FabSwingers.com forum: Are people still meeting?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have people been.meeting during the lockdown?

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By *sasimpleMan
over a year ago

D & G

I do hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would they, that would be so wrong

stay safe folks, and stay isolated

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Hadn't seen anyone asking for meets until last night a couple asked me if I could come to theirs.

I politely declined and they were all fine about it but it took me aback a bit.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Hadn't seen anyone asking for meets until last night a couple asked me if I could come to theirs.

I politely declined and they were all fine about it but it took me aback a bit. "

Hope you reported them.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Guaranteed folk are still meeting should make no difference to anyone who isn't meeting

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I was asked to meet last night. Told them no as politley as I could then blocked them!

Staying safe really isn't a hardship so wish they'd get wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes people are still asking to meet! Idiots!

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

"Hadn't seen anyone asking for meets until last night a couple asked me if I could come to theirs.

I politely declined and they were all fine about it but it took me aback a bit.

Hope you reported them."

I didn't.

If folk want to be as stupid as them then they can batter in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they probably will be but no one will admit to it on this thread for fear of being torn a new arsehole.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I'm sure some are, but I don't think it's really a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are unfortunately. We saw a fab friend actually sending live pics and videos and bragging about his meet on a kik group. When we called him out about it he had the most ridiculous reasons then started defending his right to do what he wanted

Yes we reported him and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they are unfortunately. We saw a fab friend actually sending live pics and videos and bragging about his meet on a kik group. When we called him out about it he had the most ridiculous reasons then started defending his right to do what he wanted

Yes we reported him and blocked "

That's a dick move regardless of the current situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we reported him and blocked

That's a dick move regardless of the current situation "

Why? Because it was a fab friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say you shouldn’t have unprotected sex but people still do it so yeah I’d say people are still meeting

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

There's lots still looking to meet. I guess the boredom has kicked in.

I've not reported any that have asked me, but I doubt I would ever meet up with them even after all this. If they are prepared to meet up just now, what else don't they care about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, they are!

Just like people are still going to other folks houses to visit, going for walks with others who don't live in the same house, etc etc

Just because we are all told of the guidelines that we should follow, doesn't mean that everyone will do as they are told, not everyone can be classed as being sensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope people aren’t meeting but I’m sure lots are. Just prolonging the lockdown for everyone. The sooner we can get back to some sort of normality the better.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

I've had a few messages asking for meets, the report section on peoples profiles now has an option for "looking for meets during covid 19 lockdown". It's been a very heavily used button recently haha

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes there are those still meeting.

Unfortunately you cant quarantine stupid .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes there are those still meeting.

Unfortunately you cant quarantine stupid .

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked a few times and not just on fab but on other dating sites, only person I'm meeting is my neighbour to walk the dogs, we stay far enough away on our walks and I wear a mask and carry my hand sanitiser well I alwsy do anyway for when I'm. Using the pooh bags, why cause I get social anxiety big time and I've always had someone else with me when out with the dogs and my daughter is asthmatic so she's not been out the house in 6 weeks I think we're at now, and my son is at work, and other son has tourettes and adhd. Fortunately. I do have a disabled passport that's endorsed by the government I carry with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting asked too on here, other sites too. Eh naw I'm not putting myself at risk for a fuck. Asked the last one if they were fucking stupid and said they would end up black listed if the names of the people got out

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

Yes people are still meeting! I know a female who work in a doctors practice and she is meeting using her uniform to get about FACT: Westlothian area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know for a fact people are still meeting. Scandalous... is anybody that desperate ffs ??

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew

If it's been a regular meet partner ,I can't see the difference from going home from work to your wife after being around other work mates all day

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I've had several offers from guys

I troll them then report them

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Sadly it would seem people are certainly still trying to meet, how successful they are I don't know but I guess eventually the irresponsible idiots will find each other and put others at risk by meeting.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we reported him and blocked

That's a dick move regardless of the current situation

Why? Because it was a fab friend?"

I read it as the bragging in the group and sharing pics was the dick move ... might be wrong

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"If it's been a regular meet partner ,I can't see the difference from going home from work to your wife after being around other work mates all day "

The difference is it not ESSENTIAL travel to go to a fuck buddies just to get your dick wet !

They have made it crystal clear stay in your own household . Dont visit others unless you have to drop off essential shopping or medication.

Regards work ... those who have to go in are social distancing .Cant see you having any social distancing when your fucking! When they come home they are stripping off as soon as they get in and having a shower or bath .Plus washing their clothes when they get in . They are also WORRIED SICK they could be bringing the virus to their loved ones !

Anyone putting their own health AND the health of others at risk for a quick fuck are grossly negligent and selfish beyond belief!

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew

If they both were single and it was regular , is that not like going to your gf house ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has asked me. But then I keep a low profile. I am Discreet anyway. But if anyone was to ask. It's a no no. I find someone getting to close when shopping stressful just now. If you see anyone on a ventilator you would know how bloody silly it is to meet just now. Even harder if you had to go round turning ventilators of. Your no respect for your self never mind others if you do meet. Idiots need to think first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they both were single and it was regular , is that not like going to your gf house ? "

You arent allowed to go to your gf house either though, lots of couples isolating apart

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew

Really , I'm totally out of touch with what's going on here , cause where I was it was no where near as strict as this . My bad then x

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Really , I'm totally out of touch with what's going on here , cause where I was it was no where near as strict as this . My bad then x "

Where were you....

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew

Norway , where the rules are totally different to here . It's more if you are feeling I'll or have felt ill in the last few month to make yourself quarantine for 14days and once done you are free to go to work ,shops , walks , mall. Pubs and food restaurant's are closed but wee coffe shops open for takeaway . Just a lot different. They did shut their borders pretty quick though . No one in no one out for a few days then only in if willing to quarantine for 14days

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By *lasgowduoWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I don’t normally chat in fourms but thought since this is up I should Say So much for our police men not all of them before everybody sarts to batter me was asked tonight to meet he picked me up full uniform in his police car as the are self isolating haha cuff me to and fuck me sent pics of him in his uniform how bad is that

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew

You enjoy it ?

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By *lasgowduoWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *lasgowduoWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I didn’t meet told him no ofcourse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we reported him and blocked

That's a dick move regardless of the current situation

Why? Because it was a fab friend?

I read it as the bragging in the group and sharing pics was the dick move ... might be wrong "

You read it right

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Number of folk asking me to meet is the same as before lockdown!

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

"Number of folk asking me to meet is the same as before lockdown!

Same here pal.

Fuckin’ zero !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn’t meet told him no ofcourse"

What a total moron!! He should defo be reported!! You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police! This guy gives other police a bad name. I’ve heard of a few that meet in full uniform and in police car. Think it’s bloody disgusting and I’m no prude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police! "

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t normally chat in fourms but thought since this is up I should Say So much for our police men not all of them before everybody sarts to batter me was asked tonight to meet he picked me up full uniform in his police car as the are self isolating haha cuff me to and fuck me sent pics of him in his uniform how bad is that "

All my other police friends are self isolating so I'll sneak out in one of the police cars. Not buying this one. If you're living in the western Isles - one policeman one car possibly at a stretch but I'm calling catfish here. Doubt he's even polis, 'uniform' pic or not. Not doubting the meet request happening, just the legitimacy of the man behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police!

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary "

Why?? He is taking liberty of his position and making a mockery of the system! I’ve seen some profiles on here of policemen during meets in full uniform or in their police cars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police!

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary

Why?? He is taking liberty of his position and making a mockery of the system! I’ve seen some profiles on here of policemen during meets in full uniform or in their police cars

It's courting unnecessary drama when it could so easily be avoided

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I thought this too but didn't want to sound like my usual cynical self by saying it! Sounds very suspicious to me...

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes we reported him and blocked

That's a dick move regardless of the current situation

Why? Because it was a fab friend?

I read it as the bragging in the group and sharing pics was the dick move ... might be wrong "

That’s how I read it too

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

If anyone thinks there wont be anyone meeting during this, then I'm sorry your going to have your thoughts shattered. Of course people will be meeting and looking to meet, it"s human nature to think...

Achhh it will be okay, jjatva quick one off, who will know. People can if they want convince themselves of anything given the right set of circumstances.

For the record I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they are. Most will go about it quietly.

Lots of reasons why people may not stick to the rules, not just meeting people.

It's their call and not my concern.

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes sadly there is people still doing so.

Had a few requests all from couples incidentally. Reported and blocked every single one.

Know people may feel it's not their business but it puts the life's of others at risk such as their family members etc and more strain on the NHS. It's a disgrace and nothing but selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone thinks there wont be anyone meeting during this, then I'm sorry your going to have your thoughts shattered. Of course people will be meeting and looking to meet, it"s human nature to think...

Achhh it will be okay, jjatva quick one off, who will know. People can if they want convince themselves of anything given the right set of circumstances.

For the record I'm not."

I know you are right butlike I already told some guy on tinder , look at what other people are sacrificing, apart from long term partners , moving out of their home away from their family so they can continue to work in hospital or terrified they bring it home every day and these people can’t even do their bit and pass up a casual shag ... how sad and desperate ... have a wank instead ffs

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

3 different profiles asked for meets in last 24hrs

don’t get what people don’t understand about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police!

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary

Why?? He is taking liberty of his position and making a mockery of the system! I’ve seen some profiles on here of policemen during meets in full uniform or in their police cars

It's courting unnecessary drama when it could so easily be avoided "

Sometimes drama is necessary when it’s the right thing to do. If we all just did a blind eye to wrongs we see wouldn’t that end up in more drama...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police!

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary

Why?? He is taking liberty of his position and making a mockery of the system! I’ve seen some profiles on here of policemen during meets in full uniform or in their police cars

It's courting unnecessary drama when it could so easily be avoided

Sometimes drama is necessary when it’s the right thing to do. If we all just did a blind eye to wrongs we see wouldn’t that end up in more drama...?

The right thing to do was to say no

Not set some trap and create a situation that could have easily been avoided.

That's not the same as turning a blind eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police!

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary

Why?? He is taking liberty of his position and making a mockery of the system! I’ve seen some profiles on here of policemen during meets in full uniform or in their police cars

It's courting unnecessary drama when it could so easily be avoided

Sometimes drama is necessary when it’s the right thing to do. If we all just did a blind eye to wrongs we see wouldn’t that end up in more drama...?

The right thing to do was to say no

Not set some trap and create a situation that could have easily been avoided.

That's not the same as turning a blind eye"

That’s the same as turning a blind eye as you know he will be continuing with this. Sorry but I prefer my tax to go on police that respect their roles not morons who flout their position to get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police!

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary

Why?? He is taking liberty of his position and making a mockery of the system! I’ve seen some profiles on here of policemen during meets in full uniform or in their police cars

It's courting unnecessary drama when it could so easily be avoided

Sometimes drama is necessary when it’s the right thing to do. If we all just did a blind eye to wrongs we see wouldn’t that end up in more drama...?

The right thing to do was to say no

Not set some trap and create a situation that could have easily been avoided.

That's not the same as turning a blind eye

You can't always get what you want

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

"You should have said yes just to get his car details then reported him to the police!

No, that would have been foolish and unnecessary

Why?? He is taking liberty of his position and making a mockery of the system! I’ve seen some profiles on here of policemen during meets in full uniform or in their police cars

It's courting unnecessary drama when it could so easily be avoided

Sometimes drama is necessary when it’s the right thing to do. If we all just did a blind eye to wrongs we see wouldn’t that end up in more drama...?

The right thing to do was to say no

Not set some trap and create a situation that could have easily been avoided.

That's not the same as turning a blind eye

You can't always get what you want "

But if you try sometimes, well, you might find

You get what you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of people who's status is clearly indicating a meet is ridiculous

. That said....OPS say meeting in these times is a breach of FAB rules and T&Cs. So why is it that when I have reported people using the COVID reasoning I am blocked from then viewing their profile as if I have been blocked by the user themselves and the profile is clearly still active. Is remedial action really being taken in these cases? If not...then what the point in having a reporting process?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of people who's status is clearly indicating a meet is ridiculous

I think when you report a profile for anything admins block both from seeing each other as standard, cant comment on what action they take other than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh...didn't realise. Thanks for the heads up, makes sense. That said I thought you could report people anonymously with the confidence that it doesn't get back to them...so not sure why the need for blocking I still feel that if peeps are reported under the Covid reasoning and if OPS finds this to be the case...then the profiles shouldn't exist anymore as they should be kicked off the site (in my humble opinion).

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you catch this virus and recover, you can be left with lifelong health issues.

If you are put on a ventilator, it is an invasive and unpleasant experience.

If you succumb to the virus, it is a horrible way to depart from this life.

I'm dying to get back to fab meets, but I'm not going to risk dying for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you catch this virus and recover, you can be left with lifelong health issues.

Did mystic Meg come up with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who asks us to meet (which keeps happening) gets reported and blocked. No fucks given.

K works with vulnerable people and the amount of people being utter dicks and flaunting the rules puts her and all of her clients in danger.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Ohhh...didn't realise. Thanks for the heads up, makes sense. That said I thought you could report people anonymously with the confidence that it doesn't get back to them...so not sure why the need for blocking I still feel that if peeps are reported under the Covid reasoning and if OPS finds this to be the case...then the profiles shouldn't exist anymore as they should be kicked off the site (in my humble opinion)."

You won't be told what action is being taken against the reported profile.

Admin will automatically block you from seeing the profile you reported, as is there is no longer a need for you to see the profile, and to stop repetitive reporting.

Fab admin will then deal with the reported profile appropriately.

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By *leasure domMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If you catch this virus and recover, you can be left with lifelong health issues.

Did mystic Meg come up with that?

With reference to the strapline for a previous health crisis, "Don't die of ignorance"......

Google will point you in the direction of becoming better informed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you catch this virus and recover, you can be left with lifelong health issues.

Did mystic Meg come up with that?

With reference to the strapline for a previous health crisis, "Don't die of ignorance"......

Google will point you in the direction of becoming better informed."

Google isn't some kind of magical crystal ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 2 weeks to go.....not long to wait to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Key workers putting themselves and family’s at risk and some can’t go without having a meet makes my blood boil. Folk are getting more complacent as the weeks go on. I have noticed while travelling to work that the roads are getting more busy. I get people are bored but don’t you think that some of us would prefer to be on lockdown rather than going to work and increasing their and families risks!!

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

"Only 2 weeks to go.....not long to wait to meet. "

Is it though....really is it only 2 weeks?

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By *eviousvixen69Woman
over a year ago

land of riches

I do believe people are meeting and they bloody idiots so they are! The report button, it just blocks them, it should remove their profile from fab altogether so it should, as it just shows the type of person on here and if they doing that what else have they been up to

Stay safe guys and dolls

It gonna be a long process but we can do this

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By *aturr swingersCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sorry we wouldnt meet anyone on here during lockdown but we also wouldnt report anyone either block button not the grass button

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By *ittle miss squirt69Couple
over a year ago

Ayeshire

I hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more likely people are drinking and asking daft questions, sites like this will help people through this crazy time

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By *un guy 2020Man
over a year ago

near you

I think it’s madness just be happy with chatting to new people and possibly get on and get a meet when over if not chatting at least safe for all

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By *lasgowduoWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Well he has been reported and removed also his profile wasn’t a new one

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By *lasgowduoWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *lasgowduoWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I don’t come on here much but I did report the police man and he has been removed trying to use his job to get meets he should no better in his line of work right

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Report profiles trying to meet, let admin take a look.

Don't try and put them on the forum that's against site rules.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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