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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

Massachusetts just became the 7th state to End Child Marriage!

that is right, There are fifty (50) US states and only seven (7) of them have banned marrying ACTUAL CHILDREN.

Keep it on an upward trend USA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massachusetts just became the 7th state to End Child Marriage!

that is right, There are fifty (50) US states and only seven (7) of them have banned marrying ACTUAL CHILDREN.

Keep it on an upward trend USA!"
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What upward trend ? Have you seen what SCOTUS did ? Majority of states have a claus that anyone under 18 needs parental consent. What upward trend do you speak of ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Click bait as usual..

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

Maybe all states should join the 7 and say you cannot get married as a child... seems pretty obvious to me.

Only a very small % of people would consider "Well Done Massachusetts" click bait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 0 clue how the average American thought process works.. just what you think is your inherited right on what you read... Go back to the Tories it suits you better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 0 clue how the average American thought process works.. just what you think is your inherited right on what you read... Go back to the Tories it suits you better "
. Again ... Thought I live here everyday.. you read and quote gaslighting. I don't say anything about UK politics. What is your agenda?

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"You have 0 clue how the average American thought process works.. just what you think is your inherited right on what you read... Go back to the Tories it suits you better "

Please cite where I claimed to know how an American thinks.

kk thanx bye!

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"You have 0 clue how the average American thought process works.. just what you think is your inherited right on what you read... Go back to the Tories it suits you better . Again ... Thought I live here everyday.. you read and quote gaslighting. I don't say anything about UK politics. What is your agenda? "

ROFLMAO My agenda was to congratulate Massachusetts on doing the right thing!

Do you think they were wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As usual you deflect...what does Massachusetts decision has any effect on your life ? enjoy your gaslighting.

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"As usual you deflect...what does Massachusetts decision has any effect on your life ? enjoy your gaslighting."

Blu that's not what Gaslighting is.

It can hardly be deflecting when I literally answer your question directly.

You know if you don't like my post you don't HAVE to post right? No-one else had it could have just gotten lost in history.

Now unless you have more accusations to make, good evening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are gaslighting..I from Massachusetts .. Falmouth.. I left because of the high cost of living and the socialistic behavior..you were saying?

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"You are gaslighting..I from Massachusetts .. Falmouth.. I left because of the high cost of living and the socialistic behavior..you were saying? "

Still not Gaslighting (look it up), how would I know where you are from?

Stop making accusations and I will stop defending myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paid 70k for a house here... In Massachusetts the same house is 450 k ... Lol you have no clue. But keep bashing the " Americans" it's on your agenda.

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London


"Massachusetts just became the 7th state to End Child Marriage!

that is right, There are fifty (50) US states and only seven (7) of them have banned marrying ACTUAL CHILDREN.

Keep it on an upward trend USA!.

What upward trend ? Have you seen what SCOTUS did ? Majority of states have a claus that anyone under 18 needs parental consent. What upward trend do you speak of ?"

Why would it be OK for a parent to allow a child younger than the age of consent to marry?

What is wrong with making that actually illegal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition."

I live here my reality trump's yours.

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition."

And if you are having any of those feelings, that is a You problem, and nothing to do with what I have said here. And I would appreciate an apology for the implication otherwise. That is a SERIOUS accusation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.

And if you are having any of those feelings, that is a You problem, and nothing to do with what I have said here. And I would appreciate an apology for the implication otherwise. That is a SERIOUS accusation"
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Again your posts are moot on a American perspective is it not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pretend to to understand the UK mindset I try to accept that as a poignant point on why I want to understand that thought process.. it's not going to work here.

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over a year ago


"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.

And if you are having any of those feelings, that is a You problem, and nothing to do with what I have said here. And I would appreciate an apology for the implication otherwise. That is a SERIOUS accusation"
Why Massachusetts? Do you understand your choices when there is more pressing problems...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.

And if you are having any of those feelings, that is a You problem, and nothing to do with what I have said here. And I would appreciate an apology for the implication otherwise. That is a SERIOUS accusation Why Massachusetts? Do you understand your choices when there is more pressing problems..."
you literally chose something as a dig when more people are suffering from this administration. Whoopee Massachusetts chose child weddings. It still doesn't put food on the table

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.

And if you are having any of those feelings, that is a You problem, and nothing to do with what I have said here. And I would appreciate an apology for the implication otherwise. That is a SERIOUS accusation Why Massachusetts? Do you understand your choices when there is more pressing problems..."

Simply to answer your question: it was in the news today. It was worth praising the state for its actions. Some people would not realise how few states ban child marriage so that context needed to be included.

This post was and is NOT America Bashing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.

And if you are having any of those feelings, that is a You problem, and nothing to do with what I have said here. And I would appreciate an apology for the implication otherwise. That is a SERIOUS accusation Why Massachusetts? Do you understand your choices when there is more pressing problems... you literally chose something as a dig when more people are suffering from this administration. Whoopee Massachusetts chose child weddings. It still doesn't put food on the table

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Like I said you gaslighting as usual.

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"Massachusetts just became the 7th state to End Child Marriage!

that is right, There are fifty (50) US states and only seven (7) of them have banned marrying ACTUAL CHILDREN.

Keep it on an upward trend USA!.

What upward trend ? Have you seen what SCOTUS did ? Majority of states have a claus that anyone under 18 needs parental consent. What upward trend do you speak of ?

Why would it be OK for a parent to allow a child younger than the age of consent to marry?

What is wrong with making that actually illegal?"

I am 100% with you on this. I think the news today is great.

Anywhere that allows for parental consent (in the US or around the Globe) for children to get married will be abused and kids hurt. So them making it illegal is great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massachusetts just became the 7th state to End Child Marriage!

that is right, There are fifty (50) US states and only seven (7) of them have banned marrying ACTUAL CHILDREN.

Keep it on an upward trend USA!.

What upward trend ? Have you seen what SCOTUS did ? Majority of states have a claus that anyone under 18 needs parental consent. What upward trend do you speak of ?

Why would it be OK for a parent to allow a child younger than the age of consent to marry?

What is wrong with making that actually illegal?

I am 100% with you on this. I think the news today is great.

Anywhere that allows for parental consent (in the US or around the Globe) for children to get married will be abused and kids hurt. So them making it illegal is great!"

Some children married at 17 live long fruitful lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massachusetts just became the 7th state to End Child Marriage!

that is right, There are fifty (50) US states and only seven (7) of them have banned marrying ACTUAL CHILDREN.

Keep it on an upward trend USA!.

What upward trend ? Have you seen what SCOTUS did ? Majority of states have a claus that anyone under 18 needs parental consent. What upward trend do you speak of ?

Why would it be OK for a parent to allow a child younger than the age of consent to marry?

What is wrong with making that actually illegal?

I am 100% with you on this. I think the news today is great.

Anywhere that allows for parental consent (in the US or around the Globe) for children to get married will be abused and kids hurt. So them making it illegal is great!

Some children married at 17 live long fruitful lives."
you going to deny that aspect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massachusetts just became the 7th state to End Child Marriage!

that is right, There are fifty (50) US states and only seven (7) of them have banned marrying ACTUAL CHILDREN.

Keep it on an upward trend USA!.

What upward trend ? Have you seen what SCOTUS did ? Majority of states have a claus that anyone under 18 needs parental consent. What upward trend do you speak of ?

Why would it be OK for a parent to allow a child younger than the age of consent to marry?

What is wrong with making that actually illegal?

I am 100% with you on this. I think the news today is great.

Anywhere that allows for parental consent (in the US or around the Globe) for children to get married will be abused and kids hurt. So them making it illegal is great!

Some children married at 17 live long fruitful lives. you going to deny that aspect?"
you can kill for your country at 17 with parental consent but marriage to the one you love is a no go. Are you listening to your ignorance?

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

What you have done is what is called a strawman argument.

You have misrepresented my argument by focusing on a 17 year old, in doing so you completely misrepresent the argument as a whole which includes countless young girls who as young as ten have been forced into marriages.

20 U.S. states do not require any minimum age for marriage, with a parental or judicial waiver, which is even scarier. This problem is also not unique to the USA, but given a state took a step in the right direction today I thought it was worth commending them for that.

As for a 17 year old to answer your strawman. If it means saving pre-teens from being forced into a marriage, then the 17 year old can wait a year to get married.

And for the record, I don't think 17 year olds should be fighting Old men's wars either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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