FabSwingers.com forum: Longest with no sex

By *aughter guy OP Man
over a year ago

renfrew

Well because of working away and not being that appealing to anyone on here and being honest with girls on tinder etc what I'm looking for is a casual thing , it's now came to my attention that I'm well over a year .

Longest you have gone and reasons ?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

18 months.

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By *aughter guy OP Man
over a year ago

renfrew

Murder eh ? Not far of that myself .

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

19 years, but I'm guessing you're asking since then

I haven't counted until now, but 6 months whilst married is an unwanted record.

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By *aughter guy OP Man
over a year ago

renfrew

Sharp haha . Married and 6months is sore one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 18 months , on 2 occasions and both times on purpose

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

As far as I can remember about 4 weeks after an operation

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

About 12 years - had my son young and then may aswell have been a nun

Worth it though

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

3 years ,both our fault ..making up for it now ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 8 months for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What time is it just now. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost three years was my longest. After I split with my wife. I never had interest in anything for a long time. She took the kids and I never seen them for over four years. So sex was not that important when everything was taken away. Still the old boy is firing on all cylinders now. Talk about making up for lost time. Plus I would say am better than I was back then lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Several years as my partner wes more interested in tv and fags than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months. Was a very enlightening experience tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 n half years and counting, will let you know how long it is after i have sex next lol

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Just shy of 2 years.

I actually miss that wheelbarrow.

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Probably 4-5 months after surgery but feel like this lockdown period will beat that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4yrs whilst in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6weeks max due to working on rigs. I couldn’t last longer than that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4yrs. The last couple of years of my marriage and a couple of years after it had ended. I had other things going on in my life and sex definitely wasn’t a priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Several years as my partner wes more interested in tv and fags than me."

His loss X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 4yrs. The last couple of years of my marriage and a couple of years after it had ended. I had other things going on in my life and sex definitely wasn’t a priority. "

We all have been there. Hope your enjoying life more now X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea how much time but definitely spent some long periods using it as a crutch, sex is something that means so many things and can help or hinder our life’s, caused by sometimes no feelings involved or a lot of feelings involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 4yrs. The last couple of years of my marriage and a couple of years after it had ended. I had other things going on in my life and sex definitely wasn’t a priority. "

Think that sums me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just under 2 years give or take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6weeks max due to working on rigs. I couldn’t last longer than that!!"

I betcha you could

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By *elboy321Man
over a year ago

Paisley

About 8 months for me then I went a trip to Fife and ended that barren period. Came pretty quickly as you could imagine lol

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just over two years for me. Probably closer to three if you count my girlfriend.

Mandy

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By *atureMale321Man
over a year ago

Moray

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By *atureMale321Man
over a year ago

Moray

I'm going on for 3 years now and the way things are going another 3 years will be notched up

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate

I was 8 months last May till January. My relationship ended and For a wee while I wasn't that bothered.

Doing it through choice is fine, not gonna lie lockdown is hard.... Only been 7 weeks but because you know you can't meet you want it more. Staying safe tho

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

About 18 months. Spent the time sailing around single handed after leaving the Army. Head was messed up so lack of sex just wasn't an issue. But the release when I finally did get round to it was unique.

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By *arpark deviantMan
over a year ago

midlothian..

Pretty much after i got wed .... bastard hoodwinked me .

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I was 8 months last May till January. My relationship ended and For a wee while I wasn't that bothered.

Doing it through choice is fine, not gonna lie lockdown is hard.... Only been 7 weeks but because you know you can't meet you want it more. Staying safe tho

Couldn’t have expressed the frustration better.

Mine was nearly 2 and a half years.

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By *ine of BootyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/ Manchester

3 weeks for me (DCI) as he was away for 3 weeks a few times with work across 2017, before I met him....19 and a half years

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By *ruescotsman84Man
over a year ago

Isle Of Bute

This is my longest period, been since early January...

Aaarrgghhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years married at the time. Not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years, I just went into hermit mode.

Currently at about 6 months, sad times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bout 18 months, couple of times

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

6 years. One of those years while I was married and the next five raising three kids in my own. No time for much else and my Dad died the year after I split with ex so it was a tough time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 years

for some reason no one likes me

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

About 5 years after marriage break up as my kids were young so I was kept busy and to be honest I didn’t enjoy my sex life during my marriage So didn’t miss it

Thankfully I have a friend who showed me how much fun sex can be and well here I am

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Current run 2 years 5 months with a man but did have a sexual play with a guy 16 months ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years in marriage and never cheated , so hope I get my rewards now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years (when I was young)

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

7 yrs at end of last relationship. Then 2 yrs after it ended til I found fab.....

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

"Several years as my partner wes more interested in tv and fags than me."

He was a mug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sent to jail in 2004 and was released in 2017...so,12 and a bit years for me...trust me BLUE BALLS is 100% real lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"7 yrs at end of last relationship. Then 2 yrs after it ended til I found fab..... "

Aye that's a bit pish wee yin!! Guys a fud

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By *astEndGuyGLAMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Was about 15 months... right now I’m 6 months and the struggle is real!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 years. I can't say I missed it at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Several years as my partner wes more interested in tv and fags than me."

He must've been blind as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Several years as my partner wes more interested in tv and fags than me."
your partner's eyes must have been painted on .

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

8 years for same reason as most of the other ladies, single parent and different priorities

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Over 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years and 8 months

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By *urbostar170Man
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

wife decided in 2012 that I kept pestering her for sex too often(1 or 2 times a month) and when she was wanting it again she would let me know … still waiting ! her friend made a comment to her one night saying if your not giving him it someone else will.

never cheated or had intentions to since we got together in the early 1990s,but met one or 2 people since 2015 (which she doesn't know about) she gets into bed faces away from me and if I try to cuddle into her and touch her breasts or anywhere below the waist she changes position to block any chance of a feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have a very good marriage and have been together 30 yrs and our sex life is fantastic but I can only think about times when we both had been in hospital so it’s prob only been about 4 weeks without sex maybe twice in all these years !!!

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

"wife decided in 2012 that I kept pestering her for sex too often(1 or 2 times a month) and when she was wanting it again she would let me know … still waiting ! her friend made a comment to her one night saying if your not giving him it someone else will.

I know that situation. She won't even talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to think about it.

Depresses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years a few times, it didn't bother me either

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

In a previous relationship, several years (nearly 5 yrs being the longest I think). In current relationship, since before lockdown started & still counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is put up once a month same people answer lol

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"This post is put up once a month same people answer lol"

Thats because it is the same post that was out up 13 weeks ago just had a new comment on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol just seen that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heading to 2 years ffs

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Since lockdown began so longer than this thread ha!

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Must be about 2 and a half years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8 or 9 weeks I think (after the birth of my first). Was still terrified to go to the loo so nothing else was getting near me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married for 21 years - final 6 of those absolutely NO sex. No wonder I burtn out 4 rampant rabbits!

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Only twice during lockdown. Nothing in the past month..

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By *eivers101Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Over 3 years while married , and often went several months as well

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By *ideyouhardMan
over a year ago

Stirling

Why is it when people get married the sex dries up.you would think it's the other way around

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Why is it when people get married the sex dries up.you would think it's the other way around"
we have been sexually active all our days and played as a couple for a long time.

It’s only in the last year that things have sloe

We’d down a bit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when people get married the sex dries up.you would think it's the other way around"

25yrs together...(not married mind you) and the head board still takes a doin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when people get married the sex dries up.you would think it's the other way around

25yrs together...(not married mind you) and the head board still takes a doin'

MFI headboard packs a punch

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