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By *aleforfun22 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Lancashire

Is there anyone out there who is scared the way this country is going all you hear every day is a murder here or a stabbing or a shooting somewhere..im so glad i grew up in the 70 to 90 where we could play out all day when we was young.then when we got older was out clubbing nearly 7 nights a week for under a tenner during the week.was safe to walk home after a night out.had beetween 50 and 60 pubs and clubs to choose from at least.now you got maybe 2 nightclubs and about 20 pubs..feel so sorry for the young ones today..nobody is safe anywhere..

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By *alkingRedFlagMan
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Is it worse or do we just have social media and cameras everywhere so you just find out about it more?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I'm not scared

What does worry me is the scaremongering that were faced with daily.

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By *aleforfun22 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Lancashire


"Is it worse or do we just have social media and cameras everywhere so you just find out about it more?"
good point but we still didnt worry when we was younger about being stabbed or shot at..think the worse two things i remember when i was younger was the Yorkshire ripper.and john lennon getting shot..

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By *emorefridaCouple
38 weeks ago

La la land

No, because I think many have their rose tinted glasses on with regards to the 90's at least. I had a friend assaulted by a taxi driver, less likely these days as people can track your way home. I had my drink spiked in a club in the 90's. I'm more aware of it now and take better precautions.

It may appear that it was safer back then, but I think people are more open to discussing attacks themselves days and that news is further diseminated due to social media. which is good e.g. drink spiking and knowing how to prevent it

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By *alkingRedFlagMan
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Is it worse or do we just have social media and cameras everywhere so you just find out about it more?good point but we still didnt worry when we was younger about being stabbed or shot at..think the worse two things i remember when i was younger was the Yorkshire ripper.and john lennon getting shot.."

It’s funny you say that. Serial killers all seem to be from that time period so you could argue it’s safer now.

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By *aleforfun22 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Lancashire


"No I'm not scared

What does worry me is the scaremongering that were faced with daily.

"
yes there is certainly a lot of that in the media headlines latley about wars and stuff

.think most of that is clickbate though.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
38 weeks ago

North West

I think because of social media, it is just broadcasted a lot more.

However, having said that. My personal opinion is that the UK when it had its global Empire, it was able to hide its social problems well. Now that it isn't as rich or powerful as it once was, can't do that anymore.

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By *aleforfun22 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Lancashire


"No, because I think many have their rose tinted glasses on with regards to the 90's at least. I had a friend assaulted by a taxi driver, less likely these days as people can track your way home. I had my drink spiked in a club in the 90's. I'm more aware of it now and take better precautions.

It may appear that it was safer back then, but I think people are more open to discussing attacks themselves days and that news is further diseminated due to social media. which is good e.g. drink spiking and knowing how to prevent it "
i guess you are right with todays technology you can trace the bad ones easier.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

My parents grew up in WW2. My dad was 18 when it finished and recalls hiding under a table while a plane sprayed bullets across his house. I'd say that was pretty scary and this would have been around 1942.

Of course things are bad when we have daily reports of stabbing, murder and mystery most foul but the odds are still in our favour and living your life scared isn't living

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
38 weeks ago

South Wales

You probably weren't watching and reading the news when you were growing up so didn't hear about the bad stuff.

Do you do a lot of that now? It can warp your mind.

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By *g16discreetMan
38 weeks ago

Derby/Notts

It is a little concerning but my biggest worry now is the constant raising of prices and taxes. For the first time in my working life I'm having to count every penny and genuinely worried about losing my job and the downward spiral that starts.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex


"It is a little concerning but my biggest worry now is the constant raising of prices and taxes. For the first time in my working life I'm having to count every penny and genuinely worried about losing my job and the downward spiral that starts. "

I think most generations experience that worry at some point. We certainly did at least twice over the course of our working lives

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By *enk15Man
38 weeks ago

Evesham

According to the ONS, serious crime rose from the 70's to it's peak in early 2000's.

Since then, serious crime has been in decline and is back at the level of the early 70's

So the time you remember as being safe had the highest level of serious crime in the last 75 years (Only went back to 1950)

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"No I'm not scared

What does worry me is the scaremongering that were faced with daily.

"

This 👏🏾

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By *rSuave88Man
38 weeks ago

Mirfield

The propaganda machine has got a firm grip of your goolies hasn't it 🤨

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By *exxyyDy11Man
38 weeks ago

North West

What does piss me off is the fact that house prices and standard of living has increased exponentially and yet minimum wages haven't risen to be consistent with this at all.

We are being taken for fools in this country and it is no wonder so many bright young people want to leave.

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By *assy69Man
38 weeks ago

Sussex/Wales


"No I'm not scared

What does worry me is the scaremongering that were faced with daily.

"

This

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By *aleforfun22 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Lancashire


"You probably weren't watching and reading the news when you were growing up so didn't hear about the bad stuff.

Do you do a lot of that now? It can warp your mind. "
i see and hear a lot here in blackpool now.i got followed home from a swingers club 7 years ago and got beat up by 4 guys all i did was protect 2 ladies from them and they got thrown out.didnt no they was waiting for me ended up with broken teeth fractured arm broken nose fractured ribs.ive never been out since lost confidence.suffered with health problems to.and i worked the doors in Blackpool for 20 years.i do watch the news a bit now but i see more on social media.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

There was a fatal shooting on tuesday and armed police called to the flats to apprehend a gun man on Wednesday in my neighbourhood last week. 5000 years ago there was probably more violence and mu7d3r on a daily basis. Humans are violent creatures and probably always will be. I still walk around the streets alone at 4am.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"Is there anyone out there who is scared the way this country is going all you hear every day is a murder here or a stabbing or a shooting somewhere..im so glad i grew up in the 70 to 90 where we could play out all day when we was young.then when we got older was out clubbing nearly 7 nights a week for under a tenner during the week.was safe to walk home after a night out.had beetween 50 and 60 pubs and clubs to choose from at least.now you got maybe 2 nightclubs and about 20 pubs..feel so sorry for the young ones today..nobody is safe anywhere.."

Statistically violent crime has never been lower. With the exception of r@pe.

So try not doom scrolling and actually go outside

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I don’t think any threat of violence concerns me. But then I’m big enough and strong enough to fight off any attacker in most circumstances, but I can’t speak for others who may be more vulnerable.

Certainly I hold my possessions closer to me when walking around cities that I would have done even a few years ago. And the stench of is everywhere.

I think the UK will probably be okay for my generation to live its time out comfortably enough outside of major conurbations but I suspect that younger generations are going to have a much more difficult time of it with ever increasing taxes, poorer services, low economic growth, little social cohesion and increased racial and religious tensions and violence.

There is just a general atmosphere of decay and failure about the UK and Europe.

And younger generations face a future with the UK and Europe generally just being a shrinking and less important part of a much bigger world.

Personally if I was under 30 I would definitely be looking for an exit from the UK.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I don’t think any threat of violence concerns me. But then I’m big enough and strong enough to fight off any attacker in most circumstances, but I can’t speak for others who may be more vulnerable.

Certainly I hold my possessions closer to me when walking around cities that I would have done even a few years ago. And the stench of is everywhere.

I think the UK will probably be okay for my generation to live its time out comfortably enough outside of major conurbations but I suspect that younger generations are going to have a much more difficult time of it with ever increasing taxes, poorer services, low economic growth, little social cohesion and increased racial and religious tensions and violence.

There is just a general atmosphere of decay and failure about the UK and Europe.

And younger generations face a future with the UK and Europe generally just being a shrinking and less important part of a much bigger world.

Personally if I was under 30 I would definitely be looking for an exit from the UK."

While ever more money is consolidated by the billionaires.

But yeah sure, the young and the black brown are the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I don’t think any threat of violence concerns me. But then I’m big enough and strong enough to fight off any attacker in most circumstances, but I can’t speak for others who may be more vulnerable.

Certainly I hold my possessions closer to me when walking around cities that I would have done even a few years ago. And the stench of is everywhere.

I think the UK will probably be okay for my generation to live its time out comfortably enough outside of major conurbations but I suspect that younger generations are going to have a much more difficult time of it with ever increasing taxes, poorer services, low economic growth, little social cohesion and increased racial and religious tensions and violence.

There is just a general atmosphere of decay and failure about the UK and Europe.

And younger generations face a future with the UK and Europe generally just being a shrinking and less important part of a much bigger world.

Personally if I was under 30 I would definitely be looking for an exit from the UK.

While ever more money is consolidated by the billionaires.

But yeah sure, the young and the black brown are the problem "

You think the “black brown” are the problem? Who are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

No I don't.

I was summarizing your post.

People are people!!

Colour of skin or religion doesn't have a link with crime.

But poverty does, and keeping black and brown poor .... racism, does

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
38 weeks ago

West Suffolk

There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do. "

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do. "

Actually isn't this stop and search?

So it's ok for black people but if it effects you not so good

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By *he SurveyorMan
38 weeks ago

Bury

We appear to have too many people in the country that do not understand our civilised value systems. Unfortunately they want to turn our country back to the values from where they once came.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Like who?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
38 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament."

Don’t know the person, it just popped up in my feed but it wasn’t Fararge

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament.

Don’t know the person, it just popped up in my feed but it wasn’t Fararge "

Go outside.

Touch grass.

Do yoga

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Having just returned from some time on the Continent, I can say a Saturday night in a UK town or city is uniquely loud, d*unken, boisterous and threatening. Not a pleasant experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Twas ever thus.

Britain has always been known for being larger louts. Either here or getting bladdered in Spain.

But hey, we can do what we want, other people coming here have to be exactly like us!!

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
38 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament.

Don’t know the person, it just popped up in my feed but it wasn’t Fararge

Go outside.

Touch grass.

Do yoga "

The crime and policing bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament.

Don’t know the person, it just popped up in my feed but it wasn’t Fararge

Go outside.

Touch grass.

Do yoga

The crime and policing bill. "

Yes, legislation strengthening police abilities to protect women.....awks...

Laws bad ??

Riots good??

Only if it's brown criminals??

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
38 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament.

Don’t know the person, it just popped up in my feed but it wasn’t Fararge

Go outside.

Touch grass.

Do yoga

The crime and policing bill.

Yes, legislation strengthening police abilities to protect women.....awks...

Laws bad ??

Riots good??

Only if it's brown criminals??"

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament.

Don’t know the person, it just popped up in my feed but it wasn’t Fararge

Go outside.

Touch grass.

Do yoga

The crime and policing bill.

Yes, legislation strengthening police abilities to protect women.....awks...

Laws bad ??

Riots good??

Only if it's brown criminals??

What?"

You're crying about a law that will strengthen the police to help women.

Thought that's what the racist, rioting outside hotels wanted?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
38 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do.

Nigel that you?

Top lols!!

I think we'd know if there was a thought crime bill going through parliament.

Don’t know the person, it just popped up in my feed but it wasn’t Fararge

Go outside.

Touch grass.

Do yoga

The crime and policing bill.

Yes, legislation strengthening police abilities to protect women.....awks...

Laws bad ??

Riots good??

Only if it's brown criminals??

What?

You're crying about a law that will strengthen the police to help women.

Thought that's what the racist, rioting outside hotels wanted?

"

Is that what I said?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"There’s more people so there will be more crime. Im not scared by that, worrying achieves nothing. But I do wonder what type of society my grandkids will be living in. 1984 might not have been the right year but we seem to be heading that way. Yet another act that impacts state control over individuals is making its way through parliament. Not seen official pages but from what some people have said, police will be able to arrest you because of what they think you might be able to do. "

Pretty much, you called it 1984, thought police.

But hey....you do you

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By *ggdrasil66Man
38 weeks ago

Saltdean

I worry about the Russians, they have proved that they can bring anything they want to here, including deadly toxins. What next, a dirty bomb, or a small nuclear device? Like another poster on this thread, I worry for my children and grandchildren. What sort of world will this be after we are gone?

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I worry about the Russians, they have proved that they can bring anything they want to here, including deadly toxins. What next, a dirty bomb, or a small nuclear device? Like another poster on this thread, I worry for my children and grandchildren. What sort of world will this be after we are gone?"

You'll be dead, no more worries!!

It'll be an amazing one!

Where I live near City road Cardiff is the most amazing place.

We have every food on the planet all within walking distance or the touch of an app.

I can go for shisha, before heading into town.

I see beautiful men walking to mosque especially on a Friday.

The Synagogue and Temples of the Hindu and Sikhs, the Krishna Centre and Buddhist centre.

We all mix together in a beautiful tapestry, learning about each other's languages, religions and histories.

There's nothing to fear, embrace it!

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By *ggdrasil66Man
38 weeks ago

Saltdean


"I worry about the Russians, they have proved that they can bring anything they want to here, including deadly toxins. What next, a dirty bomb, or a small nuclear device? Like another poster on this thread, I worry for my children and grandchildren. What sort of world will this be after we are gone?

You'll be dead, no more worries!!

It'll be an amazing one!

Where I live near City road Cardiff is the most amazing place.

We have every food on the planet all within walking distance or the touch of an app.

I can go for shisha, before heading into town.

I see beautiful men walking to mosque especially on a Friday.

The Synagogue and Temples of the Hindu and Sikhs, the Krishna Centre and Buddhist centre.

We all mix together in a beautiful tapestry, learning about each other's languages, religions and histories.

There's nothing to fear, embrace it!"

Sounds delightful, I’m sure it’s heavenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Theirs nothing to fear but fear itself!!

But you keep dancing to racist Nigels tune, it's currently in vogue

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By *ex MexicoMan
38 weeks ago

North West


"Is there anyone out there who is scared the way this country is going all you hear every day is a murder here or a stabbing or a shooting somewhere..im so glad i grew up in the 70 to 90 where we could play out all day when we was young.then when we got older was out clubbing nearly 7 nights a week for under a tenner during the week.was safe to walk home after a night out.had beetween 50 and 60 pubs and clubs to choose from at least.now you got maybe 2 nightclubs and about 20 pubs..feel so sorry for the young ones today..nobody is safe anywhere.."

Right now is literally the safest time to be alive in all of human history.

Get off the Internet and go look at some trees for a bit. Give your perspective a rinse.

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