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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is this a good move or not.

How many has ended up with a reg fuck buddy in work

Iv had it once and it worked well for us. We would have our fun where and when and had our own separate lives outside of work. anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few fb's I worked with. Some ended well. Some didn't. One I am still very good friends with 5 years on. Depends on the individual situation I guess.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I ended up living with my boss for 25yrs. Seemed like a good idea at the time but did not work our well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ended up living with my boss for 25yrs. Seemed like a good idea at the time but did not work our well."

I dont think fuck buddy in work kinda fits with your situation of living with someone for 25 years. Whether you worked with him or not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucked one of my lecturers when I was a student that was just awkward after it lol, I felt like a ihad to get other lecturers to mark my work so made sure and completed everything on his days off, and one former work colleague was great till the rest of the boys sussed (Mr shy and quiet became a puppy at my heelsand made it super obvious) and then it also got awkward lol especially when I was in charge of the cells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a reg FB but had a fumble and a finger ....things were a bit awkward afterwards as they were not as discreet as I had first thought.

So generally not a good idea I think.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Don't mix work with pleasure

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By *outhside42Man
over a year ago

shawlands

Don't get laid, where you get paid! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fucked one of my lecturers when I was a student that was just awkward after it lol, I felt like a ihad to get other lecturers to mark my work so made sure and completed everything on his days off, and one former work colleague was great till the rest of the boys sussed (Mr shy and quiet became a puppy at my heelsand made it super obvious) and then it also got awkward lol especially when I was in charge of the cells "

Naughty. How did u end up fucking lecture x

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

You don't screw the crew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't screw the crew. "

Or toss (off)the Boss

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By *ootall2920Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"You don't screw the crew. "

Though I did have a great FWB relationship with the physio at the rugby club I played for. Though she was also shagging st least one other player.

She was hot and we had a good time. I (like to) think that she was more gutted about it ending than I was.

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

You don't screw the crew, a good rule for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucked one of my lecturers when I was a student that was just awkward after it lol, I felt like a ihad to get other lecturers to mark my work so made sure and completed everything on his days off, and one former work colleague was great till the rest of the boys sussed (Mr shy and quiet became a puppy at my heelsand made it super obvious) and then it also got awkward lol especially when I was in charge of the cells

Naughty. How did u end up fucking lecture x"

Well my long term bf and I had split up and I was feeling a bit miserable and sorry for myself and I got a fb notification and it was a message from my lecturer, he was like I've sent you a friends request you can have a quick nosey at my profile(the guys in class had been trying to find him on fb to find embarrassing pics) so I accepted he asked what I was doing I said not alot I've been dumped dby email so I'm going to head to my pals later and go on it cause apparently the best way to get over one guy is get under another,, his reply oh well if that's what you fancy doing why don't you just swing by my place and let me volunteer to cheer you up lol so I did lol and then got back with my bf a week later lol then when we split up a second time I'd already left college by then but repeated it didn't fancy him at all in fact he wasn't my type but it sorted me out at the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucked one of my lecturers when I was a student that was just awkward after it lol, I felt like a ihad to get other lecturers to mark my work so made sure and completed everything on his days off, and one former work colleague was great till the rest of the boys sussed (Mr shy and quiet became a puppy at my heelsand made it super obvious) and then it also got awkward lol especially when I was in charge of the cells

Naughty. How did u end up fucking lecture x

Well my long term bf and I had split up and I was feeling a bit miserable and sorry for myself and I got a fb notification and it was a message from my lecturer, he was like I've sent you a friends request you can have a quick nosey at my profile(the guys in class had been trying to find him on fb to find embarrassing pics) so I accepted he asked what I was doing I said not alot I've been dumped dby email so I'm going to head to my pals later and go on it cause apparently the best way to get over one guy is get under another,, his reply oh well if that's what you fancy doing why don't you just swing by my place and let me volunteer to cheer you up lol so I did lol and then got back with my bf a week later lol then when we split up a second time I'd already left college by then but repeated it didn't fancy him at all in fact he wasn't my type but it sorted me out at the time lol "

Oh you wanton hussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try never to mix business with pleasure.

It’s a struggle working with guys at the best of times never mind if they feel they have something over you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waaahhhaaa yup and it was fucking great lol

But then I got older and the moral compass isn't as wavering as it once was lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waaahhhaaa yup and it was fucking great lol

But then I got older and the moral compass isn't as wavering as it once was lol "

Did he manage to keep his job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waaahhhaaa yup and it was fucking great lol

But then I got older and the moral compass isn't as wavering as it once was lol

Did he manage to keep his job?"

Yeah tbh they frown more upon older lecturers with younger students if they get found out but we weren't far off the same age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waaahhhaaa yup and it was fucking great lol

But then I got older and the moral compass isn't as wavering as it once was lol

Did he manage to keep his job?

Yeah tbh they frown more upon older lecturers with younger students if they get found out but we weren't far off the same age "

I'm pretty sure it's never really shrugged off

He sounds like he wasn't that fussed about having professional integrity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in the coperate world where everyone can read upside down and would throw under the bus before they would give you a nod in the desert . I only sleep with people I trust and like . Other than that don't bite the hand that feeds you ??

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve never played with a colleague*. I did work with someone who did play with a colleague and it went horribly wrong. They were found out when they accidentally set off the decontamination shower in a lab. (I worked in a university at the time). His wife also worked in the uni so it was a very awkward situation all round.

* A Fab friend now works in the same organisation that I now work with so technically I have played with a colleague

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not a fuck buddy but was very good friends with a female colleague in my part time student job and thought that's all it was. We hung out outside work just the 2 of us totally innocent.

She had a boyfriend so never thought of anything like that or seen her that way. One day she told me she liked me and things escalated.

Before I knew it I was in love with her. A few things happened and got to the point where I wanted a relationship but didn't want to push her to split up with her boyfriend as never thought I'd be that guy, so basically stopped seeing her outside of work as I didn't trust myself to just be friends or knock her back if/when she tried it on.

Not proud of it. But at the same time definitely one that got away.

Was perfectly civil in work till I moved on though never an issue. Suppose its unique in each situation. Tread carefully..

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ps they are now married and I was invited to the wedding lol.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

The phrase "don't shit where you eat" is what i learned many years ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I ended up living with my boss for 25yrs. Seemed like a good idea at the time but did not work our well.

I dont think fuck buddy in work kinda fits with your situation of living with someone for 25 years. Whether you worked with him or not . "

Well i was a fuck buddy for 18months before i lived with him so guessing it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had a fuck buddy at work went on for 5 yrs and ended very very badly would I do it again fucking right I would.. !!

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Don't poke the payroll #classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I had a fuck buddy at work went on for 5 yrs and ended very very badly would I do it again fucking right I would.. !! "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always said would never do it...have had many work fb though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been discussed before I'm sure

However

I used to meet my gaffer for sex. She would allocate me shifts just to fuck her.

Met at our homes a few times.

The whole boss worker thing just made it hotter.

Till she was sacked :-\

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Had a fwb at work, seemed to work at the time but was all very discrete due to the fact we were married, but not to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is this a good move or not.

How many has ended up with a reg fuck buddy in work

Iv had it once and it worked well for us. We would have our fun where and when and had our own separate lives outside of work. anyone else "

I had a thing with a few punters in the bar I worked in then ended up seeing one of the staff was fun while it lasted but on the whole Fwb in work situation dont workout to well I've found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hooked up with my boss on a night out....wild passionate affair ensued... unbelievably good sex...what turned out to be a little fun developed into something stronger which neither of us planned or really wanted...so we stopped....remained friends...still chat regular and sometimes hook up (for old times sake lol) - don't work together anymore which makes it easier I think

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Is this not a context thing, if your in a workplace of 500 would it be awkward as a workplace of 3. If two people fancy a knee shake or a fling, then if you are going to get into it, speak about what the potential impact will be. If both are comfortable then why not.

I've had a few flings with work colleagues and fellow students over the years, it's never been a problem and the ground rules have always been spoken about before anything happens.

My tuppenthworth

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Had a great thing going on with my line manager, on and off for roughly six years, never at work though and was seeing one of the girls from the canteen for around eighteen months too, was brill having extra pudding

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Had a few funtimes with work colleagues in a previous employment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few over the years fun st the time but can lead to drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirted with a couple inc sending naughty pics and texts but only ever had 1 fling. Definitely wouldn’t do it again she became too intense what we agreed would only be a bit of fun she began to push for more, defined made it uncomfortable at work so well and truly fingers burnt.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Just the once way back when I was uni age and working part time in retail. Store stock room seen a bit of action!

It ended fine and we are still mates a good few years later.

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