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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message "

Do you see a 35yr old as a cougar ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message Do you see a 35yr old as a cougar ? "

Potentially, depending on the guys age, if he were, say 18-25 then yes...

I think the term cougar is primarily used for women who are attracted to men approximately 10 years or younger than themselves... In saying that I guess anyone could have a difference of opinion...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message Do you see a 35yr old as a cougar ?

Potentially, depending on the guys age, if he were, say 18-25 then yes...

I think the term cougar is primarily used for women who are attracted to men approximately 10 years or younger than themselves... In saying that I guess anyone could have a difference of opinion..."

Ah I thought it was you who was looking for a cougar of 35 +

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message Do you see a 35yr old as a cougar ?

Potentially, depending on the guys age, if he were, say 18-25 then yes...

I think the term cougar is primarily used for women who are attracted to men approximately 10 years or younger than themselves... In saying that I guess anyone could have a difference of opinion...Ah I thought it was you who was looking for a cougar of 35 + "

Haha ah got you, no I'm looking for someone 40+ ideally...

Then again I'm not picky lol, but personality needs to be there first and foremost!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message Do you see a 35yr old as a cougar ?

Potentially, depending on the guys age, if he were, say 18-25 then yes...

I think the term cougar is primarily used for women who are attracted to men approximately 10 years or younger than themselves... In saying that I guess anyone could have a difference of opinion...Ah I thought it was you who was looking for a cougar of 35 +

Haha ah got you, no I'm looking for someone 40+ ideally...

Then again I'm not picky lol, but personality needs to be there first and foremost! "

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message Do you see a 35yr old as a cougar ?

Potentially, depending on the guys age, if he were, say 18-25 then yes...

I think the term cougar is primarily used for women who are attracted to men approximately 10 years or younger than themselves... In saying that I guess anyone could have a difference of opinion...Ah I thought it was you who was looking for a cougar of 35 +

Haha ah got you, no I'm looking for someone 40+ ideally...

Then again I'm not picky lol, but personality needs to be there first and foremost! "

Not picky??? Ohhh you should be very picky, we are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not picky??? Ohhh you should be very picky, we are "

Haha "Not picky" in the sense I am open to chatting and getting to know anyone to begin with, even though they might not be "what I'm after" on paper, who knows we might hit it off...

If that makes sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey people!

Just wondering if there was any mature women on here that has a thing for younger men?

"Cougars" if you will...

I know it's a very common fantasy for guys to get with an older women (If not thee most common) but I wana know if it has any actual standing in real life...

If so, do you feel dominant? Do you feel that you can "teach them a thing or two"? Or has the younger male disappointed your expectations?

I want to know your experiences from both sides of the equation actually...

So yeah, any guys been with a woman considerably older than yourself, how was it?...

I myself would love to get to know a woman older than myself, so if theres anyone on here interested, send me a message Do you see a 35yr old as a cougar ?

Potentially, depending on the guys age, if he were, say 18-25 then yes...

I think the term cougar is primarily used for women who are attracted to men approximately 10 years or younger than themselves... In saying that I guess anyone could have a difference of opinion...Ah I thought it was you who was looking for a cougar of 35 +

Haha ah got you, no I'm looking for someone 40+ ideally...

Then again I'm not picky lol, but personality needs to be there first and foremost! "

So a receptacle with a personality

Good luck indeedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not picky??? Ohhh you should be very picky, we are

Haha "Not picky" in the sense I am open to chatting and getting to know anyone to begin with, even though they might not be "what I'm after" on paper, who knows we might hit it off...

If that makes sense lol "

Perhaps it would have been better to say that much more endearing sentence my dear... then it would have made sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So a receptacle with a personality

Good luck indeedy! "

Stranger things have happened doggy, if Trump can become president I must be in with a shot surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy writing “I’m not picky” on a forum post is the equivalent of signing your own death warrant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps it would have been better to say that much more endearing sentence my dear... then it would have made sense "

Ach every day is a school day Flirt as they say...

Maybe I'll have better luck next time haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A guy writing “I’m not picky” on a forum post is the equivalent of signing your own death warrant. "

How do you come to that conclusion Twangy boy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what its worth I didn't think you said anything wrong or in the wrong way in your post. Sometimes you can't win posting in forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For what its worth I didn't think you said anything wrong or in the wrong way in your post. Sometimes you can't win posting in forum. "

This is true to an extent, it's not a phrase I appreciated but perhaps some don't mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For what its worth I didn't think you said anything wrong or in the wrong way in your post. Sometimes you can't win posting in forum. "

Thank you laces, appreciate it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is true to an extent, it's not a phrase I appreciated but perhaps some don't mind. "

Perhaps just the wrong choice of wording like you said

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Much younger guys hold very little appeal as far as I'm concerned, much prefer men my own age or a few years older. There are women on here who go for much younger men though.

Definitely worth avoiding phrases like "I'm not picky" though as it really won't do you any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I see I want shown the ropes or taught some tricks or someone to show me they way.

Instant turn off.

I dont do pupils

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Also, whilst I know that you are looking for an older woman, would you seriously consider sex with a 99yr old?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"As soon as I see I want shown the ropes or taught some tricks or someone to show me they way.

Instant turn off.

I dont do pupils "

Yep, totally agree

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By *ine of BootyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/ Manchester


"Also, whilst I know that you are looking for an older woman, would you seriously consider sex with a 99yr old? "

You never know, some 99 year olds have really looked after themselves and only look 89

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also, whilst I know that you are looking for an older woman, would you seriously consider sex with a 99yr old? "

With the current advancements in plastic surgery and cosmetics who know tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As soon as I see I want shown the ropes or taught some tricks or someone to show me they way.

Instant turn off.

I dont do pupils "

That's fair enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be teaching anyone anything and nor do I want to be an experiment to say you've tried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nobody seems to have any experience from either side of coin going by this post so far...

None of you been with a considerably younger man / older woman? And if you have what did you think?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't want to be teaching anyone anything and nor do I want to be an experiment to say you've tried."

That's fair enough, but I never mentioned anything about experimentation or having to learn "new tricks"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought your original post was fine. You were merely asking a question or questions. However welcome to the forum good luck on the cougar hunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody seems to have any experience from either side of coin going by this post so far...

None of you been with a considerably younger man / older woman? And if you have what did you think?..."

I haven't experienced it.

But chatted to a few guys who have experienced it with older ladies and looking to repeat the experience.

They all talk about older women "appearing" to be more confident in the bedroom, know exactly what they want and have fewer hang ups.

Make of that what you will.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I don't want to be teaching anyone anything and nor do I want to be an experiment to say you've tried.

That's fair enough, but I never mentioned anything about experimentation or having to learn "new tricks"..."

Women read profiles, "new tricks" were your words.

I have experienced a few younger males, not something I particularly enjoyed or would look to repeat, the sex was generally unimaginative & conversation was lacking as we had very little in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us age is just a number really..Its the individual amd personality that has the appeal or not..

With an older person comes the expectation of experience and maturity. This isn't always the case, anywhere near as much as you would expect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought your original post was fine. You were merely asking a question or questions. However welcome to the forum good luck on the cougar hunt. "

Thanks Switch, appreciate it

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

My experience - My 25 to her 40. Biggest age gap, and best sex of my life. It could just be a coincidence, though..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't experienced it.

But chatted to a few guys who have experienced it with older ladies and looking to repeat the experience.

They all talk about older women "appearing" to be more confident in the bedroom, know exactly what they want and have fewer hang ups.

Make of that what you will.

"

See that's pretty much what I would of expected, granted not everyone will be like that I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't experienced it.

But chatted to a few guys who have experienced it with older ladies and looking to repeat the experience.

They all talk about older women "appearing" to be more confident in the bedroom, know exactly what they want and have fewer hang ups.

Make of that what you will.

See that's pretty much what I would of expected, granted not everyone will be like that I guess..."

I think some older women are discouraged by the prospect of feeling like a tick box on a to do list...Some kind of novelty...then I suppose the same could be said of the older woman who actively goes for younger men. There are some out there.

Hope you find yours OP. You seem no bad.....for a young'un

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay well clear of younger guys, always too much drama and/or arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some older women are discouraged by the prospect of feeling like a tick box on a to do list...Some kind of novelty...then I suppose the same could be said of the older woman who actively goes for younger men. There are some out there.

Hope you find yours OP. You seem no bad.....for a young'un "

Haha cheers Doggy, no bad yersel for an old'yin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I stay well clear of younger guys, always too much drama and/or arrogance. "

Ach we're no all bad Nonblonde...

Me for instance, I hate drama, life's too short and I certainly would say I was arrogant, dont have the confidence for that haha

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Right. Hod the bus, Mossey.. I'm one of the only ones to answer your initial query, yet you completely dinghy me in favour of all the auld burds. It's minded. None of my harem are getting near you.

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath


"Nobody seems to have any experience from either side of coin going by this post so far...

None of you been with a considerably younger man / older woman? And if you have what did you think?..."

My biggest age difference has been with a man 24 years younger than me, the sex was mind blowing and no he certainly didn't need me to teach him anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody seems to have any experience from either side of coin going by this post so far...

None of you been with a considerably younger man / older woman? And if you have what did you think?..."

I have never found age a barrier nor is it something on my "to do" list. However it has never been a barrier to meeting and everyone has their fantasy/desire/kink and no matter what it is, if it's two consenting adults It's fine in my book... personally I look for sincerity, humour and intelligence. I've found that in all age groups

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right. Hod the bus, Mossey.. I'm one of the only ones to answer your initial query, yet you completely dinghy me in favour of all the auld burds. It's minded. None of my harem are getting near you. "

Haha sorry pal, was busy earlier n phone cut out

No bad though 25 to 40, musta been loving life at the time eh? Was it just a one off or a regular thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My biggest age difference has been with a man 24 years younger than me, the sex was mind blowing and no he certainly didn't need me to teach him anything x"

Nice Vixen, how did that come about?

Was it through here on fab or a organic meeting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have never found age a barrier nor is it something on my "to do" list. However it has never been a barrier to meeting and everyone has their fantasy/desire/kink and no matter what it is, if it's two consenting adults It's fine in my book... personally I look for sincerity, humour and intelligence. I've found that in all age groups "

What a nice way to put it flirt, and sounds like you've got something out it

Hopefully we all get so lucky

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Nope for me it's about personality and when the gap is + - 10 years theres very little common ground

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