FabSwingers.com forum: Married for Married

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Let’s cut the abuse. There are many here who are married seeking low profile encounters, these are often with other married people. Rather than curse / abuse, simply respond to the post with “same” and let the girls take a look and then dm who they want.

No abuse please, we’re not asking for approval.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well from experience on threads about us married guys I often get a few DMs & it’s overall worth the grief. So let’s all put our money where our mouth is and let them come fishing. They’re out there for sure.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Same

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Same

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their reasons for being here ... they really do.

Thou shalt not judge

At least you’re honest

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Way too honest.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Way too honest. "

Honesty is the best policy

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By *ormalbutneeditMan
over a year ago

Attleborough

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can the married ladies say 'same' so I can message them

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Same

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, with full permission.

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By *ames2602Man
over a year ago

whittle

Same but without permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m honest about it on my profile.

I can’t be honest in my relationship which is why it’s important to me here

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By *ensual mMan
over a year ago

conwy

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By *ensual mMan
over a year ago

conwy

Not married but taken

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same but looking for women too

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I often find it easier to meet married women. We have more in common and the rules about catching feelings are clearer.

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Same

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m married. I’ve met married people, although admittedly usually together.

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By *herealdavidjonesMan
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I agreed with you, also agree everyone has their reasons and should not be judged

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By *adforit1304Man
over a year ago

Limerick/Clare

Same

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

Same have permission and couples profile

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Same - it’s in my profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding my naame to a male dominated topic.

Same.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I know quite a few women that are married too but they don’t always advertise it.

I also know a few single women that say they won’t meet married men on their profile but have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just throwing my name into the lions den. I’m honest about my marital status on my profile. My reasons for being here are my reasons, and I certainly would not judge anyone else for theirs.

Same

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

States on my profile!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm not in this situation but everyone has their reasons for being here which are theirs alone. It's not my place to judge or criticise. I've met married women before and would certainly do it again. Good luck to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s cut the abuse. There are many here who are married seeking low profile encounters, these are often with other married people. Rather than curse / abuse, simply respond to the post with “same” and let the girls take a look and then dm who they want.

No abuse please, we’re not asking for approval. "

I’m not completely put off my Married guys. (Very single lady here!) but I do like to hear the reasons why when I chat. Not sure why maybe makes me feel better about the whole situation!

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

It’s in big shouty letters on my profile.... some women don’t like it, some are indifferent and some actual get a kick from it...

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

Glad to see a few women happy to meet married men.

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By *toobguyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Same here.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sorry. I’m most definitely single but honestly is the best policy. I’ve met two attached ladies in the past so good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married ... Mrs Monster hasn't got a scooby I'm on here...but I have put that in my profile. Honesty is the best policy; unless a lie will get you laid.

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By *otts72Man
over a year ago

London

Same

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married? "

This is a non judgemental thread.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married? "

I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just throwing my name into the lions den. I’m honest about my marital status on my profile. My reasons for being here are my reasons, and I certainly would not judge anyone else for theirs.

Same "

I agree fully with this.

Same

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By *ipster8Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "

Well put.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "

That’s certainly true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "

Yeah and you can tell a lot about a person's character by how they deal with those challenges. Apparently joining a swinging site and sleeping around seems to be the easy option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

This is a non judgemental thread."

Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

This is a non judgemental thread.

Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "

You can avoid the thread though if you don't agree with its contents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married? "

Don’t judge until you’ve walked a mile in my shoes. Based on your age you haven’t got the experience to judge others

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

I don't think many people go into a relationship with the intention of cheating. Life changes people, relationships and presents challenges you can't possibly anticipate "

Agreed

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

This is a non judgemental thread.

Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

OK back to the OP please. If you want to discuss how you think married people are awful start another thread rather than spoil this one please

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Each to their own, no one should be judging anyone based on how they are running their life or why they are on a swingers site, married, attached or single.

As long as you are are honest about your status and what you are looking for, then everyone can make up their own minds as to whether you meet each other.

As someone whose every relationship has ended because of being cheating on, I don’t actively seek married or attached men. However, if I choose to meet them (and I have) that’s my choice after talking to them.

Don’t judge what you don’t understand. If you think it’s morally wrong for married people to be seeking sex with others outside of that relationship, then you are on the wrong site.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"Each to their own, no one should be judging anyone based on how they are running their life or why they are on a swingers site, married, attached or single.

As long as you are are honest about your status and what you are looking for, then everyone can make up their own minds as to whether you meet each other.

Don’t judge what you don’t understand. If you think it’s morally wrong for married people to be seeking sex with others outside of that relationship, then you are on the wrong site.

Praise the lord

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married? "

For me personally I am married to my wife as we have a strong emotional bond and our relationship isnt defined by sex. Although we have a good sex life together we both still like to meet new people and have different experiences. I'm sorry if that offends you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting that most people on this thread seem to be in their late 40s/early 50s. Midlife crisis much?"
and the only person moaning about it is in thier 20s. Naive much?

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By *ongrey50Man
over a year ago

wem

We all have out needs and reasons for being here simples!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Interesting that most people on this thread seem to be in their late 40s/early 50s. Midlife crisis much?and the only person moaning about it is in thier 20s. Naive much?"

Maybe kinder to say idealistic!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Back to the OP please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same .....

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"Back to the OP please"

Sorry

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By *rcher_91Man
over a year ago

London / Central France

Taken as a married

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

This is a non judgemental thread.

Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "

Who decides what is or isn't immoral? I doubt it's you!

Am not sure a swinging site is really the place!

And I hate it when the oldies pile onto the youngsters (though thhe younger guy older woman threads are brutal/hilarious) but perhaps do some research before jumping onto the high horse....there are loads of reasons why someone married might be here.

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By *killsMan
over a year ago

Never Never Land

Same.

It’s nice to see there are actual some really nice people here

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By *lhombreMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loving the support guys. Finally a post where we’re not being beaten to death lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same. Clearly stated on my profile.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Same

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Love these kind of threads all the married guys together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same! (Stated on my profile)

Everyone has their own opinion and I respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together

I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really.

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By *mudge354Man
over a year ago

Mid Sussex

Same

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together

I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really."

Agreed I'm single, but I known men and women who do, some with agreement and some without. It's their lookout and am sure they have their reasons. Just the same as why you may choose not to play with them! No one is judging you for that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same but looking for females too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same and to be honest my opinion is no one knows why people are on here , before judging us ask , some it's loveless marriage, some is sexless marriage some it's medical, wives or husband's can be dying and it's their pardon pun release to feel bit of normality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly. Some don’t understand the logic between a couple that like to share etc. Let them be hey

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By *evonmail41Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

,,same,,

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together

I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really."

Think you have misunderstood mine where am I judging it's your business true but you lot make it mine when its clearly not on none of mens single profiles that they are here cheating then we ladies get your angry other half calling us when we are with our families so think on before you get on your high horse just to justify cheating ...

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Same.

I mostly see married men. The insight, male perspective and amazing orgasms I have got from them has been invaluable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together

I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really.

Because you have had a bad incident in the past, doesn't give you the moral high ground. So you pick a Dickhead, not our fault. I think you should read my profile, it clearly does say about my situation.

I don't have to justify anything to anyone. If you don't like my situation, kindly move on.

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By *ancerdoggieWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Each to their own. We all looking for different things, so be open and honest and you will find a better response. We are all human after all and have needs. Xx

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Love these kind of threads all the married guys together

I think you have misread some of the posts. There are many people Men, Women and couples commenting. If you don't like, don't read. It's very simple really.

I don't have to justify anything to anyone. If you don't like my situation, kindly move on. "

Sorry you have misunderstood and I was on my break at work rushing doing the post so worded it all wrong

It wasnt a dig at you, I only quoted you because your the only one who quoted me so in response I was just answering and I think you have took it wrong wasnt saying you in particular it's great that you are honest on your profile

A lot of men on here arnt that's all I meant and I certainly wasnt on any high horse... and that's all I'm saying on the matter of married men or attached males on here who dont let us know they are attached.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Each to their own. We all looking for different things, so be open and honest and you will find a better response. We are all human after all and have needs. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Wow this thread is depressing. What even is the point of being in a relationship/getting married?

This is a non judgemental thread.

Just because you say that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to judge. You can't just ban people from judging you, especially when your actions are immoral. "

Let the person who is without sin throw the first stone.

The action of others are their own. Your moral high ground is but a mole hill compared to others who, if given the chance, would judge you as you seem to want to judge others.

It’s a shame you waste energy on deciding the moral fate of others rather than servicing your own moral position.

Surely an honest profile allows you to side step those you want to judge and go on your saintly path, as others side step you on their own more saintly road.

Go forth with a light heart and Judge not unless you are open to be judged yourself.

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over a year ago

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It says on my profile and opening comment and also reasons why!! All with my wife's permission I might add!! For those who won't check the profile and just judge me!! Those who do thanks x

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Same, as per profile

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Each to there own, but we would never meet a single guy, or woman who was cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same and declared on profile

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By *ony5Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Same

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By *ischief79Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Same and have met other married women on here with some amazing times had!

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By *ischief79Man
over a year ago

Surrey

"Just a shame that dishonest cheaters are using a swinging site..... "

Ah well. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a shame that dishonest cheaters are using a swinging site.....

Ah well. Each to their own

Nope

They should leave and find another site.... What they're after isn't swinging

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"Just a shame that dishonest cheaters are using a swinging site.....

Ah well. Each to their own

Nope

They should leave and find another site.... What they're after isn't swinging"

The origins of swinging - Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping, is sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in such activities with others as a recreational or social activity. Swinging is a form of non-monogamy and is an open relationship.

If your in a open relationship then there is no issue.

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By *ndy_uk68200Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Same

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

"Same.

I mostly see married men. The insight, male perspective and amazing orgasms I have got from them has been invaluable.

Well said you

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

Same....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same...."
can't believe I just spent 3 minutes reading your profile. Jesus I need to go to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same.

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By *ofie1Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Qatar

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, on profile as well.

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By *oey56Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Married or not it's hard on here to bed a woman married or not. I think that the ratio of men to women has a lot to do with it women are overwhelmed with meet requests ! ??

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By *oey56Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Married or not it's hard on here to bed a woman married or not. I think that the ratio of men to women has a lot to do with it women are overwhelmed with meet requests ! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SAME

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By *jgittes_ukMan
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

No abuse please, we’re not asking for approval. "

Same

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