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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Looking to see if there's interest in a Manchester or thereabouts (Leeds, Liverpool, Cheshire, Sheffield etc) social. For women only (off the back of a thread about it being difficult to meet women). Please guys, don't be twats about this. F only.

I have no idea what it'd entail or how to do it, but I'm happy to look into a Manchester(ish) venue.

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Yes....meeeee x

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What kind of venue would work for this? I know some pubs etc have private rooms that are free with food/ drinks ordered. Or is that not private enough?

(not like I'd be putting up "knee deep in clunge" banners lol)

I'd not post a venue publicly for all sorts of reasons, but want ideas of what to look for.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Totally up for it. Not sure about venue though. I'd say what ever location a pub in the gay area but then I'm open about my sexuality so appreciate that might not be best suited for everyone (although they are generally nicer / more accepting)

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My inclination would be to book it under false pretences like a birthday or something. I dunno if that's allowed? That way we can just... have quietish social time and not let anyone know what we're up to. (I'm certainly not an "out" swinger)

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Oh gosh I don't know.... all I know is that as socials in the main area of pubs, people on the surrounding tables seem to be listening to the rather "interesting" conversations lol x

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Oh gosh I don't know.... all I know is that as socials in the main area of pubs, people on the surrounding tables seem to be listening to the rather "interesting" conversations lol x"

I was thinking like, a function room sort of thing. There are some in Manchester. So we can shut the door, lol

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females.

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females. "

Thank you, I appreciate it.

I'll have to play it by ear, I guess.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females.

Thank you, I appreciate it.

I'll have to play it by ear, I guess. "

And on another one, one woman thought it acceptable to invite a fella, despite being told no men. Just chose venue and invitees wisely. Some are interested on meeting ladies for socials and friendship. Others see it as a way to boost their fab presence by pretending to be bi.

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah, this is definitely off the back of "same sex attracted women finding it difficult as an outlet", myself included. And I want absolutely no men. At all.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Yeah, this is definitely off the back of "same sex attracted women finding it difficult as an outlet", myself included. And I want absolutely no men. At all. "

Be careful of the ....'oh my fella is coming to meet me' trick. He will sit by himself in the pub and before you know it the social has changed course. Been on the scene long enough to have seen the deception people play.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

If the local women's institute have a venue that should help to keep the fellas away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d travel if it was a date I could do so I’ll follow this thread x

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yeah, this is definitely off the back of "same sex attracted women finding it difficult as an outlet", myself included. And I want absolutely no men. At all.

Be careful of the ....'oh my fella is coming to meet me' trick. He will sit by himself in the pub and before you know it the social has changed course. Been on the scene long enough to have seen the deception people play. "

Yeah. I don't want to change the dynamic. I just want women. We have enough trouble meeting for ff play...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely interested in this x

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

I’m definitely interested! As long as the dates work I’d love to come! Mr Twinkle will more than happily stay at home. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely interested. There will need to be a decision about the definition of female too.

I’d suggest TG women fine. Not CDs and TVs. And before I get shot down I have nothing against TVs and CDs at all, but it would change the dynamic significantly. I hope my TG/TV friends and others on this thread are cool with this suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I think birthday party sounds like a good cover.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Definitely interested. There will need to be a decision about the definition of female too.

I’d suggest TG women fine. Not CDs and TVs. And before I get shot down I have nothing against TVs and CDs at all, but it would change the dynamic significantly. I hope my TG/TV friends and others on this thread are cool with this suggestion."

I 100% agree with this - ultimately CD and TV identify primarily as men so I think that is the key point.

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Definitely interested. There will need to be a decision about the definition of female too.

I’d suggest TG women fine. Not CDs and TVs. And before I get shot down I have nothing against TVs and CDs at all, but it would change the dynamic significantly. I hope my TG/TV friends and others on this thread are cool with this suggestion."

Yeah, it's tricky, and it did cross my mind but I didn't know how to go there... It's a minefield and I don't want to punch down/ discriminate, but... You know. I want this to be about women interested in women.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Happy to help if you need any x

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Open to messages on it too. I probably need all the help I can get, ha. Not done anything like this before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely interested. There will need to be a decision about the definition of female too.

I’d suggest TG women fine. Not CDs and TVs. And before I get shot down I have nothing against TVs and CDs at all, but it would change the dynamic significantly. I hope my TG/TV friends and others on this thread are cool with this suggestion.

Yeah, it's tricky, and it did cross my mind but I didn't know how to go there... It's a minefield and I don't want to punch down/ discriminate, but... You know. I want this to be about women interested in women. "

I think that’s fair enough. Women only is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely interested. There will need to be a decision about the definition of female too.

I’d suggest TG women fine. Not CDs and TVs. And before I get shot down I have nothing against TVs and CDs at all, but it would change the dynamic significantly. I hope my TG/TV friends and others on this thread are cool with this suggestion.

Yeah, it's tricky, and it did cross my mind but I didn't know how to go there... It's a minefield and I don't want to punch down/ discriminate, but... You know. I want this to be about women interested in women. "

Anyone who knows me knows I have nothing to defend regarding people of all shades of sexuality. Some of my best friends etc..

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm heading out, but any ideas, chatting about it privately etc, send me a message. My filters are pretty open.

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm definitely interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think we’ll need a big room! Looks like a big table might suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested but depends on date. I would probably drive as public transport late in an evening isn't always reliable.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Interested but depends on date. I would probably drive as public transport late in an evening isn't always reliable. "

Completely off topic but that body painting is amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Completely off topic but that body painting is amazing! "

Thank you. Sadly I am no longer in touch with the artist. Usually it is me painting other people.

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Completely off topic but that body painting is amazing!

Thank you. Sadly I am no longer in touch with the artist. Usually it is me painting other people. "

I'd be a willing canvas

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Just seeing what's possible/ objections/ who might be interested sort of brainstorming at the moment. Kicking some ideas around privately re parameters.

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south


"I’d travel if it was a date I could do so I’ll follow this thread x"

Ditto

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’d travel if it was a date I could do so I’ll follow this thread x

Ditto "

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"

Completely off topic but that body painting is amazing!

Thank you. Sadly I am no longer in touch with the artist. Usually it is me painting other people.

I'd be a willing canvas "

Maybe we need a body painting meet in the future!

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"Looking to see if there's interest in a Manchester or thereabouts (Leeds, Liverpool, Cheshire, Sheffield etc) social. For women only (off the back of a thread about it being difficult to meet women). Please guys, don't be twats about this. F only.

I have no idea what it'd entail or how to do it, but I'm happy to look into a Manchester(ish) venue. "

Oh no... too far ! x

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Looking to see if there's interest in a Manchester or thereabouts (Leeds, Liverpool, Cheshire, Sheffield etc) social. For women only (off the back of a thread about it being difficult to meet women). Please guys, don't be twats about this. F only.

I have no idea what it'd entail or how to do it, but I'm happy to look into a Manchester(ish) venue.

Oh no... too far ! x"

There’s another thread I saw about a female only social in the SE too. Xx

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By *horley GirlWoman
over a year ago

Local-ish

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By *horley GirlWoman
over a year ago

Local-ish


"We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females. "

It was a lovely social that you organised River

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Also interested.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females.

It was a lovely social that you organised River "

Aww thank you. Hopefully this one will be a success for the OP. Dates permitting may pop along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all..

I'd definately be up for a social. Ultimately I think we'd just be a group of women meeting up for drinks so I don't think it would rouse suspicions. Maybe just book a table at a local pub or somewhere. It wouldn't be a play event anyways I'm guessing unless people decided afterwards to meet up.

I definately agree with no male partners.

I'd be coming up from Sheffield so depending if it was central Manchester I may drive up.

Eeek.. I'm excited at the possibility of this.

There's a club on Hull that hosts women only night but it's not BDSM which isn't for everyone.. if anyome knows what I'm talking about please say.. I can't remember the name.

X

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Looking to see if there's interest in a Manchester or thereabouts (Leeds, Liverpool, Cheshire, Sheffield etc) social. For women only (off the back of a thread about it being difficult to meet women). Please guys, don't be twats about this. F only.

I have no idea what it'd entail or how to do it, but I'm happy to look into a Manchester(ish) venue. "
I get around a bit so yes.. I'd be interested... I'd say somewhere that you can get both a social area.. good and drinks... would depend on how many came along obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There's a club on Hull that hosts women only night but it's not BDSM which isn't for everyone.. if anyome knows what I'm talking about please say.. I can't remember the name.

X"

Eden Ladies' Night in July in Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There's a club on Hull that hosts women only night but it's not BDSM which isn't for everyone.. if anyome knows what I'm talking about please say.. I can't remember the name.

X

Eden Ladies' Night in July in Leeds"

Yes ! I think that's it.. it's definately Eden Night. Are they on here ? I can't remember if it's here of the Red and Black place where I've seen them ! Thanks

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"

There's a club on Hull that hosts women only night but it's not BDSM which isn't for everyone.. if anyome knows what I'm talking about please say.. I can't remember the name.

X

Eden Ladies' Night in July in Leeds

Yes ! I think that's it.. it's definately Eden Night. Are they on here ? I can't remember if it's here of the Red and Black place where I've seen them ! Thanks"

Thanks to everyone to tagged the events. I run a ladies on social in hull called kinky girlies on 2nd Tuesday of the month. Its not advertised here but drop me a message if you want to come. Its unconnected to HU9 and not held there, it’s in a vanilla setting for drinks and dinner for those who want that. We also have occasional social nights outside of that.

Im also one of the ladies behind Eden events and we hold them every quarter in Leeds, less often London now that I moved north. Out next Leeds ladies only play party is Friday 12th July. Message Eden-Events profile on here for more info. All ladies are vetted first and it’s held in a big private dungeon space. We have lots of fun and often sell out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amother event is the next Ladies' night Indulgence at Townhouse (so... Wirral and North West) is Thurs 17th October. Transwomen who identify as female 24/7 are welcome. I bodypainted at the last one which had over 70 gorgeous women there. Hopefully I will be less shy or someone will be less shy with me.

So with the social and the othrr women events, surely some of is will be less shy.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Amother event is the next Ladies' night Indulgence at Townhouse (so... Wirral and North West) is Thurs 17th October. Transwomen who identify as female 24/7 are welcome. I bodypainted at the last one which had over 70 gorgeous women there. Hopefully I will be less shy or someone will be less shy with me.

So with the social and the othrr women events, surely some of is will be less shy. "

If I ever make it across again I’d love you to paint me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be very interested in attending one of these after June if no further away than Liverpool/Manchester

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hey ladies

I'd be interested. Hopefully I won't be working or need to be up early the following day for work.

Thingy

Xx

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hello lovely ladies, date allowing I'd be up for this if I could come with someone please as I don't drive xx Happy to help if I can as well

Oh, I'm also generously willing to put myself out for you all and be the birthday girl, I'll start working on the gift registry now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested if it was Manchester way

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hello lovely ladies, date allowing I'd be up for this if I could come with someone please as I don't drive xx Happy to help if I can as well

Oh, I'm also generously willing to put myself out for you all and be the birthday girl, I'll start working on the gift registry now xx"

I'd be driving, happy to pick you up x

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hello lovely ladies, date allowing I'd be up for this if I could come with someone please as I don't drive xx Happy to help if I can as well

Oh, I'm also generously willing to put myself out for you all and be the birthday girl, I'll start working on the gift registry now xx

I'd be driving, happy to pick you up x"

Thank you very much hun, I'll split petrol with you xx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hello lovely ladies, date allowing I'd be up for this if I could come with someone please as I don't drive xx Happy to help if I can as well

Oh, I'm also generously willing to put myself out for you all and be the birthday girl, I'll start working on the gift registry now xx

I'd be driving, happy to pick you up x

Thank you very much hun, I'll split petrol with you xx"

You have filters up, tried to pm you x

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hello lovely ladies, date allowing I'd be up for this if I could come with someone please as I don't drive xx Happy to help if I can as well

Oh, I'm also generously willing to put myself out for you all and be the birthday girl, I'll start working on the gift registry now xx

I'd be driving, happy to pick you up x

Thank you very much hun, I'll split petrol with you xx

You have filters up, tried to pm you x"

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hello lovely ladies, date allowing I'd be up for this if I could come with someone please as I don't drive xx Happy to help if I can as well

Oh, I'm also generously willing to put myself out for you all and be the birthday girl, I'll start working on the gift registry now xx

I'd be driving, happy to pick you up x

Thank you very much hun, I'll split petrol with you xx

You have filters up, tried to pm you x"

Inboxed you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully in Manchester

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females.

It was a lovely social that you organised River

Aww thank you. Hopefully this one will be a success for the OP. Dates permitting may pop along."

I second that it was a great social and tenner who brought the guy with her! I’m up for another social dependent on the date and location

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"My inclination would be to book it under false pretences like a birthday or something. I dunno if that's allowed? That way we can just... have quietish social time and not let anyone know what we're up to. (I'm certainly not an "out" swinger) "
Always best to be honest with the venue, you will find a few that are ok if its just a social meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the op lost interest in arranging this?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females.

It was a lovely social that you organised River

Aww thank you. Hopefully this one will be a success for the OP. Dates permitting may pop along.

I second that it was a great social and tenner who brought the guy with her! I’m up for another social dependent on the date and location"

Still have my hair clip lol.

OP if you are thinking of Manchester anywhere in the village would be good, especially if the weather is good and people can sit outside.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Tickets for Eden ladies play night in Leeds are on sale. It’s on 12th July

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to location its probably not practically possible for me but I will keep an eye on this thread, just in case.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"We did this a while back, however I would advise to only invite those who are discrete, unless you want to be outted in your local area as a swinger. Some women love the attention of telling groups of men that they are out with a group of swinging females.

It was a lovely social that you organised River

Aww thank you. Hopefully this one will be a success for the OP. Dates permitting may pop along.

I second that it was a great social and tenner who brought the guy with her! I’m up for another social dependent on the date and location

Still have my hair clip lol.

OP if you are thinking of Manchester anywhere in the village would be good, especially if the weather is good and people can sit outside."

Ha ha me too it lives in my make up bag! I second in the village, we had a great afternoon/early evening there

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By *atnat85Woman
over a year ago

northwest

I'd be interested in this also(especially if Manchester area) x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Would be interested in the social event dependant on date and location.

Also interested in the Eden event, had never heard about that before after all our years on fab. Will keep an eye out for that too.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Would be interested in the social event dependant on date and location.

Also interested in the Eden event, had never heard about that before after all our years on fab. Will keep an eye out for that too.

"

Next Eden is 12th July and we still have tickets left x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Would be interested in the social event dependant on date and location.

Also interested in the Eden event, had never heard about that before after all our years on fab. Will keep an eye out for that too.

Next Eden is 12th July and we still have tickets left x"

Hi,

Are there still tickets for Eden? I'm interested but can't message you as I'm blocked by your settings.

Liz

X

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Anyone fancy coming to a women-only event at Partners in Bury in December?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Anyone fancy coming to a women-only event at Partners in Bury in December?"

Can you pm me the details please? X

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