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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a wee note about struggling while in lockdown. I stay myself and do not have much contact with anyone just now. Luckily I know how to keep my mind busy.

I am a mental health first aider and if anyone is struggling feel free to message me.

It is important to keep talking in these times. It can be about anything but talking is important.

Don’t be alone!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Well going by your update for Sunday even you are struggling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was well bored at the weekend. Ended up learning card tricks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by your status today your laughing at your number of replies on this subject compared to 103 replies about guys pegging. I'm sure if this was an NHS website you would get more replies but since its a swinger site clearly pegging wins. I think most people just see your offer as another ploy to get people to chat with you irrelevant to how sincere your offer is .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Your status says it all really !

perhaps people like to keep their fun life here and real life seperate .

yes its a nice if someone does feel the need to chat to anyone that the offer is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done. Hubby also a senior mental health officer. Socialising is a human need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda get your rant on your status. I also want to believe your intention was well meaning.

However, I'm cynical and did read it as some folk will say anything to strike up a conversion.

There are many supportive people on fab and I've seen some fantastic threads over the years where people were showing genuine care and compassion.

I've never once saw these threads in the Scotland forum though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda get your rant on your status. I also want to believe your intention was well meaning.

However, I'm cynical and did read it as some folk will say anything to strike up a conversion.

There are many supportive people on fab and I've seen some fantastic threads over the years where people were showing genuine care and compassion.

I've never once saw these threads in the Scotland forum though "

Do you think that's cause folk are less caring on here or we're far mire sceptical? Genuine question....

I think it's the latter...we always assume someone is taking the Jeremy Hunt....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda get your rant on your status. I also want to believe your intention was well meaning.

However, I'm cynical and did read it as some folk will say anything to strike up a conversion.

There are many supportive people on fab and I've seen some fantastic threads over the years where people were showing genuine care and compassion.

I've never once saw these threads in the Scotland forum though

Do you think that's cause folk are less caring on here or we're far mire sceptical? Genuine question....

I think it's the latter...we always assume someone is taking the Jeremy Hunt...."

Its the latter in this instance because for most if you had an issue with your mental health, the last place you would confide in is with an unknown on a sex site. Hate seeing the issue of mental health being exploited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda get your rant on your status. I also want to believe your intention was well meaning.

However, I'm cynical and did read it as some folk will say anything to strike up a conversion.

There are many supportive people on fab and I've seen some fantastic threads over the years where people were showing genuine care and compassion.

I've never once saw these threads in the Scotland forum though

Do you think that's cause folk are less caring on here or we're far mire sceptical? Genuine question....

I think it's the latter...we always assume someone is taking the Jeremy Hunt....

Its the latter in this instance because for most if you had an issue with your mental health, the last place you would confide in is with an unknown on a sex site. Hate seeing the issue of mental health being exploited. "

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

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By *irvancoupleCouple
over a year ago

girvan

If anyone wants to chat online for a bit of company feel free to message or wink , together we will get through this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes."

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?"

Fluffy sounds better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?"

Just friendlier in general I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda get your rant on your status. I also want to believe your intention was well meaning.

However, I'm cynical and did read it as some folk will say anything to strike up a conversion.

There are many supportive people on fab and I've seen some fantastic threads over the years where people were showing genuine care and compassion.

I've never once saw these threads in the Scotland forum though

Do you think that's cause folk are less caring on here or we're far mire sceptical? Genuine question....

I think it's the latter...we always assume someone is taking the Jeremy Hunt...."

I think there's a fair bit of nastiness dressed up as humour, sarcasm or a piss take..

I also think a lot of people in here thrive on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?

Fluffy sounds better. "

You're no fluffy....you're just packing some extra lbs cause you've not been out walking as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?"

Or less of a Jeremy Hunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?

Or less of a Jeremy Hunt."

You're not even the slightest bit suspicious of folks posting threads like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?

Or less of a Jeremy Hunt.

You're not even the slightest bit suspicious of folks posting threads like this?"

I was thinking of folk in The Lounge rather than this thread specifically. They do, on the surface, seem a more friendly bunch.

I'm suspicious of most folk. Not just the ones who pretend to be friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah but as Sinderella mentioned ...you do see theeads elsewhere on the site where folk seem more genuine or less judgmental. They can be quite a fluffy bunch in The Lounge sometimes.

Or more gullible/ naive/ needy?

Or less of a Jeremy Hunt.

You're not even the slightest bit suspicious of folks posting threads like this?

I was thinking of folk in The Lounge rather than this thread specifically. They do, on the surface, seem a more friendly bunch.

I'm suspicious of most folk. Not just the ones who pretend to be friendly."

Sometimes it's easier when a bitch is just a bitch.. Least you know where you stand. Sometimes it's fun to throw out some curveballs to confuse though

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By *ine of BootyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/ Manchester

This lockdown and virus is so challenging for so many people. We are in the unknown as this hasn’t happened before in any of our lifetimes, feel so sad when I hear of folk that are really struggling.

We both have some friends that are finding the lockdown harder than others, we help when we can as we know people would help us if we ever needed. Just got to stay positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fuck me! I never post anything in here and try to put out a genuine message of support and snidey comments about putting it in here to help me get laid. My friend took her own life last year and nobody saw it coming. When it comes to this issue I don’t use it to get my hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me! I never post anything in here and try to put out a genuine message of support and snidey comments about putting it in here to help me get laid. My friend took her own life last year and nobody saw it coming. When it comes to this issue I don’t use it to get my hole."

Having re read this thread I don't see anyone has gave him a snidey comment. As always in the forums lots of opinions but that's OK. Think maybe the OP was the one that needed to talk as opposed asking other if they needed to talk . Sad thing is if he had asked instead of offered I'm sure people would have offered him support. Genuinely hope the guy is OK.

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By *exmadcouple42Couple
over a year ago

Home

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By *exmadcouple42Couple
over a year ago

Home

Think this guy genuinely wanted to talk, he might be a mental health first aider but he must have got into it because he has or had dealt with it in past himself.

The fact he mentioned he stays alone and has little contact with people would indicate he needed to talk aswell, maybe offering some help was his way of not showing any weakness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this guy genuinely wanted to talk, he might be a mental health first aider but he must have got into it because he has or had dealt with it in past himself.

The fact he mentioned he stays alone and has little contact with people would indicate he needed to talk aswell, maybe offering some help was his way of not showing any weakness. "

Or he just flounced off in a huff

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik

He’ll be back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this occasion I'm happy to give the fella the benefit of the doubt....Well meant intentions met with a hard crowd mibbes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor guy obviously thought some were taking his offer as an excuse to just get fems to message him for alternate motives...

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