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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it stand for the same thing like equal rights or the superiority women over men? We talk about feminism a lot and one said a good thing, she is a woman, not a feminist

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

It does seem to me as though there is still a lot of inequality out there but we are now moving towards a system of positive discrimination in all areas to counteract perceived inequality.

Unfortunately in my view discrimination is just that, regardless of reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it stand for the same thing like equal rights or the superiority women over men?"

Let's just say it's the latter and save you a lot of effort in pretending to argue in good faith.

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Theres a wide range of feminists within feminism as there always has been. This is something thats true of any political or social movement.

There are reasonable ones and psychotic extremists, but the headline: "Reasonable feminist has well thought out idea" doesnt get the same attention as crazy stories from the fringe.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Feminists are people of varying stances but the movement has been stimulated by the need for equality.

Iceland has equal pay rights law for women - something that other countries, including the UK, does not have. Income inequalities between genders result in substantial differences in life opportunities.

There are groups out there who aim to distort the wellbeing between different groups, so your question Shag, may have been prompted by some such group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay gap is mostly overstated and misrepresented

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"Feminists are people of varying stances but the movement has been stimulated by the need for equality.

Iceland has equal pay rights law for women - something that other countries, including the UK, does not have. Income inequalities between genders result in substantial differences in life opportunities.

There are groups out there who aim to distort the wellbeing between different groups, so your question Shag, may have been prompted by some such group."

There is just as much pay inequality between males and classes. In fact over the past 40 years successive governments have actively legislated to increase this inequality and discrimination by effectively outlawing collective bargaining across industries and reducing the power of unions to a point they are now effectively irrelevant.

Fact is there is inequality everywhere and until inequality in total is addressed all that we do is change the demography of inequality and discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay gap is mostly overstated and misrepresented "

Not true. But a persistent and appealing lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feminists are people of varying stances but the movement has been stimulated by the need for equality.

Iceland has equal pay rights law for women - something that other countries, including the UK, does not have. Income inequalities between genders result in substantial differences in life opportunities.

There are groups out there who aim to distort the wellbeing between different groups, so your question Shag, may have been prompted by some such group.

There is just as much pay inequality between males and classes. In fact over the past 40 years successive governments have actively legislated to increase this inequality and discrimination by effectively outlawing collective bargaining across industries and reducing the power of unions to a point they are now effectively irrelevant.

Fact is there is inequality everywhere and until inequality in total is addressed all that we do is change the demography of inequality and discrimination."

Willwill it is for these reasons that I hate moderm feminism. One group thinking their "plight" is more worthy than that of others.

Like trump...they are masters of marketing to get their way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay gap is mostly overstated and misrepresented

Not true. But a persistent and appealing lie."

I wonder in the post patriarchy afterscape will the people look back on this as the last time the world wasn't a shitshow....

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Feminism does not equal misandry.

We are making steps, but we have a long way to go before we reach equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For certain people feminism is a synonym for misandry. Which is an understandable reaction to the prospect that they may lose the privilege they've enjoyed thus far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are most feminists middle to upper class?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Pay gap is mostly overstated and misrepresented

Not true. But a persistent and appealing lie."

Surely it depends what is meant by "pay gap". If it means that men get paid more than women for doing the same work then, although there may still be a small problem, this is already illegal. However what most mean (although don't always make this clear) is that men, whilst getting paid the same amount for the same work, tend to get more of the higher paid jobs that are available so on average end up getting paid more. This is a much more difficult problem to solve and, short of mandatory quotas (which I'm not sure I'm in favour of) maybe unsolvable.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Why are most feminists middle to upper class?

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Why do you make things up?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Why are most feminists middle to upper class?

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Are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are most feminists middle to upper class?

Are they?"

Much like "the pay gap isn't real" its not a fact, but rather something some people wish were true.

Of course the implication being that the concept of equality is nothing more than bored rich people needing a hobby, thus it can be ignored, because it's just those silly women acting out.

Nauseating paternalism at it's most basic, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most vocal pro feminists are mostly bored rich and misguided.

Why not fight poverty instead “mansplaining“?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't make me laugh....the same people who are "fighting for equality".... supposedly

... are also calling to #killallmen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the sick world that is the hard-left media sphere one can read attacks on straight people, white people, and men in general on a daily basis with each open attack getting worse than the last.

The latest in this sort of liberal fantasy to eliminate those they politically disagree with comes in the form of a now deleted Tweet by an editor for the Huffington Post in which she declared that she wanted women to band together to kill all men.

Emily McCombs serves as the "Editorial Director of Parents" for HuffPo and apparently felt it was alright to publicly talk about murdering billions of people before eventually realizing her mistake and taking down the original post without any sort of additional comment or apology.

It's as if McCombs hoped it would disappear.

Thankfully, The Daily Caller had already written up a short piece on McCombs call for murder that included the exact Tweet before it was deleted.

New Year's resolutions:

1. Cultivate female friendships

2. Band together to kill all men

- Emily McCombs (@msemilymccombs) December 29, 2017

One has to wonder if this is the type of person the Huffington Post wishes to employ, especially when you consider that McCombs has so far refused to apologize and is attempting to act like her Tweet never happened.

Additionally, The HuffPo editor has a rather shocking history when it comes to her extremist feminist views, even going as far as to attack her own son for crimes he has yet to even commit.

The Daily Caller noted:

In the post, she talks about her own son, saying, "(o)f course, we all want to raise feminist sons. I wrote an article a few months ago detailing the ways I try to do just that. But my efforts are starting to seem like grains of sand against a steady wave-crash of misogyny and rpe culture." (RELATED: 'Fake Feminists': Tucker Takes On Guest Over Clinton Allegations [VIDEO])

She continues, "In my previous article, I wrote, 'In my sweat-soaked, sit-straight-up-in-bed feminist nightmares, I can imagine a future in which my own spawn makes some woman feel as voiceless as the boys in my high school once did, a world in which he blithely argues against the existence of male privilege and shit-talks the latest all-female remake on Twitter.' Lately, I can imagine it even more clearly."

Filed my nails into sharp little points last night so that I may spear and devour the hearts of men.

- Emily McCombs (@msemilymccombs) November 29, 2017

Can we have a day without men tomorrow?

- Emily McCombs (@msemilymccombs) March 9, 2017

This is the hard-left at its finest folks.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"In the sick world that is the hard-left media sphere one can read attacks on straight people, white people, and men in general on a daily basis with each open attack getting worse than the last.

The latest in this sort of liberal fantasy to eliminate those they politically disagree with comes in the form of a now deleted Tweet by an editor for the Huffington Post in which she declared that she wanted women to band together to kill all men.

Emily McCombs serves as the "Editorial Director of Parents" for HuffPo and apparently felt it was alright to publicly talk about murdering billions of people before eventually realizing her mistake and taking down the original post without any sort of additional comment or apology.

It's as if McCombs hoped it would disappear.

Thankfully, The Daily Caller had already written up a short piece on McCombs call for murder that included the exact Tweet before it was deleted.

New Year's resolutions:

1. Cultivate female friendships

2. Band together to kill all men

- Emily McCombs (@msemilymccombs) December 29, 2017

One has to wonder if this is the type of person the Huffington Post wishes to employ, especially when you consider that McCombs has so far refused to apologize and is attempting to act like her Tweet never happened.

Additionally, The HuffPo editor has a rather shocking history when it comes to her extremist feminist views, even going as far as to attack her own son for crimes he has yet to even commit.

The Daily Caller noted:

In the post, she talks about her own son, saying, "(o)f course, we all want to raise feminist sons. I wrote an article a few months ago detailing the ways I try to do just that. But my efforts are starting to seem like grains of sand against a steady wave-crash of misogyny and rpe culture." (RELATED: 'Fake Feminists': Tucker Takes On Guest Over Clinton Allegations [VIDEO])

She continues, "In my previous article, I wrote, 'In my sweat-soaked, sit-straight-up-in-bed feminist nightmares, I can imagine a future in which my own spawn makes some woman feel as voiceless as the boys in my high school once did, a world in which he blithely argues against the existence of male privilege and shit-talks the latest all-female remake on Twitter.' Lately, I can imagine it even more clearly."

Filed my nails into sharp little points last night so that I may spear and devour the hearts of men.

- Emily McCombs (@msemilymccombs) November 29, 2017

Can we have a day without men tomorrow?

- Emily McCombs (@msemilymccombs) March 9, 2017

This is the hard-left at its finest folks.

"

WOW!

Well if she's like that then I guess they must all be like that.

Let's build the bomb fires and burn the lot. That'll teach 'em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No some feminists are great...it's the loud media savvy types who are poisonous when given a mainstream media voice.

Some good stuff from jessica crispin here.

Making feminism a universal pursuit might look like a good thing,” author Jessa Crispin writes, “but in truth it progresses, and I think accelerates, a process that has been detrimental to the feminist movement.”

Crispin has written a polemic titled Why I am Not a Feminist, in which she laments the banality of contemporary feminism. Her thesis is simple enough: At some point, feminism lost its political moorings; it became vapid and toothless in its quest for universality. Feminism became a catch-all term for self-empowerment, for individual achievement.

Feminists, she believes, forsook their values for the sake of assimilation, which is another way of saying they were co-opted by the system they once rejected.

“If you have women in positions of power behaving like men do,” Crispin says, “that is not a defeat of the patriarchy. … That’s just patriarchy with women in it.”

A feminist politics is, according to Crispin, necessarily anti-capitalist. Patriarchy is bound up with capitalism, and thus the two must fall together. She’s not the first person to criticize feminism in this way. Socialist feminists have long argued that feminism demands the dismantling of capitalism. Crispin’s rejection of universalism and individualism, though, feels somewhat new, or at least it’s stated in more urgent terms.

In this interview, Crispin and I discuss her contempt for consumerist culture, which she says has pervaded feminist ideology and poisoned its roots. Since she considers patriarchy and capitalism as features of the same system, I ask her if feminism, rightly understood, is a revolutionary project.

This conversation has been edited for length and clarity.

Sean Illing

Your book reads like an indictment of our entire culture. Is that the spirit in which you wrote it?

Jessa Crispin

That’s right. I think part of it was feminism used to be outside the culture. It used to be a way of criticizing the culture. It used to be a way of imagining a different kind of culture. But somehow in the last 10 years or so, feminism became another part of the culture; it became as vapid and selfish as everything else.

Sean Illing

In many ways — and this is part of the argument you make in the book — feminism became apolitical, or divorced from its political roots.

Jessa Crispin

Yeah, and that was really frustrating as someone who became politically conscious through my engagement with feminism. It was disappointing to see feminists abandon their value system for the sake of assimilation and power. It was deeply, deeply disappointing to watch.

Sean Illing

So let’s talk about those forgotten values and what replaced them. When you object to new feminism, what are you objecting to exactly?

Jessa Crispin

I’m objecting to feminism as it currently exists in the mainstream. Certainly there is a tradition of radical feminism. There are still people working within radical feminism, but they are not the people who are being allowed to speak for feminism. When anybody is asked to write an op-ed in the New York Times or the Washington Post or whatever, it's not coming from a radical political awareness. It's coming from this very mainstream feminism and they're taking up all of the space.

So the conversation has been co-opted by people who have no idea what they're talking about. It's about personal essays. It's about what's a good television show. It has nothing to do with how do we actually improve the lives of all women, not just women in New York City, not just young, pretty, not just mediagenic women.

Sean Illing

But you go much further than that in the book, right? It’s not just that feminism has been co-opted or defanged — you say that it’s now doing the work of patriarchy.

Jessa Crispin

This idea emerged that if we just put a lot more women in positions of power, somehow that would defeat the patriarchy, not understanding that the patriarchy has nothing to do with men. If women in power behave like men do, that is not a defeat of the patriarchy. That's just patriarchy with women in it. And patriarchy is one of those really dissatisfying words because everybody uses it and there's not a general understanding, a shared understanding of what the word means other than anything that is keeping you down.

Sean Illing

How do you define patriarchy?

Jessa Crispin

My working definition of patriarchy is a society that's structured by hierarchy. So unless that is reformed, unless we reform society so there are no hierarchies, because the hierarchy used to be white, property-owning men at the top of the hierarchy and everybody else in varying positions underneath that, and now it's just money and power. So women can easily attain a high position on the hierarchy, but that's not the end of patriarchy.

Unless we get rid of the hierarchy and stop structuring our society around it, the patriarchy is not defeated.

Sean Illing

It seems to me that you’re making an argument against capitalism as such, or the values that undergird capitalism. If we replace “patriarchy” with “capitalism” does your analysis change at all?

Jessa Crispin

No, but this isn’t new. Second-wave feminism, even first-wave feminism, noticed that patriarchy was intertwined with capitalism. So there isn't a way of defeating one without the other. And also capitalism is also one of those words, like patriarchy, that everybody uses these days without a full understanding of what the word means. I’m probably guilty of that, too. Some of my philosopher friends say that I occasionally misuse the word, but I try not to.

The point is that patriarchy and capitalism are of the same system. They support one another and one cannot be removed without the other.

Sean Illing

So you see feminism as a casualty of capitalist or patriarchal culture insofar as women have internalized these values and come to define their success in these terms?

Jessa Crispin

Yes, and that's a problem for almost any marginalized group when assimilation becomes the goal. It's much easier to criticize corporate culture when you're not allowed to be in the higher levels of corporate culture. As soon as you're allowed to be a CEO of a large company, then it's like, "Oh, we'll just reform it from within. We don't have to destroy it. Now that I'm running it, it's fine.

So it is a kind of abandoning of principles because power feels really good. And as long as the system is in place, and as long as women are benefitting from that system, it's going to be harder to have these conversations. The better women do, the less likely we are to have these conversations under the guise of feminism

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

One man's paranoid, frothing rant against the apparent dangers of letting those tricksy females get close to equality is both telling and mildly amusing.....

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

To be honest I am always dubious of giving power to those that actively seek it and those who who have something to prove. In my experience both groups are willing to sacrifice others to prove points and that is never good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too enjoy large chunks of unsourced text being copied and pasted.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"I too enjoy large chunks of unsourced text being copied and pasted."

Who does that?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"The most vocal pro feminists are mostly bored rich and misguided.

Why not fight poverty instead “mansplaining“?"

'focus on real issues!' says man who apparently spends his time going on Reddit and Twitter to get annoyed about feminism.

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Theres a lunatic fringe on the Mens Rights side and theres a lunatic fringe on the feminist side.

This shouldnt be news or surprising. No matter what side of arguments like this youre on theres someone crazy. But you still cant judge the entire argument on the crazies, you take the argument on its merits regardless of who supports it.

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin


"Pay gap is mostly overstated and misrepresented

Not true. But a persistent and appealing lie.

Surely it depends what is meant by "pay gap". If it means that men get paid more than women for doing the same work then, although there may still be a small problem, this is already illegal. However what most mean (although don't always make this clear) is that men, whilst getting paid the same amount for the same work, tend to get more of the higher paid jobs that are available so on average end up getting paid more. This is a much more difficult problem to solve and, short of mandatory quotas (which I'm not sure I'm in favour of) maybe unsolvable."

Its not that difficult an issue once you drill down to its root cause.

The pay gap issue is presented as a huge gap in pay caused by sexism in the workplace but thats not the case.

In the UK women actually make slightly more money than men up until the ages of 30. Then the disparity crops up.

What also typically happens around that age that can affect work? Maternity leave. Because women take months at a time off they miss valuable opportunities to advance, gain experience and earn promotions.

Most people would say its not fair for women to suffer because they have to be the one who gdt pregnant but we also cant get men pregnant (Arnold Swarzenegger films notwithstanding) so whats the solution?

Equal paternity leave.

The playing field would be levelled as both men and women would be taking similar gaps in employment, fathers would benefit from getting more time with their kids, mothers would benefit from more support during the initial stages of child rearing, kids benefit from both parents being present.

And it has the benefit of reducing the idea that the default is the mother stay at home long term. Currently the father might get a week off if hes lucky and then return to work. Then when the childs old enough the mothet is already off work and has a routine so the default is to stick with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most vocal pro feminists are mostly bored rich and misguided.

Why not fight poverty instead “mansplaining“?

'focus on real issues!' says man who apparently spends his time going on Reddit and Twitter to get annoyed about feminism. "

The real answer to that 'question' is, if course, why not both?

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