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"Hi all. After speaking to many others, there definitely is interst in alot of us Kent folk meeting for a group social. I've picked Canterbury because it's fabulous, great night life and day time too. Also due to having direct train and bus links. There are many social group meets on fab but always in London or up north. So let's try and make our own one for us Kent folk. Makes it easier to meet locals or those within Kent for easier travelling. I won't be organising meets in any swinging/sex clubs. All of our group meets will be in ordinary pubs or within Glitterbomb for a fabulous evening out. State your interest here and lets see if we can arrange a date for a Saturday evening in July! " Hey! We are definitely up for this | |||
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"Great stuff . Let's hope more singles are interested as well " Do you have to live in Kent to be able to come? I’d definitely like to attend | |||
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"Great stuff . Let's hope more singles are interested as well Do you have to live in Kent to be able to come? I’d definitely like to attend " No but if you meet someone you like and they don't accomodate or do hotels, then not sure how you'll meet up again. Upto you I suppose though. Everyone is welcome! | |||
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"Great stuff . Let's hope more singles are interested as well Do you have to live in Kent to be able to come? I’d definitely like to attend No but if you meet someone you like and they don't accomodate or do hotels, then not sure how you'll meet up again. Upto you I suppose though. Everyone is welcome!" I’m going to come along book myself into a hotel even I dint meet someone it will be nice to put faces to names, plus I’m in sittinbourne every weekend | |||
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"Great idea " It will be nice to meet people | |||
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"Ashford guy here. Count me in, subject to not turning this into a stud party and scaring the couples off " This social isn't about couples. It's not just for couples. Single women and equal amounts of single men will also be considered. This will not be a complete sausage fest! That's for sure lol | |||
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"Oooh yes please. Been needing something close to home. Is there a date yet? " Hi. No not yet. Trying to see if there enough interest first before going ahead | |||
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"We hold regular swingers parties in Dover for bi couples and select singles, have done for the last four years and they are very popular. " Hi. Sorry but Dover is too far for myself and I would imagine lots of others. Canterbury is more central to other Kent areas, so would appeal to a more wider range of people. | |||
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"Awesome idea Love to attend a good social close to home very handy too " Thanks for your interest. Hopefully more ladies will show an interest too. Don't want this to be a sausage fest! Lol. | |||
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"We hold regular swingers parties in Dover for bi couples and select singles, have done for the last four years and they are very popular. Hi. Sorry but Dover is too far for myself and I would imagine lots of others. Canterbury is more central to other Kent areas, so would appeal to a more wider range of people. " Nevermind, we get people from Ireland, Scotland and the north of England come to our parties so I expect Canterbury is just a stretch too far. | |||
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"The op is organising a social not a party , different events good luck op im sure you will have a great turn out x Jayne" I thought I would just mention we do parties no big deal, anyway you don't live in Kent so why concern yourself. | |||
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"The op is organising a social not a party , different events good luck op im sure you will have a great turn out x Jayne I thought I would just mention we do parties no big deal, anyway you don't live in Kent so why concern yourself. " I am oftern in Kent with hubby with work | |||
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"The op is organising a social not a party , different events good luck op im sure you will have a great turn out x Jayne I thought I would just mention we do parties no big deal, anyway you don't live in Kent so why concern yourself. " Then make you're own thread and stop being rude! It's my prerogative if myself nd others have no desire to travel to Dover. You aren't even offering what myself and others on here are looking for! I'm technically closer to London and I'd rather go there then Dover any day! Best of luck to those who would travel far for you And your parties, I and lots of others wouldn't. You seen to make a habit of intruding onto threads and causing trouble. I won't put up with it and will report if you continue to escalate. | |||
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"The op is organising a social not a party , different events good luck op im sure you will have a great turn out x Jayne I thought I would just mention we do parties no big deal, anyway you don't live in Kent so why concern yourself. I am oftern in Kent with hubby with work" You're both welcome to attend. It's just a friendly group social and you never know who you'll meet and maybe make connections with for next time. | |||
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"The op is organising a social not a party , different events good luck op im sure you will have a great turn out x Jayne I thought I would just mention we do parties no big deal, anyway you don't live in Kent so why concern yourself. I am oftern in Kent with hubby with work You're both welcome to attend. It's just a friendly group social and you never know who you'll meet and maybe make connections with for next time." | |||
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"The op is organising a social not a party , different events good luck op im sure you will have a great turn out x Jayne I thought I would just mention we do parties no big deal, anyway you don't live in Kent so why concern yourself. Then make you're own thread and stop being rude! It's my prerogative if myself nd others have no desire to travel to Dover. You aren't even offering what myself and others on here are looking for! I'm technically closer to London and I'd rather go there then Dover any day! Best of luck to those who would travel far for you And your parties, I and lots of others wouldn't. You seen to make a habit of intruding onto threads and causing trouble. I won't put up with it and will report if you continue to escalate. Jesus get over yourself, wouldn't want to meet someone who's head so far up their own arse. " Why not stay out of the thread then | |||
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"I have held socials for years with a great mix of gender and sexuality , i suggest we agree to disagre and let the thread get back on track " Your more than welcome to it. | |||
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"Hi all. After speaking to many others, there definitely is interst in alot of us Kent folk meeting for a group social. I've picked Canterbury because it's fabulous, great night life and day time too. Also due to having direct train and bus links. There are many social group meets on fab but always in London or up north. So let's try and make our own one for us Kent folk. Makes it easier to meet locals or those within Kent for easier travelling. I won't be organising meets in any swinging/sex clubs. All of our group meets will be in ordinary pubs or within Glitterbomb for a fabulous evening out. State your interest here and lets see if we can arrange a date for a Saturday evening in July! " Could you let us know as soon as you have decided a date so we can arrange work around it | |||
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"I would be interested in this, but couldn't get there.would it be at the weekend or in week Maybe a kind Gentleman " Hi. Yes. It'll be on a Saturday evening in July. Hope to see you there. I'll message everyone with exact date soon as I've gathered enough interest. | |||
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"Being from Canterbury myself (S) this is great news. I'm down there quite a bit for family and friends but this now gives us another excuse " Will both wife and husband being attending? Welcome by the way | |||
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"Being from Canterbury myself (S) this is great news. I'm down there quite a bit for family and friends but this now gives us another excuse Will both wife and husband being attending? Welcome by the way" Both would be attending | |||
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"Surely people wouldn't cause trouble, people just want to go and meet people. I'm completely new to this so it's all a bit of a minefield. I certainly wouldn't want to cause offence to anyone " Certain people thrive on causing trouble. They even come back causing more trouble. No idea why when this post wasn't even about what they were seeking. Admit deleted their previous abuse which is why you can't see it. Unfortunate because it leaves gaps in conversations. Due to past social group meet ups, I'm not keen on inviting a ton of couples. Merely because from past experience only the male half turned up and with excuses as to why his partner wasn't there. As a single woman seeking single men, they won't be my cup of tea nor that for many genuine couples who do arrive together. Same applied to single guys. A social meet up isn't going to be effective if it's full of single guys. There needs to be a mix of everyone. I've had some very successful socials which led to folk going off for private time lol or swapping numbers etc. I like to respect people's privacy and that of my own. So any successful meet ups, I won't advertise it. Same as I will not publicly post the exact time, Date and location of my group socials. I will always private message people and with fair advance notice. There's plenty going on with fab. Have a scroll through the meets and party section. Best of luck to you and have fun. | |||
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"Surely people wouldn't cause trouble, people just want to go and meet people. I'm completely new to this so it's all a bit of a minefield. I certainly wouldn't want to cause offence to anyone Certain people thrive on causing trouble. They even come back causing more trouble. No idea why when this post wasn't even about what they were seeking. Admit deleted their previous abuse which is why you can't see it. Unfortunate because it leaves gaps in conversations. Due to past social group meet ups, I'm not keen on inviting a ton of couples. Merely because from past experience only the male half turned up and with excuses as to why his partner wasn't there. As a single woman seeking single men, they won't be my cup of tea nor that for many genuine couples who do arrive together. Same applied to single guys. A social meet up isn't going to be effective if it's full of single guys. There needs to be a mix of everyone. I've had some very successful socials which led to folk going off for private time lol or swapping numbers etc. I like to respect people's privacy and that of my own. So any successful meet ups, I won't advertise it. Same as I will not publicly post the exact time, Date and location of my group socials. I will always private message people and with fair advance notice. There's plenty going on with fab. Have a scroll through the meets and party section. Best of luck to you and have fun." Absolutely understand where you're coming from OP, as a single woman I'd like to go to a nice social to chat to nice like-minded folk. But it's not easy to know where to find them! | |||
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"Since this post started I already been on 2 organised socials. Looks like this one will never happen. " That's a shame would be a good night | |||
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"Since this post started I already been on 2 organised socials. Looks like this one will never happen. " This social did happen! Just because some people weren't invited, doesn't mean I didn't organise a social. I've no interest in organising a sausage fest. So many single men replied to me but not enough genuine single women. So many couples replied but realistically, how many of those couples would of arrived together? Minimal. I've heard all the excuses from enough men of which why their wife etc couldn't make it after all. Despite saying only a day or two before, they'll both be there. Also, as a genuine single woman, why would I open my group social as a free for all? There would be too many certain people and not enough of others. There needs to be equal numbers to make a successful meet up. Otherwise lots of people could have the hump. I organised a meet up. Just like I have quite a lot since joining fab. Just because I don't overly advertise it, doesn't mean it didn't happen. I'll always private message people with an invitation showing exact time and location. I'm sensible and as such will never publicly display that info. I have my personal safety to think about too. I don't have a partner to hide behind and or to protect/ help me. Then there's the other aspect. Just because a person is invited to meet me and others in my group, doesn't mean I and others in the group are interested in them or that sex is guaranteed at the end of the night. You'll be amazed by how many do assume that! I've been to enough socials whereas that's been assumed. | |||
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"Bump" Bump any news of any dates hun xx | |||
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"Bump Bump any news of any dates hun xx" I've already organised a social. I have no plans to do another any time soon due to personal commitments elsewhere. Anyone else is free to hold their own. | |||
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"Bump" Are you trying to close the thread x | |||
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"Bump Are you trying to close the thread x" Please see above replies. Thank you for your interest but any one living outside of kent, wouldn't if been sent an invite. I've already held a group social so please feel free to hold your own. I'm sure it'll be very successful. | |||
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"Bump Are you trying to close the thread x" Yes probably as it's a complete waste of time by the looks of it. | |||
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"Bump Are you trying to close the thread x Yes probably as it's a complete waste of time by the looks of it. " She is probably just sick of smart coments | |||
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"Or people lost interest due to the references to 'selecting' participants. ??" | |||
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