FabSwingers.com forum: Block or delete

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies please use these options . Reading complaints about unsolicited messages and photos is becoming more prevent and tiresome .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....or don't read the complaints.....just a thought....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol "
or you can take a no reply as a not interested.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

People shouldn't have to try and manage unsolicited pics and messages. People shouldn't send them. People are entitled to complain that they get groped in bars and receive unwanted attention, it's the perpetrators fault for doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or is it they don't have messages??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People shouldn't have to try and manage unsolicited pics and messages. People shouldn't send them. People are entitled to complain that they get groped in bars and receive unwanted attention, it's the perpetrators fault for doing it. I'm taking about fabswingers on here . Not perpetrators . Feeew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf, if we leave our filters so that people can message us, then we do have to find a way to manage messages that are sent to us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".....or don't read the complaints.....just a thought....

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yes I shall refrain from reading complaints . Thank you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly how is it unsolicited if I can message you for me a polite no thanks good luck delete or block tells me what I need to know xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol or you can take a no reply as a not interested.

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I'm taking about ladies complaints . Not messages I receive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was replying to the not read part being confusing.

If no reply it's no interested.no confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's unsolicited and that's same as rules our side imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was replying to the not read part being confusing.

If no reply it's no interested.no confusion."
correct

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts "
no need for the foul language . Your getting yourself into a lather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts no need for the foul language . Your getting yourself into a lather "

Problem is it these guys like the above that make my life a whole lot harder on this site and tbf it's pathetic and I'll stand by that statement no matter

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Ladies please use these options . Reading complaints about unsolicited messages and photos is becoming more prevent and tiresome . "

Are you complaining about statements on women's profile that nobody is forcing you to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ur moaning that ladies receive cock pics without asking tbh fair enough if they don't want it they don't want it and quite right to say don't be sending it guys think all they have is there cock so send that thinking that's auto permission to fuck whoever they sent it to pathetic cunts no need for the foul language . Your getting yourself into a lather

Problem is it these guys like the above that make my life a whole lot harder on this site and tbf it's pathetic and I'll stand by that statement no matter "

I don't think they do make it harder to be honest. There are still other means of demonstrating that your personality doesn't begin and end with your boabie...decent chat on the forum, interacting on cam/chat rooms and half decent pics. They all speak volumes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the point in this post can someone explain to me please preferably in pm as this post need to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My head hurts..iv no clue what the actual OP point was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldie I was hoping your experiance would shed some light but perhaps not I'm so confused xx

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol "

If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).

But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol

If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).

But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone

Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love guys being blocked from messaging and women being the first to message cause them at least if they message first perhaps they like and go from there xx

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol

If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).

But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone

Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx"

Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol

If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).

But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone

Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx

Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted

You should be busy with messages lol but tv is a devil xx

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol

If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).

But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone

Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx

Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted

Oh, and sometimes real life gets in the way as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol

If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).

But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone

Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx

Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted

Oh, and sometimes real life gets in the way as well

Can I be real life to you xx

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Yeah if you don't like delete the message or block the whole don't read / read the mark unread or left read open is a bit confusing lol

If i leave a message as "read", it is my full intention to reply (will delete it otherwise).

But then stuff comes up, I'll get to it later, i forget, come across it again a few weeks later, decide it's too late to reply and delete. Don't mean to confuse anyone

Fully appreciate that as women are so busy with messages compared to guys hence why it's confusing for us there such little interaction xx

Not really busy with messages. Possibly busy chatting to captain morgans or watching crap on tv just now. I am easily distracted

Oh, and sometimes real life gets in the way as well

Can I be real life to you xx"

Smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try but I'm new wanna teach me im a quick learner xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So IF I have this right... a man is saying women should block and delete if we aren’t interested???

Yet there an inordinate amount of threads saying the opposite???

Thing is it’s really simple, if someone (female or male) doesn’t answer a message, deletes, blocks or any other non response... guess what? They ARE NOT INTERESTED, there’s nothing to be confused about. It even says it in the site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think this is what op meant all I will say is a unread mail is con fusing let alone the read then unreadd ones lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think this is what op meant all I will say is a unread mail is con fusing let alone the read then unreadd ones lol "

If it’s unread then there’s no interest either, not in a lot of cases anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think this is what op meant all I will say is a unread mail is con fusing let alone the read then unreadd ones lol

If it’s unread then there’s no interest either, not in a lot of cases anyway. "

If it's unread then there not seen how about read N mark unread or ignore etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just trying to say read the mass block of not wanted it delete that's enough for me to know what's what not nice having message read n ignored xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope take an unread message as a not interest either as prob saw the profile looked and thought nope not interested.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Alternatively, men could actually take the time to read profiles, & carefully consider whether they truly match what the woman/couple are looking for, BEFORE sending a well thought out, courteous & interesting message. That might actually result in them getting some replies & also reduce the number of forum posts complaining about the standard of messages.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope take an unread message as a not interest either as prob saw the profile looked and thought nope not interested."

Yep this, plus you can often see the gist of the message, especially if it’s one like “hi” “how are you” (fancy a...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely. "

That would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really care who messages me as long as it is respectful.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Alternatively, men could actually take the time to read profiles, & carefully consider whether they truly match what the woman/couple are looking for, BEFORE sending a well thought out, courteous & interesting message. That might actually result in them getting some replies & also reduce the number of forum posts complaining about the standard of messages.

K "

This ^^

And don't be a pest will help as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.

Why is that difficult?

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely.

That would be nice

It was a marina carbonara white wine mix up with spaghetti. Made sense to my tummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely.

That would be nice

It was a marina carbonara white wine mix up with spaghetti. Made sense to my tummy. "

ooofty sounds lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.

Why is that difficult?"

It's not - but you are rare

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Seems I miss read the OP I took it to mean gems whingy posts about messages recieved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We stop replying no thanks after getting abuse from guys we reject no just ignore them especially once that say hey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems I miss read the OP I took it to mean gems whingy posts about messages recieved"
correct . 100% spot on . Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was ment to be about wingy post . Nothing else . Especially not preprotrators as someone mentioned . Your away the rang way driver

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's about wingy posts , nothing else . Your away the wrong way driver

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"It was ment to be about wingy post . Nothing else . Especially not preprotrators as someone mentioned . Your away the rang way driver "

Do you Perpetrators?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

perpetrator . Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wingy post about wingy posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought id add in i love the delete and block functions, just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A wingy post about wingy posts

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yes indeed , but this is my one and only wingy post about wingy posts. You have a fabulous day and stay safe . X

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I’m going to make some dinner. Forums are doing my head in. I’ll see if I can rustle up some common sense and distribute freely.

That would be nice

It was a marina carbonara white wine mix up with spaghetti. Made sense to my tummy. "

Garlic bread with that?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

This post is like Boris’s ‘Stay aware’ slogan. Meaningless and pointless.

I have unread messages because Fab isn’t always a priority. As others have said guys complain if we don’t respond, block or delete their messages or leave messages read but unanswered.

I’m sure everyone has books they’ve bought but haven’t read or they’ve started them but not finished them. DIY projects in the planning or in progress. Fab is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This post is like Boris’s ‘Stay aware’ slogan. Meaningless and pointless.

I have unread messages because Fab isn’t always a priority. As others have said guys complain if we don’t respond, block or delete their messages or leave messages read but unanswered.

I’m sure everyone has books they’ve bought but haven’t read or they’ve started them but not finished them. DIY projects in the planning or in progress. Fab is no different. "

This

If fab is anyone's top priority you're needing to reprioritise your priorities.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"This post is like Boris’s ‘Stay aware’ slogan. Meaningless and pointless.

I have unread messages because Fab isn’t always a priority. As others have said guys complain if we don’t respond, block or delete their messages or leave messages read but unanswered.

I’m sure everyone has books they’ve bought but haven’t read or they’ve started them but not finished them. DIY projects in the planning or in progress. Fab is no different. "

Completely agree with this

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

K "

*high five*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.

Why is that difficult?

It's not - but you are rare

Well that's the first time I've been called that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see someone I want to get to know better I send them a message, if I don't get a reply, I make a note on the profile that they aren't interested and just move on.

Why is that difficult?

It's not - but you are rare

Well that's the first time I've been called that

There had to be one out there

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

What I'm reading here is alot of answers to a question that was never asked.

fems outnumber men especially in scotland forums or maybe they are just more "vocal".

Had this been a post about grrrrr cock pics slay the men it would have stayed on the original topic and slated any guy with a dick pic it seems daring to point out a obnoxious trait some fems have will not be tolerated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm reading here is alot of answers to a question that was never asked.

fems outnumber men especially in scotland forums or maybe they are just more "vocal".

But it wasn’t about that but there’s lots out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block delete messages read unread non reply..

It's like the feckin Muppet Show on Comedy Gold.

Regards

Animal.

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