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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse

Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more

Cheers in advance folks x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your profile states you are bi curious but you have just stated you are bisexual above.

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Your profile states you are bi curious but you have just stated you are bisexual above. "

Never noticed thanks for pointing out x

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Don’t take knock backs personally dust yourself down and move on .

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

The only advice I can give is to grow a thick skin.

You're going to get many knock backs on here, and nothing makes it any better. And time, and experience will tell in the end.

If you do get abuse then report and block, and move on

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Have you considered uploading a face pic?

Oh.. And I'll second the thick skin thingy.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Just remember that though you have your type, those people also have their own type. So same way you wouldn't want to offend anyone, I'm sure they don't want to offend you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handle rejection...its a major factor in swinging.

Someone knocks you back..just smile and move on.

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Don’t take knock backs personally dust yourself down and move on . "

Thank you will do it with a smile on my face x

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"The only advice I can give is to grow a thick skin.

You're going to get many knock backs on here, and nothing makes it any better. And time, and experience will tell in the end.

If you do get abuse then report and block, and move on "

Cheers mate I appreciate the feedback ??

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Have you considered uploading a face pic?

Oh.. And I'll second the thick skin thingy. "

Full on face pick yeah I will upload one thanks ??

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Just remember that though you have your type, those people also have their own type. So same way you wouldn't want to offend anyone, I'm sure they don't want to offend you "

Very true I need to stop taken things to heart thanks the help x

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Handle rejection...its a major factor in swinging.

Someone knocks you back..just smile and move on. "

Cheers mate thanks for getting back to me ??

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Handle rejection...its a major factor in swinging.

Someone knocks you back..just smile and move on.

Cheers mate thanks for getting back to me ??"

Also, only use emoticons that are in Fab messaging, and not from your phone as you'll only get the ??

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Handle rejection...its a major factor in swinging.

Someone knocks you back..just smile and move on.

Cheers mate thanks for getting back to me ??

Also, only use emoticons that are in Fab messaging, and not from

your phone as you'll only get the ?? "

Hahaha thanks

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.

Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.

If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.

Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.

If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x"

Yeah I don't mind my face being on here

I'm generally 50/50 thanks for getting back to me have a wonderful night

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.

Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.

If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x"

Was gonna mention fabguys too, double your chances.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse

Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more

Cheers in advance folks x"

Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse

Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more

Cheers in advance folks x

Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol "

Oh man I can imagine buddy I wish you well mate

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Personally i wouldn't put a face pic on for everyone to see. Unless you don't mind people you work with, or relatives, who might be on this site recognising you straight away.

Someone already mentioned it, thick skin is essential! Don't let rejections get you down.

If it's mainly guys you're looking for, is it worthwhile checking out fabguys.com? Might come across some of the same people, but no harm in checking it out x

Was gonna mention fabguys too, double your chances. "

Cheers buddy might give it ago thanks

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse

Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more

Cheers in advance folks x

Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol

Oh man I can imagine buddy I wish you well mate "

Ha ha ha , you too buddy take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gin should help

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Being a bisexual man can be quite difficult on fab I have my type but I'm quite nervous when it comes to making the 1st move and in some occasions when I have all I've gotten is abuse

Anyone got any tips to get over not taken things personally or is there anything I can do to make my profile stand out a little bit more

Cheers in advance folks x

Try being a straight, single male, now that's difficult lol "

Pea and ham from a chicken. Now that’s clever.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

As some have said, maybe fabguys site for you?

Also (when) local clubs resume, see if there is a night for Bi Guys or Fun for All on and get chatting. Also, there is the chat room function on Fab and they have Bi friendly rooms.

With single (straight) guys, I say the same thing; don’t get d*unk, don’t expect to have sex and generally chat to folk.

The more you do, the more ppl will enjoy your company and your verifications will improve, which can be a deciding factor for some.

Also, try and tidy up the scenes in your photos; do I need/want to see your Tv/duvet etc? Have a look at some fabbed photos and see what catches people’s attention; eg. Black and white or change of outfit.

Best of luck

Millie

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"As some have said, maybe fabguys site for you?

Also (when) local clubs resume, see if there is a night for Bi Guys or Fun for All on and get chatting. Also, there is the chat room function on Fab and they have Bi friendly rooms.

With single (straight) guys, I say the same thing; don’t get d*unk, don’t expect to have sex and generally chat to folk.

The more you do, the more ppl will enjoy your company and your verifications will improve, which can be a deciding factor for some.

Also, try and tidy up the scenes in your photos; do I need/want to see your Tv/duvet etc? Have a look at some fabbed photos and see what catches people’s attention; eg. Black and white or change of outfit.

Best of luck

Millie "

That's is great advice thank you very much have a great day xx

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Don't message guys who are straight.

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"straight guys copy/pasting messages asking to suck me off get trolled

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By *yantico86 OP   Man
over a year ago

drumchapel


"Don't message guys who are straight.

.

"straight guys copy/pasting messages asking to suck me off get trolled "

Hahaha I've never done that but thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be yourself im sure all would agree n have fun

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