to over 200 messages, I bet you wouldnt reply to them all

And why should I reply to the people who havent botheted to read my profile???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thats true... Suppose so, must be popular for over 200 a day what can I say well if people don't read the profiles then I understand why they wouldn't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not rude. This is copied from admin.

On the Q and A section.

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Is it rude/ignorant not to reply to messages ?

or should the question be

Is it rude/ignorant to send unsolicitated mail ?

If you read profiles and meet the person/s requirements and send a message with thought and with reference to the profile and with some detail about urself ur more likely to get a reply.

Just bear in mind not everyone has the time or the inclination to reply to everyone who messages , if i get a message that is hi or what u upto , i tend not to answer as they have put no thought into the mail , if they cant put effort into messages what other parts of their social etiquette is lacking.

Just my tuppenceworth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that too.... But what annoys me is when you put the effort in, and it just gets deleted. I know its from both sides but it just seems to me that its a bit hard to stand out because of the twats that just copy and paste the same messages over and over again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup i try to answer what i get, but if they have put no thought or just cant be arsed writing anything interesting i wont answer anymore...it makes me smile when someone has read my profile and taken time to mail me properly, and they will ALWAYS get an answer..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not rude. You get to choose who you want to mail. We get to choose who to reply to. Wish folk would just keep their dummies in their mouths and get over this no reply gripe

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

whats more ignorant and rude is when you have so called friends who dont reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats more ignorant and rude is when you have so called friends who dont reply "

Could not agree more

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By *phrodysiacWoman
over a year ago

Leven

Dont think its rude not replying to 100's of messages daily when the great majority haven't read your profile and some then become abusive when you do message back politely saying no thanx. I decide who I reply to not the messenger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what we do, stop emailing single girls, no point as their inbox has so many unread messages yours will just get lost. Not rude that they don't reply as half the time they don't know you have even got intouch. One of the girls we met once had not replied to our message for months, saw our page and got intouch.

Try and remember that although fun, swinging isn't as easy as people think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get over 50 A day I couldn't mail everyone, it's not rude it's just the way it is xxx

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

im one who deletes mail but only when i see the age range that if my profile says 35 and over then i dont expect anyone to mail me under that age and then this is where the problems start that when you say you will delete because of this reason you then can have abusive mail back to ask the reason why well guys read our profiles first before you mail xxxxx

no offence given to anyone under my age range its my choice and ppl should adhere to that and vice versa for me to totally read others profiles xxxx

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