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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls "Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members . some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise  | |||
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise "Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it." Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! | |||
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "Hes married and hes judging you ! sounds like jealousy because he cant meet freely like you | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it. Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! " Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life. | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it. Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life." Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it." Indeed Mrs Doggy...I would only add "right up" to your advice!  | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it. Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life. Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x" Of course but try not let it. Fab should be fun and relaxed and nobody should spoil it for you.x | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it. Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life. Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x Of course but try not let it. Fab should be fun and relaxed and nobody should spoil it for you.x" Need to try learn then lol x | |||
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls "Your being a bit of a snowflake yes, Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out. As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them. Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest.  | |||
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"In the past I'd had at most 4 guys at the one time that I would see fairly regualry but jealousy did become an issue, the whole reason I didn't just meet one person is the risk of getting too attached and I defo wasn't looking for a relationship, other folk don't really want regular some prefer never meeting the same person twice " Glad it’s not just me then, I prefer to meet the same people because I’m so nervous and shy xx | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it. Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! Tell him to F off then block him. Anyone who makes you feel shit should not be in your life." Exactly this ....actually going to take this advice and applying it to a few people I know.....but not for long now. | |||
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "Whatever number you choose to meet jess | |||
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"Your being a bit of a snowflake yes, Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out" No one should should put up with abuse nor be told to ship out. Passive aggressive pish | |||
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" Both of them blocked me anyway, saved me the hassle, but I still took offence x" Sounds like they deserve each other. Obviously their issue; not yours. Forget about it and move on. It's not like his opinion of you matters or influences what others think of you. | |||
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"As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them. Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest. passive aggressive pish "Sorry what's passive aggressive about my post. ? | |||
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged Hes married and hes judging you !
sounds like jealousy because he cant meet freely like you " meet as many as you like it your life and don't let people get you down.. And the old saying sticks and stones will break my bones But names will neva hurt me... Keep safe and happy fabbing | |||
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "He's the one with the problem not you xx | |||
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"Sorry what's passive aggressive about my post. ?" Your being a bit of a snowflake yes, Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out.
This is the part of your post you selectively failed to quote and address.
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" Your being a bit of a snowflake yes, Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out. This is the part of your post you selectively failed to quote and address. Why is that ? "This is not being passively aggressive mate, this us being honest. If your not mentally strong enough to be abe to deal with a few nasty comments that might be thrown your way because of how you choose to live your life then whatever platform you use whether it's Fab , Facebook , tinder Pof or whatever then maybe you need to think about not using those platforms. So I stand by what I said , toughen up or leave / ship out. If it makes you unhappy. You are also quoting just half of that post too so not to confuse people here is the rest of what I said on the ladys OP To quote As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them. Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest. Nothing passive aggressive when you put my whole post together in its original state. | |||
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" Your being a bit of a snowflake yes, Fab is no place for anyone that can't stand up to a bit of abuse from people. Obviously it's not acceptable but it happens on a daily basis on Fab so you need to toughen up or ship out. This is the part of your post you selectively failed to quote and address. Why is that ?
This is not being passively aggressive mate, this us being honest. If your not mentally strong enough to be abe to deal with a few nasty comments that might be thrown your way because of how you choose to live your life then whatever platform you use whether it's Fab , Facebook , tinder Pof or whatever then maybe you need to think about not using those platforms. So I stand by what I said , toughen up or leave / ship out. If it makes you unhappy.
You are also quoting just half of that post too so not to confuse people here is the rest of what I said on the ladys OP
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As already been said, tell him to fuck off , cut him out your circle of friends and use Fab any way that suits you and that includes who you meet and how often you want to meet them.
Hoping you take this advice and stay on Fab but mostly just do what makes you happiest.
Nothing passive aggressive when you put my whole post together in its original state.
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls Yes its normal it why most joined the site to meet and have fun with other members .
some like something regular some like meeting several people just do what suits you & dont let others tell you otherwise
Well because I’ve met 3 diff people ‘regularly’ this year this guy went totally in on me, him and his fwb (because he’s married) went right in and made out I was the worst person on the planet, so I just wanted to ask what the appropriate number of people are we allowed to meet ffs without being judged "As folk have said tell him to ram it. Do what makes you feel good. You're not here for him. | |||
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"I just want to ask people’s honest opinions because maybe I’ve been a bit of a snowflake and took offence... This is fab after all... Is it normal to regularly meet more than one person on here at the one time, people have lives other than fab so meeting can be pretty difficult, so it might be like even once a month... so how many is too many, or is this the new form of relationship game where you can only meet 1 person and then game over or your tarred as a slut! Oh and does this apply to guys and girls or is it just girls "As long as I’m one it’s fine | |||
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"So a guy who's fucking about gets to take the moral high ground? Tell him to ram it. Exactly but it still makes me feel like shit, like am I actually in the wrong, mean I say regular I’ve met one of them twice, one 3 times and one maybe 5 or 6 times... this year! " m Seems reasonable. | |||
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