FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on how to introduce my wife

By *lovetoplaydirty OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Morning I hope everyone is staying safe and well? I’m looking for advice from couples who have been in a similar situation. My wife knows I’m on here and that’s great but I’d love it if she’s consider the notion of swinging. Any tips on how to broach it or advice that will help?

Thanks in advance

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Morning I hope everyone is staying safe and well? I’m looking for advice from couples who have been in a similar situation. My wife knows I’m on here and that’s great but I’d love it if she’s consider the notion of swinging. Any tips on how to broach it or advice that will help?

Thanks in advance "
she knows your on here and has shown no interest trying to coerce someone ends in tears almost everytime let sleeping dogs lie if they want to investigate they will in their own time

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By *lovetoplaydirty OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I didn’t say she hadn’t shown any interest at all what I’m asking is for tips or advice to real get an in-depth conversation going. Thanks for your concern anyway

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"I didn’t say she hadn’t shown any interest at all what I’m asking is for tips or advice to real get an in-depth conversation going. Thanks for your concern anyway "
well I guessed you must have had a convo as she knows your on here

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By *lovetoplaydirty OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Satisfying my BI side

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Satisfying my BI side "

If that’s what she believes you are on fab for and if this is what you are on it for why do you need her to join

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By *lovetoplaydirty OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Wow some great advice there, I’m on Fab exploring my bi side with her permission. I want to broach the subject of us playing as a couple, I’m not really sure I can explain it anymore simpler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need advice on how to start a conversation with your wife when let's be honest you know her better than anybody I fear for your marriage. Leave her be. As already said she knows you are on here if she was interested she would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile.

Let her see fab in all its glory.

Let her Explore it herself.

If shes interested she will ask you more questions.

If not.nope shes not.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"Wow some great advice there, I’m on Fab exploring my bi side with her permission. I want to broach the subject of us playing as a couple, I’m not really sure I can explain it anymore simpler "

Funny there’s no mention of being married or just exploring your bi side on your profile

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By *lovetoplaydirty OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Why is that funny? We’re from a very small town in Aberdeenshire so anything to keep the anonymity

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By *lovetoplaydirty OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I’m more than comfortable starting it, I’m asking for advice and tips that helped other males when they approached wives etc. Even if she says absolutely not she deserves the same excitement or at least the opportunity

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I think the point folks are trying to make is if your wife knows you are here and you have a profile the she has already had an open mind and accepted your choices.

I would think if she is open to you being bi and having a profile on here she should be fairly easy to talk to about involving her in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m more than comfortable starting it, I’m asking for advice and tips that helped other males when they approached wives etc. Even if she says absolutely not she deserves the same excitement or at least the opportunity "

This is your problem you are thinking as a male.. She knows you are on here. If you were my partner and I was even curious I would ask about it and ask to see fab.

Why not say to her one night while browsing oh you should check some of the folk out on this? If she says OK that's a start. If she shrugs or says no thanks there's your answer.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

If she thinks you are on here looking for guys do not show her your profile! The fact you state you are looking for women and couples kind of goes against everything.

But my main thing is - you say on your profile you are an experienced Dom and yet you are asking for help with how to talk to your wife about getting into Fab? Just me that's confused?

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

If I was your wife and I’d said it was okay for you to go out and explore your bi side, I’d be pretty pissed off that you were looking for women on here.

You should also have on your profile your married, can add that she has knowledge your here.

Profiles should be honest and your profile is a bit different to what you have stated in this forum your actually looking for.

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By *ifeCouple66Couple
over a year ago

Fife

"Wow some great advice there, I’m on Fab exploring my bi side with her permission. I want to broach the subject of us playing as a couple, I’m not really sure I can explain it anymore simpler "

Your profile literally says you are looking for couples and females to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all else fails try the caveman style, club over napper and drag kicking and screaming. Ps can I have her number for when your divorce is finalised.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Even if she says absolutely not she deserves the same excitement or at least the opportunity "

Why not reflect on this for a moment

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

This is your problem you are thinking as a male.. She knows you are on here.) If you were my partner and I was even curious I would ask about it and ask to see fab.

Why not say to her one night while browsing oh you should check some of the folk out on this? If she says OK that's a start. If she shrugs or says no thanks there's your answer.[/quote

THIS 100% as the wife of a bi hubby the fact she accepts you are bi and lets you on here is way further than i was 2 years ago ,long story nearly broke us but not we are happy playing together ,but MY hubby is not on here for women and we say so ,id decide what you actually want re do profile and let your wife share interest on here IF she wants to she might feel what she doesnt know wont hurt her ,i was in the dark not nice when it all comes out ,TALK AND SHARE ALL INFO ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Satisfying my BI side

If that’s what she believes you are on fab for and if this is what you are on it for why do you need her to join

Because he has that choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Satisfying my BI side

If that’s what she believes you are on fab for and if this is what you are on it for why do you need her to join

Because he has that choice.

Surely it's ultimately his wife that has that

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Experienced dom looking for women and couples but only here to explore your bi side? If you can't be honest with yourself then how can you expect your wife to indulge?

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm in a similar situation. My girlfriend knows I'm here, has said she'd visit a club, but the notion of anything else is just so taboo to her.

Good luck OP, just remember and go at her speed, don't force anything.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Satisfying my BI side

If that’s what she believes you are on fab for and if this is what you are on it for why do you need her to join

Because he has that choice.

Surely it's ultimately his wife that has that"

Not entirely...

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